JustPearlyThings - May 25, 2023


Pearl Could NOT BELIEVE What This O.F Model Said


Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

195.93098

Word count

1,711

Sentence count

3

Harmful content

Misogyny

4

sentences flagged

Toxicity

15

sentences flagged

Hate speech

7

sentences flagged


Summary

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In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the and discuss hooking up with someone you ve hooked up with in the past and what it means to date someone who s been with you before.

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Toxicity classifications generated with s-nlp/roberta_toxicity_classifier .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 i don't know
00:00:04.780 yeah i want you so badly but i'm so bad at saying no bro 1.00
00:00:09.900 ellie you made me say my shit you can say your shit 0.99
00:00:12.860 okay the last time i hooked up with a dude was like maybe like two days ago yeah 1.00
00:00:17.000 maybe two days ago yeah somewhere around 48 hours
00:00:20.220 yeah okay um yeah but like i said drop them all for nick
00:00:25.880 was it
00:00:26.240 maybe we all leave and let you
00:00:33.160 let's go
00:00:37.780 let's do it all right um okay uh but this guy you recently hooked up with
00:00:45.840 are you going to continue seeing him or is it a one-time thing i don't even want to
00:00:51.980 talk about it these girls i don't even want to talk about it they're just gonna 1.00
00:00:57.900 fucking i don't even want to talk about it i really can't wait is it just four of you in the house or is there 0.98
00:01:02.940 no there's eight of us there's eight of us yes is there nine now oh there's nine there's nine of us oh yeah 0.99
00:01:08.860 nine of us
00:01:09.860 how did you all meet eight nine all different kinds of ways do you each have your own 0.93
00:01:14.780 bedroom or do you share yes this is like a mansion or some shit yes in la where is it 0.57
00:01:20.700 sherman oaks yeah sherman why would we say that oops exposed that's why i just narrowed it down 0.88
00:01:27.620 way too much there's too many hot females in that house for us to say what sometimes i forget i'm 1.00
00:01:32.040 talking to a lot of people yeah how do you guys live with that many women not well hell for me 1.00
00:01:37.320 not well you should no honestly okay it's it's been better we've almost swung it's a merry-go-round
00:01:42.620 who's arguing with you yeah it's been better who argues the most with each other out of the four
00:01:47.640 you know yeah but we're like sisters yeah me we make up quicker than we argue you know what i mean
00:01:54.400 like we're we've been on a good streak though yeah this is four days this is the longest we've gone 0.95
00:02:00.220 without arguing about anything to be honest which is which is crazy the dumbest stuff actually the 0.99
00:02:06.180 stupidest like not even significant at all whatsoever the last time we really got into an argument was 0.99
00:02:11.120 about my baby daddy yeah yeah because it was my friend yeah did you hook up with him too no 1.00
00:02:17.180 but he did eat me out but that's as much as i let him go that's a hookup
00:02:24.340 i love how he's watching this he is watching right now does that not count as a hookup i mean it wasn't
00:02:31.520 like he could have gotten me pregnant too so i consider that a win i that was a one-time drunk
00:02:37.300 thing for them and then they started being very good friends after that so yeah and it was
00:02:41.140 completely platonic after that that happens sometimes wow okay how do you go you straight
00:02:47.440 you straight you strive for me to be so brutally honest i'll do it i'll put myself on blast i'm 0.95
00:02:52.140 not afraid of it i appreciate it like i own my own shit that's one thing did you have something no i 0.80
00:02:56.420 just can't imagine like going from that to being like platonic friends i think you can yeah no 0.93
00:03:02.500 100 when you don't when you don't have like that sexual connection with someone it just kind of it
00:03:09.380 honestly like ruled it out for both of us and it just made us more of just like okay you're the homie
00:03:14.640 i do not believe that men and women cannot be that's how i feel in that close proximity
00:03:18.100 i have a lot of men and women can be friends if you're not attracted to each other so do you think
00:03:22.320 i have a question do you think it's disrespectful if you are dating someone new and you have someone
00:03:29.080 around that you've hooked up with before yes i think it depends yeah i think it one depends on
00:03:36.660 the comfortability of you and in your relationship if it's something new then like if that's a boundary
00:03:44.060 for the other person then that's there's be something that's communicated and respected
00:03:47.820 both ways but if if you were if you were like you can't go out to a club and then get mad at your
00:03:55.740 girlfriend or your boyfriend or whatever situation you're in if there's somebody that they're that
00:04:00.900 they've hooked up with or been attached to in the past there because that's not i think she means like
