JustPearlyThings - March 17, 2023


Pearl and Jedediah Bila on body count


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9 minutes

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1,982

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204

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33

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In this episode, we discuss the controversial idea of putting a "body count" on a woman's forehead to keep track of how many times she s had sex. Do you think that would solve all the world's problems?

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00:00:00.000 His suggestion, I don't know if it's the right move, he said, the way to fix all the world's
00:00:07.100 problems, his words, not mine, is put a woman's body count on her forehead, and that'll fix 0.99
00:00:15.660 everything.
00:00:16.660 Thank you so much.
00:00:17.920 That was so helpful.
00:00:19.860 That was so helpful.
00:00:20.860 It actually would.
00:00:21.780 So, I'm going to open it up to you guys.
00:00:25.260 Do you think that that would fix a lot of problems?
00:00:30.020 I would like to comment on this with guys, too, because there's a lot of guys that will
00:00:34.180 have their hoe phase, too. 1.00
00:00:36.160 I think just because someone had a hoe phase in college doesn't mean that they aren't worth 1.00
00:00:41.940 loving when they're in that period later in life.
00:00:45.360 And I think Andrew Tate is referring to people in college and younger people when looking
00:00:49.960 for people to hook up with and people to get in a relationship with.
00:00:52.040 Let's pause it.
00:00:52.320 No, he's not.
00:00:52.900 He was talking about everybody.
00:00:53.980 So, body count on a woman's forehead. 0.99
00:00:57.400 If you could literally put that number on a woman's forehead, they're commenting about 0.99
00:01:00.860 Andrew Tate saying, oh, that would solve everything.
00:01:03.260 I thought about it, and I said, you know, that's brilliant.
00:01:05.680 Because if you think about it, if that happened, the women would be too embarrassed to let that 1.00
00:01:09.800 count go up, so they would stop behaving badly.
00:01:12.080 You have a lot less promiscuous women. 1.00
00:01:13.520 Then the guys would be, they wouldn't want to hang out with a woman that had like 500 smashed 1.00
00:01:18.780 across their forehead.
00:01:19.580 So, that behavior would just get removed from society.
00:01:24.140 Does that, what do you think?
00:01:25.360 I don't think it would.
00:01:26.480 You don't think so?
00:01:27.220 So, how would it have to be erased in it?
00:01:29.540 No, no.
00:01:30.340 I think the girls would just do it anyway, and the betas would marry them anyway. 1.00
00:01:33.980 Come on, guys, I'm marrying single moms. 1.00
00:01:35.560 You're telling me the body can't, I would like to think, you know.
00:01:38.860 But the realist in me is like, nah, like, these girls are putting thirst traps on Instagram. 1.00
00:01:45.680 They're putting, they have their other, two baby daddies, da-da-da-da-da.
00:01:49.580 Someone still marries them. 0.91
00:01:51.120 They might not have a body count, but they may as well with their 10 ass shots on Instagram, 1.00
00:01:56.320 Diane.
00:01:57.220 But you know that, uh-oh, she's bringing out the names.
00:02:00.000 I just make up names.
00:02:00.660 Right at the start of the show.
00:02:02.180 I just make up names.
00:02:02.620 You know, there's a Diane out there that's like, how does she know I did that?
00:02:06.360 How does she know?
00:02:06.780 Do you know what I mean, though?
00:02:07.560 It's like, the guys still date these girls anyway.
00:02:10.240 But do you, I mean, I think there would be humiliation, though.
00:02:13.540 Because when you ask girls about their body count, like you see it on these panels, they 1.00
00:02:17.820 get like all like, you know, they're embarrassed about it.
00:02:20.800 So there's got to be some segment of the female population that would just either stop or they'd 1.00
00:02:25.000 be self-conscious.
00:02:25.940 And then I think about it and I'm like, okay, well, if less women would be behaving badly 0.99
00:02:29.440 because they'd be worried about that body count going up, there'd be less guys hooking up 0.82
00:02:33.740 with those girls.
00:02:34.180 Maybe like that whole hookup culture would kind of just quiet a little bit.
00:02:38.360 I'm hopeful.
00:02:38.980 I'm just kind of, I'm just a real, like, I would like, ideally, yes.
00:02:45.460 Do I think that would actually happen?
00:02:47.920 No, because again, like the guys are still marrying the single mothers.
00:02:51.520 They're still, they're still dating the girl that they know damn well has had 20, 30,
00:02:57.320 40.
00:02:57.660 Like they, they might not have a sign, but they may as well.
