JustPearlyThings - May 19, 2023


Pearl Drops TRUTH BOMBS On Modern Women


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10 minutes

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220.45108

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2,411

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233


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00:00:00.000 Isn't that what it's all about these days, though?
00:00:02.960 It's dealing with reality as it is.
00:00:05.320 We live in a day and age where women can make money off of being on social media,
00:00:11.560 you know, taking provocative pictures and stuff like that.
00:00:15.120 And where, you know, it's desirable for men to have loads of women chasing after them.
00:00:20.880 Isn't that...
00:00:21.800 It's not like...
00:00:22.980 Yeah, but it's like, do you want to deal with those women?
00:00:25.360 As a guy, like, why would you want to deal with a girl that's in the club every weekend?
00:00:29.440 Why would you want to deal with a girl that wants to do girls' trips while she's in a relationship?
00:00:33.460 Yeah, why?
00:00:34.540 I think girls' trips is okay.
00:00:37.020 Like, definitely go with your girls, have a good time.
00:00:39.240 That's not saying that you have to be out in the club sleeping with whoever.
00:00:42.620 Yeah, that's true.
00:00:43.080 But for me, if I was in a relationship, you would not catch one photo of me with my bum out, tits out, nothing.
00:00:51.560 Like, that shit, that's foul to me.
00:00:54.160 Like, I don't like that as a woman.
00:00:56.420 And, like, I know us girls, like, we've seen things and been like, well, she has a boyfriend, though.
00:01:01.700 You know, she has a boyfriend, she has a man, though.
00:01:03.700 You know, it's not right.
00:01:05.380 And girls encourage each other to cheat on those trips.
00:01:08.380 Yeah.
00:01:09.000 You know, you're smiling because you're thinking of something.
00:01:11.260 I mean, I can see it.
00:01:12.100 I can see it.
00:01:12.660 It's funny because I really think it depends on your friendships.
00:01:15.460 That's why when you get into a relationship, it's so important to look at who are these, like, who are these man's friends and who are my friends.
00:01:23.100 Like, when I have, when I get married, I hope that my husband, he also has friends that are married and, you know, don't want to cheat on their wives.
00:01:30.940 Because show me your friends and I'll show you who you are.
00:01:32.980 There's no man that doesn't want, there's no man that doesn't want to cheat on his wife.
00:01:36.400 I don't believe that fact.
00:01:38.740 I'm going to find a high value godly man.
00:01:40.900 That is what I'm going to find.
00:01:42.860 And I'm not talking about, don't bring up the Old Testament, Eva.
00:01:47.540 Have you seen the churches these days?
00:01:49.840 Have you seen the churches?
00:01:51.340 No, but I'm not talking about a man that just goes to church.
00:01:55.240 I'm talking about a man that has a relationship with God.
00:01:57.700 There's a big difference.
00:01:59.200 And I will find, no, I don't want a priest because there's a lot of priests that don't have a relationship with God.
00:02:03.100 They just want to make money from church.
00:02:04.460 But the key word is you said want.
00:02:06.220 Every man wants to cheat.
00:02:07.500 That's like asking a man not to be a man.
00:02:09.020 Every guy, when he sees a hot girl, when he sees a hot girl, wants to fuck her.
00:02:14.760 I think natural instinct, yeah, but that love is supposed to take over.
00:02:19.680 It's about loving too.
00:02:21.580 You've got to love your girl.
00:02:22.580 Yeah, you might have the desire, but it's about you.
00:02:24.460 You're exactly right.
00:02:25.200 You're actually going out there to do it.
00:02:26.420 You're exactly right.
00:02:26.920 And when a woman loves a man, she doesn't even see other men.
00:02:29.340 That is so true.
00:02:30.560 Okay, I'm not done though.
00:02:33.980 Because a man can love his wife with all his heart and want nothing more than be a good father, a protector, tuck his children in, hold his wife at night.
00:02:44.600 But if you think that he doesn't want to get pussy on the side, you have lost your mind.
00:02:48.400 But why does that side, like what is the root of that?
00:02:51.920 It's how men are.
00:02:52.880 It's primal.
