JustPearlyThings - April 30, 2023


Pearl Calls Out Destiny On This...

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Things Got Heated After Male Guest Said This... Men Logically Break Down Cheating To Women

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6 minutes

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228.3

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1,580

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Misogyny

17

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Toxicity

11

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Hate speech

9

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In this episode of The Real Housewives Of New York, we have a special guest on the show who is the host of the hit reality TV show 'The Real Housewife of New York' and host of 'The Good Wife' 'The Bad Boys'. We talk about what it's like dating in your 20s and 30s, why women are attracted to fat men and why they settle for fat men.

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00:00:00.000 so in the u.s the average bmi for a man is 26.6 and the average bmi for a woman is 26.5 oh i
00:00:06.840 stand corrected and that means the men probably have 40 to 50 pounds more because they're taller
00:00:10.420 right but i think it's just fat people stay with fat people there's always this like i feel like
00:00:14.500 there's this it's so strange in these shows they present it as like poor women are going off and
00:00:18.740 getting married to millionaire men that doesn't that's not happening and then like all these
00:00:22.100 attractive men that are trying really hard to stay finished are having to settle for this like whale
00:00:25.380 women i don't think that happens that's so common though it's not it is it is i've heard i've seen 0.93
00:00:33.400 so many girls get a ring and get fat like there's so many girls i went to high school with and there's 1.00
00:00:37.360 guys that get a ring and get fat the guys just get like skinny fat like it's not i mean they're not
00:00:42.120 in great shape and the women are getting skinny fat what do you mean oh no they're not getting skinny 0.99
00:00:45.600 they're getting fat okay well the data on average says that everybody is about on average and it's
00:00:50.620 just the women are fat on average they're all about as fat as each other like that's the stats 1.00
00:00:54.800 but it still it still goes back to like the things that women value from men and men value from women
00:00:59.780 well it depends on because men it's more looks and women it's more we agree with that right like women 0.99
00:01:04.660 it's more just more so it doesn't mean there's nothing right but women it's more resources and men 0.97
00:01:11.480 it's more looks in in general the trend is changing but in general yes in general yeah okay it can be
00:01:16.960 yeah okay i don't know how much it so and i do agree that women value resources but i think it's 1.00
00:01:21.980 to a certain point right i don't think it's like all women want millionaires yeah you're gonna be 0.98
00:01:26.520 realistic stable yeah you're gonna be realistic about what you can get not working at mcdonald's
00:01:30.900 like it's not that i don't think that it's as high but men's superficiality can get quite bad i don't
00:01:36.920 know when i ask girls it's usually around like um in order they'll say in order to fully submit it's
00:01:44.420 got to be like 90 to 100 here but they're gonna work with like 60 to 70 roughly what's the average
00:01:53.880 here in the uk it's got to be like 35 or something right 35 40 that is exactly what i'm saying yeah
00:02:01.700 but you're talking to exceptional people in your show right whether you think it or not they are
00:02:06.140 these are believe it or not it's not bad if you want to have kids i feel like a lot of women that
00:02:09.800 don't want kids we'll probably be okay with a bit lower sure but i just like people are presenting
00:02:13.920 as like women that are making like 15 20 care only looking for guys making like six figures or more 1.00
00:02:18.420 but the reality is yeah poor people marry poor people you would be surprised if you look at the
00:02:22.860 numbers poor people marry poor people middle class people marry middle class people when do they marry
00:02:27.360 them that's the whole point is like the girls will go after the guys that make a lot of money in 1.00
00:02:32.120 their 20s and their 30s get married to the guy that they because they want a kid no i don't agree
00:02:36.920 with that i think that's a i think that's an artifact of women putting off marriage more 1.00
00:02:41.120 because they are going to school they're working and they have birth control now now that's been
00:02:45.320 spun into like they want to ride the cat the carousel of like chad dicks uh until they settle 0.63
00:02:50.120 for a man but i think the reality is women are just in general putting up i mean you've never heard
