Pearl BREAKS DOWN why Will Smith Is A Cuck
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Summary
In this episode of the podcast, we discuss whether or not men prefer younger women and if women are the prize in a relationship. We also discuss if women should be allowed to choose a partner based on looks alone.
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i'll tell him he's nice no no no when you see someone with their boyfriend so you don't think
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the boyfriend's nice no i'm saying if i think someone's nice i believe no no if you don't
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think someone's boyfriend is nice how do you behave it's not for me to come no it's the reaction
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what's your reaction at least he treats you nice to answer your question i say eight to ten means
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you can get a modeling contract contract eight is you're the prettiest girl in a small town nine
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means you're going to hollywood based on your looks alone ten is damn near perfect seven i go
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off of kevin samuel's scale so i don't do sevens because people are either models or they're cute
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pretty five is normal six is cute below that okay but yeah that's that's how so but a lot like on
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tiktok the other day um i i got banned but before i got banned i commented on a girl because she was
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going off on my things and i just said another average looking girl coping oh man right because
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she was because she was mad because i was saying men prefer younger women it's just true it's not
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fun i don't enjoy that i'm getting you know i'm 25 i'm gonna be 26 in november i don't enjoy that
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but it's just true and if you're average looking at 30 you're below average
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but you know she but like that's an it but do you see everyone's silent because that's an insult but
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it shouldn't be it's not it was an insult if i i don't think it's an insult it's even but if i said
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average looking guy no one would really yeah but it's contextualizing a man wants i agree with you
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but yeah yeah go ahead it's so crazy because it's like men want maybe what's younger than them maybe
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because you're bendable you're movable it's like you're teachable whereas when you're older you're
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probably more stuck in your ways and also you're probably prettier because you're younger unless you
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just don't look your age that shouldn't be the case however people do people do lie because
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if if you walk around you believe you're 10 and you're like i'm a 10 i'm a 10 people are going to
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shut you down and say no you're not but if you go around saying i'm a 2 they would also try and
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pump you up and say no you're not even a 2 you're 5 and it's true most people don't want to be honest
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about what they really think because they don't want to hurt feelings which is understandable but i think
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if women really got that pushback there wouldn't be so many claiming their 10s
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that's true true so i don't think i think women but if a man goes on social media and he says i'm
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a 10 i'm a 10 i'm a 10 i swear to god women will be the first ones even even you this is the most
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handsome man on the planet for a magazine and you're let me finish and your first comment is
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he's all right it's i'm no hate to you it's just part of like women but then my thing is yeah we're not
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all gonna think attractive is attractive that's my point do you know what i think it is as well some
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most for women's i thought for me let me speak for myself like when when i'm if i see a man and
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i don't think he's attractive or my type my mind could change when i start talking to him or when
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i get to know him or see his vibes i think sometimes because women don't see looks first if he's feminine
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but he starts talking like a girl and he don't like women so he doesn't like women if he's talking to me
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if he if you ever had a guy that was very attractive then he opened his mouth and he like sounds like a
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girl and his voice is so high-pitched and you're like oh god i'll assume he's a i can't say it
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um okay so if so going back to the prize analogy if women date up and they claim they're the prize
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and she is the prize in a relationship then isn't that relationship destined to fail
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say that again say that again sorry so if women if women claims that she's the prize isn't that
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relationship destined to fail because women date up
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i don't want to speak first okay why don't you you're quiet so you got yeah yeah i'm thinking
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i'm not sure i'm not sure i just think the man is the head i feel like the man is the head the woman
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is the neck we all work as one so women don't actually know how much power they have in regards
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to like you could get a man to do something just by maybe advising or changing the way you speak and
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it can be done so if we're going technically i would say yeah because for her to be what was the
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context of the prize so if she thinks she's the prize already i already think like we need to
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understand that the man you see the word prize is a bit have you okay have you ever seen a girl
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that like genuinely feels like she married down oh and like like like that she she runs the show
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she has her husband by the it's like she she walks all over yeah does that does that's like
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horrible to see i don't like that because i feel like the man like he's just disrespected when he
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when he puts her on a pedestal yeah like will smith remember a couple i called i called will smith
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before any when he was remember at all the award shows girls don't like that they don't respect that
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but in that relationship she she he felt like she was the prize and now and now you have one of the
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a guy in the top one percent of looks money i think it used to be muscles sorry but like
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looking stupid he looks like a fool because of his woman the whole like that relationship has
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failed then 100 oh yeah jada doesn't and you're saying that's because she because he looked at
