JustPearlyThings - October 10, 2023


Pearl Debunks Feminism


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What does the average woman bring to the table and what would you look for in a woman? We discuss this and much more in this episode of The Average Women's Perspective. We also talk about what a woman should bring to a relationship and what a man should bring.

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00:00:00.000 What does the average woman bring, and what would your ideal relationship have? 1.00
00:00:04.460 Okay, the average woman brings just like, I would say, not even count beauty, just like herself. 0.90
00:00:11.980 No, I think the average woman needs to bring culture, standard, moral off of upbringing if she had that opportunity to have it. 0.58
00:00:21.460 Culture, standard, moral, education, recognition, presentation.
00:00:26.880 But then again, that's just as an individual.
00:00:30.000 Now, when you talk about marriage, sheesh, we're making a commitment with someone that as much as we got to know, you never know.
00:00:43.140 So you're expecting and you're coming to an agreement? Sure.
00:00:45.620 So for that saying, I mean, a wife should hold down her ground, know that if someone writes to her in a DM, say, no, I'm happily married, or don't even respond. 0.98
00:00:56.820 Or, shit, come and grab, a bunch of things. 0.91
00:01:01.560 You know what, I'm just trying to think what she can bring, and I can really not think of something important. 0.99
00:01:09.280 And to answer to your question, what I would prefer, if, let's say, I wanted to make a family,
00:01:14.260 and I wanted to have kids, I would definitely look for a woman that she can be caring to my kids, she can, like, protect them with me. 1.00
00:01:23.880 I'm going to be the one who takes care of everything outside of the household, but inside I want to know that she will be there,
00:01:29.520 she will teach them, she will care for them, she will nurture them, you understand?
00:01:33.560 She will make them, like, she will grow them, let's say. 1.00
00:01:37.280 So you want a woman that creates a safe home, like, for a nest? 1.00
00:01:41.440 If I wanted, yeah, if I wanted a family, that's what I would look for.
00:01:46.160 Right now, I'm literally not looking for nothing.
00:01:49.320 Just, like, focus on myself, on my financial dependency, on my business, nothing else cares.
00:01:56.340 I don't care about nothing else.
00:01:57.740 But let's say ideally, maybe in the future.
00:02:00.640 Okay.
00:02:00.880 I'm going to read Super Chats, and then we're going to close out the show.
00:02:04.680 This is a fun chat.
00:02:06.360 Won't you ask me?
00:02:08.080 Okay.
00:02:09.080 King, what does the average woman bring to the table, and what would your ideal woman bring to the table? 1.00
00:02:16.000 I'll say the average woman brings problems. 1.00
00:02:21.660 Because the reality is, the average woman is not, like, the woman that every man desires, right?
00:02:29.880 She's just, like, average.
00:02:31.420 Yeah, average.
00:02:32.660 So usually, most women bring problems. 1.00
00:02:35.340 But at least with the really hot ones, you have something to look at and be, like, okay, yeah, it's worth it.
00:02:40.800 But then the problem is the average woman brings the same problem. 1.00
00:02:43.780 So it's, like, okay, what does she really bring?
00:02:45.360 But ideally, what a woman should bring to a relationship is respect, ability to follow, and admiration, and also morals. 0.53
00:02:58.160 And if I may take, like, 10 seconds.
00:03:03.300 On the opposite side, the average man just provides, and that's, like, already enough. 0.52
00:03:09.240 I think the average man doesn't provide.
00:03:11.380 Average means average.
00:03:12.820 No, no.
00:03:13.020 The average man doesn't provide the lifestyle that we want, but the average man still makes enough for a one-bedroom apartment in London.
00:03:23.980 And the women just don't want to tough it out. 1.00
00:03:26.340 For a basic, basic, basic family life, he will provide all the time.
00:03:31.300 45% – think about it.
00:03:33.280 45% of men have jobs that run the infrastructure.
00:03:37.760 So those are needed jobs.
00:03:38.800 And they are the provider in their families.
00:03:40.840 Yeah.
00:03:41.300 The main provider.
00:03:42.160 That means a lot.
00:03:43.700 But I think, just one thing, I think what he said about, what King said about respect and morals, that works both ways.
00:03:50.420 We should all have that.
00:03:51.200 And if you have that, it's a great foundation for a good relationship.
