JustPearlyThings - Pearl DESTORYS This Delusional Woman

00:00:00.000 But I feel like some men want different things as well.

00:00:02.800 Not every guy minds having a girl that cooks,

00:00:05.880 that does this, because some men do it themselves.

00:00:08.260 So I feel like it just depends on the man, to be quite honest.

00:00:10.900 I mean, I don't think it has to be cooking,

00:00:12.420 but I think that most men want a woman

00:00:14.600 that has some degree of femininity, 1.00

00:00:16.320 where they feel like they're taken care of.

00:00:19.420 Femininity, I think, is really important.

00:00:20.960 And I think it's, sadly, it's a little bit of a lost art

00:00:24.480 in the West, without wanting to sound too, you know.

00:00:27.520 But one thing you guys didn't mention was physique.

00:00:33.420 How important is physique?

00:00:34.360 Because there's this classic thing,

00:00:35.360 is there 666, women look for six-pack, 1.00

00:00:37.820 sorry, six figures, six-foot-tall, six-pack abs.

00:00:40.740 So, I mean, is physique important?

00:00:42.000 Yeah, my man goes to the gym, so I'm good.

00:00:45.120 I'm not particular about physique.

00:00:46.900 Yeah, I'm not either.

00:00:48.160 So if he's, I don't know, 300 pounds, cool.

00:00:52.500 Absolutely not.

00:00:53.280 Not that could be a huge person,

00:00:55.040 but he doesn't have to have six packs.

00:00:56.780 Like, he can be chubby, like, he can be XXL,

00:00:59.960 like, I don't mind.

00:01:00.800 Really?

00:01:01.360 But 300 pounds, no?

00:01:04.420 How big is 300 pounds?

00:01:06.700 If that's huge, no, please.

00:01:08.220 I'm a small girl.

00:01:10.400 No.

00:01:11.460 Okay, what about you guys?

00:01:12.600 He does have to be in shape.

00:01:14.340 No.

00:01:14.660 No, I'm not bothered about in shape like that.

00:01:16.440 Yes, but not, like, certain degrees,

00:01:18.960 not, like, obsessed.

00:01:20.260 Height?

00:01:20.800 Yeah, you've got to be taller than me.

00:01:21.840 Yeah, like, when I wear heels,

00:01:23.300 can you please still look a bit taller than me?

00:01:24.760 That's all I ask for.

00:01:25.980 What about you, in shape?

00:01:31.160 Yes.

00:01:32.060 Yeah, he does have to be in shape.

00:01:34.860 And by that, I don't mean that he has to,

00:01:37.280 you know, have, like, the rock-hard abs

00:01:39.320 and, you know, be looking like the rock.

00:01:41.440 No, but for me,

00:01:43.880 I feel like it does come down to health as well.

00:01:46.760 Like, it's not just about the way the person

00:01:48.780 that's about if they're healthy with it,

00:01:50.720 but someone can be big and they can also be healthy.

00:01:53.200 So it just depends on, obviously,

00:01:55.800 how they are and how they decide to live.

00:01:58.720 Yeah.

00:01:59.380 Do you feel like you're healthy?

00:02:02.060 Yeah.

00:02:03.140 Might not look it, but I am.

00:02:05.500 Would you be okay with a guy that was bigger than you?

00:02:07.840 Well, as long as he was healthy.

00:02:10.640 No, because I'm actually in the process of losing weight.

00:02:14.980 Okay.

00:02:15.540 So, no.

00:02:16.600 Okay, so how big of that would you want him to be?

00:02:20.360 We can say about,

00:02:23.520 I'm going to say around 150.

00:02:26.060 Around 150?

00:02:27.040 Yeah.

00:02:29.460 No, I was just going to say,

00:02:31.740 it's interesting because a lot of guys out there

00:02:34.600 become, you know, just gym addicts

00:02:37.360 because they think that that's the answer.

00:02:39.840 Do you know what I mean?

00:02:40.400 You think if I'm just going to get massively ripped

00:02:42.980 and then women are just going to flock to me. 1.00

00:02:45.140 And it's kind of interesting that pretty much

00:02:46.580 everyone's response was actually that's not the case.

00:02:48.780 Because, I mean, look, I mean,

00:02:49.840 I think we should all be going to the gym.

00:02:51.280 I think that's, you know, great thing.

00:02:52.540 But it's taking care of yourself.

00:02:54.120 Exactly.

00:02:54.680 Exactly.

00:02:55.460 But I think it's just interesting for any guys watching this,

00:02:57.640 that this idea that you have to, you know,

00:02:59.500 look like The Rock in order to, you know,

00:03:01.260 get female attention is not really the case. 0.82

00:03:04.680 I'm actually curious.

00:03:07.440 What would you guys take?

00:03:08.660 A guy that's funny or a guy with a really good body?

