Pearl DISMANTLED Only Fans and Modern Women Respectively
Episode Stats
Words per Minute
224.31529
Summary
In this episode, I am joined by my good friend and co-host of the Only Fans podcast, to talk about the sex industry. We talk about our experience with Only Fans, the benefits of working with them, and how to get into the industry. We also talk about what it's like to be a Only Fan and how the industry has changed over the years.
Transcript
00:00:00.000
People flying you out to places. It's just amazing.
00:00:02.140
And I mean, for women, it must be, if you're, either you're in that position,
00:00:06.360
that must be incredibly addictive, because you've got that lifestyle, you've got those opportunities.
00:00:09.920
But even if you're not, but you're, you know, you've got a smaller account,
00:00:12.720
but you're thinking, well, if I play it right, I could get up there.
00:00:15.320
I mean, it's no wonder that, like, dating is getting screwed.
00:00:21.400
You know, because particularly these young women, they get given the keys to the kingdom, don't they?
00:00:27.420
Which is great, and they can have fun for a period of time.
00:00:32.060
The metaverse happens, and all of a sudden there's a 40-year-old dude selling you their AI girls.
00:00:38.060
Yeah, well, it's like we trade a lifetime of happiness for, like, 10 years on OnlyFans.
00:00:44.600
It's like, I think five, I can't remember, I'm going to look it up after the show,
00:00:48.000
but only 5% of women are still practicing, like, I think it was, the study was done with hookers,
00:00:53.800
but it's either after the age of 35 or 40, 5% are left.
00:00:58.560
Oh, so they get rolled out at 30, and then they're just like, go back to society?
00:01:04.040
Well, I don't know what, because I was thinking maybe they'll, because I was thinking, what
00:01:07.540
are they going to do with us older women, like, when we're single, childless, and like,
00:01:11.340
and I was like, maybe they'll legalize prostitution.
00:01:16.200
Well, but then I found out, yeah, men don't obviously want to bang old chicks, and only 5%
00:01:23.560
stay past the age, they're either 35 or, I think it's 40, I think it's 40.
00:01:35.100
Yeah, and then most, I mean, let's be real, like, most OnlyFans models, yeah, don't even
00:01:41.400
It's really like the 1% of, like, these chicks actually make any money at all.
00:01:55.020
And, you know, I know there's exceptions to every rule, but as a group, guys, we're dummies.
00:02:02.140
Hence the one-liners at the beginning of the show.
00:02:05.480
That always surprised me about the whole OnlyFans model management, like, model, though,
00:02:09.340
you know, that Tates are doing and various other people.
00:02:11.660
It's a bit like, well, can't these girls, like, they're the ones with the goods.
00:02:15.520
They're like, no, no, we do all the back-end stuff and everything.
00:02:19.720
Because they only work two hours a day, or will they work one day a week?
00:02:24.900
And then it's like, cool, the rest is my free time.
00:02:29.660
I think even, like you said, OnlyFans girls, I mean, obviously not, you know, a fraction
00:02:34.720
of them are making the really big money, but there's opportunities.
00:02:36.980
I mean, I've personally met women, not OnlyFans, but with small Instagram accounts who are
00:02:44.660
They're getting flown around by people, like, they're in sugar arrangements.
00:02:47.180
You know, they're getting, so they're not, it's not, it's a very soft form of hoeing,
00:02:52.580
You know, it's not like they're getting large sums of money, but they're certainly getting
00:02:55.340
trips, they're certainly getting advantages off of, you know, and these aren't girls with
00:03:01.680
Most women, 80% of women, are hooking for trips.
00:03:05.840
They just want the picture that they're in fucking Cancun or they're out in Dubai.
00:03:10.740
Like, you get all that traveling, you get a G. Congratulations, right?
00:03:15.100
And like, I mean, just, I mean, just because somebody in the chat, the chat's kind of go
00:03:21.200
Obviously, there's nothing wrong with recording yourself with your kids.
00:03:23.560
You should take as many pictures as with your kids.
