Pearl DEBUNKS this Lie
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Summary
In this episode, the lads discuss the difference between men and women when it comes to money, how to save money and what it means to be a woman in the 21st century. We also talk about the fact that men are more likely to have kids than women, and the benefits of having a man in your life.
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that's i think it says something like um behind every great man is an even better woman or
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something have you heard that one yeah i don't agree oh yeah that that's the most bullshit quote
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i don't think it should be even better but i think great woman should be there instead
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but it kind of it's just the woman that cares yeah yeah this is woman behind every man is his
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woman elon musk needed a woman to get to where he's rich men get to where they're going regardless
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whether or not they have a girl by doing dog eat dog for sure it's like i mean like the guys that
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are going somewhere they're gonna go somewhere whether or not you're there it's just like women
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just like to take credit for doing nothing yeah i guess listen i think unless you're looking at
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having kids men can just pretty much do anything whereas they don't need emotional support well
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they do but they don't need it as much as women like i don't think they need it like women like
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to talk about stuff more they're with their friends what do you talk about you talk about guys
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talk about feelings talk about men are just like straight to the point we wiggle around a bit
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you're not even doing it this time you've got a whole chorus here oh they always roast me in the
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comments i'm sitting there laughing because i think normally it's pearl and every woman is doing it
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i've been trying to get better i've been trying after the bees interview i've been trying
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she normally sits there going it's like it's a take i can't no it's just a thing in it because all the
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women are doing it one person made a comment and i'm just saying listen to the choir and the choir said
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auntie what do you think i've never been out of a man that's earned more than me never never
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and i've respected every single one why do you think that is different than a lot of women nowadays
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i'm just old school i just don't really care how much they are because no it didn't really matter
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because i think when i'm out of a man he's a man so i don't i don't pay for anything i'd have to put
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my hand in my pocket even the man that i've got now i've still got more than him he's got more i
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must admit he's got more cash to me i've got more assets than him but no i can't i don't have to put
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my hand in my pocket for nothing yeah i think as long as i don't have to put my hand in my pocket
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then yeah what is what is the minimum pairs and pound a month i can make you work
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you know i can pearl oh oh you know i can make it work right so if these people if these women
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out here are saying oh they need to do this oh the man can't afford that you know i mean check
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yourself and cut back what would you do with a thousand pounds a month how would you split that
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up i'm just curious i'd go wholesalers yeah i mean it's different because all right then if i had
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a mortgage could you live in london with a thousand pounds a month i can live in before i was living i
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can do it on 1500 okay because like 500 is towards the mortgage yeah kids are not expensive it all
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depends do you know what right it all depends on what you want them to wear but nowadays you'll find
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that a five pound t-shirt is not going to cost you 50 pound for the kid or because of the name or the
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stamp on it and that's what brings things up or you know eating out you know you want a burger buy
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something to meet and teach your kids how to make a burger you know no eating out no you think a
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thousand pound is covering bills let's do me now wow you know i honestly had the same i had the same
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thought yo she took me she took me well how much did you say was 35 pounds it was 30 pounds for the
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30 pounds 30 pounds she said 10 a week yeah two people yeah she told me she could get a week's worth
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of groceries on 30 pounds i didn't believe her you wouldn't go to the market yeah she took me she
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took me no we went to a supermarket we didn't even go to a market yeah you can do it you just yeah we'll
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talk off fresh stuff is this tin yes or no it was actually good check out wife school episode two
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but yeah i i didn't believe her i was like there is no way there is no way but yeah 30 pounds you have
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to look for the stickers the clearance stickers oh yeah we just went there we just we just popped
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in there and we picked about four things with stickers but everything else wasn't was it was
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about four things with stickers in the middle of the day yeah no in the eve was in the evening
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towards the end but still but even though it wasn't bad food it really wasn't but yeah but you have
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but even though this month to cover a whole month including toiletries laundry alcohol and
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everything for the month thousand pound yeah for the month i'm talking about all the alcohol as well
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well laundry toiletries electric toothbrush everything thousand pound didn't that's it
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i'm gonna watch it i'm sold it's fine i show i show you my tricks yeah i'm so i give you tips i'm so
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on it do you guys think that corn you know you know what that stands for okay do you guys think
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that corn is cheating no yes no yes once he does it in front once he watches it in front of me i know
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he's there watching whatever if it's hidden it's cheating if it's like yeah you want to watch it
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it's like it's like watching another movie i ain't watching it though but if it's hidden i think
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it's cheating because for you to hide it so it must be wrong yeah i agree don't lie about it fine yeah
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i feel like you can i don't think together no i don't want to do that but do you think it's cheating