00:03:11.600 Pick one.

00:03:12.680 You don't get both.

00:03:13.860 Funny.

00:03:14.480 Funny.

00:03:15.060 Funny.

00:03:15.560 Funny.

00:03:16.360 Funny.

00:03:17.100 Funny.

00:03:18.540 Really?

00:03:19.500 Funny.

00:03:20.480 But are they just saying that?

00:03:21.380 Are they just saying that to virtue signal

00:03:22.800 to look good on this?

00:03:24.160 I don't know.

00:03:24.460 I don't know.

00:03:24.680 I don't know.

00:03:25.080 I don't know.

00:03:25.300 I don't know.

00:03:26.940 No, because why would you want someone

00:03:28.420 that's super ripped,

00:03:30.460 but they're so serious all the time?

00:03:32.200 It's like, how can you have fun?

00:03:33.860 But what about that?

00:03:35.780 You know, what is the case then?

00:03:37.040 Because, like, you know, in London,

00:03:37.820 they've got that magic mic or whatever it is,

00:03:39.440 you know, the thing that Channing Tatum was in,

00:03:41.120 and there's a picture of those guys, you know,

00:03:42.700 the ripped and everything.

00:03:43.520 I mean, girls, often when they go to that,

00:03:45.460 they'll say, oh, it's just a laugh.

00:03:46.520 It's just me and my mates, you know.

00:03:47.640 But is it really?

00:03:48.480 Or is it just like the girls who go to that,

00:03:50.060 they're just like, you know,

00:03:51.120 they're like, is it a serious turn on or not?

00:03:53.920 And if it's not,

00:03:55.480 then why are you guys all saying body's not that important?

00:04:00.100 Good question.

00:04:00.860 She is a point.

00:04:01.560 I mean, I've never...

00:04:02.280 She's that, she's like,

00:04:03.300 I'm not going to lie.

00:04:03.920 She's like, don't put me with that.

00:04:05.880 Sorry, what were you going to say?

00:04:07.020 I cut you off, what were you going to say?

00:04:08.200 Oh, I was just going to say,

00:04:09.360 I've never been,

00:04:09.920 but I know what you're talking about.

00:04:11.420 I think it's just nice to watch.

00:04:13.740 Like, I feel like,

00:04:14.380 I've heard guys say this before,

00:04:15.720 like, oh, she's got the nicest bum, 0.97

00:04:17.120 but like, no, it's not for me.

00:04:18.500 It's just like us, for women, 1.00

00:04:19.800 like, it's just nice to look at,

00:04:21.780 you know, guys that are ripped,

00:04:22.860 that have six-pack,

00:04:23.480 that are dancing,

00:04:24.040 that are moving sexy,

00:04:24.860 but I don't have to be with a guy like that.

00:04:26.960 Well, I'll tell you,

00:04:27.820 can I just pose a quick question?

00:04:29.080 So there's this whole movement online

00:04:30.980 of these guys,

00:04:31.760 these black pill guys, 0.96

00:04:33.960 and their belief is that 0.97

00:04:35.680 the only thing that matters is looks,

00:04:38.020 and if you haven't got looks,

00:04:39.000 then you're, that's it,

00:04:39.820 out of the equation.

00:04:40.660 So what do you guys say to that?

00:04:42.160 Presumably you don't.

00:04:43.100 That's a lie,

00:04:44.060 but to an extent,

00:04:45.360 I disagree.

00:04:46.380 I feel like you must be attracted to someone

00:04:47.800 to even initiate a conversation with someone.

00:04:50.340 I don't think you're going to initiate

00:04:51.300 a conversation with someone

00:04:52.040 that you don't find attractive.

00:04:53.440 Yeah.

00:04:53.780 But how does the conversation go on?

00:04:55.860 What makes you stay?

00:04:57.280 Yeah.

00:04:57.680 That's the personality.

00:04:59.000 Yeah.

00:04:59.240 Because if you're talking to a brick wall,

00:05:01.280 I'm pretty sure you're not going to engage

00:05:02.840 in any more conversation.

00:05:04.360 Yeah.

00:05:04.720 Is there a guy

00:05:06.120 that you can think of

00:05:07.080 we could put on screen

00:05:08.140 that we could ask them

00:05:09.740 if they find attractive,

00:05:10.800 like a celebrity?

00:05:11.880 I don't know if there's someone

00:05:12.440 you could think of.

00:05:13.300 What, you mean who's good looking

00:05:14.720 or who isn't good looking?

00:05:15.560 Like, just to see if they'd date him

00:05:16.860 if he was funny.

00:05:20.600 No, there's literally,

00:05:21.680 like, I'm not being funny,

00:05:23.240 but like, Jay Huss, for example,

00:05:24.820 he's not the,

00:05:26.780 he calls himself ugly,

00:05:28.080 but like, he's got a funny... 0.79

00:05:30.120 Jay what?

