Party Girl Gets ROASTED By The Super ChatS
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the rise of the night club scene in the 21st century, what it means to be a woman in today's society, and the impact it has had on our culture. We also discuss the difference between the club scene and the nightlife scene in our home countries, and how it has impacted our culture and society in general.
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think it's a discrepancy of values right because even what you just explained shows that for you
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it feels like something that's normal right but it's a values thing like for me going to the club
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is extreme activity like that's super on the end of the spectrum that king was saying extreme
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but if it feels normal for you that's why you kind of have a hard time seeing it as something
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that's bad or odd because it's just a normal thing it feels casual and as i said again like
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everybody around me not saying that i follow fashion or follow everyone around me but my whole
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society and the community that i grew up in and my friends but you said you said your grandma did
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do it though right no not my grandma but that's what i mean it's it's a i don't think it's like
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your culture i think it's the culture like a degradation like because if it was the culture
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then your grandma would have been doing the same thing it's fairly new western western right west
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yeah were there even clubs in that time not really right no that's that's the point it's
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like like literally when i had the realization i'm like 40 to 55 year old women do not submit to like
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in general and there's exceptions but they don't really submit to their husband most of them are
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divorced most of the guys that are still married aren't really happy in that marriage like there's
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just a lot of shitty wives in that generation and they don't they didn't teach us right because
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like i mean honestly the fact that you're surprised by this is like kind of shows the culture
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but it's a i'm caribbean as well so yeah jamaica caribbean it's a it's a like it's a when you go
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out like a street party or as you said it's a street party or like you go outside you could be
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outside your house and there's a party you have now sound system you listen to music brother system
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mom uncle auntie so it's like it is kind of different but of course it's generational
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but it's a new thing though right would you say your grandma did that too no yeah that's i'm saying
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it's like a new it's a new cultural trend and it's across the board like i don't think it's just in
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jamaica like i think there's women in england that do the same thing but then again what you're
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describing sounds more like a you know community neighborhood like you know you're just in the
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neighborhood in a you know suburban area hanging out that's probably different than like a nightclub
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in england you know i mean yeah that sounds like a little more family oriented yeah so that's like
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that's how i grew up so so like the street parties in my neighborhood in jamaica yeah my family would
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be there not my grandma but my auntie is your family going to the club with you uh no but i was i can
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see my aunties in the club yeah you know in england you know it's interesting it's your aunties not
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your uncle's not right yeah because the women are out of order
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i've just done these so many times it's always the women yeah um okay wait i have a super two super
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chats they're a hundred dollars so i'm gonna read them now these are not my opinions they're the
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opinions of the chat i'm sorry if you get roasted um um okay guys also make sure you like the video and
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subscribe to the channel because that is what youtube uses to push out these live streams
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especially the like button i'm actually going to go through all of them just because i'm going to go
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through the first two uh thane matra is back and he says trad con women and men keep relationships
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private and work on issues behind closed doors kids are never supposed to be privy to relationship
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strife thane matra you can't wife an alley cat she's for the streets um far far um we love you pearl
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you my world 2004 pearl you were doing a documentary on the court system how about introducing some
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international flavor please injure interview dipika bahaja something i'm sorry guys i can't pronounce
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names just my lot in life um mra um if i don't know dm her to me i guess uh kith dolly swiss in regards
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to the title it's because there's nothing they can do to change men and it's even harder for women to
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have the drive for self-improvement so they resort to psi language i'm going to refresh it really
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quick just to make sure i didn't forget anything okay red flag i don't think you went right okay
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um on first dates yeah what if she says i'm going to go to the club throughout our relationship
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it's not happening it's not happening that's that that was that was my younger wild phase in my life
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nah um now red flags would be um hmm good question somebody that's just not uh ambitious
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it has to be very ambitious um you want your woman to be ambitious yeah what do you want her to be
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ambitious about just uh have like some type of self-drive just want to do things like to be
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productive and even if she hasn't got like a specific thing just like the want to go and learn
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or you know so positive yeah positive positive yeah positive habits so a lawyer red flag or green
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frat flag no that's a big green flag that's a green flag yeah she's a lawyer really i think that's
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like the biggest red flag i would tell i would tell men to avoid lawyers at all costs really oh yeah
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they're just like feminists that argue for a living no i know i know a few few few lawyers they're not
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really argumentative but yeah if if argument breaks out though you know yeah yeah bro in 2023 a lawyer
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really yeah it's true maybe you got me um yeah and they just indoctrinate them oh my gosh no you
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cannot do a lawyer i'm telling you because they teach them all the abuse languages so they'll be like
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you'll they'll be like you you're coercive controlling me that's a problem man it's all going down
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they'll now they teach them all this like feminist stuff um will you ghost yeah you'll ghost if you
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don't find her ambitious what if she just says she wants to start a family and she has no she
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doesn't want to work ever red flag or green flag yeah that's a big red flag that's a red flag she
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just wants to start a family she says i just want to be working i want to be a wife and a mother i want
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to have your babies oh i don't know um no i don't think i could still do that you know she's gone
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yeah i think she's gone like i i want a woman that's got that's got something she has to be able to
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there has to be something there you know you have to have some type of drive some type of ambition
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pearl wouldn't you say though that that type of boldness is a little bit masculine which one
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saying like this is what i want i want wife kids well okay maybe not on a first date but
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no not that early but you know me being that forward of i know what i want this is what i want
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i want this from you no i don't think so like i mean i don't know how you would say it maybe not in
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that way but like the women that i know that got married young that were really traditional like
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they're all pretty clear that they wanted to be a wife and a mother early like they weren't trying
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to waste their time but i feel like they didn't have to like push for it as like hey this is what
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i want i feel it was a little more just kind of natural you know what i mean um i mean i'm i don't
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know i don't know how they said it i just know they really didn't waste their time with any guy that
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like didn't want to get married what do you think about that dimitri i learn a lot like i learn a lot
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about women from my wife because she's you know we're 40 so there's a little bit of self-reflection so i
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think that brings a little bit of wisdom my wife said something a couple weeks ago that really
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made me think a lot as we were just kind of hanging out and she's like i'm so glad that i
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don't like have to go out like we can just sit here and like watch a show because we were sitting
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watching a show and i was like do you ever miss going out no you were 22 she's beautiful you were
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beautiful you know you're going out she's like i don't miss going out at all the pressure of it i'm
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like i don't know this is coming from a 40 year old woman so there's some some some looking back at
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what pressure she goes you know how hard it is when you're 23 and you're going out to parties
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trying to find somebody that could be your husband and i'm like i'm like you were going to
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parties trying to find somebody to be your husband she's like why else would i be going crazy and i
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was like and i was just like real i was like wow that's crazy like that might be a little bit of
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retrospective like you know uh like fairy dust whatever but i i just didn't like really that's
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why you went out she's like why else would i be going clubbing like of course like i'm there to
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to meet a guy that's the right guy or i'm gonna go to a party or however else it was right