JustPearlyThings - April 24, 2023


Pearl DEMOLISHES Post Wall Women On Dating Apps

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
This Was The Most Honest Interview Ever The Reason Men and Women CAN'T BE Friends

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9 minutes

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184.06

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1,728

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Misogyny

10

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Toxicity

7

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Summary

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Why are women still single in their 50s? Why is it that women should not be dating until they are 50, even though the best women get married at a younger age? Why do women get divorced so often after marriage?

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00:00:00.000 you know what they should do they should take out like over 50s because they shouldn't be dating 1.00
00:00:04.480 anyways over 50s that is so hot no no no no i'm serious no especially women i'll give men a pass
00:00:15.400 but women what are we doing on the dating market over 50s i i i 100% agree with you why not
00:00:21.320 my friend doesn't really think the men should be on the dating market over why because like
00:00:27.600 dating and love is a young person we're doing single in your 50s what do you think what's wrong
00:00:32.040 what is wrong with you that you are still single in your 50s that's true she just said it what's
00:00:37.660 wrong with you men ask this okay honestly men ask this in your late 20s like why are you still
00:00:44.500 single because the best women get picked below like 25 let's just let's just call a spade a spade 1.00
00:00:50.500 and this is me i'm over 25 and i can say i'm 26 okay and i could say the best women
00:00:57.080 women that were the most desired from college are married so but first marriage is more likely to 1.00
00:01:02.960 end than second marriage that's not true actually the second and you're more likely to get divorced
00:01:08.960 every time you get married sorry to cut it but do we have um any more questions on what answer
00:01:15.400 so you was going through some questions online no it was finished it was yeah you got 12 yeah
00:01:20.940 yeah we did our we did our delusion so who's more delusional the who was it the women so what was
00:01:28.180 you again no it was it was actually me and him i'm the bachelor yeah yeah he's he might be he's in
00:01:36.400 the delusion too who me no i'm down to earth i think she was got the what did you get i got the
00:01:43.260 i got the i don't think i'm delusional then you get 12 we both got the same i think we got a bit
00:01:51.960 the same she gets the delusion crown okay yeah i'm fully delusional yeah yeah it's okay though i get
00:01:58.900 it's okay it's all good a lot a lot of times people say they'd want these things but then they don't
00:02:03.580 always date those you know it's like sometimes it happens um why do i think women shouldn't be dating 1.00
00:02:10.680 and they're 50 yes um i think that if you're selling a car right now i'm not saying women are 0.99
00:02:17.860 cars but i'm going to use an analogy to compare us to cars okay now if a car has high mileage now if
00:02:25.920 the car has been on the market for 30 years if the car has been on the market for 30 years i can say
00:02:32.680 one it's had a lot of test rides and two why are you still on the market at 50 that's a lot of time
00:02:42.640 to figure out how to sell yourself because sometimes life doesn't work out the way that you think it
00:02:50.460 or expect it to be you could be dedicating your life to your kids and making sure that they're okay
00:02:56.800 because your husband walked out on you and remarried and had more kids and you've been focusing on
00:03:02.520 your kids and making sure they are okay i gotta i gotta i gotta be honest here what do i think of
00:03:08.080 when i hear this okay that he walked out on me what did you do to make him walk out because
00:03:13.420 not a damn thing now now now now that attitude that attitude right there is the problem with women 1.00
00:03:19.640 because we think we didn't do a damn thing to make him end the relationship i want to make her own
00:03:24.300 men will spend hours studying asking what went wrong all this stuff women say i did nothing wrong 0.99
00:03:32.840 to make him leave you know what it is point two why i also think that women when they get left it's worse 0.99
00:03:39.800 because if a man leaves he's losing half his shit he's also losing his children most likely so if he 0.97
00:03:47.320 leaves you i'm thinking this must have been a living hell for him to leave you no it's not always 0.99
00:03:54.940 the case and i understand why why you would come to that conclusion i really do but it's not always
00:04:01.380 the case i never said always um you know there's um you know there's miracles like things happen
00:04:08.040 right but in general um yeah i i question why but especially in younger marriages
00:04:16.480 like if you get married for instance in your 20s you haven't even had the opportunity to get to