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jada as depressed partially yeah because she like jada jada wanted to be with a tupac
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and then and so and that's what that's what that's when we go back to the bad boys and the nice guys
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well because he he picked a girl he picked a girl that'd been ran through but by tupac yeah maybe
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he got he got he got he got tupac's leftovers yeah go ahead so i think you mentioned something where
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you said um it was along the lines of you guys have basically gassed up the girl to make like you said
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she thinks people like her but they don't it's just her looks so therefore you guys have played that
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world but i was also going to say you know how the women the term women are mad i think we are
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visibly more mad because we act out i also think there are some guys whether it's narcissistic
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tendencies or psychologically they may and it's not seen on social media it's not seen out that all we
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see is the woman going mad the woman burning shoes the woman doing this but i feel like sometimes you
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get a lot of mad men who i don't know what they studied but they get into a woman's head and it may
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not be like he's actively doing something but those men were raised by women i'll tell you that
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now those men weren't raised by men what those tendencies you're talking about the acts of
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manipulation against your head and that's what women do that's what women do to their husbands
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that's what men do when they have kids that's women so the men you're talking about goes back to
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women angry women let's clarify and at the end of the day women are in control of relationships i know
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men get to pick who they're in a relationship with but you could argue that women are in control because
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we're in control of sex and these days that seems to come first so we're picking so if we we hate the
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toxic and we hate the manipulative guys why are we sleeping with them and then creating more of them
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for having babies and not staying with the guy i think can i just add to this conversation so for me
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i don't we use this term toxic masculinity i don't believe that you can be masculine and be toxic
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you're either toxic and you're not serving your purpose so you're not a man um i don't know if you
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would agree i don't think toxic masculinity is a real thing i think that's what i'm saying yeah i don't
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think that's a real thing it's not you can't be masculine and be toxic you're just not masculine so if
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you have toxic traits when you look back at people these men who are on social media shouting
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carrying on a certain way feeding into a certain type of dynamic these are the same women that
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flock to those same men and we have to ask ourselves why are we why are we flocking to them is it because
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we see a similarity but sorry um because women love drama no no but that's what i was about to say
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do we see the similarity between ourselves and that man because the feminine trait it is a feminine trait so
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no women love drama no no that's why yeah women love drama a lot of women love drama because
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because it feeds into their emotional need why don't women watch the nba why don't women watch the nba
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where a team is coming together and they do but they watch the kardashians well it's something or the
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bachelor but that's what i'm saying wait it's not all but but i'm saying generally speaking women
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women yeah women like drama generally speaking when it feels first of all i can say they wouldn't
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watch the nba because it doesn't feed into their validation circuit second of all it doesn't feed
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into their emotional circuit it doesn't have drama so yeah so with the kardashians i've never watched
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them so i don't really know but i will say it is tailored to appeal to women to validate their need
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to have superficial am i talking so much but superficial gains and having the high value man
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that they deserve you you know look at the social circles that we're in is very messy because of where
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we are in the social classes if you look at people with more body they know how to cover their stuff up
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they know how to okay i'm gonna mess around over here but when i turn 30 or 35 i'm gonna marry a woman
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who's in my social class we're gonna have our stuff together and we're gonna have kids and we're
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gonna have a family i might take coke in the back or i might do my thing no no real this is real life
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when you're in a class a lower class like myself everyone here working class we're messy we don't we
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jump from this to that to that and whatever we can get it's a free for all
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i was gonna say i partially do what she's saying because let's say i've had friends maybe in a
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higher social class you realize that they really cover each other yeah and i've realized whether
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it's illegal whether it's not legal whether it's drugs whether it's sex even with like the whole
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what do you mean cover each other so as in let's say there's a scandal okay there's we're gonna sign
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an nda and we're gonna keep this between us it's not gonna go anywhere it's covered whereas i get what
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she's saying why is hollywood so messy i don't it comes entertainment it's money like i feel like
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hollywood is not a real place i feel like it's just it's it's drama literally it's make-believe
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and it's drama i feel like when you go into the real world and you start meeting real people those
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classes someone's son has knocked over someone attempted no it's i agree with you yeah yeah and
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it's so crazy because i feel like as people you need to understand and try and delve into different
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social classes to understand that stop staying where you are that's how you're but the point is that
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women in general like drama yeah yeah i agree with that yeah but it feeds into emotional needs
