JustPearlyThings - April 02, 2023


Pearl BREAKS DOWN why Will Smith Is A Cuck

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In this episode of the podcast, we discuss whether or not men prefer younger women and if women are the prize in a relationship. We also discuss if women should be allowed to choose a partner based on looks alone.

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00:00:00.000 i'll tell him he's nice no no no when you see someone with their boyfriend so you don't think
00:00:04.900 the boyfriend's nice no i'm saying if i think someone's nice i believe no no if you don't
00:00:08.380 think someone's boyfriend is nice how do you behave it's not for me to come no it's the reaction
00:00:12.120 what's your reaction at least he treats you nice to answer your question i say eight to ten means
00:00:19.020 you can get a modeling contract contract eight is you're the prettiest girl in a small town nine
00:00:22.780 means you're going to hollywood based on your looks alone ten is damn near perfect seven i go
00:00:27.720 off of kevin samuel's scale so i don't do sevens because people are either models or they're cute
00:00:32.320 pretty five is normal six is cute below that okay but yeah that's that's how so but a lot like on 0.86
00:00:43.460 tiktok the other day um i i got banned but before i got banned i commented on a girl because she was 0.51
00:00:51.400 going off on my things and i just said another average looking girl coping oh man right because
00:00:55.380 she was because she was mad because i was saying men prefer younger women it's just true it's not
00:01:01.300 fun i don't enjoy that i'm getting you know i'm 25 i'm gonna be 26 in november i don't enjoy that
00:01:05.640 but it's just true and if you're average looking at 30 you're below average
00:01:10.760 but you know she but like that's an it but do you see everyone's silent because that's an insult but
00:01:17.060 it shouldn't be it's not it was an insult if i i don't think it's an insult it's even but if i said
00:01:21.840 average looking guy no one would really yeah but it's contextualizing a man wants i agree with you
00:01:27.260 but yeah yeah go ahead it's so crazy because it's like men want maybe what's younger than them maybe
00:01:32.800 because you're bendable you're movable it's like you're teachable whereas when you're older you're
00:01:37.840 probably more stuck in your ways and also you're probably prettier because you're younger unless you
00:01:41.240 just don't look your age that shouldn't be the case however people do people do lie because
00:01:47.600 if if you walk around you believe you're 10 and you're like i'm a 10 i'm a 10 people are going to
00:01:52.260 shut you down and say no you're not but if you go around saying i'm a 2 they would also try and
00:01:56.900 pump you up and say no you're not even a 2 you're 5 and it's true most people don't want to be honest
00:02:01.460 about what they really think because they don't want to hurt feelings which is understandable but i think
00:02:05.580 if women really got that pushback there wouldn't be so many claiming their 10s 1.00
00:02:08.880 that's true true so i don't think i think women but if a man goes on social media and he says i'm 0.99
00:02:13.400 a 10 i'm a 10 i'm a 10 i swear to god women will be the first ones even even you this is the most 1.00
00:02:18.940 handsome man on the planet for a magazine and you're let me finish and your first comment is
00:02:25.440 he's all right it's i'm no hate to you it's just part of like women but then my thing is yeah we're not
00:02:30.960 all gonna think attractive is attractive that's my point do you know what i think it is as well some
00:02:35.760 most for women's i thought for me let me speak for myself like when when i'm if i see a man and
00:02:40.940 i don't think he's attractive or my type my mind could change when i start talking to him or when
00:02:46.780 i get to know him or see his vibes i think sometimes because women don't see looks first if he's feminine
00:02:51.360 but he starts talking like a girl and he don't like women so he doesn't like women if he's talking to me
00:02:57.560 if he if you ever had a guy that was very attractive then he opened his mouth and he like sounds like a
00:03:03.600 girl and his voice is so high-pitched and you're like oh god i'll assume he's a i can't say it
00:03:10.020 um okay so if so going back to the prize analogy if women date up and they claim they're the prize 1.00
00:03:21.000 and she is the prize in a relationship then isn't that relationship destined to fail
00:03:26.660 say that again say that again sorry so if women if women claims that she's the prize isn't that 1.00
00:03:33.680 relationship destined to fail because women date up 1.00
00:03:36.980 i don't want to speak first okay why don't you you're quiet so you got yeah yeah i'm thinking