00:02:53.440 It's truly, like if I could snap my fingers right now and make that feeling go away, I think I'd be worth 10x what I'm worth.
00:03:01.040 And I would do the deal.
00:03:02.280 I would pay a million dollars to make that thought go away.
00:03:04.640 That was what I was going to ask next.
00:03:06.100 Yeah, absolutely.
00:03:06.600 Isn't it harder for you to be high value and have sex with so many women because where's the time for that?
00:03:11.860 But what you don't understand, a real high value man doesn't have to chase women.
00:03:13.920 Women chase him.
00:03:14.920 Yeah, exactly.
00:03:15.740 I know that.
00:03:16.120 Which is the problem, right?
00:03:17.100 Isn't it hard on?
00:03:18.100 Because even if you want to be a good man, it's in your face.
00:03:21.440 You see?
00:03:22.360 Like, I don't, look, I'm not trying to be disrespectful to you guys.
00:03:24.680 So it's down to the discipline then of the man.
00:03:27.640 It's down to the discipline of the man because it's in your face every day, but at the same time, even though it's hard, it's still a thing where, okay, cool.
00:03:35.460 Am I going to do it?
00:03:36.120 Am I going to have the discipline not to have sex with this person and focus on something that's important?
00:03:39.400 Let me tell you what happens to a man.
00:03:41.540 I do want to answer your question because I think it's important.
00:03:43.780 I want to finish this, though.
00:03:46.940 Everything that drives a man to get out of bed and work his ass off is generally around the thought of sex.
00:03:52.160 Just so you know, men build, invent, build, and maintain society in pursuit of women, okay?
00:03:58.380 And a man works his whole life to get himself in a certain place, financially, physically, all these things, the man he becomes.
00:04:05.840 And then at the end of that, you tell him you get one woman forever.
00:04:08.500 He would tell you to fuck off.
00:04:10.360 It is very, very hard to do that.
00:04:12.800 And a real high-value man will tell his girl what's up instead of lying like a fucking coward.
00:04:19.400 No, but that's why I feel like the missing piece is actually God because you say the high-value man will do all these things for sex,
00:04:26.480 but a high-value man of God, he will be doing all these things because he wants to put God first in his decisions.
00:04:31.660 Let me be completely clear.
00:04:32.720 Low-value men will do it, too.
00:04:34.620 What's the question?
00:04:35.280 Yeah, but who wants a low-value man?
00:04:38.500 Exactly, and that's a great point.
00:04:41.360 If you have two men, you can pick two men.
00:04:43.720 A low-value man that's going to cheat and a high-value man that's going to cheat.
00:04:46.280 Which one are you going to pick?
00:04:46.920 Because they both will cheat on your ass.
00:04:47.980 It's better to be single than to be cheated on.
00:04:51.740 You're avoiding the question.
00:04:52.740 Which one?
00:04:53.940 Which one would I pick?
00:04:55.000 Yeah.
00:04:55.840 One is going to give you a better life, children, love you, be there for you.
00:05:00.040 I don't want to pick.
00:05:01.680 Oh, you don't want to pick?
00:05:02.240 I don't want to pick.
00:05:02.820 I'd rather be single.
00:05:04.080 So you're diverting the question.
00:05:05.080 And with no kids.
00:05:05.920 I'm diverting the question.
00:05:07.600 I don't want to pick.
00:05:08.760 I believe, yeah, at the end of the day, I don't believe every man cheats.
00:05:14.820 Well, every man doesn't cheat, but every man has the propensity or the desire for variety.
00:05:19.840 Definitely.
00:05:20.400 And that's what I went to, loyalty versus ability.
00:05:23.020 Yeah, I rather loyalty than love at the end of the day.
00:05:26.400 But I know how men are.
00:05:28.180 That's bullshit.
00:05:28.680 But at the end of the day, it's not bullshit.
00:05:30.300 You're telling me.
00:05:31.400 I rather loyalty than love any day of the week, any day of the month, whenever.
00:05:35.980 Loyalty than love, what?
00:05:37.220 I like that.
00:05:38.120 I like that.
00:05:38.800 Wait, can we?
00:05:39.560 Oh my God.