00:04:06.580 choosing to keep someone in your life hanging out with them and stuff like that you've hooked up with
00:04:12.560 in the past even though you're in a committed relationship yeah i don't know i think that's
00:04:16.620 100 yeah i think it's just i think it's disrespectful to the partner if it's if that's like something
00:04:21.580 that's discussed between the two yeah that's i don't it really is so circumstantial that it's hard
00:04:26.180 to like say yes or no yeah that's that's each relationship i just kind of think of things from
00:04:32.260 like a guy's point of view so i'm thinking if i'm a guy and i'm like looking to date a girl like
00:04:35.940 why would i want to date a girl that has a bunch of dudes around that have like ate her out or
00:04:39.980 after well i don't isn't that isn't that kind of a red flag for no 110 if that's like something
00:04:46.260 like like i said i'm single for a fucking reason like and but sometimes like you know people stay 0.94
00:04:52.860 friends with their ex you know their ex sometimes they have like a ex like marriage i think that 0.90
00:04:57.820 that could be but yeah like you know sometimes a friendship remains like i mean i think it really
00:05:04.620 depends like on the nature of the relationship like is there really a friendship after though
00:05:08.420 i think or is it codependency or is it yeah what is it i think it really does depend on the
00:05:13.340 situation because one of my exes we are like not attracted to each other anymore at all on any
00:05:18.740 level whatsoever but i love this person so much as the person that he is and like we are just very
00:05:24.820 good friends like i've met his current girlfriend and like she's very aware of the situation and like
00:05:29.400 i respect their relationship 100 i feel like it's very different i don't believe men can turn that
00:05:33.220 off yeah but if you had a boyfriend who said the same thing about one of his friends would you feel
00:05:37.860 comfortable with him hanging out with her yeah okay okay maybe i think it does depend on the situation
00:05:42.240 because i've had it where men don't see that they i i don't think that that's i don't think that's a
00:05:46.520 thing for men i think it's on or off that's that's the only way they view it so they're just waiting
00:05:50.480 they're just waiting but it's just like that i think it's just like that with women too 1.00
00:05:54.680 like it's like an on and off switch i think for me personally if i'm in like a friendship with a guy
00:06:00.800 and i've hooked up with them before it like l said it rules it cancels out that kind of like
00:06:06.000 i feel like every guy and girl friendship has some kind of level of sexual tension yeah that's yeah i
00:06:11.560 agree with you that's so i think once that is like ruled out and it's like okay i am not yeah i do i do
00:06:18.420 have some guy anymore at all i think you can genuinely have a good friendship i'm not saying that
00:06:24.360 that's the only way to have a good friendship but i think that that is like you can still be
00:06:27.960 friends with somebody that you've slept with before interesting word okay let me get a couple
00:06:33.140 of the chats uh let's get caught up here akira thank you for the five gifted everyone who's watching
00:06:38.900 on twitch by the way um unfortunately we can't shout anybody out because our uh what's that can
00:06:43.780 somebody fix that peeping hello just unplug the monitor i guess just from the back
00:06:48.600 that should hopefully fix it all right guys scuffed as usual uh yeah shout out to everyone on twitch go
00:06:55.500 to twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a prime sub drop us a follow if you have one uh twitch.tv
00:07:00.640 slash whatever mods if you could spam in the chat yeah sorry guys it's a little hard to run the show
00:07:04.520 because our monitor's gone it's uh scuffed so okay we have a chat here from
00:07:10.220 to tolu alimi thank you all right this one's okay last show a few panelists when asked well i think it
00:07:20.980 was one panelist but when asked what advice they'd give to women who are physically abused in
00:07:25.780 relationships said the the partner should stay in the relationship and endure curious your takes
00:07:33.000 brian and pearl and the rest of the panel too okay yeah this is like went crazy viral on twitter and a
00:07:39.140 couple other places yeah first off the clip the short clip that mel posted uh i i don't know if
00:07:49.820 she edited it or if it was somebody else uh was like cut it was pretty heavily cut up um mld
00:07:59.100 was saying that you should endure i'm not even sure if he said like i think he was talking about in
00:08:06.380 general but like because she threw in well what should you do in divorce and then she threw in 1.00
00:08:11.340 this other stuff about abuse i mean point blank period mike my take is if you're being abused whether
00:08:17.360 emotionally physically whatever it may be but your question is physically abused like get out like
00:08:22.720 end the relationship get divorced like don't stay um as many of you know i was just banned on tiktok
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