JustPearlyThings - March 17, 2023


Pearl Adresses Red Pill Haters

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Female Dating Coaches are FRAUDS!!! The Downfall Of Modern Women

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In this episode, I sit down with my good friend and podcast co-host, to talk about the manosphere, feminism, and what it means to be a woman in the modern era. We talk about what it's like being a woman and how to deal with the modern manosphere.

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00:00:00.000 see what's interesting to me is the people who are bothered by the rolos and the people who like 0.98
00:00:04.220 watch your channel and get and go insane i mean i'm sure there's women at home that watch your 1.00
00:00:07.760 channel they just like lose their minds over it and i'm curious to ask you like what do you think
00:00:13.880 about what kinds of men are bothered by content in the manosphere like what do you think their
00:00:18.980 life looks like oh my gosh i have a guy that just came to mind i had a guy i'm not gonna say the
00:00:23.800 name okay but she might this guy kamel and i knew it was coming and and he was on our show
00:00:31.900 please don't look it up please don't
00:00:33.960 not to keep going i don't care and he he was um on one of my early early shows like super early on
00:00:42.580 like first i don't know five ten episodes and he was messaging me when all that stuff was talking
00:00:48.000 about like submission and like ali's tiktok or whatever was going viral and he was telling
00:00:53.660 me like he was like like what you want to be owned by a guy and i just kept thinking beta
00:01:00.080 i'm like you've never had a girl listen to you huh yeah they seem weak they seem you know sometimes 1.00
00:01:07.180 very lazy because it takes a lot i mean these guys are so tough on guys like they're really tough it's 0.97
00:01:12.640 like get your shit together get in the gym like you're responsible for yourself you need to like earn 0.95
00:01:16.820 the money you and you got to be able to protect your girl you got to know your self-defense it's like 0.99
00:01:21.220 if you're sitting at home and you're lazy playing the video games i mean you're gonna be wrecked you're
00:01:24.800 gonna you're just you know if you don't want to be motivated and you're comfortable in your laziness
00:01:29.500 these guys are gonna rub you wrong yeah but what about the women the women who are triggered by you
00:01:34.480 who are those women whales sorry i mean beautiful majestic creatures that live in the sea so people 0.68
00:01:39.040 who struggle with obesity is where you're dead but who else who else um i would say girls that are 1.00
00:01:45.200 like very promiscuous get triggered when i talk about like body count um i would say that 0.92
00:01:50.980 feminine oh my gosh feminists hate me they look at me you see that panel they hated me they did they 1.00
00:01:57.240 did and i'm like i have been perfectly polite you see when she called me pretty i'm like thank you 0.83
00:02:00.940 she didn't even mean to she's trying to insult me anyways yeah i would say feminists girls that like 1.00
00:02:07.580 are super into only fans club like that sort of thing and um whales number one is whales do you
00:02:14.500 know why they hate you like do you do you because i my perception like the way i feel about it is
00:02:18.960 that they hate you because you're saying stuff there's truth to it if there wasn't truth to what
00:02:22.560 you were saying they wouldn't hate you they would just be like oh who cares yeah there's truth to it
00:02:25.940 and also it makes them reflect on their own choices so now if you're talking about how female 0.99
00:02:29.880 promiscuity is not empowering and they've been promiscuous and they bought the story that that was
00:02:34.540 somehow empowering they're listening to you and they're like we got to shut her up see and here's the
00:02:38.820 thing a lot of times we have this narrative like oh they bought the story when they're young
00:02:42.120 i don't really believe that i think deep down on an innate level we all know because what's the
00:02:46.920 first thing that girls call each other when we're mad you're a hoe why are you saying that if it's a 1.00
00:02:51.340 good thing i feel like sometimes that's a cop-out that women use where they'll be like oh i bought 1.00
00:02:55.540 it i'm like did you did you don't think that women bought the story then why did they do it if they
00:03:00.880 didn't buy the story they just wanted no consequences and like honestly there really aren't a ton like
00:03:05.340 even i mean you could you're a generation older but i asked my mom i'm like do the hoes get married 1.00
00:03:10.780 too she said yeah so at the end of the day there's really not a lot of consequences for any of it