00:03:27.120
But what we're talking about is like all these, like, if you take a picture and a little
00:03:32.140
But it shouldn't be like, that should be like five seconds or five minutes of whatever you're
00:03:35.880
doing and then the phone's away and you're with the people you're talking to and stuff,
00:03:40.720
Unless you have like a business or something, of course, right?
00:03:44.200
You start to see these, like, moms treat their kids like purses.
00:03:52.780
It's such a weird phenomenon where I'm like, is this, like, you don't even seem to like
00:03:57.600
You just, like, like the Instagram picture that's with it.
00:04:02.700
Where the Tradcon's like, oh, this is, this is, look, this is true happiness.
00:04:10.540
Have you seen, oh my God, I trigger the Tradcon women so hard.
00:04:15.300
Well, because I just point out, and like, I don't claim to be like a traditional woman,
00:04:19.480
but it's like all these chicks are like playing pretend.
00:04:21.520
I'm like, you got married at 28 and you had two kids.
00:04:27.260
Because traditional women spend their primary reproductive years, which is,
00:04:30.820
like, before the age of 25, like, they care about the family first, not themselves.
00:04:36.700
So I was like, if you're not married before 25, sorry, traditional, gone.
00:04:45.080
I'm not saying you're a bad person, but it's like, they treat me like I'm, like, talking
00:04:49.560
crazy when I'm like, I don't think that's traditional.
00:04:52.780
It's like they just got lucky and cashed out at the top almost or something like that.
00:04:56.240
And I'm like, I'm not, I'm not, I'm not hating you for it.
00:05:04.480
They're like, they're trying and they're fucking it up because they keep going.
00:05:06.860
Because I, you would know, I know, you know, a lot of women and stuff that are like, oh,
00:05:10.420
And, but then they start dating fucking idiots again.
00:05:12.160
And then, and then by the time they're like, oh, fuck, I'm 32 now.
00:05:16.000
Most of them fumble, the most girls fumble that bag.
00:05:19.620
Is that like, I mean, if you actually look at the actual, the Cosmopolitan Casino, it's
00:05:24.620
They pushed, they pushed that whole thing of that lifestyle and they didn't exist.
00:05:30.520
I'll try to find the book later for you guys, but there's a whole book on that whole thing
00:05:33.780
that they pushed out during the seventies and eighties with the Cosmopolitan and stuff
00:05:36.900
I mean, the Sex and the City shows and stuff like that.
00:05:39.520
Like, I mean, even if you look at something like Oprah, like Oprah is like magazine and stuff,
00:05:44.320
If you actually want to live the Oprah lifestyle, it was like, you had to be, you had to be
00:05:48.640
wasting $260,000 a year to do all the stuff that's being shown on there.
00:05:52.540
And so it's, it's all fucking a grift and stuff like that, but it is what it is.
00:05:56.920
You know, this is why like at the end of the day, you have to choose what you want for
00:06:01.340
I think that's, and it makes sense when they're like red pill guys, like don't give advice
00:06:05.840
because like every guy has to like, there's pros and cons to every decision.
00:06:09.600
I know some guys do, but like, I understand why there are others, at least a sector that
00:06:14.200
don't, because every guy kind of has to make a decision for himself.
00:06:17.540
They, well, they, they do and they have to decide what kind of lifestyle do you want.
00:06:20.460
And, and I mean, I think one of the issues I've got with the tradcom people is that they're
00:06:26.380
You know, they're like, Oh, if you're not, if you're not, you know, you're a degenerate
00:06:30.300
And it's like, well, I, I mean, it's different strokes for different folks.
00:06:34.620
And it's, it's sort of like, um, if you want to live that lifestyle, that's absolutely fine.
00:06:38.720
But equally, you've got to look at the divorce rate.
00:06:42.560
You've got to look at, I mean, Rich Cooper recently was, was tweeting about how much
00:06:46.920
happiness is there in, even in relationships that remain together.
