JustPearlyThings - July 07, 2023


Pearl DEMOLISHED All Her Excuses


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Length

11 minutes

Words per minute

188.6815

Word count

2,106

Sentence count

220

Harmful content

Misogyny

33

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Toxicity

11

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Hate speech

15

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Summary

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What if we had something in our bodies that would block off a man s sperm from ever entering our wompows? What if we could track when we were ovulating and stop the process of getting pregnant? How many more women would be pregnant if we got birth control?

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00:00:00.000 I think until men have equal reproductive rights, we have to put it on the women. 1.00
00:00:05.280 You know why I can't?
00:00:06.300 Because I really believe, right?
00:00:07.660 That women do nothing wrong. 1.00
00:00:08.800 I think women do a lot of things wrong. 1.00
00:00:12.740 But I also defend women.
00:00:14.300 I also believe in defending women.
00:00:16.000 If women had something in our poom pooms, right, that would block off a man's sperm ever even coming through, whether we're on birth control. 1.00
00:00:25.680 No.
00:00:27.220 Things happen.
00:00:28.100 You know my favorite statement is things happen, right?
00:00:30.840 Let's say.
00:00:31.460 What percent of women wear condoms? 1.00
00:00:33.980 Or like require the men that sleep with them wear condoms? 0.97
00:00:36.960 I mean, the point that I'm trying to make is this, right?
00:00:40.580 The point I'm trying to make is this.
00:00:41.940 If we had something in our bodies, right, that would say, I don't want to get pregnant at this time. 0.98
00:00:46.620 Like we had like a door that could just stop around our uterus. 0.99
00:00:49.100 We do.
00:00:49.280 It's called ovulation.
00:00:50.440 You can track when you're ovulating.
00:00:52.100 But what I'm saying is that if we had this in our bodies, right, we just.
00:00:57.180 I mean, this is, I'm just making up a scenario, right?
00:01:00.540 If we had this in our body, less women would get pregnant. 1.00
00:01:03.500 Because think about it.
00:01:04.340 Science is not always guaranteed, right?
00:01:06.660 You can be on birth control, get pregnant. 0.98
00:01:09.260 Oh, I missed the pill date, got pregnant.
00:01:10.680 Oh, the birth control didn't work.
00:01:11.540 There's so many reasons why women could get pregnant, right? 1.00
00:01:13.560 Even if you track ovulation, all that.
00:01:14.860 If we had something in our body after we've had, while we're having sex with these men, and they're about to go ahead and come out, and we have blockers, like tennis blockers, boom, boom, boom, boom.
00:01:24.040 Less women would be pregnant. 1.00
00:01:26.000 Girl, girl, girl, girl, we got plan B.
00:01:29.660 But, yes, we do have plan B.
00:01:32.600 But this is a scenario that I'm making up.
00:01:34.760 This is a scenario I'm making up.
00:01:36.100 I just want to know, okay, where is the excuse when you have, okay, I can tell the guys, I can track when I'm ovulating, then I can tell the guys that I sleep with to wear condoms, then on top of that, I can take a plan B, on top of that, I can get an IUD, on top of that, I can get on the pill, on top of that, I can get an abortion.
00:01:55.720 It's like, whoa.
00:01:56.780 Okay, so I'm going to just say these five things, right?
00:01:59.300 What if you don't believe in abortion, right?
00:02:01.180 So that answers abortion.
00:02:02.220 What if you can't get on birth control because it messes with your system, makes you bleed, you get fat, like, that messes you up, right?
00:02:09.920 What if you are allergic to condoms, right?
00:02:12.280 What if a guy says, but I pulled out, and you didn't, and he didn't pull out.