00:05:40.380 Okay, so you would date Jonah Hill, the guy that looks like Jonah Hill.
00:05:45.740 He's loyal.
00:05:46.380 That's not my preference.
00:05:47.920 No, no, no, no, he's loyal.
00:05:48.600 You know how I know she's full of shit?
00:05:49.840 He's loyal.
00:05:50.240 Every girl on this couch has a host of men in their Instagram inbox right now that would
00:05:54.560 marry them tomorrow and be loyal forever.
00:05:56.440 They don't want those men.
00:05:57.800 Do you have men in your inbox?
00:05:59.060 Of course, everyone does.
00:06:00.500 Every one of those men.
00:06:01.520 I'm not denying every single girl wants a certain type of man.
00:06:04.940 But at the end of the day, he's not going to give you what you need.
00:06:07.560 I have a question out of the girls.
00:06:09.760 Who's been in a situationship before?
00:06:12.120 I've been in one.
00:06:12.840 So one, everyone.
00:06:14.180 Yeah.
00:06:14.460 Okay, so what were you doing then?
00:06:16.480 Yeah, it's ridiculous.
00:06:17.140 He wasn't loyal to you.
00:06:18.220 That's love of loyalty.
00:06:19.080 Do you know what, though?
00:06:20.420 I agree with you.
00:06:20.700 I don't agree with you.
00:06:21.960 Do you know what, though?
00:06:23.140 When you are really invested in someone and you want to put that time in, I completely
00:06:28.680 think that everybody else is blacked out to me.
00:06:31.360 It doesn't matter what else you bring.
00:06:33.460 It doesn't matter if I'm channeling for that guy, this guy X could come with a gazillion
00:06:39.020 cars, a gazillion houses, this and that.
00:06:41.400 I don't care.
00:06:42.320 I do not care because I want that one there.
00:06:45.580 And that's the reality.
00:06:46.620 And that's the same reason you won't leave him.
00:06:48.500 That's the reality of it.
00:06:49.640 But I could be dating a high value man who has everything in the world.
00:06:54.600 If you cheat on me, you're a bum to me.
00:06:57.300 Sorry.
00:06:58.100 Have you ever stayed with someone who cheated?
00:06:59.960 No.
00:07:00.520 Never?
00:07:01.020 No.
00:07:01.180 So, I've got a question.
00:07:02.880 So, you said something about, yeah, you said honesty, right?
00:07:05.980 So, clearly, honesty is not the primary, the key kind of characteristic because you've
00:07:11.860 all got DMs, right?
00:07:12.700 So, you can all find a loyal man, sorry.
00:07:15.240 You can't find a man in DMs.
00:07:17.480 Sorry?
00:07:18.080 I don't believe you can find a man like that.
00:07:21.000 In DMs.
00:07:21.500 In DMs like that.
00:07:22.400 So, you're telling me loyalty is your number one characteristic?
00:07:25.620 I feel like, in my personal aspect.
00:07:28.280 Wait, I have a question.
00:07:29.420 He's 5'2", but loyal.
00:07:30.700 Yeah, I feel like loyalty is the most important aspect.
00:07:33.760 Okay, so, height comes before loyalty.
00:07:36.020 There we go.
00:07:37.400 Now we're getting to the truth, isn't it?
00:07:39.380 I'm 5'9".
00:07:40.260 I think women sometimes work like the other way around.
00:07:42.800 They'll tell you the least important stuff.
00:07:44.340 He's broke.
00:07:45.560 He has no job and won't get a job, but he's loyal to you.
00:07:48.260 Of course, those things matter as well, but at the end of the day, in a real relationship.
00:07:51.260 No, I'm asking.
00:07:52.140 He's broke, but no job, but he's loyal.
00:07:55.040 Yeah, of course.
00:07:55.660 I'm staying.
00:07:56.640 I'm sorry.
00:07:57.260 I'm staying.
00:07:57.900 To be honest, I would stay if I knew he was a girl.
00:08:00.140 She's so full of shit.
00:08:01.480 She's so full of shit.
00:08:02.260 My daughter can just cap all you want, but at the end of the day, loyalty over anything.
00:08:05.660 But it's so funny.