00:03:48.120 i'm not sure i'm not sure i just think the man is the head i feel like the man is the head the woman
00:03:55.580 is the neck we all work as one so women don't actually know how much power they have in regards 1.00
00:04:00.600 to like you could get a man to do something just by maybe advising or changing the way you speak and
00:04:06.820 it can be done so if we're going technically i would say yeah because for her to be what was the 0.88
00:04:12.340 context of the prize so if she thinks she's the prize already i already think like we need to
00:04:18.280 understand that the man you see the word prize is a bit have you okay have you ever seen a girl
00:04:23.560 that like genuinely feels like she married down oh and like like like that she she runs the show 1.00
00:04:29.760 she has her husband by the it's like she she walks all over yeah does that does that's like 1.00
00:04:34.340 horrible to see i don't like that because i feel like the man like he's just disrespected when he
00:04:39.900 when he puts her on a pedestal yeah like will smith remember a couple i called i called will smith
00:04:45.880 before any when he was remember at all the award shows girls don't like that they don't respect that 1.00
00:04:51.480 but in that relationship she she he felt like she was the prize and now and now you have one of the
00:04:59.060 a guy in the top one percent of looks money i think it used to be muscles sorry but like 0.98
00:05:06.700 looking stupid he looks like a fool because of his woman the whole like that relationship has 0.99
00:05:12.360 failed then 100 oh yeah jada doesn't and you're saying that's because she because he looked at 1.00
00:05:18.520 jada as depressed partially yeah because she like jada jada wanted to be with a tupac 0.88
00:05:26.180 and then and so and that's what that's what that's when we go back to the bad boys and the nice guys
00:05:31.560 well because he he picked a girl he picked a girl that'd been ran through but by tupac yeah maybe
00:05:36.740 he got he got he got he got tupac's leftovers yeah go ahead so i think you mentioned something where
00:05:44.340 you said um it was along the lines of you guys have basically gassed up the girl to make like you said
00:05:51.200 she thinks people like her but they don't it's just her looks so therefore you guys have played that
00:05:55.340 world but i was also going to say you know how the women the term women are mad i think we are 1.00
00:05:59.760 visibly more mad because we act out i also think there are some guys whether it's narcissistic
00:06:05.800 tendencies or psychologically they may and it's not seen on social media it's not seen out that all we
00:06:10.300 see is the woman going mad the woman burning shoes the woman doing this but i feel like sometimes you
00:06:14.660 get a lot of mad men who i don't know what they studied but they get into a woman's head and it may 0.88
00:06:19.880 not be like he's actively doing something but those men were raised by women i'll tell you that 0.93
00:06:25.380 now those men weren't raised by men what those tendencies you're talking about the acts of
00:06:28.880 manipulation against your head and that's what women do that's what women do to their husbands 1.00
00:06:32.620 that's what men do when they have kids that's women so the men you're talking about goes back to
00:06:37.900 women angry women let's clarify and at the end of the day women are in control of relationships i know 1.00
00:06:43.700 men get to pick who they're in a relationship with but you could argue that women are in control because 1.00
00:06:47.440 we're in control of sex and these days that seems to come first so we're picking so if we we hate the
00:06:53.480 toxic and we hate the manipulative guys why are we sleeping with them and then creating more of them
00:06:59.920 for having babies and not staying with the guy i think can i just add to this conversation so for me
00:07:05.100 i don't we use this term toxic masculinity i don't believe that you can be masculine and be toxic
00:07:11.260 you're either toxic and you're not serving your purpose so you're not a man um i don't know if you
00:07:17.680 would agree i don't think toxic masculinity is a real thing i think that's what i'm saying yeah i don't 0.64
00:07:21.940 think that's a real thing it's not you can't be masculine and be toxic you're just not masculine so if
00:07:28.420 you have toxic traits when you look back at people these men who are on social media shouting
00:07:33.740 carrying on a certain way feeding into a certain type of dynamic these are the same women that 1.00
00:07:40.080 flock to those same men and we have to ask ourselves why are we why are we flocking to them is it because
00:07:45.980 we see a similarity but sorry um because women love drama no no but that's what i was about to say
