JustPearlyThings - Pearl DEBUNKS this Lie

00:00:00.000 that's i think it says something like um behind every great man is an even better woman or 1.00

00:00:05.380 something have you heard that one yeah i don't agree oh yeah that that's the most bullshit quote 0.97

00:00:11.180 i don't think it should be even better but i think great woman should be there instead 0.97

00:00:15.260 but it kind of it's just the woman that cares yeah yeah this is woman behind every man is his 1.00

00:00:21.540 woman elon musk needed a woman to get to where he's rich men get to where they're going regardless 0.98

00:00:28.800 whether or not they have a girl by doing dog eat dog for sure it's like i mean like the guys that

00:00:33.680 are going somewhere they're gonna go somewhere whether or not you're there it's just like women 1.00

00:00:37.200 just like to take credit for doing nothing yeah i guess listen i think unless you're looking at

00:00:44.300 having kids men can just pretty much do anything whereas they don't need emotional support well 0.99

00:00:51.460 they do but they don't need it as much as women like i don't think they need it like women like 1.00

00:00:57.740 to talk about stuff more they're with their friends what do you talk about you talk about guys

00:01:01.100 talk about feelings talk about men are just like straight to the point we wiggle around a bit

00:01:06.020 more but it works together i like the chorus

00:01:11.740 you're not even doing it this time you've got a whole chorus here oh they always roast me in the

00:01:27.080 comments i'm sitting there laughing because i think normally it's pearl and every woman is doing it 0.98

00:01:31.680 i've been trying to get better i've been trying after the bees interview i've been trying

00:01:36.440 she normally sits there going it's like it's a take i can't no it's just a thing in it because all the

00:01:44.080 women are doing it one person made a comment and i'm just saying listen to the choir and the choir said 0.96

00:01:48.700 auntie what do you think i've never been out of a man that's earned more than me never never

00:01:58.960 and i've respected every single one why do you think that is different than a lot of women nowadays 1.00

00:02:06.660 i'm just old school i just don't really care how much they are because no it didn't really matter

00:02:15.300 because i think when i'm out of a man he's a man so i don't i don't pay for anything i'd have to put

00:02:21.960 my hand in my pocket even the man that i've got now i've still got more than him he's got more i

00:02:29.220 must admit he's got more cash to me i've got more assets than him but no i can't i don't have to put

00:02:36.320 my hand in my pocket for nothing yeah i think as long as i don't have to put my hand in my pocket

00:02:40.040 then yeah what is what is the minimum pairs and pound a month i can make you work

00:02:45.300 you know i can pearl oh oh you know i can make it work right so if these people if these women 1.00

00:02:51.460 out here are saying oh they need to do this oh the man can't afford that you know i mean check

00:02:55.200 yourself and cut back what would you do with a thousand pounds a month how would you split that

00:02:58.600 up i'm just curious i'd go wholesalers yeah i mean it's different because all right then if i had

00:03:04.080 a mortgage could you live in london with a thousand pounds a month i can live in before i was living i

00:03:08.420 can do it on 1500 okay because like 500 is towards the mortgage yeah kids are not expensive it all

00:03:15.600 depends do you know what right it all depends on what you want them to wear but nowadays you'll find

00:03:20.660 that a five pound t-shirt is not going to cost you 50 pound for the kid or because of the name or the

00:03:25.800 stamp on it and that's what brings things up or you know eating out you know you want a burger buy

00:03:32.280 something to meet and teach your kids how to make a burger you know no eating out no you think a

00:03:39.340 thousand pound is covering bills let's do me now wow you know i honestly had the same i had the same

00:03:46.860 thought yo she took me she took me well how much did you say was 35 pounds it was 30 pounds for the

00:03:53.920 30 pounds 30 pounds she said 10 a week yeah two people yeah she told me she could get a week's worth 1.00

00:03:58.940 of groceries on 30 pounds i didn't believe her you wouldn't go to the market yeah she took me she

00:04:03.680 took me no we went to a supermarket we didn't even go to a market yeah you can do it you just yeah we'll

00:04:09.940 talk off fresh stuff is this tin yes or no it was actually good check out wife school episode two 1.00

00:04:17.400 but yeah i i didn't believe her i was like there is no way there is no way but yeah 30 pounds you have

00:04:25.840 to look for the stickers the clearance stickers oh yeah we just went there we just we just popped

00:04:32.840 in there and we picked about four things with stickers but everything else wasn't was it was

00:04:37.200 about four things with stickers in the middle of the day yeah no in the eve was in the evening

00:04:41.500 towards the end but still but even though it wasn't bad food it really wasn't but yeah but you have

00:04:47.140 but even though this month to cover a whole month including toiletries laundry alcohol and

00:04:54.820 everything for the month thousand pound yeah for the month i'm talking about all the alcohol as well

00:05:01.140 well laundry toiletries electric toothbrush everything thousand pound didn't that's it

00:05:07.140 i'm gonna watch it i'm sold it's fine i show i show you my tricks yeah i'm so i give you tips i'm so

00:05:17.440 on it do you guys think that corn you know you know what that stands for okay do you guys think

00:05:23.400 that corn is cheating no yes no yes once he does it in front once he watches it in front of me i know

00:05:32.000 he's there watching whatever if it's hidden it's cheating if it's like yeah you want to watch it

00:05:36.240 it's like it's like watching another movie i ain't watching it though but if it's hidden i think

00:05:41.120 it's cheating because for you to hide it so it must be wrong yeah i agree don't lie about it fine yeah

00:05:47.360 i feel like you can i don't think together no i don't want to do that but do you think it's cheating

