JustPearlyThings - Pearl Cooks Modern Woman With This Fact

00:00:00.000 what what percent of women are cooking on a regular basis what percent of women 1.00

00:00:03.600 why can't the men do that because men because men and women are different and 0.99

00:00:07.600 most men out earn women so if we're going to talk about like a guy that's a

00:00:11.220 provider like most men only four percent of relationships the woman out earns 0.96

00:00:14.860 the man so most men still out earn us but we don't we don't bring anything

00:00:18.620 we're not we're not we're not virgins anymore what percent of women are 1.00

00:00:22.260 virgins on our wedding day and you can't just be you can't just be a hoe like 1.00

00:00:26.560 let's say a girl's a hoe yeah and then expect the man like let's expect the 1.00

00:00:29.680 man saying why can't you do it or why is it not the same with us just shush well

00:00:34.000 and the other thing is like if you don't if if women feel like men don't value

00:00:38.500 them it's probably because they don't bring anything to be valued it's like okay

00:00:41.880 if a man is rejected by every single girl right if he goes up to a hundred women

00:00:45.880 and he and he's rejected by all of them wouldn't you think well there's probably

00:00:50.420 something wrong with dude hundred that's a lot of women to reject him but if a 1.00

00:00:54.440 woman sleeps with guy after guy after guy and all of them cheat on her and none 0.68

00:00:57.520 of them want to be in a relationship with her and none of them are committed

00:01:00.160 to her and none of them value her maybe something's wrong with her maybe

00:01:03.800 there's something she doesn't bring but it's like it never women we're so 0.98

00:01:06.660 narcissistic that we never think maybe it's us it's always them it's like the

00:01:10.660 men don't value us but maybe you don't bring anything to value you know we had

00:01:14.080 we had a woman come here and she taught an episode of wife school and I'm

00:01:17.660 telling you like she was she was oh she was a bit bigger right but she was so 0.99

00:01:21.540 feminine so kind so caring there is not a man in the room that didn't respect her

00:01:26.160 and value her and that that just would never happen to her because she brought

00:01:29.740 something to the table but it's like as women we keep bringing nothing to the 1.00

00:01:32.660 table then wondering why guys don't respect us yeah I do hear what you're

00:01:38.840 saying but I think as well I suppose you know like toxic relationships the whole

00:01:43.200 toxic situation is so heightened on the internet oh everyone's toxic and I think

00:01:48.700 because of social media it's brought this negative atmosphere around

00:01:54.060 relationships in a sense because if you didn't have social media you wouldn't be

00:01:59.260 able to see what other people are doing and how they are who's on social media

00:02:02.800 more men or women oh I don't know you know I think it's women so if like if you say

00:02:09.460 like society social media influences it's influencing the women then we what we go 1.00

00:02:13.600 into relationships and expect what toxicity I mean I personally don't I

00:02:17.980 don't want you might be an exception but we're talking about the rule like we're

00:02:22.820 talking about common problems and like we even said you know like women want the 1.00

00:02:26.980 roller coaster we want the ups and down in a relationships and then you know

00:02:30.700 again we ask why do the men not value us do you think the phrase is true men will

00:02:35.480 do anything for sex to an extent yeah yes yeah so if we treat if they treat us a

00:02:41.920 certain way isn't that our own fault because they'll do anything for sex so

00:02:45.640 if we're sleeping with the ones that act bad then that's our own fault if they

00:02:49.360 treat us like that but they'll act good before you sleep with them and then

00:02:52.240 they'll start acting bad that's what normally happens so you've already kind of

00:02:55.000 gained a little bit of attachment you know I disagree with this because I've had

00:02:58.300 friends in toxic relationships and all of the friends will tell them yeah that's a

00:03:02.560 toxic man the parents will tell them you know not a good one like like let's just

00:03:08.440 let's just call a spade a spade if you asked your dad about him he

00:03:10.860 probably wouldn't like him or your brothers or like men you respect in your

00:03:15.280 life like I think it's just a cop-out that women say oh he's changed all the

00:03:18.480 time and if if that's true then why don't you wait longer before sleeping with

00:03:22.520 men if they change if we waited to be married to have sex with someone then

00:03:29.360 we'd all be married yeah so it's kind of like if the men are acting so and people 0.66