00:03:54.060 That's it.
00:03:56.360 No.
00:04:00.440 I feel like, I feel like…
00:04:01.900 You see, again, you're changing a bit the question.
00:04:04.840 The question was about, only about the average woman. 0.99
00:04:07.860 I actually think men are the ones that bring morals to society, not women. 1.00
00:04:15.260 Actually, yeah.
00:04:15.900 Do you know what's crazy? 1.00
00:04:17.580 Feminism fought for us to do whatever we wanted, and the majority have just become whores. 1.00
00:04:23.760 Agreed. 1.00
00:04:24.360 Agreed.
00:04:25.140 No, I'm serious.
00:04:26.440 Yeah, she's right.
00:04:27.220 Like, a hundred years ago, 85% of women were virgins on their wedding day.
00:04:32.760 85%.
00:04:34.280 A hundred years ago.
00:04:35.300 Now, go in high school, and you're not going to find too many.
00:04:38.040 Yeah, yeah.
00:04:38.360 What percent of women are virgins on their wedding day today? 1.00
00:04:41.200 Zero.
00:04:41.560 I think also that…
00:04:42.960 Hey, hey, it's not zero.
00:04:46.240 It's 4%.
00:04:47.300 Put some respect on our name.
00:04:49.800 Is that global?
00:04:50.940 That works both ways.
00:04:52.060 Back in the day, men didn't sleep with, like, however many hundreds.
00:04:55.240 Who values purity?
00:04:56.900 Men or women? 0.78
00:04:57.880 I think everyone should do a little bit.
00:04:59.260 No, no, no.
00:04:59.760 Who values purity, not should?
00:05:02.220 Women. 0.81
00:05:02.700 Men.
00:05:03.160 Men.
00:05:03.820 Men.
00:05:04.180 Do you think women value purity? 1.00
00:05:05.920 Men, for sure.
00:05:06.960 Do you think women disqualify men for their lack of purity?
00:05:11.500 No.
00:05:11.820 No.
00:05:12.100 They like it.
00:05:13.100 Do you think men will disqualify women for their lack of purity?
00:05:16.200 No.
00:05:16.580 Depends on who you're talking to.
00:05:18.940 Do you think men will disqualify women for their lack of purity?
00:05:22.580 Yes or no?
00:05:23.920 Yes.
00:05:24.680 Some.
00:05:25.000 I think yes.
00:05:25.680 Yes, yes, yes.
00:05:27.180 Yes or no?
00:05:28.240 We live in London.
00:05:29.220 Yes or no?
00:05:30.080 It's no.
00:05:31.200 Some no.
00:05:31.720 I think yes.
00:05:32.380 No, no, no.
00:05:32.860 And also a lot of women nowadays, they confuse, like, freedom or so-called freedom with, 0.99
00:05:38.200 they lose self-respect.
00:05:39.780 Well, well, so that's terrible.
00:05:41.960 Well, it's interesting because, like, women, it's like they almost paint us as, like, morally 1.00
00:05:46.660 superior to men, but it's like, literally, the more freedom we've had, the more selfish
00:05:50.720 we've become.
00:05:51.940 Isn't that crazy?
00:05:52.680 It's easy to slide down on the road.
00:05:54.460 Like, where men, when they had the most power, they gave it to us.
00:05:57.640 Because, like, society couldn't run without men. 0.98
00:06:01.360 They're in charge of the police.
00:06:02.400 They're in charge of everything that, like, makes society run.
00:06:04.860 And when they had the most power, they gave it to us.
00:06:06.940 When we had the most power, we win for ourselves.
00:06:08.660 We are selfish.
00:06:11.480 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:06:12.200 No, seriously.
00:06:12.920 We are.
00:06:13.460 We are.
00:06:14.440 It's...
00:06:15.120 I know.
00:06:15.920 Sorry, girls, because you here, I don't, that you don't agree with that, but we are.
00:06:19.880 Yeah.
00:06:20.320 We are selfish.
00:06:21.400 There's a lot of good women that do good jobs, too. 1.00
00:06:23.740 Just saying, just putting it out there.
00:06:24.940 I have to support.
00:06:25.740 You know what's crazy?
00:06:26.780 I just did a poll with 30,000 people took.
00:06:29.640 Yeah.