00:03:15.720 see i think they have to have bought the story to an extent because there's too many of them that
00:03:20.300 aren't comfortable being promiscuous like they'll do it but they go home they're miserable they cry
00:03:24.960 about it they call their friends they're mad that that guy yeah they're mad the guy didn't call them
00:03:28.960 back they're expecting that guy to behave like a boyfriend when it was really clearly just a hookup
00:03:32.620 so they're so upset about it that they're then trying to map out with their friend on the phone like
00:03:36.860 why doesn't he like me because it's like they bought the story that somehow they were going to
00:03:41.300 be promiscuous and it was going to feel good and they were going to get what they wanted or
00:03:44.080 something beneficial for them out of that situation and they don't they're all miserable i think like
00:03:48.220 there's a hesitance to point out that a lot of women who followed feminist advice they're just so 1.00
00:03:54.100 unhappy they don't reflect like they're promiscuous but unhappy they're on birth control unhappy
00:03:59.800 they're climbing the corporate ladder unhappy why why no self-reflection in the process do you think
00:04:05.500 um i i just kind of have a different view on it i just think what's your take i just think they
00:04:12.820 liked the party life i just think it was fun you know what i mean like okay maybe how many girls do 0.99
00:04:19.000 you really know that are really climbing the corporate ladder i mean you maybe you think you
00:04:22.260 lived in new york right maybe you knew more of them but i'm like most girls that i know just have
00:04:26.500 average jobs and most girls in general have average jobs they're not climbing anything i know a lot of 1.00
00:04:32.680 girls that are trying that are trying to compete with men like in the cities and i grew up with a 0.97
00:04:37.620 lot of them that were like i want to be the manager i want to be the ceo i want to be like that's that's
00:04:42.600 a sign that i've been successful in life and they they forewent having children for a really long time
00:04:47.720 in order to do that so i i think they exist and they're you know this is just i'm just saying by and
00:04:52.900 large the average salary is like 35 000 a year for women so like by and large women aren't climbing the 1.00
00:04:58.940 corporate ladder like there are some right maybe like 10 15 but i would say like by and large it's
00:05:05.040 more just like it was fun so they just want to have fun yeah so you you you believe that women 1.00
00:05:10.460 modern women are deriving enjoyment from that pro-promiscuity structure they're there you 1.00
00:05:15.540 believe they're not unhappy at that no i think they're unhappy like how do i put it when the
00:05:19.820 consequences happen so like when they sleep with a bunch of people and then like everyone finds out
00:05:24.700 and they're like oh shit you know now but do i think like to start yeah they're having fun 0.70
00:05:29.580 and then you know life catches up to you it's kind of like you eat 10 cheeseburgers every time you eat 0.99
00:05:34.120 the cheeseburger it's fun you're happy but then you're 300 pounds rebecca yeah um so that's that's
00:05:40.780 how i see it yeah see i don't think they're having fun i think they're programmed little robots i think
00:05:45.460 they're largely miserable and i think they they were they can't change because they don't they've been
00:05:50.720 told that that's what they should be doing it's crazy though you look at like college girls coming
00:05:54.980 out today some of these body counts how you come out of college with 15 20 people you're telling me
00:06:01.500 i mean did you study girlfriend did you do what did you do like i don't understand where that kind
00:06:06.500 of time comes from honestly oh my god no oh my gosh the girl on my show the one who i was like okay
00:06:12.400 this is i'm gonna tell you this story okay i'm sorry i'm all over the place she may give the names
00:06:16.120 away too look at look at look at amy and and she comes on my show and she's she okay i did we're
00:06:23.360 talking a show about body count right how many bodies too many body questions like that i don't
00:06:28.020 usually the only time i ask people their body count is when i say is body count important and they say
00:06:33.100 no and then i say then what's your body count but the point isn't to get their body count the point is
00:06:37.020 to show it's important right because otherwise everyone would just be like this you know so um
00:06:42.000 on this show to as a joke i was like what's you guys's body count i said ha ha you don't have to
00:06:47.360 say it's okay like i was kidding she's all this pro-sex girl so she's like oh i'll say it to get 1.00
00:06:51.740 rid of the stigma are you sure she says yes okay go ahead go ahead this girl threatens to sue me 0.97