00:03:34.800 always say I get on the women but it's like what comes first nowadays sex or 1.00

00:03:38.160 relationships in general sex is that right you agree sex who's in control of 0.96

00:03:43.500 sex the woman so so who's in control in relationships the woman so really how is

00:03:49.040 a woman in control of sex because men men are always trying to get like with men 1.00

00:03:53.580 control access to relationships women control access to sex but sex comes 1.00

00:03:57.060 before relationships right because we always give consent yeah like women has the 1.00

00:04:02.580 last say and if with the sex happens or not yeah like men they're gonna screw 0.99

00:04:07.140 anything you know what I mean like you come naked in front of me like come on 0.98

00:04:09.960 like you think guys are that picky with who they sleep with women are right so 1.00

00:04:15.380 we're in control of sex so it's like if relationships are in the shitter whose 0.94

00:04:19.260 fault is that mmm yeah yeah well we were the ones that pick right mmm savage I

00:04:28.080 agree with what you're saying 100% but I just think it's difficult because guys

00:04:33.180 don't give you the whole experience of themselves they give you a perception or

00:04:36.600 they show you a little teaser they'll give you a percentage they show you what they want to

00:04:40.680 show you so then wait to sleep with them but then if I mean I don't sleep with

00:04:46.260 someone right away anyway but if I've gained a level of comfortability with you because

00:04:51.480 of what you've shown me and who you are as a person and then I sleep with you and

00:04:55.540 then after you change then you clearly would just doing that for the sex right but it's

00:05:00.760 probably because you didn't offer anything other than sex guys don't get bored with

00:05:04.800 women that offer things other than sex majority of them do get bored I don't even 1.00

00:05:10.080 care about sex bro don't lie they actually don't they actually don't mate it's all you

00:05:15.300 think about how much do you think about I have a question have you ever asked a guy what his

00:05:20.580 favorite meal is and learned to cook it from scratch and like did it on a consistent basis

00:05:25.300 like dropped it off maybe every other day when when my mom's sorry why would we do that because that's

00:05:32.940 bringing something to the table okay okay wait most men pay for dates would that be valuable to

00:05:40.660 you guys a girl that drops off like a home-cooked meal or like comes would that be valuable yes 0.94

00:05:45.580 it's not gonna stop them cheating stuff okay but it'd be something right okay okay thank you yeah

00:05:51.540 that's my only point right but I'm asking like nobody nobody's done that right I mean I mean I was

00:05:56.520 talking to a guy quite recently and every time he'd come around I would ask him well what do you want

00:06:01.040 and I kind of I knew what he liked so I'd I'd make it for him do you know I mean that's like

00:06:05.760 bring something to the table that's something we don't need to bring everything to the table

00:06:10.840 but like what does he like exactly but for him to for him to be talking to you he has to bring

00:06:17.180 something to the table because you you guys are all pretty girls you're not dealing with no guy 0.97

00:06:20.840 that's completely broke you're not dealing with no guy that's super ugly like in order for him to

00:06:26.540 even get in the door you have to bring something the difference is women don't have to bring 1.00

00:06:30.640 anything you just have to be be pretty to get in the door okay but what's the man bringing to the

00:06:38.120 table again okay do you want a guy that's smarter than you typically yes do you want a guy that's

00:06:44.340 taller than you no definitely I'm kind of like short guys okay so do you want a guy that's stronger

00:06:50.680 than you yeah do you want a guy that makes more money than you ideally you could pick oh come on

00:06:58.100 the same if the same yeah yeah yeah right so be so off the bat he has to bring something to the

00:07:06.400 table yeah to get in the door but you don't and that's the point like we get in the door and we

00:07:11.660 think we're bringing something to the table but we're not because we're just being pretty in

00:07:16.400 there is that though with them having money or whatever right but that's probably why like you

00:07:22.480 haven't been in successful relationships you know that might be the problem but I just think

00:07:27.000 everything should be equal in life why should I feel like I have to bring it's not equal it's not

00:07:31.500 but but okay it's not fair to the man that you can get in the door because you're pretty

00:07:35.860 yeah yeah do you know what I mean like life isn't fair I never look at it in that way

JustPearlyThings - July 11, 2023

Pearl Cooks Modern Woman With This Fact

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