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no i said definitely no if he had i just feel like he wouldn't want to do it in front of you
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why not i don't know no don't do it in front of me like i don't no i don't i don't want i don't
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mean that in front of you i mean like if he's there watching that he knows men are watching a tv
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and yeah he's in one room and he's watching it and he coming oh you're watching that rubbish again
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it's like it's nothing to me but you wouldn't get mad if he's not as long as he's not he's open
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with it yeah would anyone here be mad if their husband watched or boyfriend watched corn
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sorry can i just say something it all depends on what kind it is if it's that sick perverted kind
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then yeah oh yeah yeah no that wouldn't be okay but if it's like regular normal normal yeah any i'd
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be upset i don't think i'd be mad i'd be concerned because what is it what's what are you seeking
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from this variety why do you and so maybe picking up a few tips but then but then again to me that's a
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concern for me because what variety why do you want variety let's try this that's like what men want
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naturally i'm not saying all men cheat but men naturally want variety you're telling me okay
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you could take the best man in the world if he had a bus full of models waiting for him every day
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when he got home every single day begging to sleep with it most of you guys are gonna fail fair enough
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but i'm i'm putting my self in it if you want variety it's a concern if you if you cannot exercise
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self-control it's a concern if i am to exercise self-control and you don't give yourself that same
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parameter it's a concern i'm not saying i'll be angry but if this is something to iron out it's
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not something that oh this is how you are that's your makeup that's fine because i know what i want
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and as far as i'm concerned on the foundational like morals principles standards we match and so if
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we're no longer matching it's an even bigger concern and now we're talking about the longevity of our
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relationship i don't think it means that you don't match no no but it's because i know what i would
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like and when you say what you would like what is that so i not not to watch that and if if if you're
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telling me these are the reasons why you watch it let's iron out those reasons so you don't have to
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if you feel like your reason is just i just like yeah and it doesn't mean he's doing it every day or
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even everyone knows why they like it everyone knows why they like what they like no one just
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likes it and i'm not sure that's like but that's like a female point of view like to men it's just
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like a reaction they don't think that much yeah but then that's not why then that's that's fine we
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don't have to but it's almost like asking men not to be men but no not necessarily because in my
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experience i have what i have not experienced that do you understand so i can't even speak to it
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because it's not like i've been with a man that could explain his side of it all i can say is
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from my wants and if this is how you are that's fine i'm not gonna like say change or it's you're
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just not for me yeah it sounds like you're not it you haven't created a space where they could even
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come to tell you that they want it it's not it sounds like if they do it's in private like they
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wouldn't even tell you no it's if it and this is what i'm saying i wouldn't get angry to me it would
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be a concern so if you came to me or i caught you i'm not going to be oh no no it's like okay let's
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sit down and talk about it like why why why why do you feel like you like this or whatever and like
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if if you're like this is how i am and i can't really explain it or whatever
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i have the right to say but i don't like this i don't i don't have to compromise on that so how can
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i just hang on can i just say something because from what tell me if i'm wrong yeah you're talking about
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if like now if you found him what or if he suddenly decided yeah but
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what i would say yeah and what i think you're saying is that yeah this is you wouldn't be with
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somebody that does it anyway yeah and then if he happens to be doing it there's a problem yeah and
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that i feel the same way i mean if i know if i know that my man does it and i'm with him i knew that he
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done it before i got with him but if i'm with a man and then suddenly he starts doing it well what's
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going on why all of a sudden you started you never showed it and i think that's what you're trying to
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say because trying to change an individual is futile to me okay especially if you do not see an issue
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like i don't have the energy to try and make you see or even see it from my point of view if you don't
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you don't but i don't have to be i don't have to take it do you understand or or like i do have the
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choice i can i can just tolerate it like okay this is that i can tolerate it but my point is then i
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have a choice but before me making that choice i want to sit down and understand i think if i had
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a man and he wasn't open about it in the first place and i found him doing it other issues then
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i'll be angry yeah that's that i'd have issues then but if i knew if he said to me in the beginning that
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when i thought oh yeah sometimes i watch this i would like okay then when i know it's down to me
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whether i'll stay with you or not yeah yeah and i want to know what i want to know like you know
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what kind can you imagine you know i've been with you for x amount of years and you're saying i've
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always watched it another line and i'm now choosing to tell you now i'm out of there you're a liar
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but then that's choosing to hide it no yeah but that's what yeah that's when that's when i may get
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angry yeah i agree but if it's happening we're going to talk about it as many of you know i was just
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