Pearl Adresses Red Pill Haters
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Summary
In this episode, I sit down with my good friend and podcast co-host, to talk about the manosphere, feminism, and what it means to be a woman in the modern era. We talk about what it's like being a woman and how to deal with the modern manosphere.
Transcript
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see what's interesting to me is the people who are bothered by the rolos and the people who like
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watch your channel and get and go insane i mean i'm sure there's women at home that watch your
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channel they just like lose their minds over it and i'm curious to ask you like what do you think
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about what kinds of men are bothered by content in the manosphere like what do you think their
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life looks like oh my gosh i have a guy that just came to mind i had a guy i'm not gonna say the
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name okay but she might this guy kamel and i knew it was coming and and he was on our show
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not to keep going i don't care and he he was um on one of my early early shows like super early on
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like first i don't know five ten episodes and he was messaging me when all that stuff was talking
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about like submission and like ali's tiktok or whatever was going viral and he was telling
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me like he was like like what you want to be owned by a guy and i just kept thinking beta
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i'm like you've never had a girl listen to you huh yeah they seem weak they seem you know sometimes
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very lazy because it takes a lot i mean these guys are so tough on guys like they're really tough it's
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like get your shit together get in the gym like you're responsible for yourself you need to like earn
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the money you and you got to be able to protect your girl you got to know your self-defense it's like
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if you're sitting at home and you're lazy playing the video games i mean you're gonna be wrecked you're
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gonna you're just you know if you don't want to be motivated and you're comfortable in your laziness
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these guys are gonna rub you wrong yeah but what about the women the women who are triggered by you
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who are those women whales sorry i mean beautiful majestic creatures that live in the sea so people
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who struggle with obesity is where you're dead but who else who else um i would say girls that are
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like very promiscuous get triggered when i talk about like body count um i would say that
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feminine oh my gosh feminists hate me they look at me you see that panel they hated me they did they
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did and i'm like i have been perfectly polite you see when she called me pretty i'm like thank you
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she didn't even mean to she's trying to insult me anyways yeah i would say feminists girls that like
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are super into only fans club like that sort of thing and um whales number one is whales do you
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know why they hate you like do you do you because i my perception like the way i feel about it is
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that they hate you because you're saying stuff there's truth to it if there wasn't truth to what
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you were saying they wouldn't hate you they would just be like oh who cares yeah there's truth to it
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and also it makes them reflect on their own choices so now if you're talking about how female
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promiscuity is not empowering and they've been promiscuous and they bought the story that that was
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somehow empowering they're listening to you and they're like we got to shut her up see and here's the
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thing a lot of times we have this narrative like oh they bought the story when they're young
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i don't really believe that i think deep down on an innate level we all know because what's the
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first thing that girls call each other when we're mad you're a hoe why are you saying that if it's a
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good thing i feel like sometimes that's a cop-out that women use where they'll be like oh i bought
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it i'm like did you did you don't think that women bought the story then why did they do it if they
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didn't buy the story they just wanted no consequences and like honestly there really aren't a ton like
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even i mean you could you're a generation older but i asked my mom i'm like do the hoes get married
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too she said yeah so at the end of the day there's really not a lot of consequences for any of it
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see i think they have to have bought the story to an extent because there's too many of them that
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aren't comfortable being promiscuous like they'll do it but they go home they're miserable they cry
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about it they call their friends they're mad that that guy yeah they're mad the guy didn't call them
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back they're expecting that guy to behave like a boyfriend when it was really clearly just a hookup
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so they're so upset about it that they're then trying to map out with their friend on the phone like
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why doesn't he like me because it's like they bought the story that somehow they were going to
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be promiscuous and it was going to feel good and they were going to get what they wanted or
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something beneficial for them out of that situation and they don't they're all miserable i think like
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there's a hesitance to point out that a lot of women who followed feminist advice they're just so
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unhappy they don't reflect like they're promiscuous but unhappy they're on birth control unhappy
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they're climbing the corporate ladder unhappy why why no self-reflection in the process do you think
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um i i just kind of have a different view on it i just think what's your take i just think they
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liked the party life i just think it was fun you know what i mean like okay maybe how many girls do
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you really know that are really climbing the corporate ladder i mean you maybe you think you
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lived in new york right maybe you knew more of them but i'm like most girls that i know just have
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average jobs and most girls in general have average jobs they're not climbing anything i know a lot of
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girls that are trying that are trying to compete with men like in the cities and i grew up with a
