Pearl DEBATES Alpha Female On Single Mothers
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about alpha females and why single mothers are not alpha females. We also talk about why single motherhood is a problem in the modern era and why many single mothers choose to have multiple baby mamas even though they know they have multiple babies.
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i've just i've just never i've never met a girl that calls herself an alpha female
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yeah i really believe is submissive in a relationship yeah yeah i think that people
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take the word alpha do you think women can actually be alpha females oh to me no no no
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let's get into it please because i need to understand i'll let you yeah he wanted to
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me an alpha woman can be a very strong woman who's just got her together tell him again and
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she knows how to take care of her man she does her thing she she gets on with life and yeah she's a
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strong woman she can do a bit of diy she can do everything do you know i i've got four sisters
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and let me tell you all my four sisters can do more than me so can i including diy everything
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they can do everything because they we i grew up in a big family where my sisters had to basically
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defend themselves and and they grew up in the 90s in in white chapel bethnal green so it was a time
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where you had to be strong you had to stand up for yourself you would say they're more modern than
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traditional yes but like what has better outcomes if the modern alpha females had good outcomes why
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are men getting their passports and leaving because more time one minute more time if you
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ask most of these men they were brought up by a single mom wait hold on so would they say that their mom
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was not an alpha i just that's just what i'd like to throw out because i'm sure if they were raised by
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a woman who had to hold it down for their whole family and look after them and bring them all up
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it sounds to me like she sounds like she's a bit of an alpha but so he was raised by a woman that
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doesn't know how to how to have a functional relationship who said she doesn't know how
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to because she couldn't he could have kept it moving if she's a single mother she doesn't know how
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to have a functional relationship how did she know she could have done it because those are the results
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no wait wait wait wait wait you failed the test but oh my god wait wait wait wait wait so wait no
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wait wait wait wait so yeah so she doesn't know how to function how to have a functional relationship
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because the the father of the child decided he he was like no he decided i don't want to be a dad
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and he walked out on the child so she doesn't she doesn't know how to have fun yeah because women
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leave 70 to 80 percent of the time 90 of their college i'm just i'm just saying so she doesn't
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know so you're just saying because she doesn't she doesn't she she either picked someone like i mean
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come on why would you have a kid with someone that isn't going to stick around well
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there are some men who will get a few baby mamas and they visit one from another and they kind
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of set up their lives yeah so there are men who do that and because the women are getting financed
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or they're getting support they're fine with it because they're living their life yeah but this is
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exception like you guys keep talking about exceptions i'm talking about the rule the
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majority of men don't have multiple baby mothers yes one out of three men are either virgins or
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haven't had sex in the past so we're talking about the rule not the exception and i think a lot of
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girls will continue to talk to these men even though they know they have multiple babies
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oh yeah so we go back to your question your question which is can't do single mothers know how
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to have a functional relationship no no i didn't say that you know you you asked if that's what i was
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saying yeah and i'm saying i stand out that no in general no are there exceptions not many no no
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yeah but i'll be you know what though i'll be real though i'll be real you see me like it depends it
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depends on your environment yep your background the community you've been raised on yeah to what
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you will see and what you will visualize yes so we might see something different to what you see
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and sign us to what you see but i'll be real i don't know if it's a small majority it's like what
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because i know a lot of people are single moms okay if they're single mothers okay it's like
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if you're okay if i'm applying for a job all right and i say that job i failed that job i failed that
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job i also failed how can i say i did the job well when you ask the child and what i think that we're
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overlooking as well is no by no means does any woman and can any woman predict the outcome of their
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relationship right or if the man's going to stick around or if i have a cute with this guy is he
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going to stay with me he's going to marry me but what women do do is we overlook red flags we overlook
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everything and again it's not everybody but a lot of women don't listen a lot of men don't listen
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but if we're just talking about this for a moment women make choices that they know are not the right
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choices but then when they know that it's not the right man and then they think they could change
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it worries me when he leaves like but you and women also leave for stupid and women also leave for
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stupid reasons like women okay okay reason number one reason number one okay when you take your marriage
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vows it's supposed to be for better or for worse for sicknesses and health not if i don't feel happy
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today i i we fell out of love and i lost myself what happened to for better or for worse what
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happened to in sickness and health women leave for stupid reasons one of the number one number no wait
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one of the number one indicators of divorce is if a woman will start out earning her man
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and she puts a financial gain above her kids that's a stupid reason yeah thank you what kind of women
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it is but can we talk about before marriage how many people are married 50 50 of marriages end in
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divorce so half half well i'm not too has anyone been married have you been married have you been
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married no have you have you been married he's he's you're married okay oh yeah i'm too young right so
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what i'm saying is too young obviously when we're talking on if we're talking now on the spectrum of 25 to
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40 yeah range range then obviously like we can talk about the things of the woman has to do what
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she does and the man that's please just re-up on what you said because my adhd is going about wild
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what which part which part you had oh i said women divorce for stupid reasons right so free reason why
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do why do women okay i can i can name some more if you want i'm invested in this now when women are dating in
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their 20s and 30s right i could speak obviously for 20s um you know the thing is you give people
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chances you give people chances because you're like no guys guys guys guys guys i'm not trying to find
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a perfect man who does nothing wrong no because i do okay well i feel like i feel like
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guys wait wait wait wait what's wrong i want to dissect wait wait i want to i wasn't i wasn't finished
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sorry sorry i wasn't finished all right i'll get on that side yeah so women don't want to leave but then
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now you're saying why do women leave right and their woman their reasons are stupid for leaving
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have you heard about this thing called intuition now potentially it could just be crazy sorry
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it could be crazy but at the end of the day like we know that women have more connection to certain
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things if they haven't been on contraception for years and they haven't been eating all the garbage
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that they've been eating and drinking all the gin and doing all of those things it desensitizes the
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human connecting to the earth so i'm just saying intuition's a real thing okay yeah but you know
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what i mean yeah that's like women feel different intuition every other week based on where we are
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in our cycle one week it's like yeah yeah if you know your cycle wait wait wait wait so it's like i'll
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talk to a girl one week and she hates her boyfriend and then the next week she's in love with her boyfriend
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yeah i'm sick i actually feel sorry for their boyfriend because i'm like he probably doesn't
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know whether he's coming or going yeah because i'm like these because these times i'm like this one
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minute in the space of 10 seconds i love him so much but he's done this i'm like this darling
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i'm already tired i don't know about your boyfriend but i'm tired i'm out and then we'll guys
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the guys are under intuition it's like that's not
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guys i read something so interesting the other day so basically you know when women
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have these contraceptive things on their arms apparently it changes your hormones so imagine
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if you meet someone and it's been found recently basically if you're on these pills contraceptive
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pills and you meet someone and then you get married and all of a sudden you go off of them
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and then apparently the hormones change so you're not attracted to your partner so that is a lot
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of the things that's happening around the world now yeah i'm messing people's lives up they are
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ruining girls and men they've been doing thousands of pounds on marriage it's crazy they've been doing
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that for years and and whose fault is that who took it women thank you guys guys guys stop raising