00:06:50.180
So like, you've got to look at the reality of the situation here and think, well, do I
00:06:57.900
Because, you know, society's telling the incentives in line to be able to do that in a positive
00:07:03.860
Like a lot of times incentives are just so out of whack, it makes zero sense.
00:07:06.800
Well, and even if we take out the numbers, the stats, because the tradcons will always
00:07:20.160
And like the guys then make more money because they're like, oh shit, I got all these kids.
00:07:24.780
Like, I don't think he's taking home more cash.
00:07:27.180
Like, and, um, but it's like, okay, is our reputation as wives good?
00:07:35.320
Like, let's just ask ourselves this, like really across the board are like, are men saying,
00:07:44.320
Like, and like, I think a lot of us, we really got to be honest with ourselves.
00:07:49.720
Even if you came from a two parent home, your mom most likely did not teach you to obey your
00:07:54.540
father, which is the number one thing you're supposed to do as a wife.
00:08:07.660
Like, I think most women nowadays, we're messier than the men.
00:08:14.180
Like, and then they'll, they'll come at me and be like, Pearl, are you this like trad con?
00:08:19.400
I wish it was, but like, it's like, you know, we do the best we can, but it's like, I don't
00:08:24.900
think we can improve if we can't even say, Hey, this is the ideal.
00:08:29.140
The ideal is, you know, but it's funny because men understand the ideal.
00:08:32.480
They're like, yeah, that jacked guy with money, like that, that runs the company.
00:08:38.240
But as women, we can't say, okay, the virgin women that marry rich men young, I think they're
00:08:49.240
Well, no, I think it's, well, I think it's because like we, we interpret this.
00:08:57.660
So if I say a 22 year old woman is hotter than me, then therefore I need to be offended
00:09:05.980
because I like, you know, Tate said he, I think he had a clip that said a 26 year, I'd
00:09:10.200
rather date a 19 year old than a 26 year old or something like that.
00:09:15.060
Like, but it's like, we can't live in reality because then it makes us look bad because most
00:09:31.520
Well, but then you get the sort of self-defining, no, I'm a queen, you know, and it's some girl
00:09:35.160
and she's very overweight and all the rest of it.
00:09:36.780
You know, we see it on these shows all the time, don't we?
00:09:38.460
And it's, yeah, but then if you say, yeah, I'm an average chick, they're like, you hate
00:09:42.760
I'm like, I don't think that's, it's, you know, yes, queen, you're a 10.
00:09:50.800
Like, I don't understand why as women, we can't just like say, this is the ideal, that virgin,
00:09:55.840
that weighted, the hot chick, the model there, like, you know, Megan Fox in her prime, you
00:10:02.800
know, like maybe without the being a whore, but like, you know, but like that's, that would
00:10:15.480
Was it you or, I forgot who said this and stuff, but when you're like, it's like, all
00:10:19.020
right, if they're, if they love Lizzo so much and said, say, oh, you look just like Lizzo.
00:10:25.480
Like, they, like, they're always bigging up a bunch of these people and stuff, but, but
00:10:29.080
then you tell them you're like, you're, you look like them and then they get, why do
00:10:33.120
Well, and you asked, and you asked why, and I think it goes back to, we're dummies.
00:10:45.740
I'm like, I know, and I know people think I'm like mean, but I was like, I can't think
00:10:51.500
I'm like, we are more likely to kill infants and elderly.
00:10:55.260
The one thing we're supposed to be good at, the top Michelin chefs are men.
00:11:01.880
It's like men, if you put a dollar at the end of it, if you put a dollar and
00:11:06.480
said, be like the most nurturing person, men would just figure out how to do it better
00:11:11.200
Like, like men, you know, they just, they just figure shit out.
00:11:15.240
So do you, I think I've seen you talk about it somewhere, but I mean, what, what's your
00:11:19.620
Do you think that's fair enough under the circumstances?
00:11:22.440
I mean, well, you know, one part of me is like, well, if she's not loyal to her country,
00:11:31.340
But, but, you know, at the same, I mean, there's pros and cons to it.