00:06:30.260 Now, would you say that a poll that 30,000 people took can gather, like, that would be reliable
00:06:35.680 data?
00:06:36.640 I mean, it's probably quite representative.
00:06:38.040 Yeah, it's a fraction of 100,000, so...
00:06:40.040 Okay.
00:06:40.580 So, I asked, what percent of women do you think are quality women today? 0.98
00:06:45.800 The answer is going to be scary.
00:06:47.380 So, I offered the lowest percent they could say is 10 to 20%.
00:06:51.780 Then, they could do 20 to 40, then 40 to 60, then 80 to 100.
00:06:56.920 I think I made it up to, like, 60 plus.
00:06:59.940 I forgot how...
00:07:00.620 74% of people said less than 20%.
00:07:04.060 So, I don't even know if that's...
00:07:05.380 So, when we have a conversation, when we have a conversation, we have to talk about the average
00:07:10.740 and the general.
00:07:11.920 Yeah.
00:07:12.300 We know there's exceptions.
00:07:14.300 Yeah.
00:07:14.560 But in all honesty, I've been thinking about this a lot.
00:07:17.880 And I don't claim to be, like, the perfect picture of feminine, like, obviously.
00:07:21.520 But I was thinking, like, what percent of women... 1.00
00:07:24.020 I've had hundreds of girls on the show. 1.00
00:07:25.460 What percent are, like, a true traditional woman that was raised to be a wife, that believes
00:07:30.540 in obeying her husband, that was a virgin on her wedding day?
00:07:33.160 I don't know any.
00:07:34.500 I can maybe think of one girl from my high school.
00:07:37.080 But it's like, if you go to college, that's putting your primary reproductive years, you're
00:07:42.920 putting your career first.
00:07:44.040 That automatically, like, puts you in the non-traditional category.
00:07:46.980 I'm not saying it's, like, everyone's fault, right?
00:07:49.720 Because this is what we're taught.
00:07:51.640 But it's like, when you think about it, it's like the average chick. 0.62
00:07:54.840 Like, I can't even think of a traditional chick.
00:07:58.800 Like, traditional women get married before 25. 1.00
00:08:02.740 Wow.
00:08:04.720 And like I said, men bring morality to society.
00:08:07.740 Because there's a reason why even in Christianity, the Bible says a man should submit to God and 1.00
00:08:14.640 a woman should submit to her husband. 1.00
00:08:16.180 It never says anything about the man submitting to the woman.
00:08:19.720 But obviously, modern-day society, everything has, feminism has come, told the men that 0.78
00:08:25.600 they are equal to men and all of that.
00:08:27.600 But that's a bit wrong.
00:08:29.840 Because at the end of the day, me as a woman, I want to be led by a man.
00:08:34.020 I don't want to lead the man.
00:08:36.040 Like, where's the point?
00:08:37.620 We are changing the roles.
00:08:38.960 I'm becoming the man and you're becoming the woman. 1.00
00:08:42.740 So this is the way that it should be, even if we are in the modern times.
00:08:47.040 At the end of the day, the man should be the one that is the man of the house, not the 0.65
00:08:52.000 woman.
00:08:52.520 Yeah.
00:08:53.100 Yeah.
00:08:53.420 But I mean, that's what they teach us, though.
00:08:55.000 They teach us happy wife, happy life.
00:08:57.940 You hear it's cheaper to keep her, right?
00:08:59.780 Like, I just said that I was married and I'm getting a divorce, so I don't, you didn't
00:09:06.680 see me coming in the discussion about the marriage too much, yeah?
00:09:12.000 Because I didn't want to bring my personal opinion into a general opinion.
00:09:18.220 You get, yeah, because I wasn't talking about you, right?
00:09:21.820 Exactly.
00:09:22.440 Well, my answer was not about me, well, in general.
00:09:25.640 Maybe, maybe from a personal point of view, I was, you know, yeah.
00:09:32.880 Sorry, it's just every time I ask these questions, like, women always say, like, oh, well, me, 1.00
00:09:37.380 well, me, but it's like, okay, we're talking in general.
00:09:39.600 So it's funny because I've never, I think in all the shows, you're like one of the first
00:09:44.040 girls that's come to that realization that it's like, in general, not you, yeah.
00:09:48.860 Because I gave my opinion.
00:09:50.040 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, funny.