JustPearlyThings - April 24, 2023


Pearl DEMOLISHES Post Wall Women On Dating Apps


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Length

9 minutes

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184.05823

Word count

1,728

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

10

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Toxicity

7

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Hate speech

5

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Summary

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Why are women still single in their 50s? Why is it that women should not be dating until they are 50, even though the best women get married at a younger age? Why do women get divorced so often after marriage?

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00:00:00.000 you know what they should do they should take out like over 50s because they shouldn't be dating 1.00
00:00:04.480 anyways over 50s that is so hot no no no no i'm serious no especially women i'll give men a pass
00:00:15.400 but women what are we doing on the dating market over 50s i i i 100% agree with you why not
00:00:21.320 my friend doesn't really think the men should be on the dating market over why because like
00:00:27.600 dating and love is a young person we're doing single in your 50s what do you think what's wrong
00:00:32.040 what is wrong with you that you are still single in your 50s that's true she just said it what's
00:00:37.660 wrong with you men ask this okay honestly men ask this in your late 20s like why are you still
00:00:44.500 single because the best women get picked below like 25 let's just let's just call a spade a spade 1.00
00:00:50.500 and this is me i'm over 25 and i can say i'm 26 okay and i could say the best women
00:00:57.080 women that were the most desired from college are married so but first marriage is more likely to 1.00
00:01:02.960 end than second marriage that's not true actually the second and you're more likely to get divorced
00:01:08.960 every time you get married sorry to cut it but do we have um any more questions on what answer
00:01:15.400 so you was going through some questions online no it was finished it was yeah you got 12 yeah
00:01:20.940 yeah we did our we did our delusion so who's more delusional the who was it the women so what was
00:01:28.180 you again no it was it was actually me and him i'm the bachelor yeah yeah he's he might be he's in
00:01:36.400 the delusion too who me no i'm down to earth i think she was got the what did you get i got the
00:01:43.260 i got the i don't think i'm delusional then you get 12 we both got the same i think we got a bit
00:01:51.960 the same she gets the delusion crown okay yeah i'm fully delusional yeah yeah it's okay though i get
00:01:58.900 it's okay it's all good a lot a lot of times people say they'd want these things but then they don't
00:02:03.580 always date those you know it's like sometimes it happens um why do i think women shouldn't be dating 1.00
00:02:10.680 and they're 50 yes um i think that if you're selling a car right now i'm not saying women are 0.99
00:02:17.860 cars but i'm going to use an analogy to compare us to cars okay now if a car has high mileage now if
00:02:25.920 the car has been on the market for 30 years if the car has been on the market for 30 years i can say
00:02:32.680 one it's had a lot of test rides and two why are you still on the market at 50 that's a lot of time
00:02:42.640 to figure out how to sell yourself because sometimes life doesn't work out the way that you think it
00:02:50.460 or expect it to be you could be dedicating your life to your kids and making sure that they're okay
00:02:56.800 because your husband walked out on you and remarried and had more kids and you've been focusing on
00:03:02.520 your kids and making sure they are okay i gotta i gotta i gotta be honest here what do i think of
00:03:08.080 when i hear this okay that he walked out on me what did you do to make him walk out because
00:03:13.420 not a damn thing now now now now that attitude that attitude right there is the problem with women 1.00
00:03:19.640 because we think we didn't do a damn thing to make him end the relationship i want to make her own
00:03:24.300 men will spend hours studying asking what went wrong all this stuff women say i did nothing wrong 0.99
00:03:32.840 to make him leave you know what it is point two why i also think that women when they get left it's worse 0.99
00:03:39.800 because if a man leaves he's losing half his shit he's also losing his children most likely so if he 0.97
00:03:47.320 leaves you i'm thinking this must have been a living hell for him to leave you no it's not always 0.99
00:03:54.940 the case and i understand why why you would come to that conclusion i really do but it's not always
00:04:01.380 the case i never said always um you know there's um you know there's miracles like things happen
00:04:08.040 right but in general um yeah i i question why but especially in younger marriages
00:04:16.480 like if you get married for instance in your 20s you haven't even had the opportunity to get to
