Pearl Cooks Modern Woman With This Fact
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss why women cheat on men, toxic relationships, and why men cheat on their wives. We also discuss the importance of sex and why women should wait to have sex with men until they are ready.
Transcript
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what what percent of women are cooking on a regular basis what percent of women
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why can't the men do that because men because men and women are different and
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most men out earn women so if we're going to talk about like a guy that's a
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provider like most men only four percent of relationships the woman out earns
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the man so most men still out earn us but we don't we don't bring anything
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we're not we're not we're not virgins anymore what percent of women are
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virgins on our wedding day and you can't just be you can't just be a hoe like
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let's say a girl's a hoe yeah and then expect the man like let's expect the
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man saying why can't you do it or why is it not the same with us just shush well
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and the other thing is like if you don't if if women feel like men don't value
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them it's probably because they don't bring anything to be valued it's like okay
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if a man is rejected by every single girl right if he goes up to a hundred women
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and he and he's rejected by all of them wouldn't you think well there's probably
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something wrong with dude hundred that's a lot of women to reject him but if a
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woman sleeps with guy after guy after guy and all of them cheat on her and none
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of them want to be in a relationship with her and none of them are committed
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to her and none of them value her maybe something's wrong with her maybe
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there's something she doesn't bring but it's like it never women we're so
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narcissistic that we never think maybe it's us it's always them it's like the
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men don't value us but maybe you don't bring anything to value you know we had
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we had a woman come here and she taught an episode of wife school and I'm
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telling you like she was she was oh she was a bit bigger right but she was so
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feminine so kind so caring there is not a man in the room that didn't respect her
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and value her and that that just would never happen to her because she brought
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something to the table but it's like as women we keep bringing nothing to the
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table then wondering why guys don't respect us yeah I do hear what you're
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saying but I think as well I suppose you know like toxic relationships the whole
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toxic situation is so heightened on the internet oh everyone's toxic and I think
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because of social media it's brought this negative atmosphere around
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relationships in a sense because if you didn't have social media you wouldn't be
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able to see what other people are doing and how they are who's on social media
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more men or women oh I don't know you know I think it's women so if like if you say
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like society social media influences it's influencing the women then we what we go
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into relationships and expect what toxicity I mean I personally don't I
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don't want you might be an exception but we're talking about the rule like we're
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talking about common problems and like we even said you know like women want the
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roller coaster we want the ups and down in a relationships and then you know
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again we ask why do the men not value us do you think the phrase is true men will
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do anything for sex to an extent yeah yes yeah so if we treat if they treat us a
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certain way isn't that our own fault because they'll do anything for sex so
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if we're sleeping with the ones that act bad then that's our own fault if they
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treat us like that but they'll act good before you sleep with them and then
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they'll start acting bad that's what normally happens so you've already kind of
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gained a little bit of attachment you know I disagree with this because I've had
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friends in toxic relationships and all of the friends will tell them yeah that's a
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toxic man the parents will tell them you know not a good one like like let's just
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let's just call a spade a spade if you asked your dad about him he
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probably wouldn't like him or your brothers or like men you respect in your
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life like I think it's just a cop-out that women say oh he's changed all the
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time and if if that's true then why don't you wait longer before sleeping with
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men if they change if we waited to be married to have sex with someone then
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we'd all be married yeah so it's kind of like if the men are acting so and people
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always say I get on the women but it's like what comes first nowadays sex or
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relationships in general sex is that right you agree sex who's in control of
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sex the woman so so who's in control in relationships the woman so really how is
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a woman in control of sex because men men are always trying to get like with men
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control access to relationships women control access to sex but sex comes
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before relationships right because we always give consent yeah like women has the
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last say and if with the sex happens or not yeah like men they're gonna screw
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anything you know what I mean like you come naked in front of me like come on
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like you think guys are that picky with who they sleep with women are right so
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we're in control of sex so it's like if relationships are in the shitter whose
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fault is that mmm yeah yeah well we were the ones that pick right mmm savage I
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agree with what you're saying 100% but I just think it's difficult because guys
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don't give you the whole experience of themselves they give you a perception or
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they show you a little teaser they'll give you a percentage they show you what they want to
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show you so then wait to sleep with them but then if I mean I don't sleep with
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someone right away anyway but if I've gained a level of comfortability with you because
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of what you've shown me and who you are as a person and then I sleep with you and
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then after you change then you clearly would just doing that for the sex right but it's
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probably because you didn't offer anything other than sex guys don't get bored with
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women that offer things other than sex majority of them do get bored I don't even
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care about sex bro don't lie they actually don't they actually don't mate it's all you
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think about how much do you think about I have a question have you ever asked a guy what his
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favorite meal is and learned to cook it from scratch and like did it on a consistent basis
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like dropped it off maybe every other day when when my mom's sorry why would we do that because that's
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bringing something to the table okay okay wait most men pay for dates would that be valuable to
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you guys a girl that drops off like a home-cooked meal or like comes would that be valuable yes
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it's not gonna stop them cheating stuff okay but it'd be something right okay okay thank you yeah
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that's my only point right but I'm asking like nobody nobody's done that right I mean I mean I was
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talking to a guy quite recently and every time he'd come around I would ask him well what do you want
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and I kind of I knew what he liked so I'd I'd make it for him do you know I mean that's like
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bring something to the table that's something we don't need to bring everything to the table
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but like what does he like exactly but for him to for him to be talking to you he has to bring
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something to the table because you you guys are all pretty girls you're not dealing with no guy
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that's completely broke you're not dealing with no guy that's super ugly like in order for him to
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even get in the door you have to bring something the difference is women don't have to bring
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anything you just have to be be pretty to get in the door okay but what's the man bringing to the
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table again okay do you want a guy that's smarter than you typically yes do you want a guy that's
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taller than you no definitely I'm kind of like short guys okay so do you want a guy that's stronger
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than you yeah do you want a guy that makes more money than you ideally you could pick oh come on
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the same if the same yeah yeah yeah right so be so off the bat he has to bring something to the
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table yeah to get in the door but you don't and that's the point like we get in the door and we
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think we're bringing something to the table but we're not because we're just being pretty in
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there is that though with them having money or whatever right but that's probably why like you
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haven't been in successful relationships you know that might be the problem but I just think
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everything should be equal in life why should I feel like I have to bring it's not equal it's not
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but but okay it's not fair to the man that you can get in the door because you're pretty
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yeah yeah do you know what I mean like life isn't fair I never look at it in that way