00:11:35.760
I've heard some guys say, if you bring her back, then you're going to be in the same
00:11:38.580
problem, you know, cause now she's going to be this commodity.
00:11:41.360
But I also say, you know, fair enough, if anything, we should kind of look at those countries
00:11:45.820
that they're going to and say, what can we learn from them?
00:11:49.140
Like, you know, I heard the Asian chicks are like the first picked on dating apps and
00:11:52.840
I'm like, well, I mean, we could probably learn something.
00:11:59.460
We could probably learn something there, but women, like we don't learn.
00:12:14.460
I mean, it's just to go back to the idols and stuff.
00:12:16.540
I mean, like we were pushing Kim Kardashian forever and stuff.
00:12:20.680
I mean, cause I, you know, me and Charlie started demographics and stuff.
00:12:23.540
And I mean, pretty much like, I mean, half of the, like, we're like, I'm right in the
00:12:30.240
I think the youngest, the youngest millennial right now is like 25.
00:12:36.880
So 26, 25 is the youngest millennial right there.
00:12:39.460
And you got to think the other half of the millennial girls, if they've already fucked their lives
00:12:46.040
So what's going on is all the top millennial guys are basically stealing the extra chicks.
00:12:51.460
And then on top of that, if you look at most other countries, right, if you're, if you're
00:12:55.560
passport growing, we're essentially cucking out other dudes in other countries and taking
00:12:58.900
their chicks and their, it is what it is, but you know, well, and honestly it's going
00:13:04.560
Like, I mean, I, I deal with so many international, like people on the podcast and like my, my
00:13:10.000
one producer is from Nigeria, my other's from Zimbabwe and they'll, they'll tell me like
00:13:19.780
Social media is ruining all of us because we're dummies.
00:13:24.200
I think Russia, Russia, the war and stuff that Ukraine too, but yeah, there's a lot
00:13:31.060
of, I mean, dude, there's just, I mean, not to talk too much about that, but like do all
00:13:33.720
the guys are sending to the slaughter over there.
00:13:37.940
It was, yeah, it was, it was crazy actually, because last year we were in Poland and obviously
00:13:43.040
a lot of refugees, female refugees had come over to Poland from Ukraine.
00:13:47.700
And we were definitely, it was funny because Tusk was saying, you know, we talked to girls
00:13:51.720
and not, you know, we, we'd meet different girls, like Polish women, whatever it wasn't,
00:13:55.700
you know, but we would sometimes meet girls who'd come over because of the war and like
00:14:01.040
Tusk would say, Oh, I got this girl's Instagram, but she's got this like weird, it looks like
00:14:11.080
You know, it's, it's a really, we were like, what a sad state of affairs, you know?
00:14:15.100
Even Eastern European women, like, we can't even be loyal.
00:14:20.220
You know, I'm like, this is like, you know how I came to this conclusion?
00:14:24.920
I was trying to think of anything we were better at and I couldn't find anything.
00:14:27.920
I mean, what was the classic, the village girl is dead.
00:14:34.900
Unless she has a very strong father with a grip on her, but yeah, it's, it's, it's kind of crazy.
00:14:40.560
I mean, what was your experience in Japan, Charlie?
00:14:48.140
In terms of like, I guess like how the, cause like this is, I think we, we said this on your
00:14:53.040
I think Pearl asked this was like, what's going on now too?
00:15:00.900
I mean, it goes down to basically work culture, right?
00:15:04.060
A lot of the time, which is because they've adopted a lot of Western work culture because
00:15:10.740
And also they, these countries have also worked with the United States, been formed after
00:15:18.100
Now, all of a sudden, instead of having just one, you know, husband, um, basically working
00:15:23.660
like a dog, cause they work really, really hard there.
00:15:26.280
Um, and then the woman would be able to stay at home, take care of the kids.
00:15:34.240
And then you get the same problem, which is you have some women who are like, I'm going
00:15:43.060
It's actually becoming more pervasive around the world, but because that culture, I would
00:15:47.200
say has, is a little bit more of a shock to it.
00:15:49.980
Cause it went from one extreme to another, um, that I think has shocked.