00:07:51.740 do we see the similarity between ourselves and that man because the feminine trait it is a feminine trait so 1.00
00:07:57.700 no women love drama no no that's why yeah women love drama a lot of women love drama because 1.00
00:08:03.540 because it feeds into their emotional need why don't women watch the nba why don't women watch the nba 1.00
00:08:10.160 where a team is coming together and they do but they watch the kardashians well it's something or the
00:08:15.140 bachelor but that's what i'm saying wait it's not all but but i'm saying generally speaking women
00:08:20.040 women yeah women like drama generally speaking when it feels first of all i can say they wouldn't 1.00
00:08:25.560 watch the nba because it doesn't feed into their validation circuit second of all it doesn't feed
00:08:30.980 into their emotional circuit it doesn't have drama so yeah so with the kardashians i've never watched
00:08:37.740 them so i don't really know but i will say it is tailored to appeal to women to validate their need
00:08:44.280 to have superficial am i talking so much but superficial gains and having the high value man
00:08:50.800 that they deserve you you know look at the social circles that we're in is very messy because of where
00:08:56.900 we are in the social classes if you look at people with more body they know how to cover their stuff up
00:09:02.940 they know how to okay i'm gonna mess around over here but when i turn 30 or 35 i'm gonna marry a woman 0.67
00:09:10.060 who's in my social class we're gonna have our stuff together and we're gonna have kids and we're
00:09:14.840 gonna have a family i might take coke in the back or i might do my thing no no real this is real life
00:09:19.860 when you're in a class a lower class like myself everyone here working class we're messy we don't we
00:09:27.200 jump from this to that to that and whatever we can get it's a free for all
00:09:31.100 i was gonna say i partially do what she's saying because let's say i've had friends maybe in a
00:09:39.760 higher social class you realize that they really cover each other yeah and i've realized whether
00:09:44.960 it's illegal whether it's not legal whether it's drugs whether it's sex even with like the whole
00:09:49.080 what do you mean cover each other so as in let's say there's a scandal okay there's we're gonna sign
00:09:53.680 an nda and we're gonna keep this between us it's not gonna go anywhere it's covered whereas i get what
00:09:58.780 she's saying why is hollywood so messy i don't it comes entertainment it's money like i feel like
00:10:04.560 hollywood is not a real place i feel like it's just it's it's drama literally it's make-believe
00:10:09.640 and it's drama i feel like when you go into the real world and you start meeting real people those
00:10:13.640 classes someone's son has knocked over someone attempted no it's i agree with you yeah yeah and
00:10:19.180 it's so crazy because i feel like as people you need to understand and try and delve into different
00:10:23.760 social classes to understand that stop staying where you are that's how you're but the point is that
00:10:28.520 women in general like drama yeah yeah i agree with that yeah but it feeds into emotional needs 1.00
00:10:34.260 but it doesn't matter like like where who cares why we just do one one it's attention women love 1.00
00:10:41.940 attention let's get it right attention we love it um different varies from woman to woman me
00:10:48.180 personally i can do about it you probably the ladies here could agree limited attention we don't 1.00
00:10:53.340 need that whole spotlight um and then the validation that is that's what carries it if you're getting
00:10:59.520 validated by 300 girls on social media talking about i i love you you're right you should do this
00:11:05.280 you should that doesn't happen for men though i'm saying like average no average look they did on
00:11:09.080 studies average looking girls get more messages than top 10 guys yeah then question for the girls
00:11:14.940 quickly yeah so i think you agreed that um less attention be good right the age i'm at yeah yeah i know
00:11:20.700 so would you stop wearing makeup and doing that yourself okay so i've i'm so just a bit of backstory
00:11:25.320 i was a tomboy up until very recently i just about learned how to do makeup the other day i think it's
00:11:31.080 just about i i'm i can go out confidently without wearing makeup i prefer not to it it's very annoying
00:11:35.480 unless there's a special occasion i might wear it but that's what i'm saying there's a minority then
00:11:40.220 there's generalism i personally i don't like it i just feel like do you guys have instagram yeah so
00:11:45.940 how can you say you hate attention if you've instagram so all of my socials are on private
