JustPearlyThings - July 29, 2023


Pearl Almost Vomits After Learning This

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Modern Man Claimed to be FAITHFUL You Won't Believe Who She CHEATED With

Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

169.38

Word count

1,690

Sentence count

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Harmful content

Misogyny

9

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Toxicity

27

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Hate speech

15

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Summary

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In this episode, I speak to a woman who has had a hysterectomy. We discuss the process of the procedure, the risks, the benefits, the complications and how it has changed her life.

Transcript

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Hosts, guests, and mentioned names generated with spaCy (en_core_web_sm), reconciled against Wikidata.
00:00:00.000 like how does i mean i kind of understand how the surgery works but just like to dumb it down a bit
00:00:06.320 they just chop it off and like make a hole no the kind of to be graphic they essentially kind of skin 0.96
00:00:15.120 your penis first and then they divide the muscle from that penis they keep the the tip of it and 0.99
00:00:23.040 then they also create a cavity and they burn away all the muscles and flesh within that pelvic area 0.99
00:00:31.040 so it's like all pelvic muscles and bone whatever and they create the depth based on the size of
00:00:37.680 the original shaft because that's what the inversion is and then they get like this dilator 0.96
00:00:42.400 thing that's the size of your dick or whatever and then they shove it in the wound after kind of 0.95
00:00:48.080 doing the inversion so it's like a saw and you can see like a graphical sort of i know you probably 0.99
00:00:54.400 wouldn't want to but they kind of just invert it and obviously in the process the remove your testicles 0.99
00:01:00.480 um and the the passageway is kind of right next to your anus and that shifts the prostate slightly 0.61
00:01:09.360 as well because that's what they rely on for that's what you mainly rely on to experience any pleasure 0.94
00:01:16.000 so they they basically that's so gross no offense oh god it's up it's absolutely wild it's bizarre 0.99
00:01:24.320 it's crazy inside out your dick yes that's that's what penile inversion yeah see these are the big 1.00
00:01:31.200 words i i use penile inversion with scroll graft so inversion i'm guessing they chop off your balls too 1.00
00:01:38.480 yeah yeah yeah yeah wow and so then you and they use the skin off the scrotum for the labia 0.99
00:01:46.160 and the uh inside the vagina as well and if you don't have enough they use your colon tissue or 1.00
00:01:51.760 intestinal tissue and you can get a call on there's an option to have like i can't remember the proper
00:01:57.040 name but what it basically does is it's the only self lubricating and version because it uses colon
00:02:03.520 fluid guess what colon fluid smells like because the exactly so so you're like new vagina thingy smells 1.00
00:02:14.160 mine doesn't i didn't have that thankfully but others will a lot people do have that and i think
00:02:19.600 that is cruel like it's unreal because infections and okay so they they basically uninside out your 0.99
00:02:27.440 dick chop off your ball i'm i know there's a fish no say it just say it just say it 0.99
00:02:32.000 they chop you need to use the real words now now did that's what they do that's what i realized the 0.98
00:02:36.880 feminists they like put in words so you don't know what they mean they like add all these big 1.00
00:02:43.200 words into things so you don't really know what they're saying so they can just confuse you i don't
00:02:47.600 think i don't know if the feminists can be blamed for this model this is a model that is way way deeper 1.00
00:02:54.800 than oh really i consider it all one like the trend i just consider like because not not saying like it's
00:03:01.600 run by the same people but the model i've just noticed the same patterns and all these industries
00:03:06.880 where they like add in all these words so i'm confused right like big words then you don't know
00:03:12.880 what they mean and therefore you you just start believing crazy stuff it's it's a different rabbit
00:03:18.880 hole i just i think it makes everything sound more real and authentic especially when you use
00:03:26.080 especially if i came at you and say well those appear studied review occurred in 2014 and it showed that
00:03:31.200 there was a 97 efficacy from surgery you'd be like whoa what the did you just say to me
00:03:36.000 like so the normal everyday person will be like oh well there's obviously signs settled but they don't
00:03:42.080 understand those surveys are like the survey and people's six month post-op one month one year
00:03:49.280 post-op not 10 not 20 not 30. so did you know like when when you saw obviously you didn't expect the
00:03:58.240 complications but did you know what it was supposed to look like did you know like were you aware like
00:04:04.560 do you feel like you were properly informed of what they were going to do no i mean my pre-optive
00:04:10.480 assessment was really bizarre so what happened was it was you go in with two other patients right because
