Pearl Demolishes This Post Wall Woman
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss cheating in relationships, cheating in marriage and what to do if your partner cheats on you. We also discuss if cheating is a good or bad thing when it comes to children and how to deal with it.
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But then but then my question to you is what if like your partner is severely cheating and disrespecting you?
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And you know, I agree with the divorce. I do agree
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But at the same time, you know, you got to know how
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You feel in a position how you're made to feel and respect, you know, maybe, you know, in that scenario
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How would you take your cheating? Okay, I think
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One women's definition of severe cheating is so it's like
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Oh, he screwed one girl at the strip club. Now. It's a severe cheater. Okay. I
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Think that we should try it should be a goal to work through cheating. It should be the goal
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I think when you have children, it's not about you anymore your feelings
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They don't matter and I think true and so I think at the number one goal work through it
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You know, I would be quite mad if he got another girl pregnant
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Um, my my goal would be for him to not cheat at me
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That's the question though. I think I think it's much more deeper than cheating those like the reason for cheating
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No, but it's the disrespect though. You gotta understand. How does it look to your family?
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How does it look to your kids if you've got kids? Yeah
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How does it look to your friends and well, you know, I mean
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My question for the women is why do they all know?
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He's not out there tell I know damn well the men are not out there telling everybody
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This is why we should bring the fathers back in to help their daughters pick because we can't do it
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I just think all my boyfriends have been like amazing
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So it's like my question is where where's the marriage and the children then if they were all so
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Because I would think if they're amazing you would, you know
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I think my first couple of boyfriends they're amazing, but I don't think we were like perfect matches for each other
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I think my current boyfriend is like a very very good match
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Yeah, okay, great. I'll be at the wedding. I'll be there
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I just think like women need to use their intelligence and self-control a little bit more when they're choosing men
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If they're getting messed around, fucked around, like you just need to use logic
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Even if I've maybe like been a bit into someone I can get turned off very quickly if I don't think I've been treated well
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Yeah, she's a good choice right there and then to you know turn back or
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Go for it. Yeah, but would you would you agree that by and large women if we had to pick like 10 women the majority left to our own devices?
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Don't really make the best decisions in men at least in our early 20s, which is when we have the most options
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I probably have more options now at the age that i'm at now than I did when I did
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I think women always have options they will always have options
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It depends on a woman, but I feel like base everything on statistics sometimes real life
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No, but like I said no, but see what that conversation I was saying like men can't like
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You know get laid all the time like you've got to work for it, right?
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Women can have options. You can go out and look good. Sometimes you don't need to look good
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You can go to the shop brown corner get your milk and bread and you can get and you can get moved to by someone in the car
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You know, it's it's real you have many options and that's what's that's scary
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Over the age of like i'm gonna give women by and large
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90% of your eggs are gone. So that's another thing
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Geriatric pregnancy starts at 35. Yeah, so so that's another thing coming but looks wise
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Yeah, women still can get it in their 30s some women their 40s. I think 50 but there's no
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There's no age limit. We're supposed to live to 90 like you think women over 50 are really getting hollered at
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It depends how you look and how you present yourself like yeah, let's be real. You're a man. Yeah, let's be real
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You know it sometimes if a woman looks good if a woman looks good. She looks good
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Okay, can we can we talk about the rule whether she's 30s 40s?
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What rule the rule though like the exception or the rule
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Do the majority of women in their 50s get hollered at the same amount as women in their 20s?
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Can we know okay? Okay? Yeah, okay. I hear what you're saying. I hear what you're saying
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I'm just gonna assume that this is some woman this is what they always do
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Not not you know, this is just I've done enough
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They give some woman that is a celebrity. So she's already hot. Yeah, she's already an eight nine or ten in her in her prime
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She's also has all the access to the money. She's not the average
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She's not the average. Yeah, there's exceptions. You know jail. I thought I thought it was gonna be J.Lo
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10 out of 10. I mean, it depends though. It depends
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I don't think it I don't think it depends. I think
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The majority it's a no it's uh, it's not the same
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Um, sorry, just to go back a little bit because I did get cheated on once
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He was still a very good boyfriend as in like my family and friends some of my friends were like
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He's amazing to you. He's so doting that why would you want to break up? Apparently it was a kiss
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Don't know for a hundred percent, but yeah, so some that's debatable whether he was an amazing boyfriend, I guess
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It was just a one a one kiss maybe apparently and and I did end up breaking breaking up
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I did break up with him. We had a break then we got back together and then I broke up with him after
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But to what to your point that like you should be able to get
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When I look back, I don't regret it because I don't want to be with him because I love my boyfriend
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But I do when I look back. I'm like I can see the love much more than I could then because I was paranoid
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I I don't think you know, I think when you're in a relationship
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So I support if you want to leave your cheating boyfriend. Go ahead
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If you're married and you don't have kids and he's cheating
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I think that a lot of women leave thinking they're going to do better
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I get this especially from like the like women will tell me like their moms how they left their dads or something
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And then it's like the dad remarries the mom does it. Is that a better situation?
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Do you know what? Yeah, I can I can speak on that because uh, when my parents
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It happened. It was the same kind of scenario. I think it's more so of the man
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Because you gotta understand if they've messed up a good woman
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It's hard to get another good woman the way that they had it
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In some aspects and i've seen it. Do you know what I mean?
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So like like I said when you touch base again on on women can have options
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Not a lot of men can do you know what I mean? So
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It's a lot harder for a man sometimes to find a good woman
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And if you got a good woman and you're cheating on her
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And you know now you want to settle down because you come to an age or
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The numbers will tell you like differently because under the age of like 35 or something
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Are in relationships, but it switches when women like men are over like 55 or something
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So like men will remarry more likely than women as many of you know
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