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lot of them that were like i want to be the manager i want to be the ceo i want to be like that's that's
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a sign that i've been successful in life and they they forewent having children for a really long time
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in order to do that so i i think they exist and they're you know this is just i'm just saying by and
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large the average salary is like 35 000 a year for women so like by and large women aren't climbing the
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corporate ladder like there are some right maybe like 10 15 but i would say like by and large it's
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more just like it was fun so they just want to have fun yeah so you you you believe that women
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modern women are deriving enjoyment from that pro-promiscuity structure they're there you
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believe they're not unhappy at that no i think they're unhappy like how do i put it when the
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consequences happen so like when they sleep with a bunch of people and then like everyone finds out
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and they're like oh shit you know now but do i think like to start yeah they're having fun
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and then you know life catches up to you it's kind of like you eat 10 cheeseburgers every time you eat
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the cheeseburger it's fun you're happy but then you're 300 pounds rebecca yeah um so that's that's
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how i see it yeah see i don't think they're having fun i think they're programmed little robots i think
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they're largely miserable and i think they they were they can't change because they don't they've been
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told that that's what they should be doing it's crazy though you look at like college girls coming
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out today some of these body counts how you come out of college with 15 20 people you're telling me
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i mean did you study girlfriend did you do what did you do like i don't understand where that kind
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of time comes from honestly oh my god no oh my gosh the girl on my show the one who i was like okay
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this is i'm gonna tell you this story okay i'm sorry i'm all over the place she may give the names
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away too look at look at look at amy and and she comes on my show and she's she okay i did we're
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talking a show about body count right how many bodies too many body questions like that i don't
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usually the only time i ask people their body count is when i say is body count important and they say
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no and then i say then what's your body count but the point isn't to get their body count the point is
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to show it's important right because otherwise everyone would just be like this you know so um
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on this show to as a joke i was like what's you guys's body count i said ha ha you don't have to
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say it's okay like i was kidding she's all this pro-sex girl so she's like oh i'll say it to get
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rid of the stigma are you sure she says yes okay go ahead go ahead this girl threatens to sue me
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because she said her body count on live that's ridiculous why did you say it so litigious people oh my
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god sex positive that's another that's a word that just popped into my head i don't do you watch any of
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this like the bachelorette or any of that stuff you watch any of those shows oh my gosh they used
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to my team used to watch it in college but i would get so bored and then i would just give my opinion
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like no imagine watching the bachelorette with me giving my opinions on things i got i would watch
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that they stopped inviting me i said they're like they're like pearls like we don't care we're like
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if you think it's stupid um but i actually i started watching the recaps and i liked those better
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there's like so this is a channel called bachelor fan takes so sometimes i'll watch the recaps of
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seasons so it's interesting to watch because if you especially if you're in this area and you're
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doing this kind of content it's interesting to watch first of all if you go to older episodes
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you can see like how much male female dynamics have changed even in terms of what's presented
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to the public in the last like 15 years much more traditional like if you looked at you know the some
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of the first episodes versus what you see now but there was a girl on it recently a couple of
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seasons ago and she was sex positive she actually showed up and the first thing that she did was pull
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out a dildo katie thurston and she was like and these women are like kind of horrified that guys
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would care about body count like the guys get to the end and they say like hey you're sleeping with
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a bunch of girls i can't do this like you're already you're supposed to be in love with me and
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the girls are like this is outrageous and the audience loves what the girls are saying they love
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it because they're like yeah girl power in the meantime i'm sitting there like if he really loves
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you and you're saying you love him you shouldn't be able to go into the next room and sleep with
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somebody else honey something's broken inside you oh my oh you're talking about hannah brown or
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whatever yes when she slept with the yeah i'm like what guy wants to marry producer
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you want to marry a girl that's proposed to a girl that slept with another dude three days before
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three days before would you sign up for that delhi you going down the aisle or no no no leave me out
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of this but seriously how do you even how do you i mean i don't understand what's so broken see what
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bothers me is i feel like there's something broken in women because and i keep going back to like it's
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not natural for us to behave this way i don't feel like it's natural for women to behave this way and
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like what is broken that you can't even understand now that a guy cares that three days ago you were
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sleeping with someone else and now you're in his bed that's nasty yeah i i do feel like hypergamy is
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natural like women like like monkey branching and dating up that's when i went to an art museum
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and there was paintings of girls being hypergamous