00:05:30.600 Jay Huss.

00:05:31.480 Huss?

00:05:31.960 I don't know.

00:05:32.320 He's got a funny personality.

00:05:34.000 Like, I keep up with him.

00:05:35.140 He's jokes.

00:05:35.740 I would speak to him.

00:05:36.780 Not just because he's an artist

00:05:37.840 and he has lots of money,

00:05:38.920 but he's actually funny.

00:05:39.980 He's not ugly, though.

00:05:41.000 I don't think he's ugly.

00:05:42.180 He's okay.

00:05:42.940 He's not ugly.

00:05:43.560 I don't think he's ugly.

00:05:44.140 I've got one.

00:05:44.740 He's in shape.

00:05:45.860 Yeah, he's nice.

00:05:46.580 I've got one.

00:05:47.100 What about,

00:05:47.380 there's a blogger,

00:05:48.640 podcaster called James Altucher?

00:05:51.680 He's got a really good podcast.

00:05:53.320 I'd like more of an audio podcast

00:05:54.340 than this, but...

00:05:55.400 A-L-T-U-C-H-E-R. 1.00

00:05:57.340 Yeah.

00:05:57.920 Could you put him on the screen?

00:06:00.200 I'm going to put someone else.

00:06:01.860 Okay, you can put...

00:06:03.140 Have you got another one?

00:06:04.560 King, you can put both of them.

00:06:05.760 You can put two.

00:06:07.380 So if this person was funny, right?

00:06:09.160 Yeah, if he was funny.

00:06:10.320 If you did.

00:06:11.920 This is the thing.

00:06:12.720 He's short,

00:06:13.420 so he would never speak into me.

00:06:15.000 Absolutely not.

00:06:15.220 Absolutely not.

00:06:16.600 Absolutely not.

00:06:17.140 Yeah, no way.

00:06:18.040 Absolutely not, no.

00:06:19.080 Too short.

00:06:19.680 Anyone?

00:06:20.300 Anyone who's funny?

00:06:21.300 Anyone?

00:06:21.860 He looks like my grandpa.

00:06:22.820 But we already said about height.

00:06:24.440 You can't do that to us.

00:06:25.440 How old is he as well?

00:06:26.500 If he was tall and he was funny...

00:06:29.100 No.

00:06:29.660 I think he looks like

00:06:30.600 he would have a funny personality, though.

00:06:32.200 No, he looks funny.

00:06:33.400 No, he looks funny.

00:06:35.040 Okay, well...

00:06:35.940 What was the other guy's name?

00:06:40.520 James Altucher.

00:06:41.560 A-L-T-U-C-H-E-R. 1.00

00:06:47.040 He is funny.

00:06:47.880 He might be a bit older for you guys,

00:06:49.000 though.

00:06:49.080 That's the only problem.

00:06:49.800 That might validate it.

00:06:50.660 Can you get a younger picture of him as well, please?

00:06:59.260 No, no, no, thank you.

00:07:00.180 No, no, no, thank you.

00:07:13.720 No, no, but look, guys, he's got a really good podcast.

00:07:16.420 So his podcast, right, he talks about success

00:07:18.800 and he interviews all different people,

00:07:20.600 sports personalities, finance people,

00:07:24.720 you know, movie stars and stuff like that.

00:07:25.840 He's very funny, very intelligent

00:07:27.480 and he made a load of money.

00:07:29.140 Is nobody going there?

00:07:30.580 No.

00:07:30.880 No, thank you.

00:07:32.220 That just goes to show that looks

00:07:33.940 does play a part as well,

00:07:35.360 apart from being funny.

00:07:37.380 Yeah.

00:07:37.880 That's what I've just noticed.

00:07:39.120 Like, London girls seem to be more looks-based. 0.87

00:07:42.440 Looks definitely does play a part

00:07:43.820 because, I'm sorry,

00:07:44.600 I'm just not going to go for someone

00:07:45.660 that I'm not attracted to.

00:07:46.920 Unless, I mean,

00:07:47.560 they could be capping, though.

00:07:48.680 Have any of you dated a guy

00:07:49.740 that makes $40,000 a year?

00:07:51.760 Or pounds, 40,000 pounds, anyone?

00:07:54.520 No.

00:07:55.000 You have?

00:07:55.980 Wait.

00:07:57.260 Yeah.

00:07:58.160 What do you mean?

00:07:58.900 Have you guys,

00:07:59.540 because you all said around 40,000,

00:08:00.920 not you,

00:08:01.500 but everyone else said that.

00:08:04.540 Everyone else said around 40,000 pounds

00:08:06.580 is what you would date.

00:08:08.100 I'm just curious,

00:08:08.780 have any of you dated?

