JustPearlyThings - June 10, 2023


Pearl DEBATES Alpha Female On Single Mothers


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

186.79884

Word Count

1,765

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

29

Hate Speech Sentences

9


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 i've just i've just never i've never met a girl that calls herself an alpha female
00:00:05.360 yeah i really believe is submissive in a relationship yeah yeah i think that people
00:00:09.360 take the word alpha do you think women can actually be alpha females oh to me no no no
00:00:15.920 let's get into it please because i need to understand i'll let you yeah he wanted to
00:00:20.240 me an alpha woman can be a very strong woman who's just got her together tell him again and
00:00:26.160 she knows how to take care of her man she does her thing she she gets on with life and yeah she's a
00:00:33.120 strong woman she can do a bit of diy she can do everything do you know i i've got four sisters
00:00:39.360 and let me tell you all my four sisters can do more than me so can i including diy everything
00:00:45.120 they can do everything because they we i grew up in a big family where my sisters had to basically
00:00:51.280 defend themselves and and they grew up in the 90s in in white chapel bethnal green so it was a time
00:00:56.800 where you had to be strong you had to stand up for yourself you would say they're more modern than
00:01:01.920 traditional yes but like what has better outcomes if the modern alpha females had good outcomes why
00:01:08.560 are men getting their passports and leaving because more time one minute more time if you
00:01:22.720 ask most of these men they were brought up by a single mom wait hold on so would they say that their mom
00:01:29.600 was not an alpha i just that's just what i'd like to throw out because i'm sure if they were raised by
00:01:35.840 a woman who had to hold it down for their whole family and look after them and bring them all up
00:01:40.880 it sounds to me like she sounds like she's a bit of an alpha but so he was raised by a woman that
00:01:44.960 doesn't know how to how to have a functional relationship who said she doesn't know how
00:01:48.320 to because she couldn't he could have kept it moving if she's a single mother she doesn't know how
00:01:52.080 to have a functional relationship how did she know she could have done it because those are the results
00:01:56.480 no wait wait wait wait wait you failed the test but oh my god wait wait wait wait wait so wait no
00:02:04.560 wait wait wait wait so yeah so she doesn't know how to function how to have a functional relationship
00:02:08.720 because the the father of the child decided he he was like no he decided i don't want to be a dad
00:02:15.680 and he walked out on the child so she doesn't she doesn't know how to have fun yeah because women
00:02:19.200 leave 70 to 80 percent of the time 90 of their college i'm just i'm just saying so she doesn't
00:02:24.880 know so you're just saying because she doesn't she doesn't she she either picked someone like i mean
00:02:29.680 come on why would you have a kid with someone that isn't going to stick around well
00:02:33.360 there are some men who will get a few baby mamas and they visit one from another and they kind
00:02:49.760 of set up their lives yeah so there are men who do that and because the women are getting financed
00:02:57.280 or they're getting support they're fine with it because they're living their life yeah but this is
00:03:00.800 exception like you guys keep talking about exceptions i'm talking about the rule the
00:03:04.080 majority of men don't have multiple baby mothers yes one out of three men are either virgins or
00:03:08.160 haven't had sex in the past so we're talking about the rule not the exception and i think a lot of
00:03:12.320 girls will continue to talk to these men even though they know they have multiple babies
00:03:16.720 oh yeah so we go back to your question your question which is can't do single mothers know how
00:03:31.840 to have a functional relationship no no i didn't say that you know you you asked if that's what i was
00:03:36.160 saying yeah and i'm saying i stand out that no in general no are there exceptions not many no no
00:03:41.760 yeah but i'll be you know what though i'll be real though i'll be real you see me like it depends it
00:03:50.160 depends on your environment yep your background the community you've been raised on yeah to what
00:03:56.720 you will see and what you will visualize yes so we might see something different to what you see
00:04:02.240 and sign us to what you see but i'll be real i don't know if it's a small majority it's like what
00:04:08.240 because i know a lot of people are single moms okay if they're single mothers okay it's like
00:04:18.320 if you're okay if i'm applying for a job all right and i say that job i failed that job i failed that
00:04:24.720 job i also failed how can i say i did the job well when you ask the child and what i think that we're
00:04:31.120 overlooking as well is no by no means does any woman and can any woman predict the outcome of their
