Pearl Drops TRUTH BOMBS On Modern Women
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Summary
In this episode we talk about cheating on your wife and how to deal with it. We also talk about why men cheat on their wives and why women cheat on them. We talk about how a woman cheats on her husband and why a man cheaters on his wife.
Transcript
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Isn't that what it's all about these days, though?
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We live in a day and age where women can make money off of being on social media,
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you know, taking provocative pictures and stuff like that.
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And where, you know, it's desirable for men to have loads of women chasing after them.
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Yeah, but it's like, do you want to deal with those women?
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As a guy, like, why would you want to deal with a girl that's in the club every weekend?
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Why would you want to deal with a girl that wants to do girls' trips while she's in a relationship?
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Like, definitely go with your girls, have a good time.
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That's not saying that you have to be out in the club sleeping with whoever.
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But for me, if I was in a relationship, you would not catch one photo of me with my bum out, tits out, nothing.
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And, like, I know us girls, like, we've seen things and been like, well, she has a boyfriend, though.
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You know, she has a boyfriend, she has a man, though.
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And girls encourage each other to cheat on those trips.
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You know, you're smiling because you're thinking of something.
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It's funny because I really think it depends on your friendships.
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That's why when you get into a relationship, it's so important to look at who are these, like, who are these man's friends and who are my friends.
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Like, when I have, when I get married, I hope that my husband, he also has friends that are married and, you know, don't want to cheat on their wives.
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Because show me your friends and I'll show you who you are.
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There's no man that doesn't want, there's no man that doesn't want to cheat on his wife.
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And I'm not talking about, don't bring up the Old Testament, Eva.
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No, but I'm not talking about a man that just goes to church.
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I'm talking about a man that has a relationship with God.
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And I will find, no, I don't want a priest because there's a lot of priests that don't have a relationship with God.
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Every guy, when he sees a hot girl, when he sees a hot girl, wants to fuck her.
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I think natural instinct, yeah, but that love is supposed to take over.
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Yeah, you might have the desire, but it's about you.
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And when a woman loves a man, she doesn't even see other men.
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Because a man can love his wife with all his heart and want nothing more than be a good father, a protector, tuck his children in, hold his wife at night.
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But if you think that he doesn't want to get pussy on the side, you have lost your mind.
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But why does that side, like what is the root of that?
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It's truly, like if I could snap my fingers right now and make that feeling go away, I think I'd be worth 10x what I'm worth.
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I would pay a million dollars to make that thought go away.
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Isn't it harder for you to be high value and have sex with so many women because where's the time for that?
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But what you don't understand, a real high value man doesn't have to chase women.
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Because even if you want to be a good man, it's in your face.
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Like, I don't, look, I'm not trying to be disrespectful to you guys.
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So it's down to the discipline then of the man.
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It's down to the discipline of the man because it's in your face every day, but at the same time, even though it's hard, it's still a thing where, okay, cool.
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Am I going to have the discipline not to have sex with this person and focus on something that's important?
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I do want to answer your question because I think it's important.
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Everything that drives a man to get out of bed and work his ass off is generally around the thought of sex.
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Just so you know, men build, invent, build, and maintain society in pursuit of women, okay?
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And a man works his whole life to get himself in a certain place, financially, physically, all these things, the man he becomes.
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And then at the end of that, you tell him you get one woman forever.
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And a real high-value man will tell his girl what's up instead of lying like a fucking coward.
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No, but that's why I feel like the missing piece is actually God because you say the high-value man will do all these things for sex,
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but a high-value man of God, he will be doing all these things because he wants to put God first in his decisions.
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A low-value man that's going to cheat and a high-value man that's going to cheat.
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It's better to be single than to be cheated on.
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One is going to give you a better life, children, love you, be there for you.
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I believe, yeah, at the end of the day, I don't believe every man cheats.
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Well, every man doesn't cheat, but every man has the propensity or the desire for variety.
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And that's what I went to, loyalty versus ability.
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Yeah, I rather loyalty than love at the end of the day.
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I rather loyalty than love any day of the week, any day of the month, whenever.
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Okay, so you would date Jonah Hill, the guy that looks like Jonah Hill.
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Every girl on this couch has a host of men in their Instagram inbox right now that would
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I'm not denying every single girl wants a certain type of man.
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But at the end of the day, he's not going to give you what you need.
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When you are really invested in someone and you want to put that time in, I completely
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think that everybody else is blacked out to me.
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It doesn't matter if I'm channeling for that guy, this guy X could come with a gazillion
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And that's the same reason you won't leave him.
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But I could be dating a high value man who has everything in the world.
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So, you said something about, yeah, you said honesty, right?
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So, clearly, honesty is not the primary, the key kind of characteristic because you've
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So, you're telling me loyalty is your number one characteristic?
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Yeah, I feel like loyalty is the most important aspect.
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I think women sometimes work like the other way around.
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He has no job and won't get a job, but he's loyal to you.
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Of course, those things matter as well, but at the end of the day, in a real relationship.
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To be honest, I would stay if I knew he was a girl.
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My daughter can just cap all you want, but at the end of the day, loyalty over anything.
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It's hard to find a broke man that won't cheat.
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I feel like broke men are the ones that cheat the most because they have the most time.
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A man that's been so successful, he knows what you want.
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Do you realize one out of three men are either virgins or haven't had sex in the past year?
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Do you realize that you find 80% of men is unattractive?
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You look at 80% of men and you deem them unattractive.
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You know, we only swipe right on dating apps 5% of the time.
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So whether you know it or not, you're doing it.
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I feel like at the end of the day, women scream men are trash, men are trash, men are trash.
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But at the end of the day, in a generalized form, women go for the same type of men.
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And they want to be screaming, oh, this, this, and that.
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But that's the type of men that you go through in the first place.
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I just want a genuine person at the end of the day.
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Obviously, at the end of the day, with any person, there's genuine standards.
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But I thought the loyalty, that was the most important thing.
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The loyalty is important, but loyalty isn't the only thing.
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Yeah, there's obviously a lot of things that come of a relationship.
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Yeah, but to be fair, you did say, they said, what's your most important thing?
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I'm not going to base the whole relationship off just loyalty.
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Anyway, in my opinion, I think no one is loyal anymore.
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Because most of the time I have clients that they are like, oh, yeah, no, my wife doesn't
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And I'm like, do you really think your wife is doing something else in this moment?
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She's probably getting someone else on a dating website to do the same.
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