JustPearlyThings - Pearl DESTROYED These O.F Models

00:00:00.000 a seven and a half eight okay i think i'm i'm a 10 in the midwest have you scoot into the table

00:00:07.400 depends on the city in la the number goes down uh okay in uh let's say you're in like a

00:00:17.440 international hub somewhere oh international hub yeah i mean okay okay um like like la for example

00:00:25.480 um i wouldn't on a good day a solid like a strong eight okay i would call myself a 10 but that's

00:00:34.340 because i'm no matter who it is like no one's ever gonna think i'm the prettiest girl or like

00:00:40.160 there's not ever there's always gonna be somebody that thinks i'm ugly so i'm just gonna call myself

00:00:44.420 a 10 and be happy with that i like that you know what i mean well not everybody likes me not everybody

00:00:50.060 has to okay we'll let everybody answer go ahead i'd give myself an eight if i was down south or

00:00:56.100 in the midwest i'd be beyonce but here in la you feel me it really just depends on what part of well

00:01:01.920 we're in santa barbara but i'm from la i'm from the hood so in the hood i'm definitely a 10 you feel me 0.86

00:01:07.420 but when you go to beverly hills stuff like that you you fat you got a belly little fupa then yeah

00:01:12.160 your number go way down so beverly hills versus the hood you know let me know more to love baby

00:01:18.560 um i would rate myself like a seven or an eight okay i'd probably give myself a 6.5 or a 7 i think

00:01:29.860 it depends on the city and state too like in florida maybe like a 7 but here in california maybe like a

00:01:34.760 6.5 yeah i think i'm 6 6.5 i think that's about accurate you guys are kind of changing my mind i think

00:01:42.460 he has a low volume but i was gonna say like a like a seven or eight but i'm gonna go with an eight

00:01:47.980 i say five i think i'm an average chick oh not pretty no what that doesn't mean i don't think

00:01:55.420 there's anything wrong with average i mean i think like there's nothing wrong with being average i

00:02:03.280 think if you take 10 girls at the table like half of us probably are average yeah i think no one wants 0.99

00:02:08.500 to be like honest with them just because you're not saying you're 10 doesn't mean you're not

00:02:11.620 confident either there's a difference between realistic and just not confident i agree completely

00:02:16.360 yeah i just i don't know why like we live in the society where average is seen as a bad thing like

00:02:20.880 most people are average not everyone can be like if you think about if you're an eight that means

00:02:25.420 you're in the top 20 of beauty you should have had top 20 of beauty results so that means um i don't

00:02:30.980 know modeling contracts i don't know you know um eligible top 20 10 men in your dms or um

00:02:38.200 i don't know but not not just like like taking you seriously but go ahead there's also been

00:02:43.060 beauty studies um they've done where they've like had eight faces lined up of different like

00:02:48.420 kinds of beauty supermodel beauty with the chiseled features and like you know what people 1.00

00:02:52.200 actually find most beautiful is most familiar so it's like more the girl next door look that

00:02:57.080 was actually rated the most beautiful or even like somebody like i've noticed like the more that i've

00:03:03.280 been around couples um people tend to date people that we kind of resemble them or someone that they

00:03:10.120 love like their mom or something i don't know why that is again it's probably the familiarity thing

00:03:15.960 that she just pointed out but i've i've i've continued to notice more and more since being in

00:03:20.920 la that a lot of people tend to date people that kind of look a little bit like them so it doesn't

00:03:25.900 mean that necessarily like it's the beauty standard it's just beauty beauty in each beauty

00:03:30.920 i'd like to say that beauty is not subjective it's objective there's been many studies like people

00:03:35.700 tend to find the same things attractive like people might have like certain types where it

00:03:39.540 differs a little bit but in general like it's not subjective it's yeah and every man woman in

00:03:44.100 between is someone's type at the time not oh true yeah i think it's a question because i didn't want

00:03:50.260 to get lip fillers until like like three years ago when it became popular to have big lips and as

00:03:54.740 someone like yeah and i was bullied for my big lips growing up until it became like people were

00:04:00.220 getting lip injections really like that's why i call myself i'm not going to hold on base what i