00:04:25.520 know who you are as a human being as a person on this earth what your purpose is and what you're
00:04:30.560 doing in life like i understand that tradition you you you find someone you get married in your
00:04:37.500 early 20s you have kids i don't necessarily know if that's the right thing that people should be
00:04:44.060 doing now because i don't know where that came from like i don't know whether that came from
00:04:49.000 but this might sound stupid yeah i don't know whether this is even a real thing but
00:04:55.660 back in the day especially like grandparents ages when they were in like the war times and stuff i would 0.91
00:05:05.320 imagine life expectancy was a little bit lower so when you are looking to create a family and have kids
00:05:12.080 of course you're going to be doing that at a younger age because life expectancy was lower
00:05:16.760 where nowadays what time period are you talking about so like for instance my my i'm pretty sure
00:05:23.160 my granddad was like in world war ii not in like literally fighting but like he was
00:05:28.620 in those i think you're definitely right but i think it's a longer time i think i don't know
00:05:34.420 how much i just i just personally think it all that's where it came from i think it's all boys
00:05:38.860 don't tip choice since the 1800s men live to be 75 and 73 for women i'm just i'm just looking i
00:05:47.920 don't know if these are true or not i'm just i don't know i don't even i'm it's not facts i haven't
00:05:52.080 looked this up it's just kind of logic so you said a couple things i forgot what the first one was
00:05:59.120 that i wanted to say something i probably forgot too women don't remember sorry can i just say
00:06:06.020 something yeah go ahead you know like when you said um a lot of the times it's kind of like
00:06:10.940 not not in a i'm trying to say it respectfully but blaming the woman for why the man left
00:06:17.100 yeah i think personally um it depends yeah but at the same time a lot of times apart from past
00:06:26.660 experience i feel like a lot of women get a bit too comfortable and a lot of women then turn down
00:06:32.940 tone down their their level of trying to to be attractive to their man or try to be um available
00:06:39.680 to their minds because let's be real as a man yeah yeah you go work whatever you got good wife at home
00:06:44.860 whatever you're gonna see women everywhere yeah as a man the brain the man's mind is a lot different
00:06:51.000 to a woman's man yeah so i'm not saying that oh i'm cheating or i'm looking but you know
00:06:56.080 it's not saying it's hard to ignore but you're gonna see there's always going to be more people
00:07:00.840 more women attractive than your woman yeah so what i'm saying is and your man yeah of course of course
00:07:06.460 but at the same time i feel like from past experience from you know a lot of women from my past experience 1.00
00:07:12.940 is my opinion um i feel like a lot of women get comfortable and they feel that they don't have 0.96
00:07:19.000 they don't they don't no no but they don't have to do so much and effort wise they don't have to
00:07:23.460 look as good as how i met you and do the thing and it's just a bit like they get they become
00:07:28.220 fatties no but i think it is literally equal like i had a conversation the other day with a guy
00:07:33.720 and um he basically said that since he's been married he just stopped going he stopped going
00:07:39.000 to the gym he just stopped yeah i do think there's a pandemic i want to i do think i agree
00:07:43.820 i do think i do think the men do it too i'll get it i want to say something yeah i i know a couple
00:07:49.280 uh they go to my gym um i personally think that in a marriage you as you said you don't want to get
00:07:59.000 too comfortable because you want to be excited to go home and actually see that person
00:08:03.260 so this couple they wake up together they do business together travel together they do basically
00:08:10.140 everything together and they always keep it fresh they would never go to the same country
00:08:15.020 they would never do the same workouts they'll always do something new new venture new businesses
00:08:19.720 they unlock new experiences they unlock new experiences yeah so that's what i was saying
00:08:25.680 before like it all boils down to choice an effort like they choose to be happy with each other
00:08:31.180 i remembered i remembered what i was gonna say okay i remembered you said you don't really know
00:08:37.020 yourself in your 20s and what i was gonna say is we're supposed to grow together and become one
00:08:44.360 marriage is supposed to be two flesh become one that's like the biblical thing you know so so i think
00:08:51.800 for the people that don't want to grow together you guys should just stick to your relationships 0.91
00:08:56.980 fucks and the and the people that think you should get divorced for everything you guys should that's 0.99
00:09:01.820 fine go stick to the relationships where us who don't believe in divorce should be over here 1.00
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