00:08:06.320 It's hard to find a broke man that won't cheat.
00:08:08.640 Exactly.
00:08:09.100 I feel like broke men are the ones that cheat the most because they have the most time.
00:08:12.280 Exactly.
00:08:12.840 A man that's been so successful, he knows what you want.
00:08:15.020 Do you realize one out of three men are either virgins or haven't had sex in the past year?
00:08:19.720 Do you realize that you find 80% of men is unattractive?
00:08:22.580 Not okay.
00:08:23.240 Not average.
00:08:23.820 You look at 80% of men and you deem them unattractive.
00:08:26.500 Yeah.
00:08:26.780 You know, we only swipe right on dating apps 5% of the time.
00:08:29.780 So why do women say men are trash?
00:08:31.200 Because we're all sleeping with the same ones.
00:08:32.680 So whether you know it or not, you're doing it.
00:08:40.160 I feel like at the end of the day, women scream men are trash, men are trash, men are trash.
00:08:49.840 But they go for the same type of men.
00:08:52.360 They don't learn.
00:08:53.540 And I have my own values.
00:08:55.120 I have my own principles.
00:08:55.920 But at the end of the day, in a generalized form, women go for the same type of men.
00:09:00.200 And they want to be screaming, oh, this, this, and that.
00:09:03.040 But that's the type of men that you go through in the first place.
00:09:06.720 Like, you can't really complain.
00:09:08.280 What kind of men do you go to?
00:09:09.640 You haven't answered my question.
00:09:10.520 What's the number one characteristic?
00:09:13.560 So you said loyalty, which is cap.
00:09:15.140 So let's move that to the side.
00:09:16.760 So we know height is also important.
00:09:18.620 We know success is important.
00:09:20.440 You know their lifestyle is important.
00:09:21.820 How do you screen all these Instagram DMs?
00:09:24.680 I just want a genuine person at the end of the day.
00:09:28.000 A genuine person who's 5'2"?
00:09:30.200 What if he's really awkward?
00:09:32.080 Obviously, at the end of the day, with any person, there's genuine standards.
00:09:36.620 He's loyal, but he's really awkward.
00:09:38.240 He can barely make eye contact with you.
00:09:39.980 But he's loyal.
00:09:40.840 No, he's loyal.
00:09:41.440 There's genuine standards for each person.
00:09:43.540 There's genuine standards.
00:09:43.860 I need a yes or no.
00:09:45.420 I need a yes or no.
00:09:46.360 Very awkward.
00:09:47.420 Very awkward.
00:09:47.940 Can barely maintain eye contact with you.
00:09:50.060 But he's loyal.
00:09:51.240 Yes or no?
00:09:51.820 No, because I want someone that can.
00:09:53.320 But I thought the loyalty, that was the most important thing.
00:09:55.900 The loyalty is important, but loyalty isn't the only thing.
00:09:58.880 Yeah, there's obviously a lot of things that come of a relationship.
00:10:01.380 Yeah, but to be fair, you did say, they said, what's your most important thing?
00:10:04.020 And you said loyalty.
00:10:04.800 Yeah, because it is.
00:10:05.340 But clearly it's not, though, is it?
00:10:06.600 I'm not going to base the whole relationship off just loyalty.
00:10:09.060 That's the thing.
00:10:10.320 There's a lot of factors in relationship.
00:10:12.000 But there's a lot of factors that come first.
00:10:13.580 Yeah, of course.
00:10:14.740 Anyway, in my opinion, I think no one is loyal anymore.
00:10:17.400 Because most of the time I have clients that they are like, oh, yeah, no, my wife doesn't
00:10:21.980 need to know.
00:10:22.620 And I'm like, do you really think your wife is doing something else in this moment?
00:10:25.680 No.
00:10:25.940 Do you think she's at home waiting for you?
00:10:29.160 No.
00:10:29.640 She's probably getting someone else on a dating website to do the same.
00:10:33.560 But the only thing, she's doing it for free.
00:10:35.400 You're paying.
00:10:36.460 Women always know.
00:10:37.940 No problem.
00:10:38.380 Women always know.
00:10:40.900 I was just banned on TikTok.
00:10:43.640 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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