00:04:37.120 relationship right or if the man's going to stick around or if i have a cute with this guy is he
00:04:40.640 going to stay with me he's going to marry me but what women do do is we overlook red flags we overlook
00:04:46.080 everything and again it's not everybody but a lot of women don't listen a lot of men don't listen
00:04:54.400 but if we're just talking about this for a moment women make choices that they know are not the right
00:04:59.840 choices but then when they know that it's not the right man and then they think they could change
00:05:04.240 it worries me when he leaves like but you and women also leave for stupid and women also leave for
00:05:11.520 stupid reasons like women okay okay reason number one reason number one okay when you take your marriage
00:05:21.200 vows it's supposed to be for better or for worse for sicknesses and health not if i don't feel happy
00:05:26.960 today i i we fell out of love and i lost myself what happened to for better or for worse what
00:05:33.440 happened to in sickness and health women leave for stupid reasons one of the number one number no wait
00:05:40.960 one of the number one indicators of divorce is if a woman will start out earning her man
00:05:45.280 and she puts a financial gain above her kids that's a stupid reason yeah thank you what kind of women
00:05:51.680 it is but can we talk about before marriage how many people are married 50 50 of marriages end in
00:05:58.720 divorce so half half well i'm not too has anyone been married have you been married have you been
00:06:04.240 married no have you have you been married he's he's you're married okay oh yeah i'm too young right so
00:06:12.400 what i'm saying is too young obviously when we're talking on if we're talking now on the spectrum of 25 to
00:06:18.960 40 yeah range range then obviously like we can talk about the things of the woman has to do what
00:06:26.640 she does and the man that's please just re-up on what you said because my adhd is going about wild
00:06:31.680 what which part which part you had oh i said women divorce for stupid reasons right so free reason why
00:06:37.120 do why do women okay i can i can name some more if you want i'm invested in this now when women are dating in
00:06:45.760 their 20s and 30s right i could speak obviously for 20s um you know the thing is you give people
00:06:54.000 chances you give people chances because you're like no guys guys guys guys guys i'm not trying to find
00:07:00.880 a perfect man who does nothing wrong no because i do okay well i feel like i feel like
00:07:06.720 guys wait wait wait wait what's wrong i want to dissect wait wait i want to i wasn't i wasn't finished
00:07:12.800 sorry sorry i wasn't finished all right i'll get on that side yeah so women don't want to leave but then
00:07:18.880 now you're saying why do women leave right and their woman their reasons are stupid for leaving
00:07:24.320 have you heard about this thing called intuition now potentially it could just be crazy sorry
00:07:31.120 it could be crazy but at the end of the day like we know that women have more connection to certain
00:07:38.320 things if they haven't been on contraception for years and they haven't been eating all the garbage
00:07:43.440 that they've been eating and drinking all the gin and doing all of those things it desensitizes the
00:07:47.760 human connecting to the earth so i'm just saying intuition's a real thing okay yeah but you know
00:07:53.680 what i mean yeah that's like women feel different intuition every other week based on where we are
00:07:58.400 in our cycle one week it's like yeah yeah if you know your cycle wait wait wait wait so it's like i'll
00:08:04.160 talk to a girl one week and she hates her boyfriend and then the next week she's in love with her boyfriend
00:08:08.800 yeah i'm sick i actually feel sorry for their boyfriend because i'm like he probably doesn't
00:08:14.640 know whether he's coming or going yeah because i'm like these because these times i'm like this one
00:08:18.720 minute in the space of 10 seconds i love him so much but he's done this i'm like this darling
00:08:22.720 i'm already tired i don't know about your boyfriend but i'm tired i'm out and then we'll guys
00:08:29.120 the guys are under intuition it's like that's not
00:08:32.080 guys i read something so interesting the other day so basically you know when women
00:08:40.640 have these contraceptive things on their arms apparently it changes your hormones so imagine
00:08:46.320 if you meet someone and it's been found recently basically if you're on these pills contraceptive
00:08:52.560 pills and you meet someone and then you get married and all of a sudden you go off of them
00:08:56.960 and then apparently the hormones change so you're not attracted to your partner so that is a lot
00:09:03.280 of the things that's happening around the world now yeah i'm messing people's lives up they are
00:09:09.040 ruining girls and men they've been doing thousands of pounds on marriage it's crazy they've been doing
00:09:14.000 that for years and and whose fault is that who took it women thank you guys guys guys stop raising