00:15:56.240
But I would say, um, when you look at daily life with people, that's like one of the biggest
00:16:00.260
because, uh, a lot of people, I mean, you said it before, right?
00:16:04.140
They just don't have any time at the end of the day to be like, okay, now I'm actually
00:16:09.160
Do you think that's because like, don't they have like a shit ton of debt?
00:16:16.520
It's like, you're promoted to take on debt in order to try to.
00:16:20.780
But I was just wondering, cause I, I, I think it was years ago.
00:16:23.680
I, I could be wrong, but I thought like they were leading in debt or like at least like
00:16:30.220
And I was wondering if somehow like that transfers onto the people where they're most of the debt,
00:16:35.620
So it's kind of like you, you created it in Japan specifically.
00:16:38.700
Like you're printing your own currency to buy your own debt, which is just basically a way
00:16:42.960
to finance and print them and print money and stuff.
00:16:47.340
It's similar to what the United States does, but a little bit more crazy.
00:16:50.640
So Japan is the first nation to lead this charge because basically, so every, so there's
00:16:55.260
a thing we teach in crypto and something we teach and it's, it's a real, it's a, it's a red pill
00:17:13.160
I mean, the fucking Babylonians gone and stuff like, you know, aliens dead, you know, maybe
00:17:21.280
So what's going on is the, the, the, the, in terms of money, the underlying thing that,
00:17:25.000
that powers everything, the bottom of the pyramid, what holds the, the, the real fucking
00:17:29.080
denominator right there of everything is, is your nation growing in population?
00:17:35.720
That's, that's all that at the end of the day, if you, if the average couple in America
00:17:39.180
is having three fucking kids, one to replace you, your husband and one for the economy,
00:17:47.180
This is why, like, I mean, people like George Gammon and stuff like they're investing into,
00:17:52.060
It's one of the few Latin American countries with a good, with a good demographic because
00:17:56.780
That's why people are investing money right now.
00:17:58.680
Mexico's demographics are good for the next 20, 30 years.
00:18:03.460
They're so basically people are buying the Philippines, buying into the Philippines, investing
00:18:06.600
and they're going to fucking exit in the next 20 years out of, out of Philippines because
00:18:09.420
then they're, they're going into population decline.
00:18:11.500
Japan was the first nation to have a, they had a big baby boom.
00:18:14.460
And what ended up happening is that they were the first to kind of the population started
00:18:17.760
But so what they're doing is they're using their own debt, which Japan has done this
00:18:22.380
in the past, but it's called a Jubilee where they say, I forgive all their, the debt that
00:18:28.120
And they're going to do that probably at some point, but this is what, but since they were
00:18:31.280
the first nation to do, it happened to them, they went into automation and they're probably
00:18:34.800
going to be the first country to kind of survive.
00:18:36.320
So everyone's kind of looking at Japan is like, what's happening?
00:18:40.520
And if you watch the documentary, the princes of the end, they basically made a deal with the
00:18:45.180
Bank of International Settlements, which is the world's central bank.
00:18:50.480
They were just like, Hey, we have a pretty good economy going in the eighties.
00:18:55.340
And they're like, well, we want to keep it going, but you know, we'll have financial
00:18:59.240
warfare happening between Western countries in Japan if they smoke everybody.
00:19:03.520
So instead, why don't you guys just like sell off a lot of your, your good land, a lot
00:19:08.020
of your good assets, kind of bastardize your currency and we'll let you into the club.
00:19:27.900
You know, I'm going to, you know, I'm going to take credit.
00:19:30.780
All the trad cons have been bringing this up again and I am soloplistic or whatever as
00:19:41.800
Yeah, whatever it is, but that that's what's going on there.
00:19:45.940
So this is a, this is a really fucked up stat right here.
00:19:49.480
The, the Japanese economy in terms of GDP growth, which as many of you know, I was just
00:19:54.560
banned on Tik TOK and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
00:20:00.940
If you want to help, please consider sending a super thanks below every donation helps and