00:02:16.440 What if you don't have money to afford plan B?
00:02:18.720 Like, there's so many different situations that real-life situations people go through.
00:02:22.600 What if they don't know about plan B?
00:02:24.140 And abstinence is for you.
00:02:28.200 Then at that point, I just think it's time to close the legs.
00:02:31.880 At this point, I think it would be easier for the men to have a device in their wallet that stops the government from reaching into their wallet to take money.
00:02:41.020 That will stop the problem.
00:02:42.240 Don't worry, men can have...
00:02:43.240 I think less women will have babies if the government couldn't take money from the men. 1.00
00:02:46.440 Men can have an AI doll that speaks to them and hugs them and gives them everything.
00:02:52.240 It's coming soon.
00:02:53.380 See, the thing is, you're a smart, educated woman. 0.99
00:02:56.720 You're a smart, educated woman, so you know about all this stuff.
00:03:01.160 There's so many women who come up in households where they don't know about this. 1.00
00:03:04.100 Okay, okay, I want to teach you something, okay?
00:03:06.820 I want, I want, King, could you please put the internet up on the screen?
00:03:10.600 I'm just, I'm going to show you this really great, like, what, Google?
00:03:13.660 Hold on, hold on.
00:03:14.960 What is this thing you call the internet?
00:03:16.840 Yeah, so, so, wait, wait, wait, wait, I need you to wait, okay.
00:03:21.780 Can you put, type in google.com, please?
00:03:25.060 Please type in google.com.
00:03:28.660 We love Google.
00:03:29.120 Just in case anyone at home.
00:03:30.360 Google is like my dad.
00:03:31.300 No, no, no, no, wait, wait, Google.
00:03:33.860 Now, could you put in birth control methods, please?
00:03:40.800 Thank you.
00:03:41.660 There, you could, just in case anyone that grew up without.
00:03:44.700 But this is.
00:03:45.280 You can, you can take it off.
00:03:46.220 But guess what?
00:03:47.360 This is, again, if you have the resources for that, if you have the resources to afford
00:03:53.080 the internet, if you have access to the internet.
00:03:55.520 Hold on, hold on, hold on.
00:03:56.400 Not everybody has that.
00:03:57.440 What percent of people have a smartphone?
00:04:02.360 How many?
00:04:02.940 Have a smartphone.
00:04:04.600 Let's do you.
00:04:05.600 You want to do U.S. or U.K.?
00:04:07.620 It doesn't matter.
00:04:08.260 Worldwide.
00:04:08.840 Okay, I'm going to do the U.S.
00:04:11.160 because I don't think worldwide would be a fair comparison.
00:04:14.580 You know, what, what percent would you say there's not really an excuse?
00:04:22.440 Okay.
00:04:22.760 What percent of people, what, what number would maybe change your mind that everyone has a
00:04:27.180 choice in this?
00:04:27.960 Again, if you, if you know better, you do better, right?
00:04:31.640 There's really people who don't know better.
00:04:34.140 I would say that.
00:04:34.920 They haven't been taught.
00:04:35.880 I would say people don't.
00:04:36.380 It's hard to believe, but people haven't been taught.
00:04:37.920 I would say typically don't choose better, especially women. 0.53
00:04:41.240 They just keep making the same mistakes over and over again.
00:04:44.280 Some of us do.
00:04:45.140 Some women definitely make the same searching for love. 1.00
00:04:47.520 Okay, so, so what percent of people do you think own a smartphone?
00:04:52.640 I don't know.
00:04:53.240 Maybe 60 percent.
00:04:54.620 92 percent.
00:04:56.440 Of people own a smartphone.
00:04:57.360 Okay, so now we have zero excuses.
00:04:59.260 Is this, is this, is this from, again, okay, but this is a certain demographic that you are.
00:05:07.500 Nope.
00:05:07.780 Just across the, please.
00:05:09.440 Nope.
00:05:09.760 Just across the board.
00:05:11.640 I'm looking at it.