00:03:02.580 Like with Instagram, you might as well have a sign.
00:03:05.600 Can you imagine you go out, you go out somewhere, like a public place, an amusement park, and
00:03:10.460 there's just women walking around with numbers, just body counts all over the place. 1.00
00:03:13.520 You want to go 75?
00:03:15.540 Woo! 0.99
00:03:16.880 I love it.
00:03:18.120 I love it.
00:03:18.660 Only Andrew Tate would think of something like that, I have to say.
00:03:21.200 What do you make, though, of the reaction where she, the next girl originally, like,
00:03:25.280 automatically comes in and says, well, that's not a reason not to love someone.
00:03:30.980 And that's, it's almost like immediately becomes this emotional argument, whereas what I think
00:03:35.860 a lot of people are just saying in the rational space is just, it is different for men and
00:03:40.320 women because men and women care about different things.
00:03:42.360 It's just a reality.
00:03:43.480 It's not about whether you're worthy of love or whether you're, aside from that, have
00:03:47.720 good traits or good characteristics.
00:03:49.280 It's just a reality that if guys know that count is high, they're not going to want to
00:03:53.220 wipe you up in the same way.
00:03:54.580 Yeah, no, it's true.
00:03:55.960 Like, I don't, the girls are like arguing, is water wet? 1.00
00:03:59.280 Like, water is wet.
00:04:00.660 Like, men throughout all of time have not liked promiscuous women.
00:04:04.900 Like, I don't make the rules.
00:04:05.980 We just tell you what they are.
00:04:07.700 They're like, is it wet?
00:04:09.060 Why is it wet?
00:04:10.460 Was it always wet?
00:04:11.480 He's insecure if he thinks it's wet.
00:04:13.140 Is it my fault?
00:04:14.300 That's like, girl, you're wet for everybody.
00:04:16.380 Where is it?
00:04:17.260 Well played.
00:04:18.440 Well played.
00:04:20.040 Well played.
00:04:20.940 Let's keep playing it.
00:04:22.740 Let's keep, let's see, I don't remember if there's more in there that I wanted to get
00:04:25.380 to, but let's keep playing it.
00:04:26.340 But if you take his claim towards just all women in general, everyone has those periods
00:04:34.580 in their life, you know?
00:04:35.780 Not everyone.
00:04:36.840 Not everyone.
00:04:37.500 That too.
00:04:38.100 Okay, pause that, Kelly.
00:04:39.160 Speak for yourself, Rebecca.
00:04:41.380 That's the other thing, right?
00:04:43.120 This like, oh, everybody goes through it.
00:04:45.900 No, not everybody slutty.
00:04:48.120 Not everybody has that fame.
00:04:49.460 Why do they say that?
00:04:50.360 I know girls that were virgins until they were married. 1.00
00:04:52.900 Yeah.
00:04:53.120 Like, yeah, not everybody has that fame.
00:04:54.560 So is it just like, well, is that just like making excuses because she probably did it 0.99
00:04:58.680 so she's got to like say, oh, we're all in it together.
00:05:01.180 I mean, to be fair, devil's advocate.
00:05:02.660 In her circles, probably.
00:05:04.960 Everyone probably has.
00:05:05.940 All the girls that she knows.
00:05:08.080 And it's much more common.
00:05:09.640 Most girls, like, we go by 1920s, 30s standards. 1.00
00:05:12.740 Most girls are absolute whores. 1.00
00:05:14.900 Like, think about it.
00:05:15.680 They're like, two, die.
00:05:17.140 Like, get out of town.
00:05:19.300 What is like the trendy, because you're young and I'm old, so I have to like, what is the
00:05:23.820 trendy, like, hooking up means what now?
00:05:27.100 Does that mean you're sleeping with somebody or does that mean you're, what is that?
00:05:30.120 Hooking up?
00:05:30.760 I would think that's sex. 0.72
00:05:32.520 Because everybody's talking about body count, but there's also a whole bunch of women we 1.00
00:05:36.880 don't talk about, which is like the do everything but.
00:05:39.320 Oh, yeah, the virgins.
00:05:42.540 Yeah, it's like, I'm a virgin.
00:05:43.840 I know that type of virgin, the virgin.
00:05:45.900 It's like, I'm a virgin.
00:05:46.820 And I'm untouched.
00:05:48.180 In the meantime, they're doing all sorts of nasty on the side.
00:05:50.700 That's just not, you know, it's not sex per se, but it's stuff.
00:05:55.500 Let me ask a question.
00:05:57.120 Okay.
00:05:59.000 All right, you got two girls. 1.00
00:06:00.360 Okay.
00:06:01.060 One, girl one, body count at 10, head count at two.
00:06:06.120 Other girl. 0.99
00:06:06.940 Okay.
00:06:07.280 Body count at two, head count at 10.
00:06:08.980 Who you picking?
00:06:12.920 Higher body count?
00:06:14.500 Nah, the one with the lower body count is where I'm going.
00:06:16.820 The body count.
00:06:17.680 Yeah.
00:06:18.020 It's interesting.
00:06:18.720 Men, it depends on the guys. 0.99
00:06:19.980 Some guys would like prefer the head count.
00:06:22.180 I don't know.
00:06:22.760 I knew somebody in the city.
00:06:24.560 I'm not going to mention any names, but she had.