00:04:25.520 know who you are as a human being as a person on this earth what your purpose is and what you're
00:04:30.560 doing in life like i understand that tradition you you you find someone you get married in your
00:04:37.500 early 20s you have kids i don't necessarily know if that's the right thing that people should be
00:04:44.060 doing now because i don't know where that came from like i don't know whether that came from
00:04:49.000 but this might sound stupid yeah i don't know whether this is even a real thing but
00:04:55.660 back in the day especially like grandparents ages when they were in like the war times and stuff i would 0.91
00:05:05.320 imagine life expectancy was a little bit lower so when you are looking to create a family and have kids
00:05:12.080 of course you're going to be doing that at a younger age because life expectancy was lower
00:05:16.760 where nowadays what time period are you talking about so like for instance my my i'm pretty sure
00:05:23.160 my granddad was like in world war ii not in like literally fighting but like he was
00:05:28.620 in those i think you're definitely right but i think it's a longer time i think i don't know
00:05:34.420 how much i just i just personally think it all that's where it came from i think it's all boys
00:05:38.860 don't tip choice since the 1800s men live to be 75 and 73 for women i'm just i'm just looking i
00:05:47.920 don't know if these are true or not i'm just i don't know i don't even i'm it's not facts i haven't
00:05:52.080 looked this up it's just kind of logic so you said a couple things i forgot what the first one was
00:05:59.120 that i wanted to say something i probably forgot too women don't remember sorry can i just say
00:06:06.020 something yeah go ahead you know like when you said um a lot of the times it's kind of like
00:06:10.940 not not in a i'm trying to say it respectfully but blaming the woman for why the man left
00:06:17.100 yeah i think personally um it depends yeah but at the same time a lot of times apart from past
00:06:26.660 experience i feel like a lot of women get a bit too comfortable and a lot of women then turn down
00:06:32.940 tone down their their level of trying to to be attractive to their man or try to be um available
00:06:39.680 to their minds because let's be real as a man yeah yeah you go work whatever you got good wife at home
00:06:44.860 whatever you're gonna see women everywhere yeah as a man the brain the man's mind is a lot different
00:06:51.000 to a woman's man yeah so i'm not saying that oh i'm cheating or i'm looking but you know
00:06:56.080 it's not saying it's hard to ignore but you're gonna see there's always going to be more people
00:07:00.840 more women attractive than your woman yeah so what i'm saying is and your man yeah of course of course
00:07:06.460 but at the same time i feel like from past experience from you know a lot of women from my past experience 1.00
00:07:12.940 is my opinion um i feel like a lot of women get comfortable and they feel that they don't have 0.96
00:07:19.000 they don't they don't no no but they don't have to do so much and effort wise they don't have to
00:07:23.460 look as good as how i met you and do the thing and it's just a bit like they get they become
00:07:28.220 fatties no but i think it is literally equal like i had a conversation the other day with a guy
00:07:33.720 and um he basically said that since he's been married he just stopped going he stopped going
00:07:39.000 to the gym he just stopped yeah i do think there's a pandemic i want to i do think i agree
00:07:43.820 i do think i do think the men do it too i'll get it i want to say something yeah i i know a couple
00:07:49.280 uh they go to my gym um i personally think that in a marriage you as you said you don't want to get
00:07:59.000 too comfortable because you want to be excited to go home and actually see that person
00:08:03.260 so this couple they wake up together they do business together travel together they do basically
00:08:10.140 everything together and they always keep it fresh they would never go to the same country
00:08:15.020 they would never do the same workouts they'll always do something new new venture new businesses
00:08:19.720 they unlock new experiences they unlock new experiences yeah so that's what i was saying
00:08:25.680 before like it all boils down to choice an effort like they choose to be happy with each other
00:08:31.180 i remembered i remembered what i was gonna say okay i remembered you said you don't really know
00:08:37.020 yourself in your 20s and what i was gonna say is we're supposed to grow together and become one
00:08:44.360 marriage is supposed to be two flesh become one that's like the biblical thing you know so so i think
00:08:51.800 for the people that don't want to grow together you guys should just stick to your relationships 0.91
00:08:56.980 fucks and the and the people that think you should get divorced for everything you guys should that's 0.99
00:09:01.820 fine go stick to the relationships where us who don't believe in divorce should be over here 1.00
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