00:06:58.560 because she said her body count on live that's ridiculous why did you say it so litigious people oh my 1.00
00:07:06.100 god sex positive that's another that's a word that just popped into my head i don't do you watch any of
00:07:11.340 this like the bachelorette or any of that stuff you watch any of those shows oh my gosh they used
00:07:16.240 to my team used to watch it in college but i would get so bored and then i would just give my opinion
00:07:20.620 like no imagine watching the bachelorette with me giving my opinions on things i got i would watch
00:07:25.500 that they stopped inviting me i said they're like they're like pearls like we don't care we're like
00:07:31.080 if you think it's stupid um but i actually i started watching the recaps and i liked those better
00:07:36.380 there's like so this is a channel called bachelor fan takes so sometimes i'll watch the recaps of
00:07:40.560 seasons so it's interesting to watch because if you especially if you're in this area and you're
00:07:45.160 doing this kind of content it's interesting to watch first of all if you go to older episodes
00:07:48.980 you can see like how much male female dynamics have changed even in terms of what's presented
00:07:54.020 to the public in the last like 15 years much more traditional like if you looked at you know the some
00:07:58.980 of the first episodes versus what you see now but there was a girl on it recently a couple of
00:08:02.800 seasons ago and she was sex positive she actually showed up and the first thing that she did was pull 1.00
00:08:07.860 out a dildo katie thurston and she was like and these women are like kind of horrified that guys 0.99
00:08:15.140 would care about body count like the guys get to the end and they say like hey you're sleeping with 0.76
00:08:19.160 a bunch of girls i can't do this like you're already you're supposed to be in love with me and 1.00
00:08:22.800 the girls are like this is outrageous and the audience loves what the girls are saying they love
00:08:27.960 it because they're like yeah girl power in the meantime i'm sitting there like if he really loves
00:08:32.280 you and you're saying you love him you shouldn't be able to go into the next room and sleep with
00:08:35.360 somebody else honey something's broken inside you oh my oh you're talking about hannah brown or
00:08:40.520 whatever yes when she slept with the yeah i'm like what guy wants to marry producer 0.90
00:08:45.320 you want to marry a girl that's proposed to a girl that slept with another dude three days before
00:08:53.280 three days before would you sign up for that delhi you going down the aisle or no no no leave me out
00:08:58.660 of this but seriously how do you even how do you i mean i don't understand what's so broken see what
00:09:06.020 bothers me is i feel like there's something broken in women because and i keep going back to like it's 1.00
00:09:10.820 not natural for us to behave this way i don't feel like it's natural for women to behave this way and 1.00
00:09:15.300 like what is broken that you can't even understand now that a guy cares that three days ago you were
00:09:20.920 sleeping with someone else and now you're in his bed that's nasty yeah i i do feel like hypergamy is
00:09:26.060 natural like women like like monkey branching and dating up that's when i went to an art museum 1.00
00:09:30.760 and there was paintings of girls being hypergamous 0.91
00:09:34.140 red pill lens on an on a museum walk yeah yeah allie took me she took a new museum and she was
00:09:41.700 showing me i'm like oh my gosh these girls have always been the same so if you get married what do 0.69
00:09:46.740 you want that marriage to look like oh um if i get married i would like i would like to have a guy
00:09:52.020 that i can try i look at it similar to my relationship with like my dad which i don't
00:09:56.220 know if that's is that weird i don't know i was thinking about this the other day but like some
00:09:59.600 will some will have a problem with how you worded it but it's up to you it's your it's your word okay
00:10:03.160 because i think of my dad and same with my brother like i'll give you an example i trust my dad so much
00:10:08.380 i hate accounting my dad makes me do the accounting myself every month and every month i'm like why can't
00:10:12.320 we hire an accountant i don't understand why i do this myself and my dad's like look at you you have to
00:10:17.940 know your numbers you have to my dad's like that too yeah and i'm like fine and i do it because i
00:10:24.120 trust my dad because i'm like my dad wouldn't like steer me and same with uh my brother adam it's
00:10:29.160 really similar too um and that's kind of a relationship that i'd like to have similar with
00:10:34.140 my husband where even if like i disagree with him i it's like you trust his judgment so would you want