00:04:06.320 think of myself on what anybody else thinks of me i look in the mirror every day and i like what i

00:04:10.300 see yeah but that's delusional but it's true i like what i see in the mirror so in my mind okay then

00:04:16.700 i okay in my mind i'm not saying that you have to say in my mind in my mind in my mind i'm a millionaire

00:04:23.120 in my mind i'm a millionaire and a phd in my mind and i feel like that so therefore i am

00:04:29.740 just because you like what you see in the mirror also that doesn't mean that you're a 10. a 10 is

00:04:36.160 saying you are absolutely perfect so you're saying you don't have any acne your hair is perfect every

00:04:40.060 single day like you're in the best shape of your life you're saying you have absolutely nothing that

00:04:43.700 you think you can improve on yourself i'm not saying that but i'm saying that i would consider

00:04:47.840 myself a 10. i don't know what other people would call me i think maybe you're thinking of different

00:04:51.580 categories because objectively the golden ratio is a measure a measure of facial symmetry and it

00:04:57.040 is objective you can look at someone's face and see how closely they match and so i think when a

00:05:01.280 lot of people say what they're talking about is this is how i measure up to this ideal standard of

00:05:05.580 beauty though i do think yeah you're right over time or whoever said that over time society does

00:05:10.620 value different aspects of women's beauty as time changes yeah it's just i know for a fact that not

00:05:16.140 everybody's gonna find me beautiful some people will some people will women make 70 i'm gonna go

00:05:20.760 with what i like but women make remember women make 70 to 80 percent of consumer buying decisions so all 0.67

00:05:25.900 the media is marketed towards women it's not for men what men what men likes really has not changed

00:05:31.380 natural more natural you see but i said earlier like it really does depend on the country and it does

00:05:36.960 depend on where you're living because it's a lot different in america than it is in israel i lived in

00:05:41.060 israel for over four years and the beauty standards there while completely different when i got

00:05:49.060 back here when i got back here i went and i wanted a nose job right away as soon as i got back i went

00:05:56.580 and got botox i went and got lip filler i didn't feel beautiful here by beauty standards at all but

00:06:02.580 when i lived in israel i was very confident and i felt great because they're they don't care about 0.97

00:06:07.380 those beauty standards right they don't care about them they've done studies on this like with men all 1.00

00:06:15.280 over the world i mean i i lived there first i mean i've lived okay i've lived in germany i've lived all

00:06:20.040 over the world too so we could go back and forth and then the i lived game but in general men tend to

00:06:25.100 find the same things attractive i don't believe that's true at all but okay well but what do you

00:06:29.640 think men find attractive um i mean fit feminine friendly in general um symmetrical face i mean i

00:06:36.800 think you kind of know it when you see it if we're being honest supposedly like um you know biologically

00:06:42.140 like where the men are attracted to like a woman that looks like she's capable of bearing a child 1.00

00:06:47.020 so like yeah to me that's the only way that we can say what we know men like because it's all

00:06:51.700 different between what men like yeah it's not it's not that one thing like oh if you have a small

00:06:56.580 nose every man is gonna like you men in general aren't that picky and also i don't like supermodels 0.55

00:07:01.680 some men like the bbl big booty latinas like everyone has a different type so you can't just 0.58

00:07:06.980 put men into like a certain category i mean men really aren't that picky they swipe right on dating 0.99

00:07:11.740 apps like 50 of the time like men just really they're not picky on who they fuck but they're picky 0.83

00:07:16.980 on who they want to marry yeah and who they want to show off yeah and another thing is is you can be

00:07:21.860 you can be the complete you can be the complete and total package and get delivered to the wrong

00:07:26.140 house i'm just saying you can be you can be what somebody is dying and praying for and not get

00:07:31.080 the choosers so then you pick the wrong house no i'm saying no i'm saying i'm saying you can walk

00:07:37.020 into a room and be attend to somebody in that room but go up to the wrong guy i mean not really

00:07:43.840 not okay okay let's let's let's do it let's do a different example is is lizzo going to be a 10

00:07:48.900 anywhere no lizzo if she goes to japan that's exactly what i'm that's exactly what i'm saying