00:11:49.660 and okay and and and i would talk i told people this i know everybody on my social media as in
00:11:53.700 whether it's secondary school i'm not posting for clarification if my thing would be open if i
00:11:58.340 wanted i'm posting for maybe family updates or because i like traveling i'm showing what i'm doing
00:12:02.380 so that's i'm saying i might be the minority but i get it but even on a small even on a small scale
00:12:07.480 though you're still looking for attention in some level yeah i mean i'm not saying i'm saying you're not 0.99
00:12:12.180 i'm not saying you're not you're not to the level of like the girls posting their ass on ig 0.96
00:12:15.700 yeah so some i get it but like yeah yeah but because even though i know everyone you're right 0.94
00:12:20.040 if i'm on holiday i'll be like oh let's interact oh what are you what are you doing so i do agree
00:12:24.440 with that but i'm just very private that's me as a person i just think everybody's would you
00:12:28.880 go delete your insta for your boyfriends no for my husband or my boyfriend yeah boyfriend 0.69
00:12:32.600 what about your husband if my husband didn't want me to have social media and he like we had a 0.64
00:12:39.060 conversation i would first of all i need to understand why and then i probably would do it
00:12:43.980 wait how could you be submissive if you wouldn't delete your social media for your because that's
00:12:47.820 like my husband telling me okay you're a bit um you're an extrovert turn it down so where so so
00:12:53.640 where do you say it's controlling and where do you say it's um because maybe he might not want me out
00:12:58.400 there i think it's better for you know so say that then what would be a valid reason for you okay so
00:13:03.060 i've known someone who their partner wasn't on socials and but it was like she was a bit out there so
00:13:08.320 can you delete it i think that's a genuinely good reason if you're genuinely posting for your family
00:13:12.660 and friends it's not like you're doing anything mad that he has access to your dms or you look at
00:13:16.700 each other's phones but but if you don't if you don't care that much about instagram then why would
00:13:20.520 you care to like because what it wouldn't part of being submissive deleting it because he wants you
00:13:25.580 to but my whole point is when is it submissive and when and when is it controlling because my thing
00:13:29.940 is yes there's no problem deleting it however explain to me why if i'm not speaking to anyone on there
00:13:34.160 i update my family via socials i see where my family are if there's no valid reason and that's
00:13:39.860 what i'm saying submission yes you should submit but i feel like when does it become like he's
00:13:44.340 controlling you well you get to pick so it's about picking a leader that you trust but it has to be a
00:13:50.340 guy that you would trust enough that if he said delete your instagram you know he's a good man and he
00:13:54.840 has a good reason for it and a man like that would only ask you to delete your instagram if he had a
00:14:00.180 good reason anyway i don't think a manipulative man saying delete your instagram i don't think
00:14:04.980 is a good man i feel like instagram is quite shallow it would have like not like that but it would have
00:14:09.020 to be something something bigger like maybe change what you're wearing as we're going out because i
00:14:13.260 feel like it's something so fickle it's not a big thing to me so why did you say no um to to the
00:14:20.200 attention question i think it's good yeah oh to the deleting my instagram yeah because i post a lot
00:14:27.060 on my instagram my instagram gets me money um so i'm not deleting what if he was paying for the
00:14:33.120 bills oh yeah then i delete
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00:15:33.240 migtout by logic tupac tupac is still winning a dw man makes more than women it's called dating
00:15:42.800 women makes more than man it's called dating down why i know why i want to hear a different
00:15:47.700 perspective asani ali if a man is a cheater and has three women it's because each one of them has
00:15:53.760 three attributes that man the man wants one might be friendly but ugly another is submissive but can't
00:15:58.980 cook or clean etc migtout by logic if you're the prize then you'd be delivering used goods or then 0.82
00:16:05.600 you'd be delivering the goods but you don't women generally are bitter angry loud masculine argumentative 1.00
00:16:11.660 greedy and wasteful liars oh my god matt matt butcher pearl please emphasize emphasize a good a good 0.98
00:16:20.520 attitude will take a lady from a three to a nine instantly taylor grave i wouldn't go 0.97
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