00:04:19.360 they're doing groups right now those groups are bigger and i go in and you kind of sat like on three
00:04:27.120 chairs like kind of like school students getting scorned off a head teacher or something right
00:04:31.840 and you sat in front of there and there's the head nurse sat in front of you and behind her is the 0.94
00:04:38.240 surgeon who's looking away from you typing on his computer that was what happened to me and any question
00:04:43.760 i tried to speak over was like caught by the nerves and most of the session was sent with this book
00:04:52.480 right it was the i didn't know what was happening i was like totally baffled a that i was in this
00:04:58.320 group setting because i assumed a pre-operative assessment would be one-on-one but it wasn't and
00:05:04.880 you did get like three minutes with a surgeon just so they could see how much hair removal you had but
00:05:09.040 there was no big discussions with them do you know what i mean and um shown us this book and it's a hard
00:05:15.760 back book and it's just full of like women's labias and they're just kind of shown where page a page of 1.00
00:05:21.520 labia to show us that every labia is different even cis women's labias are different and that was 0.74
00:05:29.600 kind of like a training in a way so to expect that it's gonna look totally totally different and to 0.91
00:05:36.880 be honest it doesn't look anything like a vagina really it doesn't look anything like it no it kind 1.00
00:05:44.320 of looks like my ass crack has been extended to the front like a what like me i can ask this yeah 0.99
00:05:53.920 it's okay yeah like my ass crack has been extended to the front honestly that's what it feels like 1.00
00:05:59.600 looks like and can you like pee have sex normal like pain has been an ongoing issue for last five 0.99
00:06:08.320 years and i'm currently under oh my god i've had a few follow-ups and i've had a few surgeries for 0.97
00:06:15.680 like uh you can even pee norm i would kill someone i swear i would go to the house if i couldn't pee 0.64
00:06:22.080 um it really really sucks it takes a long time there's dribbles it's just like it's not the sort of 0.89
00:06:30.000 problem i was expecting to face at this age do you know what i mean it was like it's very geriatric
00:06:34.720 um and obviously sorry i say obviously i had um some follow-up surgeries with separate from this
00:06:43.200 like with the urologist to get like uh a urethral constriction so they've had a look in with a camera
00:06:50.080 and their view is is that it's not just the the surgery itself and the angle it's uh it's the
00:06:56.320 entrance that's the major the major problem it keeps closing like the urethral entrance and every
00:07:02.800 like time i've had it because i had like two revisions that it keeps kind of getting nipped
00:07:07.360 and shortened so it's just now in the cycle of it's just always gonna close so the long-term solution
00:07:13.600 they've kept suggesting it is just to be catheterized full-time and i'm like i'm not i'm not i'd rather
00:07:19.120 deal with what i have than because what does catheter mean that means that you permanently have a catheter in
00:07:24.800 uh what's a catheter i actually don't even that's the it's a tube uh sorry it's a tube that goes into
00:07:33.760 your urethra you pick your water works and it collects the urine and puts it into a bag
00:07:42.160 wow that's really gross it gets worse oh what what's worse there's so i can tell you so many 1.00
00:07:50.480 terrible things about this for instance people who have anal sex after surgery like i haven't 0.99
00:07:57.600 i used to not to be too uh detailed but i engage with a lot of guys before surgery in that way if 0.85
00:08:05.120 that makes sense right and after i was just absolutely i just didn't do it because we were
00:08:12.000 told first of all don't do it obviously after surgery but there's a risk that uh and there's
00:08:17.280 been papers on it that you can get like um oh i'm butchering the phrase but it's like a
00:08:25.200 it's whether you got like a hole between the two canals from penetration and that can turn
00:08:33.120 create like a lot of internal problems and you need to have a storm a bag for like a year
00:08:38.640 while your colon repairs itself because you can burst through it it's like really up um
00:08:44.240 um some people are fine and get on okay as long as they take it slow but you know there are
00:08:50.720 complications out there and i think the idea is is that we'll get told that it's not just the 0.99
00:08:57.680 complications are like super super rare they say it's bullshit it's absolute bullshit like stenosis 0.96
00:09:03.040 which is the pain problem that i had that's like 15 percent the orgasm the sensation rate and this is 0.96
00:09:12.240 is on a study that was quite trans positive that out of all the respondents only 70 percent could
00:09:19.200 have orgasms after surgery so it's like a massive chunk of people who will never experience sex ever
00:09:27.520 again sexual and to be honest my my sex drive has been destroyed like i mean you asked about how
00:09:35.040 with sex we're along with pain let me tell you like it's so narrow and like it's it's not very it's not
00:09:43.520 like it's not got enough depth or not it's just the shape and it's narrow it's even getting like a
00:09:50.160 normal sized guy in there is a huge struggle right