JustPearlyThings - June 12, 2023


Pearl Calls Out Man Hating Feminist On Her Misandry


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Length

8 minutes

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215.6848

Word count

1,916

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

7

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Toxicity

16

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Hate speech

10

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss cheating, women cheating and the role of men in society. We also talk about why women cheat and how to deal with it. We have a special guest on the show who has a very interesting perspective on the matter.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 wrong with that one then you have to show me different show me different show me something
00:00:02.760 else show me something else to me that you are not like them i am not like them right now i am
00:00:08.000 communicating before like i do that yeah i'm already showing the proof like all right that's
00:00:13.280 yeah i see there there he is no what proof though like i am a zimbabwean man and i do not cheat
00:00:19.640 my family doesn't love zimbabwe man should i give should i give a good example sorry to go off yeah
00:00:24.480 you the way you've been disagreeing with everything i've said yeah that's a zimbabwean
00:00:29.220 man for you they will never understand from another person's point of view no it's not
00:00:33.420 it's not a point of view if you're saying something that i disagree with then as a man
00:00:38.980 uh actually as a zimbabwean man actually we don't take women's thoughts very seriously
00:00:44.060 wow it sounds like my uncle wow yeah because you guys act out of emotion a lot of the time and a
00:00:51.280 lot of you now westernized that's why i love zimbabwean men are not even marrying zimbabwean 1.00
00:00:55.140 women anymore but we're talking about the women that are back home i've never been 25 percent of 0.96
00:01:00.680 men cheat in your age group under 30 men cheat approximately 10 percent of the time and their
00:01:06.420 girls cheat more at approximately 15 percent um half of male cheaters only cheat once
00:01:11.340 the girls cheat girls cheat more than men these days they're they're doing studies and women 0.98
00:01:24.980 cheat more i'd argue if you if you know i agree girls do cheat right but i just don't understand
00:01:30.940 why you have this like hatred towards men but i've told you i have gone through certain things but you
00:01:37.260 said you had issues with your stepmom too yeah but i've had i've gone through certain things but 0.77
00:01:41.820 like there's shitty men there's shitty women why do only men get the brunt of it because i've never 0.53
00:01:46.820 been with a woman so i'm gonna talk from a man sorry but i just i don't understand why there's like 0.96
00:01:55.620 this open misandry in society like if men spoke the way that women speak about men like it would not be 0.89
00:02:00.980 accepted you hear women say what women are you you hear women say that men are trash but you never hear 0.98
00:02:06.120 that women are trash even though we are by stats if you look at the numbers 90 of us yet 90 of us 1.00
00:02:12.560 are on birth control one out of three of us is on abortion um the average women have slept on average 0.99
00:02:17.320 with over like between five to eight and some studies will say between 10 to 15 people which is 0.89
00:02:22.280 a fuck ton in all of history only five percent of women are virgins on their wedding days when you 1.00
00:02:26.960 look at the things that men look for which is purity and youth the average age of first marriage is 31 we 0.99
00:02:31.560 have women coming into marriages with children from other men which throughout all of history was 0.51
00:02:36.020 haram no no is bad and so women are of lower quality than ever before and yet they have the 1.00
00:02:41.740 most to complain about but men don't have not every man has got that quality too there's some
00:02:46.380 bummy men out there you're right there are bummy men but the difference is the bummy men aren't 0.94
00:02:50.940 delusional you don't see the bummy men requiring a lot from women oh oh yeah the the only bummy men that 0.99
00:02:58.860 do are very good looking and it's because women sleep with them men cannot live in delusion because 0.81
00:03:03.260 they will not get women if if if if a man has nothing nobody's gonna sleep with him one out of 1.00
00:03:09.080 three men are not sleeping with anybody and and if and if the and if the women and if the women are 0.98
00:03:16.000 and if the men are shitty it's do you guys agree with the phrase men will do anything for sex 0.99
00:03:20.180 yes or no yes no okay yes i i think that's true that men will do anything for sex and so 1.00
00:03:27.560 and so if men if men are acting a certain way it's because women are rewarding the shitty men with 0.99
00:03:33.820 sex how how can you like blame the behavior of the men when you're sleeping with the cheating men 0.99
00:03:39.760 when most men don't cheat we're having children with men that cheat and then we'll complain about
00:03:45.720 the cheaters but wait if you don't know that they're cheating yeah let's you know what if you don't
00:03:50.140 okay okay okay let me let me okay i'll ask you this but did you did you but okay did you ask your
00:03:57.120 parents because parents have more wisdom than you they know more than you and they and i'm sorry but
00:04:03.160 usually usually usually what happens is women will bring show the like show the guy to their parents 1.00
00:04:10.580 that cheats the later will be a cheater the parents both say no not a good guy not a good guy the women