00:08:09.740 You said you have.

00:08:10.580 Yeah.

00:08:10.980 Have you guys?

00:08:11.860 Yeah.

00:08:12.100 Yeah.

00:08:12.400 Yeah.

00:08:12.900 I don't know.

00:08:14.340 Oh, you don't know what they made?

00:08:15.440 No.

00:08:15.760 You know, roughly?

00:08:17.020 I mean,

00:08:17.480 because you can kind of tell

00:08:18.240 by someone's lifestyle.

00:08:19.500 Not always,

00:08:20.100 but just rule of thumb, right?

00:08:21.640 Yeah.

00:08:22.620 No,

00:08:23.020 because when you're self-employed,

00:08:24.360 it's difficult.

00:08:25.120 Not every year,

00:08:25.920 you're going to have

00:08:26.380 the same amount of income,

00:08:27.820 so it really depends.

00:08:29.120 Yeah.

00:08:30.660 Okay.

00:08:31.020 What about you?

00:08:31.940 I haven't.

00:08:32.660 No.

00:08:33.160 They always made more?

00:08:34.680 No, a bit less.

00:08:35.880 Oh, less.

00:08:36.400 Yeah.

00:08:36.560 Okay, so,

00:08:37.580 yeah,

00:08:37.820 they're telling the truth.

00:08:39.420 But when does the,

00:08:40.420 when does the,

00:08:41.100 I never,

00:08:41.960 I'm always confused about this

00:08:42.960 because I never know

00:08:43.460 when the money thing really comes up

00:08:44.640 because we encourage guys.

00:08:45.820 So when we're teaching guys,

00:08:47.240 you know,

00:08:47.480 right,

00:08:47.820 this is,

00:08:48.260 go and talk to these girls, 1.00

00:08:49.620 this is how you interact.

00:08:50.520 We would encourage them

00:08:51.360 to not lead with money,

00:08:52.900 even if they're rich.

00:08:54.060 You know,

00:08:54.540 we were teaching a guy in Colombia,

00:08:57.160 Bogota, Colombia,

00:08:57.860 and he was like a multi,

00:08:59.040 multi-millionaire.

00:09:00.160 And we were saying to him,

00:09:01.060 like,

00:09:01.220 don't,

00:09:01.740 don't brag about that.

00:09:02.880 Like,

00:09:03.060 keep that quiet,

00:09:03.860 especially at the beginning

00:09:04.580 because you don't want to attract gold diggers.

00:09:06.020 And also,

00:09:06.460 it can look try hard,

00:09:07.240 kind of like,

00:09:07.640 hey,

00:09:07.800 babe, 0.51

00:09:08.080 you know,

00:09:08.280 look,

00:09:08.540 you know,

00:09:08.760 I'm making this amount of cash

00:09:10.360 or whatever.

00:09:12.100 Like,

00:09:12.440 for me personally,

00:09:13.240 dating in London,

00:09:14.080 it never comes up.

00:09:15.880 Do you know what I mean?

00:09:16.400 Like,

00:09:16.540 they might get a sense.

00:09:18.020 They might get,

00:09:18.560 you know,

00:09:18.780 kind of like,

00:09:19.220 oh,

00:09:19.400 they've got a kind of a sense

00:09:20.380 of from my lifestyle,

00:09:21.280 like,

00:09:21.520 you know,

00:09:21.880 what I might be making.

00:09:22.880 But no woman's ever asked me.

00:09:24.980 And it's never been a topic of conversation

00:09:26.360 because I think the attraction

00:09:27.340 should come from something else.

00:09:28.680 Do you know what I mean?

00:09:29.800 Which is true.

00:09:30.460 I agree.

00:09:30.940 I feel like me personally,

00:09:32.120 I wouldn't ask a guy 0.92

00:09:33.140 how much they're making,

00:09:33.960 but I would judge how much they're making

00:09:37.760 by their lifestyle,

00:09:38.680 like you mentioned.

00:09:39.540 It does show.

00:09:40.680 And I mean,

00:09:41.380 I feel like it depends

00:09:42.240 if you're comfortable with the guy.

00:09:43.340 Not everyone will just go out there

00:09:44.340 and ask a guy,

00:09:44.940 oh,

00:09:45.120 how much do you make?

00:09:46.060 That's a bit crazy.

00:09:47.740 I think there are some women that do, 1.00

00:09:49.040 but like that woman that James Tusk met,

00:09:51.260 but maybe it's more of a,

00:09:53.120 I mean,

00:09:53.340 you've got to be pretty bold to sit.

00:09:55.560 Yeah.

00:09:56.700 I was just banned on TikTok

00:09:59.140 and we are demonetized on a daily basis

00:10:02.120 on this platform.

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JustPearlyThings - March 25, 2023

Pearl DESTORYS This Delusional Woman

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