00:02:53.480 like women go for bad boys when they're younger like even my grandma would would tell you that 1.00
00:02:57.600 like oh well jesus okay yeah never mind if pearl's grandma said it then i mean what am i to say 1.00
00:03:03.120 women are attracted to confidence but confidence and and the problem is a lot of assholes are 0.99
00:03:08.060 confident and it requires learning this process to be like i like confidence but i don't like 0.98
00:03:13.020 assholes but i have to date someone to figure that out that's what they're talking about though 0.86
00:03:17.100 yeah but don't guys also so she's she's she's validating what i'm saying yeah i agree you go 0.99
00:03:21.720 for dumb women when you're young but but you know not dumb women no no guys make bad choices for women 0.99
00:03:26.720 women tend to go they have to learn that the confidence is what they like not the assholeness 1.00
00:03:31.220 yeah i agree but it's not just women that do that it's men that do that too 0.98
00:03:34.880 women go after dumb men when they're young but men also but it's like every time we have a 1.00
00:03:39.500 conversation about women you always have to put but men because and so yeah because i have to because 0.99
00:03:43.800 on your show you blame like 95 of the world's problems on women i'm saying yeah women do do this 1.00
00:03:48.500 but men do it too it's not exceptional because my whole point is that like i'm sorry men and women 0.98
00:03:52.400 i think are way more in common we have way more commonalities and we do differences so like yeah but
00:03:56.720 wouldn't you agree there's some biological differences no i think we're exactly the same
00:04:01.560 yeah obviously there's differences the way you talk it's like it's like we're like there's no
00:04:07.400 biological difference no of course there are some biological there we make different types of
00:04:11.060 mistakes i already told you earlier that like men are more likely to gravitate towards attractive
00:04:14.640 women and women versus like men that have like money or whatever i don't think there's any
00:04:17.660 commonality with women getting fat after they get a ring that's not a common i think everybody can 1.00
00:04:22.060 let themselves go after they get a ring would you you think it's equal though yeah that's what the
00:04:26.640 data seems to say okay otherwise the bmi of women would be way higher on average than the bmi of men
00:04:31.120 no okay making it the extreme okay so that's what my grandma said what would happen to a woman that 1.00
00:04:37.400 you wouldn't be with her anymore i guess if your standards are really low then maybe you wouldn't
00:04:41.260 care but again this isn't a man versus woman i think it's a high standards versus low standard if
00:04:44.460 your only standards i need you to cook and i guess not cheat on me then sure i mean you can find a lot
00:04:48.680 of people that will fit the bill and then again like if i if i and my partner are what are your
00:04:53.620 standards uh i like people that are reasonably intelligent i like somebody who has a high level
00:04:58.240 of confidence um i prefer somebody that works like in my industry so that it's easy for us to 0.99
00:05:02.680 communicate um i prefer somebody to be in an open relationship because i want to fuck around 0.83
00:05:06.340 um i like somebody that's pretty flexible so they're able to travel and adapt a lot because i do 0.85
00:05:10.660 like a lot of crazy stuff um i need somebody with a high degree of emotional tenacity because i have
00:05:15.740 a lot of insane events that are going on in my life um i need somebody that is really independent
00:05:19.460 because i can spend time traveling or get really into my work um yeah i might i have a lot of there's
00:05:24.440 a lot of weird stuff you have to deal with when you date me what about for you pearl yeah what are
00:05:29.360 my standards yeah that no man has managed to meet yet let's hear it see if we can find you someone
00:05:34.260 yeah thank your future husband could be listening to this show right now so tell him what you're looking
00:05:41.200 for um i mean i like guys that are family oriented um i don't see i feel i feel like he's so ready to
00:05:49.620 just i'm not there's no wrong answers here okay no um i like guys that are family oriented conservative
00:05:56.180 um not i like you know i have a height thing he doesn't have to be taller than me he could be a
00:06:02.400 little shorter but it can't be like crazy okay um yeah um family so just 5 11 conservative 5 9 5 10
00:06:15.620 5 9 5 10 okay conservative family oriented yeah you haven't found that guy yet
00:06:22.140 i'm surprised yeah too many things seems like there's a lot of people out there that would
00:06:29.440 match up there's look i don't want to get into too much detail no i don't want to get into too
00:06:34.380 wow okay all right okay okay geez i'm curious we got some weird requirements as many of you know i was
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