00:06:26.620 Do it.
00:06:27.160 Do it.
00:06:27.580 Say your name.
00:06:29.240 She had.
00:06:30.620 She was a virgin, you know, and proudly displayed that, you know, talked about it all the time. 0.99
00:06:36.000 But she had, let's just say she had eaten a lot of corn dog.
00:06:40.120 I mean, it was a lot.
00:06:41.160 I mean, it was, it was beyond.
00:06:43.080 So I was like, does it, I mean, is it really, is it any different?
00:06:47.360 I think it all needs to go on the forehead.
00:06:49.020 I'm taking one step further than Andrew Tate.
00:06:51.100 Any sexual activity you've been involved in, ladies? 1.00
00:06:53.820 Let's put it on there.
00:06:54.880 Let's put it on there.
00:06:55.420 Okay, let's keep going.
00:06:56.480 Deli.
00:06:59.120 Not generalized, but a lot of people have those times in their life, and I don't think men
00:07:03.440 or women should be judged for that. 1.00
00:07:07.000 Okay, we pause it.
00:07:08.280 Can I say something?
00:07:09.620 I'm sorry.
00:07:10.220 We judge men for not being able to get laid.
00:07:13.140 And I'm sorry.
00:07:14.060 You kind of should.
00:07:14.900 Guys should learn how to get laid.
00:07:16.560 And vice versa.
00:07:18.080 Women should learn how not to sleep with the whole football team. 1.00
00:07:20.420 Rebecca.
00:07:21.320 Yeah, it's true.
00:07:22.500 It's true, though. 0.82
00:07:23.220 But that's because there's a double standard in society.
00:07:24.960 Like, you're allowed to judge men.
00:07:26.420 You're allowed to rip on men. 1.00
00:07:27.560 But if you rip on women, then you're a misogynist or you're a woman hater or whatever it may
00:07:31.860 be.
00:07:32.080 Well, it's just like the world.
00:07:33.480 You're doing what's easy.
00:07:35.140 It's easy for men to not get laid.
00:07:37.500 It's easy for women to get laid. 1.00
00:07:39.260 So it's like, of course, society is not going to reward you for doing what's easy.
00:07:44.460 I want to cash in on unemployment.
00:07:46.540 Good job.
00:07:47.960 Yeah.
00:07:48.820 Yeah.
00:07:49.720 Okay, Deli.
00:07:50.320 Let's keep going.
00:07:50.820 And feel free if you want to pause something.
00:07:52.420 Feel free.
00:07:53.040 She's all in.
00:07:53.800 She made herself real comfortable.
00:07:56.320 Pearl's like taking down the JB Live sign behind me.
00:07:58.680 She's like, where's my name up on the board?
00:08:02.140 Okay, let's keep rolling.
00:08:03.180 Because there's a good part in here I remember I want to hit.
00:08:05.180 Let's keep going.
00:08:05.760 That person.
00:08:08.020 And then you find someone that, you know, matches your ideals a little bit more.
00:08:11.760 And even like...
00:08:12.880 Before I have you guys come in, I just want to go around the panel on that.
00:08:15.840 So do you think that that would solve all the world's problems if we put the body count
00:08:22.700 on the floor?
00:08:23.360 Not my word.
00:08:24.180 That's Andrew Tate's suggestion.
00:08:26.100 You guys know he got banned.
00:08:27.860 So maybe he could be wrong.
00:08:29.540 He got...
00:08:29.980 Yeah, I got...
00:08:30.380 Yeah, I think he is.
00:08:31.500 He got canceled.
00:08:32.500 So thoughts on that.
00:08:35.140 Go ahead.
00:08:36.520 Yeah, I think that's completely superficial and not important when you're talking to people.
00:08:41.880 I think that body counts as social construct in general.
00:08:46.100 I don't think it's productive.
00:08:47.740 Pause it, Deli.
00:08:48.640 I mean, see, this is the thing, too.
00:08:50.140 Then they like vomit out like the Drew afwalo.
00:08:52.220 Oh, it's a social construct.
00:08:53.700 It's not very much.
00:08:54.200 It's not important to her.
00:08:55.580 She's telling you right there, by the way.
00:08:57.340 She's telling you it's not important to women. 1.00
00:08:59.800 Male body count.
00:09:00.580 That's true.
00:09:01.540 What she's not factoring in is that if you had a table full of guys, they would all care
00:09:04.860 about it.
00:09:05.260 Like, it's just not...
00:09:06.260 They can't process it for some reason.
00:09:08.200 Like, they can't...
00:09:08.920 I think it's just an unwillingness to change their own behavior.
00:09:11.560 And they know that if they actually internalize the fact that guys care about it, they have
00:09:14.780 to come face-to-face with their own past and then also come face-to-face with their
00:09:18.080 own present in the decision that they're making.
00:09:19.440 And it's narcissism.
00:09:21.140 It's like, I can do whatever and have no consequence.
00:09:23.940 Right.
00:09:24.200 And it's like, it's like, they're being told in real time, you ate the shit.
00:09:28.500 Right.
00:09:28.900 It's like, just girl, it's okay. 0.96
00:09:31.900 I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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