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red pill lens on an on a museum walk yeah yeah allie took me she took a new museum and she was
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showing me i'm like oh my gosh these girls have always been the same so if you get married what do
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you want that marriage to look like oh um if i get married i would like i would like to have a guy
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that i can try i look at it similar to my relationship with like my dad which i don't
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know if that's is that weird i don't know i was thinking about this the other day but like some
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will some will have a problem with how you worded it but it's up to you it's your it's your word okay
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because i think of my dad and same with my brother like i'll give you an example i trust my dad so much
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i hate accounting my dad makes me do the accounting myself every month and every month i'm like why can't
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we hire an accountant i don't understand why i do this myself and my dad's like look at you you have to
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know your numbers you have to my dad's like that too yeah and i'm like fine and i do it because i
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trust my dad because i'm like my dad wouldn't like steer me and same with uh my brother adam it's
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really similar too um and that's kind of a relationship that i'd like to have similar with
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my husband where even if like i disagree with him i it's like you trust his judgment so would you want
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to work i'm i'm okay with not working if i mean yeah that's fine yeah see i you know and it's funny
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because we talk about like who bought the story and i feel like i bought a lot of the story for
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years you know i i really did i was like i was somebody like i came out of college and i was like
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i really didn't want to work that hard i really didn't in fact i got offered a great job with
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long comb when i first came out in makeup company and they were like you have to travel and i was like
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oh no i'm not traveling for work i don't want to do that i want to sunbathe on the back you know
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and i want to have my summers um but i did buy a lot of the story of like don't lean on a man
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like it's dangerous to lean on a man like you've gotta like it was like an expectation that society
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had that i was gonna follow some sort of work path so i think it's interesting like to see all
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of these women that do that and then land i'm trying to like shake them like is this something
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you really want or is this something that you think you're being told that you should want but
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in reality inside you're like that's not for me quit one job i do it again quit one job i worked
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an insurance company and i remember dude i i went to they were like oh it's a really great
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opportunity for you one of my first jobs out of school and they were like but you have to you
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know you're gonna be able to do more work and i was like oh i'm out i told the boss straight up
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i was like it's funny i don't even i mean youtube is a job now but other than accounting i look at
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that shit as a job i just love it like i do so you're you're having a good time i just i literally
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just love like doing this it's just fun you know it's kind of like some girls get really into like
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art i've just always been curious i love having conversations with people and i love finding out
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like stuff that's true and so when i started listening to red pill content i was like oh my
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gosh this is gonna i would say roll a ruin church for me he did ruin church for you yeah he put the
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red pill lens on and i couldn't unsee it and i couldn't unsee it so you but you say you were a
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little bit more blue pilled was there was there a moment for you where you were like oh wait a minute
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i think it was when i was on the show and i could just oh after you started the content um i would
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say there's no okay because it's hard because different things i changed like opinions on i've
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always been more conservative and i will say conservative like lines up with a lot of this
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stuff but when i think of cheating okay when i was explaining to girls that like the top guys in
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society will cheat i understand like the men explaining things to me before because you'd be
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like well but my dad and like and i'm like we're not talking about you rebecca there's actually no
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girl named rebecca that's funny but but and i just started to understand like the things that men would
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say like when they would be like oh girl like girls are with their emotions and i'm like well i'm a
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logical girl we're not talking about you pearl and i just started to understand like where the men
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were coming from when partially when i was doing the show and when i just listened to enough of like
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what guys were saying talking to guys in my life and i was just like wow this stuff is true you can't
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run from it yeah it's crazy it's like you haven't like in a moment i was gonna use the word epiphany
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but then that pulls from rollo so i don't know it's a whole different meaning but it's crazy that
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you like you have a moment where you're if you're willing to kind of sit back and like think
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you're like oh shit that makes sense that's why i love i i red pilled my friend for the first time
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like that's one of my favorite series i've been doing less of them lately but you can only do so much
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i've been traveling but but um i that's my favorite series i've done on my channel because
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you can just see the wheels turning like on these girls like for the first time like and they were
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even further back than me where you're talking about like the pay gap but when you explain the
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pay gap to girls that have always believed there is a pay gap it's like you see the wheels turning
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and they're like oh so that's not real well i saw you know i was just banned on tiktok and we
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