00:07:54.540 no no but she's not going to be a 10 anywhere i mean we could argue that maybe like you know

00:07:59.240 well yeah she will be a 10 somewhere like i said in the hood she's just like every woman they have 1.00

00:08:08.300 they could be the exact perfect package for the perfect person right but that's exactly what i'm trying to

00:08:13.360 say lizzo if you want to use her as an example she's a beautiful woman right right i think what 1.00

00:08:19.380 she's getting at every single person on earth i mean i have common sense i think that that's where

00:08:23.540 you get in i think that's where you get it wrong sometimes we have to we have to generalize in order

00:08:30.560 to have conversations sometimes we know we have to otherwise if we're gonna have a conversation

00:08:34.920 about every single exception we're gonna be here all day

00:08:38.160 if i said you guys look like lizzo would you take it as a compliment

00:08:46.740 her body and her face and her confidence and the way that she carries herself hell yeah 0.99

00:08:56.820 i think she's beautiful i can find beauty in every single woman though like that's just me 1.00

00:09:01.940 i think what pearl was trying to get at is that it's okay to be normal it's okay not to be a 10

00:09:07.680 out of 10 in society standards everybody is told nowadays that they're special and that you're a 10

00:09:12.340 you're a 10 no let's be for real we have to be honest with ourselves we go out into the world i'm

00:09:16.400 gonna go out somewhere somebody doesn't like black girls guess what i'm gonna have to do except that 0.91

00:09:19.600 people don't like black girls i'm gonna go out there and change the world's opinion no that doesn't 1.00

00:09:23.120 make that doesn't change how you feel about yourself yeah but i mean but i feel about myself

00:09:26.880 because i'm going off of society standards of what i look like i feel that way but she's saying

00:09:30.840 the question was to rate our looks not ourselves there's a big difference

00:09:34.640 okay but come on even if we're gonna go off personality what we all have perfect 10 no no i'm

00:09:42.080 saying like there's no areas for improvement in your personality no that's not what we're saying at all

00:09:46.580 no i mean it is when you're saying you're a 10 if you're including per because you said

00:09:50.720 where you stand in society no but i said i said i said if we were telling even if we were going

00:09:57.400 personality that's what i said that's true yeah but it's i think that we're having a little bit

00:10:01.320 of confusion about objectively there is an objective beauty standard you can look at a woman and there

00:10:05.960 are different across races across ethnicities across all different types of things there are women 0.99

00:10:10.860 who are objectively beautiful when they walk in a room you know that's a 10 you know it you know it

00:10:15.160 when you see it but there is relative beauty like like like you were saying it depends on where you

00:10:21.460 are and you may have somebody who for that for that culture for that area that's a 10 and it looks

00:10:26.820 different than the objective 10 that all most people if you have a room full of a thousand people

00:10:30.800 from all over the world they know when somebody walks in that's a 10 objectively because you can

00:10:35.600 see it's the facial symmetry it's just the math and our brains comprehend it as beauty 100 and if you

00:10:40.160 bring somebody with blue eyes somewhere where they're predominantly not blue eyes they're

00:10:44.820 immediately going to get like a double look or be held to like oh wow that's beautiful because it's

00:10:50.600 not seen as often or whatever the case may be i'm not just i'm just saying blue eyes because i

00:10:54.920 that's what i have so i'm not going to critique somebody else's look but yeah well i don't

00:10:59.440 understand is who is the shot caller that said oh this is the perfect structured face this is what beauty

00:11:05.060 is like it's just society who has the right to say that you're right you're not bringing up the golden ratio 0.69

00:11:10.800 yeah some naughty it's just math it is and you know another thing is ridiculous to me is that okay

00:11:16.660 this is what a 30 year old should look like this is what you should look like when you're 20 this 0.86

00:11:20.200 is what i have a question i have a question how tall are you how tall are you 5 7 okay would you date a guy 0.99

00:11:26.500 that's five foot i have really oh plenty of times five foot seven inches yeah i fucked a little 0.99

00:11:33.080 four and seven let me tell you i look and he was probably winning double time yeah no look where i come 0.97

