JustPearlyThings - October 28, 2023


Pearl DEBUNKS Lying Dating Coach


Episode Stats

Length

4 minutes

Words per Minute

182.91536

Word Count

778

Sentence Count

63

Misogynist Sentences

15

Hate Speech Sentences

12


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 So another topic I wanted to cover was how older women lie to younger women and give them bad
00:00:05.900 advice. So I saw a TikTok clip of a female dating coach going viral. Let's pull it up.
00:00:11.460 I need women to understand that men will say they want good women, but good women never get
00:00:17.320 rewarded. It's always like, oh, I want a day one girl. I want a girl that has been there from the
00:00:22.440 beginning. But those women get literally later on cheated on. Why is this? Because that's not
00:00:28.960 the woman they want. That's the only woman they can get right now. Once they are at a level where
00:00:33.860 they have the money, they want to spend their money on the fantasy woman. Okay. So do you see
00:00:39.200 her instilling fear into the younger generation? So I will say one thing, what she's saying isn't
00:00:45.360 factually true. So they followed people that won the lottery, both men and women. And when men got
00:00:52.220 money, they were actually more likely to stay with the person that they married. Where on the other
00:00:57.640 hand, when women got money, they were more likely to divorce. So if somebody's willing to leave when
00:01:02.960 they get money, it's actually women, it's not men. And the second thing that she points out is that
00:01:08.420 good women do not get rewarded. Well, good, ugly women, I'm sorry, guys, they don't get rewarded.
00:01:14.700 You have to be cute enough for the guy to take you seriously. I'm sorry, I don't make the rules.
00:01:20.960 But women like this, they're talking about the top 10, 20% of men. You know, they surveyed 5,000 men
00:01:26.740 in 2023. And they asked, what percent of you have had more than one sexual partner in the last year?
00:01:32.640 Only 10% of men said that they had. So let's just say they're lying and it's the top 20% of men.
00:01:39.800 That's an eight or higher. The issue is five, sixes, and sevens are being loyal to eights, nines,
00:01:46.280 and tens with when the eights, nines, and tens are very clear that it's a situationship and they don't
00:01:51.740 want anything to do with them. It doesn't count if you're in a situationship. But when guys are in
00:01:57.020 actual relationships with their girls over time, they might, sometimes they get money and they step
00:02:02.820 out. We've seen that in celebrity marriages, but they don't typically leave. And the problem is women
00:02:08.140 like this will say, oh, good women don't get rewarded. Only bad behavior gets rewarded. You know,
00:02:14.960 and that's not true guys. Sometimes hot chicks get away with stuff, but the feminine, soft, kind,
00:02:21.740 nurturing women that have been raised to be wives are rewarded in the long run. And they are only not
00:02:27.340 rewarded when they're going after men that are not husbands. You cannot go after Chris Brown and be
00:02:33.380 mad that he didn't wife you. Obviously not. So let's look at the comments section.
00:02:38.980 This is why I only give him attention when he buys me something. Okay. So I wanted to point out what
00:02:45.960 this is. So the women that teach these tricks and some of these tricks, they work, but they only work
00:02:53.380 on the men that you don't want. Women only love men when the women are serving the men, not the men
00:02:59.400 serving the women. And when the men are following the woman's lead, women don't even like those guys.
00:03:05.440 These tricks work, but they only work on men that do not understand women's nature and relationships
00:03:12.380 that start like this are doomed to fail. The next comment says, you're not the woman they want.
00:03:17.640 You're the woman they can get right now. You know, what's interesting. Women always put the way that
00:03:22.460 they feel onto men. When women upgrade in lifestyle, when they get a promotion at work, they're more
00:03:29.560 likely to divorce men. It is not the same vice versa. So that's actually more of a feminine
00:03:35.420 mindset than a male mindset. Men are, men are much more loyal than women. Jeff Bezos got divorced by
00:03:42.100 his wife. He didn't divorce his wife. And I know, I know you guys will say, well, they'll cheat. Yeah,
00:03:48.420 sometimes they do, but they don't typically leave. And that is the difference. And again, again,
00:03:56.000 women have this mindset because they've been in situationships. It is not because they loved a man
00:04:02.240 for many years and were a supportive, amazing girlfriend and then got left. That doesn't
00:04:06.440 typically happen. Men are more content. They're a lot more content with what they have. Women are
00:04:12.740 the ones that always want better and better and better.