00:04:15.660 don't listen they don't listen they don't listen they might go they might go and make a child with
00:04:22.420 him and then want to cry later and say oh i don't how did i not know when it's like okay he warned you
00:04:28.700 she warned you you didn't listen then you made a kid with him and now you have a big mess that you
00:04:34.700 chose but you can't call the children mess anyway but like i wanted to say i'm not talking about the
00:04:39.440 kids i'm talking about the situation i wanted to say yeah you know when you mentioned about
00:04:44.460 oh my god i forgot now can you repeat what you said again please because it's yeah there's a
00:04:49.740 certain part that she she said and i wanted to say something about it yeah go ahead go ahead
00:04:54.560 can you can you repeat the cheating part um i said let me let me find this it was no it was a parent
00:05:01.140 thing when you um you ask for advice from your parents this and that and you don't listen and
00:05:06.040 and all that what's hard about listening to your parents in a situation like that where if they
00:05:12.000 say yes or no to your partner is because you look at their life more time i look at someone's life
00:05:17.460 before like i do what they say so if you're telling me oh don't be with that person but you have been
00:05:22.880 in different marriages you've broken up with them broken up with them i'm not gonna take it seriously
00:05:26.920 don't they know what not to pick no no how do you how can they know what how to pick if they
00:05:34.180 can't pick and they're always but they would know but they would know what not to pick right
00:05:37.900 based on experience wouldn't you wouldn't you now know what not to pick for for i don't know if you
00:05:42.420 have a daughter or a son but now that you you figured out what didn't work couldn't you say to
00:05:46.800 your daughter that doesn't work absolutely i would this is the problem is you guys think you're
00:05:50.540 smarter than your parents i don't think i'm smart i did not say that but
00:05:54.700 women do when they don't listen to them because you you seem to say you said you didn't listen to 1.00
00:06:02.400 your parents when did we say that you mean in terms of their relationship yeah yeah and so you
00:06:07.940 think yeah so you think you're smarter than your parents i don't think i was no no no no but there's
00:06:13.320 some things right not saying that i'm smarter than my mom or my dad i'm not saying that but maybe
00:06:20.020 i should just give a mouth shut yeah next so you you it sounds like you have a lot of like 0.67
00:06:27.580 admiration for your dad me now like i can't lie to you now my dad has shown me a different side
00:06:33.900 that i really appreciate you know after the things we've gone through i as a as a child i went back to
00:06:41.700 him and i said you know dad i know we went through a lot of mess um i'm pregnant i'm sorry you know
00:06:48.600 and he took me back and everything and since then he's really like shown me so much so if you're dead
00:06:54.380 who kicked you out out of anger because you probably say something mad that day for him to do that did
00:06:59.820 you try to go back and apologize after they kicked you out i never went back because he didn't want me
00:07:04.500 back they told me not to come back so now if you say that out of anger my father has never reacted
00:07:09.660 like that to me before so now imagine you're in a space where you're thinking you're confused
00:07:13.060 you're thinking oh my god like what just happened to me i'm going to college now because i was the
00:07:17.020 last day of my college i'm asking my friends i'm telling i'm like bro i don't know where to go
00:07:20.760 you didn't but you didn't go back and apologize i didn't go back on the same day i did not go back
00:07:25.340 because the way he you never you never apologize i apologize at the i mean after how many years
00:07:30.640 if you had gone back and apologized literally the next day you would have taken you in no
00:07:35.400 i believe so no if he came and took you in and said i forgive you when you are pregnant
00:07:39.860 no when i got when i felt pregnant that's different now and then you came and he still said
00:07:45.180 now it's all good so when you're pregnant that was years later after apparently they're happy that i
00:07:51.400 was not dead yeah that's what i'm saying apparently emotion is to take care of you and they will love
00:07:57.420 you even if you feel like they don't like you or they feel like some type of way and i'm pretty
00:08:02.220 sure that scenario as well because i've had instances in my family as well where you can
00:08:06.480 get mad and you apparently be like get out of from here you know i mean but you come back the
00:08:10.880 next day and it's all good but in that instance they don't want to see you because you'll probably
00:08:14.960 say something mad to them yeah but now imagine in a situation where you your father's never acted
00:08:19.400 like that before i didn't know what to do yeah but i was scared i was thinking bro if i got back
00:08:24.360 like you didn't know how i don't know how yeah and because i know i know my dad yeah so i was like
00:08:31.380 like i was i was like no i need to find whatever else was going to sleep or sleep there and he just
00:08:37.640 came in two years and years and years right and he never even contacted me he never tried to look for
00:08:41.620 me and i was trying to come back yeah i do take responsibility to certain extent of the things
00:08:46.600 obviously like you know if i went back i i don't know how that would have ended i can't lie to you
00:08:51.600 and i did not want to find out