00:05:54.640 no i said definitely no if he had i just feel like he wouldn't want to do it in front of you

00:05:58.720 why not i don't know no don't do it in front of me like i don't no i don't i don't want i don't

00:06:04.720 mean that in front of you i mean like if he's there watching that he knows men are watching a tv

00:06:09.040 and yeah he's in one room and he's watching it and he coming oh you're watching that rubbish again

00:06:13.840 it's like it's nothing to me but you wouldn't get mad if he's not as long as he's not he's open

00:06:18.480 with it yeah would anyone here be mad if their husband watched or boyfriend watched corn 0.95

00:06:23.040 sorry can i just say something it all depends on what kind it is if it's that sick perverted kind 0.60

00:06:26.880 then yeah oh yeah yeah no that wouldn't be okay but if it's like regular normal normal yeah any i'd

00:06:33.760 be upset i don't think i'd be mad i'd be concerned because what is it what's what are you seeking

00:06:38.560 from this variety why do you and so maybe picking up a few tips but then but then again to me that's a

00:06:46.640 concern for me because what variety why do you want variety let's try this that's like what men want

00:06:52.080 naturally i'm not saying all men cheat but men naturally want variety you're telling me okay

00:06:57.440 you could take the best man in the world if he had a bus full of models waiting for him every day 1.00

00:07:02.800 when he got home every single day begging to sleep with it most of you guys are gonna fail fair enough

00:07:08.160 but i'm i'm putting my self in it if you want variety it's a concern if you if you cannot exercise

00:07:17.920 self-control it's a concern if i am to exercise self-control and you don't give yourself that same

00:07:26.640 parameter it's a concern i'm not saying i'll be angry but if this is something to iron out it's

00:07:32.880 not something that oh this is how you are that's your makeup that's fine because i know what i want

00:07:39.440 and as far as i'm concerned on the foundational like morals principles standards we match and so if

00:07:46.000 we're no longer matching it's an even bigger concern and now we're talking about the longevity of our

00:07:51.120 relationship i don't think it means that you don't match no no but it's because i know what i would

00:07:56.800 like and when you say what you would like what is that so i not not to watch that and if if if you're

00:08:02.960 telling me these are the reasons why you watch it let's iron out those reasons so you don't have to

00:08:08.400 if you feel like your reason is just i just like yeah and it doesn't mean he's doing it every day or

00:08:13.760 even everyone knows why they like it everyone knows why they like what they like no one just

00:08:18.720 likes it and i'm not sure that's like but that's like a female point of view like to men it's just 1.00

00:08:23.360 like a reaction they don't think that much yeah but then that's not why then that's that's fine we

00:08:29.760 don't have to but it's almost like asking men not to be men but no not necessarily because in my

00:08:34.000 experience i have what i have not experienced that do you understand so i can't even speak to it

00:08:38.880 because it's not like i've been with a man that could explain his side of it all i can say is

00:08:44.080 from my wants and if this is how you are that's fine i'm not gonna like say change or it's you're

00:08:52.400 just not for me yeah it sounds like you're not it you haven't created a space where they could even

00:08:57.680 come to tell you that they want it it's not it sounds like if they do it's in private like they

00:09:01.680 wouldn't even tell you no it's if it and this is what i'm saying i wouldn't get angry to me it would

00:09:06.960 be a concern so if you came to me or i caught you i'm not going to be oh no no it's like okay let's

00:09:13.120 sit down and talk about it like why why why why do you feel like you like this or whatever and like

00:09:18.960 if if you're like this is how i am and i can't really explain it or whatever

00:09:23.760 i have the right to say but i don't like this i don't i don't have to compromise on that so how can

00:09:29.040 i just hang on can i just say something because from what tell me if i'm wrong yeah you're talking about

00:09:34.880 if like now if you found him what or if he suddenly decided yeah but

00:09:42.720 what i would say yeah and what i think you're saying is that yeah this is you wouldn't be with

00:09:48.400 somebody that does it anyway yeah and then if he happens to be doing it there's a problem yeah and

00:09:52.880 that i feel the same way i mean if i know if i know that my man does it and i'm with him i knew that he

00:09:57.440 done it before i got with him but if i'm with a man and then suddenly he starts doing it well what's

00:10:01.440 going on why all of a sudden you started you never showed it and i think that's what you're trying to

00:10:05.280 say because trying to change an individual is futile to me okay especially if you do not see an issue

00:10:13.680 like i don't have the energy to try and make you see or even see it from my point of view if you don't

00:10:20.560 you don't but i don't have to be i don't have to take it do you understand or or like i do have the

00:10:26.080 choice i can i can just tolerate it like okay this is that i can tolerate it but my point is then i

00:10:32.160 have a choice but before me making that choice i want to sit down and understand i think if i had

00:10:38.240 a man and he wasn't open about it in the first place and i found him doing it other issues then

00:10:42.080 i'll be angry yeah that's that i'd have issues then but if i knew if he said to me in the beginning that

00:10:46.880 when i thought oh yeah sometimes i watch this i would like okay then when i know it's down to me

00:10:50.640 whether i'll stay with you or not yeah yeah and i want to know what i want to know like you know

00:10:54.560 what kind can you imagine you know i've been with you for x amount of years and you're saying i've 0.98

00:10:58.720 always watched it another line and i'm now choosing to tell you now i'm out of there you're a liar 0.92

00:11:04.800 but then that's choosing to hide it no yeah but that's what yeah that's when that's when i may get

00:11:08.800 angry yeah i agree but if it's happening we're going to talk about it as many of you know i was just

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JustPearlyThings - March 25, 2023

Pearl DEBUNKS this Lie

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