00:10:39.380 to work i'm i'm okay with not working if i mean yeah that's fine yeah see i you know and it's funny
00:10:46.000 because we talk about like who bought the story and i feel like i bought a lot of the story for
00:10:49.800 years you know i i really did i was like i was somebody like i came out of college and i was like
00:10:56.000 i really didn't want to work that hard i really didn't in fact i got offered a great job with
00:10:59.600 long comb when i first came out in makeup company and they were like you have to travel and i was like
00:11:02.980 oh no i'm not traveling for work i don't want to do that i want to sunbathe on the back you know
00:11:06.020 and i want to have my summers um but i did buy a lot of the story of like don't lean on a man
00:11:11.580 like it's dangerous to lean on a man like you've gotta like it was like an expectation that society
00:11:16.720 had that i was gonna follow some sort of work path so i think it's interesting like to see all
00:11:22.140 of these women that do that and then land i'm trying to like shake them like is this something 1.00
00:11:27.220 you really want or is this something that you think you're being told that you should want but
00:11:31.380 in reality inside you're like that's not for me quit one job i do it again quit one job i worked
00:11:37.960 an insurance company and i remember dude i i went to they were like oh it's a really great
00:11:42.440 opportunity for you one of my first jobs out of school and they were like but you have to you
00:11:46.120 know you're gonna be able to do more work and i was like oh i'm out i told the boss straight up
00:11:49.660 i was like it's funny i don't even i mean youtube is a job now but other than accounting i look at
00:11:55.480 that shit as a job i just love it like i do so you're you're having a good time i just i literally 0.85
00:12:00.000 just love like doing this it's just fun you know it's kind of like some girls get really into like 0.98
00:12:04.800 art i've just always been curious i love having conversations with people and i love finding out
00:12:09.240 like stuff that's true and so when i started listening to red pill content i was like oh my
00:12:13.500 gosh this is gonna i would say roll a ruin church for me he did ruin church for you yeah he put the
00:12:18.900 red pill lens on and i couldn't unsee it and i couldn't unsee it so you but you say you were a
00:12:25.420 little bit more blue pilled was there was there a moment for you where you were like oh wait a minute
00:12:30.160 i think it was when i was on the show and i could just oh after you started the content um i would
00:12:37.600 say there's no okay because it's hard because different things i changed like opinions on i've
00:12:44.400 always been more conservative and i will say conservative like lines up with a lot of this
00:12:47.940 stuff but when i think of cheating okay when i was explaining to girls that like the top guys in
00:12:53.760 society will cheat i understand like the men explaining things to me before because you'd be
00:12:58.980 like well but my dad and like and i'm like we're not talking about you rebecca there's actually no
00:13:05.240 girl named rebecca that's funny but but and i just started to understand like the things that men would
00:13:11.300 say like when they would be like oh girl like girls are with their emotions and i'm like well i'm a
00:13:15.800 logical girl we're not talking about you pearl and i just started to understand like where the men
00:13:21.640 were coming from when partially when i was doing the show and when i just listened to enough of like
00:13:26.520 what guys were saying talking to guys in my life and i was just like wow this stuff is true you can't
00:13:31.360 run from it yeah it's crazy it's like you haven't like in a moment i was gonna use the word epiphany
00:13:36.580 but then that pulls from rollo so i don't know it's a whole different meaning but it's crazy that
00:13:41.340 you like you have a moment where you're if you're willing to kind of sit back and like think
00:13:45.640 you're like oh shit that makes sense that's why i love i i red pilled my friend for the first time 0.80
00:13:50.540 like that's one of my favorite series i've been doing less of them lately but you can only do so much 0.96
00:13:55.000 i've been traveling but but um i that's my favorite series i've done on my channel because
00:13:59.780 you can just see the wheels turning like on these girls like for the first time like and they were 1.00
00:14:06.020 even further back than me where you're talking about like the pay gap but when you explain the
00:14:09.300 pay gap to girls that have always believed there is a pay gap it's like you see the wheels turning 0.99
00:14:13.320 and they're like oh so that's not real well i saw you know i was just banned on tiktok and we
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