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but it doesn't matter like like where who cares why we just do one one it's attention women love
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attention let's get it right attention we love it um different varies from woman to woman me
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personally i can do about it you probably the ladies here could agree limited attention we don't
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need that whole spotlight um and then the validation that is that's what carries it if you're getting
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validated by 300 girls on social media talking about i i love you you're right you should do this
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you should that doesn't happen for men though i'm saying like average no average look they did on
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studies average looking girls get more messages than top 10 guys yeah then question for the girls
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quickly yeah so i think you agreed that um less attention be good right the age i'm at yeah yeah i know
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so would you stop wearing makeup and doing that yourself okay so i've i'm so just a bit of backstory
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i was a tomboy up until very recently i just about learned how to do makeup the other day i think it's
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just about i i'm i can go out confidently without wearing makeup i prefer not to it it's very annoying
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unless there's a special occasion i might wear it but that's what i'm saying there's a minority then
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there's generalism i personally i don't like it i just feel like do you guys have instagram yeah so
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how can you say you hate attention if you've instagram so all of my socials are on private
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and okay and and and i would talk i told people this i know everybody on my social media as in
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whether it's secondary school i'm not posting for clarification if my thing would be open if i
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wanted i'm posting for maybe family updates or because i like traveling i'm showing what i'm doing
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so that's i'm saying i might be the minority but i get it but even on a small even on a small scale
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though you're still looking for attention in some level yeah i mean i'm not saying i'm saying you're not
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i'm not saying you're not you're not to the level of like the girls posting their ass on ig
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yeah so some i get it but like yeah yeah but because even though i know everyone you're right
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if i'm on holiday i'll be like oh let's interact oh what are you what are you doing so i do agree
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with that but i'm just very private that's me as a person i just think everybody's would you
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go delete your insta for your boyfriends no for my husband or my boyfriend yeah boyfriend
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what about your husband if my husband didn't want me to have social media and he like we had a
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conversation i would first of all i need to understand why and then i probably would do it
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wait how could you be submissive if you wouldn't delete your social media for your because that's
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like my husband telling me okay you're a bit um you're an extrovert turn it down so where so so
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where do you say it's controlling and where do you say it's um because maybe he might not want me out
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there i think it's better for you know so say that then what would be a valid reason for you okay so
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i've known someone who their partner wasn't on socials and but it was like she was a bit out there so
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can you delete it i think that's a genuinely good reason if you're genuinely posting for your family
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and friends it's not like you're doing anything mad that he has access to your dms or you look at
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each other's phones but but if you don't if you don't care that much about instagram then why would
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you care to like because what it wouldn't part of being submissive deleting it because he wants you
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to but my whole point is when is it submissive and when and when is it controlling because my thing
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is yes there's no problem deleting it however explain to me why if i'm not speaking to anyone on there
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i update my family via socials i see where my family are if there's no valid reason and that's
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what i'm saying submission yes you should submit but i feel like when does it become like he's
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controlling you well you get to pick so it's about picking a leader that you trust but it has to be a
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guy that you would trust enough that if he said delete your instagram you know he's a good man and he
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has a good reason for it and a man like that would only ask you to delete your instagram if he had a
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good reason anyway i don't think a manipulative man saying delete your instagram i don't think
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is a good man i feel like instagram is quite shallow it would have like not like that but it would have
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to be something something bigger like maybe change what you're wearing as we're going out because i
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feel like it's something so fickle it's not a big thing to me so why did you say no um to to the
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attention question i think it's good yeah oh to the deleting my instagram yeah because i post a lot
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on my instagram my instagram gets me money um so i'm not deleting what if he was paying for the
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being on ig and men love women on there we can see the damage the price the lack of morals and values
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migtout by logic tupac tupac is still winning a dw man makes more than women it's called dating
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women makes more than man it's called dating down why i know why i want to hear a different
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perspective asani ali if a man is a cheater and has three women it's because each one of them has
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three attributes that man the man wants one might be friendly but ugly another is submissive but can't
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cook or clean etc migtout by logic if you're the prize then you'd be delivering used goods or then
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you'd be delivering the goods but you don't women generally are bitter angry loud masculine argumentative
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greedy and wasteful liars oh my god matt matt butcher pearl please emphasize emphasize a good a good
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attitude will take a lady from a three to a nine instantly taylor grave i wouldn't go
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