00:05:12.220 If I go right to my neighborhood right now, maybe 60 percent of people might own a phone, a smartphone.
00:05:18.680 They'll own a phone.
00:05:19.640 They have Obama phones, which don't have internet.
00:05:22.100 They have free phones.
00:05:23.100 So maybe 60 percent.
00:05:24.880 Were you saying in the black community?
00:05:27.200 I'm not trying to say that.
00:05:29.060 Okay, because I looked that up.
00:05:30.440 It's 80 percent.
00:05:31.340 It is a little lower.
00:05:32.200 So it is lower.
00:05:33.240 So again.
00:05:33.860 Yeah, but they've all got a friend who they can go, look, I'm really concerned about getting pregnant.
00:05:38.040 Can I borrow your phone to look up birth control methods?
00:05:41.180 But you have to, you have to know to do that.
00:05:43.680 This is so desexifying relationships.
00:05:44.420 You have to know to do that.
00:05:45.860 Don't you believe in empowering women?
00:05:48.220 Of course.
00:05:49.020 Don't you believe women are smart? 1.00
00:05:51.060 Of course.
00:05:51.780 Okay, so don't you. 0.99
00:05:52.920 Okay, so now, because you're treating us like we're dumb. 0.99
00:05:55.320 No, I'm not treating women like they're dumb. 1.00
00:05:57.240 I used to be a social worker. 0.98
00:05:58.600 So there's certain things that.
00:05:59.660 I didn't even say you used to be a woman. 1.00
00:06:01.320 No, no, no, no.
00:06:02.120 I used to be a social worker.
00:06:03.020 So there's certain things when you come across certain people, you talk with them and you're like, wait,
00:06:06.560 you didn't know what?
00:06:07.700 And to like someone like me, I'm like impossible.
00:06:10.200 But there are really people in circumstances and situations that just don't know.
00:06:14.660 They never had someone to tell them to teach them.
00:06:16.740 If you're somewhere and you go to a rough school and no one's taught you this, no one's taught you that,
00:06:20.820 they're barely passing you just so the school could get funding from the government.
00:06:24.420 There are so many people out there in impoverished neighborhoods and stuff like that that don't have access to internet,
00:06:29.580 that don't have funds for plan B, pills, abortions, all types of stuff.
00:06:32.220 I need, do you know what I need?
00:06:34.180 I need a soundboard that has the world's smallest violin in that place.
00:06:39.640 It might sound like that, but you know what?
00:06:41.800 It sounds exactly like that.
00:06:43.020 Until you experience it, until you look around and observe it, it's going to feel unreal to you.
00:06:48.620 As a person who has seen people like this, who has worked with people like this.
00:06:51.780 Do you know, I don't think anybody interacts with more people than me.
00:06:57.540 I have to record a lot.
00:06:58.420 No, no, no, no, no.
00:06:59.400 Do you know how many women have been in this apartment? 1.00
00:07:02.360 Guess.
00:07:03.140 Guess just this apartment.
00:07:04.880 A thousand.
00:07:06.400 Roughly.
00:07:07.360 Yeah.
00:07:08.300 In a year.
00:07:09.860 So I don't know anybody that didn't have a smartphone.
00:07:13.820 But that's here.
00:07:14.600 Isn't it a particular level of women? 1.00
00:07:16.380 Yeah, okay.
00:07:16.980 I'm going to move on.
00:07:18.960 We're going to move on.
00:07:20.100 I'm going to read show topics.
00:07:22.400 Or not show topics.
00:07:23.380 Super chat.
00:07:24.120 Super chats.
00:07:25.400 And then we're going to go back.
00:07:26.960 I have another question for you guys.
00:07:29.020 So guys, make sure you like the video.
00:07:32.280 How many likes are we at right now, King?
00:07:36.360 600.
00:07:37.180 And I want to know in the chat, do you have a smartphone?
00:07:42.340 One, if you have a smartphone.
00:07:43.920 I also need a three or a four in the chat.
00:07:46.880 I need a three in the chat.
00:07:48.100 If you know what a plan B is, if you know what birth control is, I need a four if you
