JustPearlyThings - May 20, 2023


Pearl DEBATES Modern Woman On Equality


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7 minutes

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213.98953

Word count

1,703

Sentence count

211

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Misogyny

7

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4

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In this episode, we talk about the Chris Brown and Rihanna case, and how we should have a court of public opinion when it comes to the Rihanna and Andrew Tate case. We also talk about if self-defense is ever justified in the case of domestic violence.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Do you guys leave a poor man for a rich man?
00:00:02.500 No.
00:00:03.500 No.
00:00:04.500 But they need to have, like, work...
00:00:07.500 Ethic.
00:00:08.500 Ethic.
00:00:09.500 Ethic.
00:00:10.500 They're just, like, a bum.
00:00:11.500 No, no, no.
00:00:12.500 This isn't...
00:00:13.500 But if they didn't have the money at the moment,
00:00:14.500 that doesn't matter.
00:00:15.500 As long as we get on, that's fine.
00:00:16.500 But this isn't build-a-bum, right?
00:00:17.500 So, like, he's poor now.
00:00:19.000 He's not making money in the future.
00:00:20.500 You're leaving the poor man for the rich man.
00:00:22.500 It's not he's going to get money.
00:00:24.500 He's not going to get money.
00:00:25.500 I would say it matters only for their personality.
00:00:28.500 Yeah.
00:00:29.500 I don't want to be with someone just because I've got money.
00:00:31.500 I'm not someone that gets along with anything.
00:00:33.500 Nah, at all.
00:00:34.500 The last guy I dated was pure looks, yeah?
00:00:36.500 And I found that out instantly.
00:00:37.500 And his looks was everything.
00:00:39.000 But his personality was the deadest thing on the planet.
00:00:41.000 And he had money, but I was like, no, you are dead.
00:00:43.000 Yeah, I can get you nice things, but on a one-on-one situation.
00:00:46.000 No.
00:00:47.000 Would you leave a poor man for a rich man?
00:00:49.500 All day.
00:00:50.500 Every day.
00:00:51.500 Yeah.
00:00:52.500 Yeah.
00:00:53.500 Would you leave a poor man for a rich man?
00:00:55.500 I don't know, because my ex...
00:00:56.500 All things being equal.
00:00:57.500 That's all right.
00:00:58.500 My ex is kind of...
00:00:59.500 No, okay.
00:01:00.500 Maybe my ex isn't poor.
00:01:01.500 Same.
00:01:02.500 No, but it's not about...
00:01:03.500 Money just doesn't like...
00:01:05.500 It's not their be-all and end-all.
00:01:06.500 If they earn more money, cool.
00:01:07.500 If they didn't...
00:01:08.500 It is what it is.
00:01:09.500 I'm not that fast.
00:01:11.500 Have you ever heard of Andrew Tate?
00:01:13.500 Yes, I have, yeah.
00:01:14.500 Are you a fan or no?
00:01:15.500 I don't really care for him like that.
00:01:17.500 I'm not...
00:01:18.500 I don't care if he's...
00:01:19.500 Yeah, I don't care.
00:01:20.500 Yeah, no, not a fan.
00:01:21.500 He...
00:01:22.500 After I heard what he's done, if it's true, he's wrong.
00:01:25.500 Do you think if a woman... 1.00
00:01:26.500 If it's true what he's done...
00:01:28.500 Do you think it's true?
00:01:29.500 This is the thing, we will never know.
00:01:30.500 We will never know.
00:01:31.500 The truth is, you know, there's always three sides of a story.
00:01:33.500 His side, her side, and the truth.
00:01:35.500 We will never know.
00:01:36.500 If it is true, fuck that guy.
00:01:38.500 Do you think that there should be a court of public opinion?
00:01:43.500 Like where we're deciding if it's true or false before the court case has happened?
00:01:47.500 That's interesting, you know?
00:01:48.500 Yeah.
00:01:49.500 I've never heard that.
00:01:50.500 But if the public could choose, I think that would be really important because however many people they choose to be in a court, it's like such a minority.
00:01:58.500 You don't think like media could misconstrue something?
00:02:01.500 Like similar to Chris Brown and Rihanna, they didn't talk about that she hit him too, right?
00:02:05.500 But do you not think that he banged...
00:02:07.500 Like do you not think that he like smashed her face in?
00:02:10.500 But she was hidden.
00:02:11.500 She was... 0.97