00:11:45.240 from look you you just blessed and at my age you just blessed to get somebody that you feel me wants

00:11:50.380 to show you some love honey and show you a good time honey so you got to go along with it baby if

00:11:56.340 it's if it's your you feel me your type then it's your type height shouldn't matter you know what i

00:12:00.560 mean yeah i don't i think that's shallow to be honest to to put somebody down just based off their

00:12:05.180 women women do though if you look at the filters on dating apps though like most like the most common 0.97

00:12:09.720 filter is six foot and up and most women have that filter on if they can i have a question i feel like

00:12:14.120 most men like shorter women as well they do yeah that's my problem five two is like this they want 1.00

00:12:19.060 a little tiny yeah mad short guys i know i used to give i used to give i used to date only

00:12:24.980 so for those of you who are working in the adult industry i'm curious what you think your life will

00:12:37.440 look like about 10 to 15 years in the future like what do you picture where do you picture your

00:12:41.480 career is going i mean i've definitely been thinking about that a lot since i got pregnant

00:12:46.640 and also before as well um that's also why i kind of stepped out of the corn industry itself because i

00:12:55.940 was realizing that you know at least with only fans yes they can screenshot yes they can screen

00:13:00.440 record everything and it can be put out on reddit or whatever but that i'm on the hub anyone can look

00:13:08.000 me up and now it kind of sucks like looking back on it i don't regret my decisions because they got

00:13:15.380 me to where i am today and the person that i am today and i will always be thankful for that

00:13:19.320 um but i do wish i went ahead and did my research before and did things a lot differently than i did

00:13:26.960 um because i i wonder did you know before you started so this is something so i'm a career

00:13:34.460 coach and i help people find jobs without buying college degrees so i help people get into tech and

00:13:38.520 different industries blue collar doesn't really matter whatever people want to do i'll help them

00:13:42.040 figure out how to do it and so i'm curious about if if it's common knowledge that if you do that kind

00:13:48.360 of work later on down the line it may show up an employer may choose not to hire you and they're

00:13:52.900 legally allowed to do so and how have you like planned for that on down the line i went ahead i

00:13:58.160 went ahead kiana still is my real name but i changed the spelling of it i use a fake last legally you

00:14:03.300 changed it no okay so if i walk into a job they you can't correlate kiana kumani with my real name

00:14:10.320 um what if they start like making technology to like find your face well they already have i mean if

00:14:16.480 they already have then they already have but honestly after the work that i've done i don't see

00:14:20.420 myself going back to nine to five um i do want to go to college and i do want to get my nursing

00:14:26.820 degree because i do want to go and be a traveling nurse and help out in different countries and i

00:14:31.700 don't think it really matters when you're going to be a nurse if you've done corn i don't see that

00:14:37.920 as an issue because i'm i want to help well a lot of employers a lot of employers do and it will

00:14:43.540 impact your prospects and if that if that is the case then that is the case but right now i'm trying

00:14:48.300 to stack my money as much as possible and again invest in airbnb properties that's wise of you

00:14:52.300 yeah yeah and do as much as possible i don't want to waste my money on stupid stuff yeah i think it's 0.98

00:15:00.020 dumb that a lot of women in the industry get into the industry and they are so they have never had 1.00

00:15:05.560 that much money before so they go and buy designer purses designer shoes they waste all they waste yeah 0.99

00:15:11.820 they waste all their money they spend it and they don't learn how to do their tax forms they don't

00:15:16.160 learn how they don't learn how to write off things that they're paying for on a daily basis to keep

00:15:20.200 up with their own their own like look like when you're when you're an of model i can write off

00:15:25.340 these nails every time i get them done i can write off everything do you all do your own taxes or do

00:15:30.500 you have cpa i do my own i've i've because i did my business degree i actually like took courses and

00:15:36.440 shit like that and i actually really really enjoy doing that i want to help more people do that when

00:15:40.920 it comes to of um but no i definitely have a plan for after i'm done with the industry that i'm in 0.97

00:15:46.640 right now did you start in only fans because you couldn't get a job with your degree as many of you

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JustPearlyThings - May 23, 2023

Pearl DESTROYED These O.F Models

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