00:07:54.180 have no idea.
00:07:55.660 All right.
00:07:55.900 I'm going to read super chats.
00:07:58.500 If they are rude, these are not my opinions.
00:08:01.120 But I will read them.
00:08:02.600 Darius.
00:08:03.120 Lady, stop. 1.00
00:08:03.860 Kids go to school.
00:08:04.700 They have computers.
00:08:06.140 Gort.
00:08:06.420 Does this chick ever have someone else to blame for her mistakes? 1.00
00:08:10.140 Ricks.
00:08:10.940 In the UK, a lot of men have kids.
00:08:13.440 Then they become single.
00:08:14.740 Then they go on the dole as unemployed.
00:08:17.080 They pay like 10 pounds per month per child. 0.94
00:08:19.380 It's disgusting. 0.96
00:08:20.860 Vinny. 1.00
00:08:21.460 Imagine sending your wife to jail for not having sex. 1.00
00:08:26.820 Adventurous filmmaker. 0.70
00:08:28.720 Think of Bree Van Kiddump from Desperate Housewives. 0.82
00:08:32.300 She's traditional, but the problem is she took the male's role by controlling the marriage. 1.00
00:08:37.460 Thailand, 25, Miss New York.
00:08:39.640 Men have been used for foodie dates in New York City.
00:08:42.300 Also, stop the cat. 0.96
00:08:43.280 There are plenty of men of value in New York City.
00:08:45.820 Maybe not the ones that are your type or in your neighborhood.
00:08:50.020 F.S.
00:08:50.540 Claire.
00:08:50.820 Women want to comply when it benefits them and not when it doesn't. 1.00
00:08:55.600 If you did that with your job, you would be fired.
00:08:57.660 They don't want to be led.
00:08:58.700 They want someone to lead how they would lead.
00:09:00.800 And men don't lead like women. 0.98
00:09:02.580 Adventurous filmmaker.
00:09:03.600 Off topic.
00:09:04.560 Recently watched a Kelly Clarkson episode advocating for women and feminine men.
00:09:09.420 The media ruins everything.
00:09:12.360 Exocentric nightmares.
00:09:13.320 The level of old women cope on the couch is hilarious. 1.00
00:09:16.460 To my UK, USA brothers, please do not entertain women like this. 1.00
00:09:20.000 Please pick smarter and better.
00:09:22.380 Vinny L.T.
00:09:23.300 You are what you attract and you aren't what you reject.
00:09:25.960 If you friendzone a good, well-to-do man that does well by you for a Tyrone, you don't deserve good treatment, loyalty, and selection.
00:09:35.560 David the Goliath.
00:09:36.980 Women make great housewives. 1.00
00:09:38.880 Sid Dave.
00:09:40.060 Women are more compassionate than men because they never commit violence like men do.
00:09:46.080 There will never be a female Congress con. 1.00
00:09:50.000 Well, I've actually heard that women are more violent than men. 1.00
00:09:55.280 You know what?
00:09:55.720 It depends on your definition.
00:09:58.460 Women are significantly more likely.
00:10:00.580 They're victims of the elderly and babies and children. 0.99
00:10:04.560 And a lot of it gets written off, you know, as freak accidents until the point where someone goes, but why is the rate so high in this particular establishment?
00:10:17.420 Really?
00:10:17.820 Oh, that's so interesting.
00:10:21.400 Well, I mean, it's kind of profoundly disturbing, I think.
00:10:25.640 Like, you know, I find violence generally frightening and scary.
00:10:32.120 But it's like, if it's, you know, two men or an equal number of men who are kind of equally matched.
00:10:40.240 And there's something that is, you know, fair about that.
00:10:46.600 Whereas, yeah, no, women are sort of opportunists. 1.00
00:10:51.080 And it's, you know, often done for like financial gain or because someone is a burden.
00:10:57.840 There are those kind of...
00:10:59.240 Really? So they commit violence towards the elderly and towards children.
00:11:02.640 Yeah.
00:11:03.040 There's a book by a woman.
00:11:04.420 I forget her name, but it's called When She Was Bad.
00:11:06.700 And it's really a horrible read.
00:11:08.600 But, yeah.