00:02:12.500 So I don't...
00:02:13.500 I don't...
00:02:14.500 I can agree that she was maybe aggravating him.
00:02:17.500 I love Rihanna.
00:02:18.500 Don't get me wrong.
00:02:19.500 I love her.
00:02:20.500 But as women, we can be a bit difficult sometimes.
00:02:24.500 You don't think like...
00:02:26.500 There's never an excuse to hit somebody.
00:02:28.500 Like he was never in the...
00:02:30.500 Like he was never, ever, ever justified to hit her.
00:02:34.500 Did you see how she looked?
00:02:36.500 Do you believe in self-defense?
00:02:38.500 Of course.
00:02:39.500 So like...
00:02:40.500 But a man...
00:02:41.500 Okay.
00:02:42.500 A man against a woman. 0.90
00:02:43.500 How did that work?
00:02:44.500 I mean, I think if I hit a guy, I should expect to get hit back.
00:02:47.500 Yeah, but...
00:02:48.500 Yeah, but come on now.
00:02:49.500 Like if you...
00:02:50.500 If you push...
00:02:51.500 If you push your boyfriend...
00:02:52.500 Yeah.
00:02:53.500 And he...
00:02:54.500 Is that right?
00:02:55.500 If I push him...
00:02:56.500 If I push him, I should expect to get pushed back.
00:02:58.500 Okay, not punch back.
00:02:59.500 See?
00:03:00.500 It's difficult.
00:03:01.500 It's difficult.
00:03:02.500 You can't say...
00:03:03.500 See, because when I...
00:03:04.500 Because the way you're doing it, I'm thinking it's friendly.
00:03:06.500 Right?
00:03:07.500 Yeah, but friendly leads...
00:03:09.500 Friendly leads to something different.
00:03:11.500 See, but I'm thinking like if you really try to attack a man, like I would expect to get attacked back.
00:03:17.500 Do you really think Rihanna stood there and was like, do you know what?
00:03:20.500 I'm gonna attack Chris Brown.
00:03:21.500 I'm gonna attack Chris Brown.
00:03:22.500 You know there's...
00:03:23.500 Do you know the age difference between them?
00:03:25.500 Like what?
00:03:26.500 Five years?
00:03:27.500 Seven.
00:03:28.500 But she's a bigger woman to him.
00:03:29.500 So maybe he felt...
00:03:30.500 I don't know.
00:03:31.500 I love Chris Brown.
00:03:32.500 I'm here.
00:03:33.500 Like, listen, nobody cancel me.
00:03:34.500 But seriously, it's difficult.
00:03:36.500 You don't know the ins and outs of the situation.
00:03:38.500 It's difficult to judge.
00:03:39.500 It's very difficult to judge.
00:03:41.500 You don't know the ins and outs.
00:03:42.500 But nothing ever justifies her putting her hand on him and him putting his hand on her.
00:03:48.500 Nothing ever justifies that.
00:03:49.500 Ever.
00:03:50.500 See, I would disagree.
00:03:51.500 I would say like if I punch someone, I should expect to get punched back.
00:03:54.500 Oh yeah?
00:03:55.500 Well, to be fair, that's fair enough.
00:03:59.500 Because if I hit somebody, fair enough, they might want to hit me back.
00:04:02.500 But it's about the circumstance.
00:04:04.500 The circumstance always comes into play.
00:04:06.500 All of that stuff always comes into play.
00:04:08.500 So do you think if it's two women, right, and one woman's stronger than... 0.97
00:04:12.500 So me, I'm very strong.
00:04:13.500 I'm like an athlete.
00:04:14.500 Okay.
00:04:15.500 So I'm very strong.
00:04:16.500 Okay.
00:04:17.500 So if some girl hits me, should I not hit back because I'm stronger?
00:04:21.500 Yeah, see?
00:04:22.500 You know what, yeah?
00:04:24.500 You know what, yeah?
00:04:25.500 If you're stronger, that's just your battle.
00:04:27.500 But it's different when it's different genders. 0.99
00:04:29.500 Come on, honestly.
00:04:30.500 As a man, as a man, why are you throwing your hand at a female?
00:04:34.500 Like, come on, man.
00:04:35.500 That's not right.
00:04:36.500 Do you believe in equality?
00:04:37.500 Yes.
00:04:38.500 But in this...
00:04:39.500 Yeah, you're gonna tell me I don't, but yes, I do.
00:04:41.500 When it comes to...
00:04:43.500 Guys, I don't know.
00:04:44.500 A man should never put his hand on a woman. 0.98
00:04:47.500 And okay, fair enough.
00:04:48.500 A woman should also not put her... 1.00
00:04:50.500 So in most domestic abuse situations, it's two-sided.
00:04:53.500 Meaning they're both hitting each other.
00:04:55.500 Of course.
00:04:56.500 But in one-sided domestic abuse, where one person's hitting the other and they're not hitting
00:05:00.500 back, it's actually more likely that it's the woman hitting the man.
00:05:03.500 Isn't that crazy?
00:05:04.500 I was surprised when I heard that too.
00:05:06.500 Kinda crazy, yeah.
00:05:07.500 But I mean...
00:05:08.500 It makes sense though, because there's...
00:05:09.500 My point is, violence is not the answer.
00:05:11.500 Stop hitting your partners.
00:05:12.500 I agree with you.
00:05:13.500 I agree.
00:05:14.500 Just if you love each other, love each other.
00:05:16.500 Don't hit each other.
00:05:17.500 Because if you hit each other, just leave each other alone.
00:05:19.500 Do you know who Andrew Tate is?
00:05:20.500 Yeah.
00:05:21.500 Love him.
00:05:22.500 What do you think about his arrest?
00:05:23.500 Bullshit.
00:05:24.500 I think they set him up.
00:05:25.500 Do you guys know who Andrew Tate is?
00:05:27.500 Yes!
00:05:28.500 And I hate him.
00:05:29.500 Okay, who...
00:05:30.500 Alright, raise your hand if you like Andrew Tate.
00:05:32.500 You like him?
00:05:33.500 I think some points he makes his valid, but I feel like from what's portrayed him in
00:05:37.500 social media, he's a bit of a dick.
00:05:38.500 I think he's a very good businessman.
00:05:40.500 He knows what to do to get people's attention and to draw people in, and then that's how
00:05:44.500 he promotes himself.
00:05:45.500 And I think fair play.
00:05:46.500 He's his person.
00:05:47.500 I think fair play.
00:05:48.500 I don't even know who he is.
00:05:49.500 Do you think Andrew Tate is guilty?
00:05:50.500 Yes.
00:05:51.500 No.
00:05:52.500 I'd like to think so, but I don't think so.
00:05:55.500 You'd like to think so?
00:05:56.500 No, just because of how much he's in the media face.
00:05:59.500 Okay, maybe I get that.
00:06:00.500 I get that.
00:06:01.500 I don't think he's bad.
00:06:02.500 I don't think he's bad.
00:06:03.500 Why do you think as a society we're so quick to put a guy in jail off of an accusation,
00:06:10.500 or deem him guilty in the court of public opinion?
00:06:13.500 Off of an accusation before there's a trial.
00:06:15.500 I feel like people just push the bad things that he says, but they disregard everything
00:06:20.500 else that he's saying, but the media just focuses on the snippets of the things that
00:06:25.500 he says that they know will be controversial and will bring attention to him in a bad way.
00:06:33.500 Oh, do you know who Andrew Tate is?
00:06:34.500 I do.
00:06:35.500 I do.
00:06:36.500 Are you a fan?
00:06:37.500 I am.
00:06:38.500 Why do you think he was arrested?
00:06:39.500 I think when people are doing good in this world or are successful and the world can't
00:06:44.500 work out why, I'm not saying that everything he does is right, but they want to shut him
00:06:49.500 down because they don't know what he's up to.
00:06:51.500 They don't know how he makes so much money.
00:06:52.500 Why?
00:06:53.500 They don't know how he does the things he does.
00:06:55.500 Do you think that the women are victims if they freely chose to do cam work?
00:07:00.500 No.
00:07:01.500 Do you guys know who Andrew Tate is, fans?
00:07:03.500 Oh, no.
00:07:04.500 The name is just making me itch already.
00:07:07.500 Do you think he's guilty?
00:07:08.500 I'm not sure there's any evidence, so I don't want to say the way because I feel like I
00:07:11.500 will be biased because I don't like him.
00:07:13.500 So I don't want to say yes just because I don't like him.
00:07:14.500 That's a really fair answer.
00:07:15.500 Yeah.
00:07:16.500 That's a very fair answer.
00:07:17.500 Yeah, I agree.
00:07:18.500 Most people should wait until the facts come out.
00:07:20.500 But a lot of times in the court of public opinion, even with Chris Brown and Rihanna,
00:07:23.500 it's like you never really know what happened.
00:07:25.500 Yeah.
00:07:26.500 Later on, they released some evidence to kind of show that it was quite both parties' fault.
00:07:31.500 Whereas when it first came out, it was very much Chris Brown, Chris Brown, you know,
00:07:34.500 he's awful.
00:07:35.500 Who do you think's believed more as victims, men or women?
00:07:38.500 Oh, women. 1.00
00:07:39.500 100%.
00:07:40.500 Yeah, I agree.
00:07:41.500 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis
00:07:47.500 on this platform.
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