JustPearlyThings - Pearl Exposed This Fact About Modern Women

00:00:00.000 i feel like guys i've heard guys say if a girl if a guy does not approach my woman i like i need

00:00:05.120 that to see that no if a guy if a guy if a guy sees an instagram that has a thousand or less

00:00:10.880 followers it's private no he's not but i'm saying like if instagram is the extreme right and i take

00:00:17.440 you take it to the extreme to like look at the argument so if a dude if a girl has a million

00:00:22.160 guys thirsting over her on on instagram even if it's not sexual content is that a green flag or a

00:00:26.720 red flag red yeah red hold on about eddie wouldn't you feel a bit of validation if someone tries to

00:00:32.640 move to a girl yeah that's my point i might feel a bit of validation but i don't want it no i'm not

00:00:36.320 saying all the time there's a proverb that says marrying a pretty girl is like planting crops 0.98

00:00:40.640 next to a busy street because everyone's gonna pick up the crop but like you would rather have 0.98

00:00:44.640 a woman that you knew was beautiful that no one moved to that's why it's impossible

00:00:49.440 it's not possible the difference the difference is women are attracted to that like when a guy's 1.00

00:00:56.240 in a room and you can tell other girls want him that's attractive to us that's attractive like when

00:01:01.200 drake's in the club the girls aren't thinking oh no too many girls want him like no no they're 0.99

00:01:06.400 they're moving to drake but but vice versa guys aren't attracted like they're not saying oh that's so

00:01:12.640 hot that that guy approached my girl i'm so turned on right now yeah it's not hot no it's not hot but

00:01:19.120 i've heard some guys say like like that's what i'm gonna back you on i'm saying like some guys will

00:01:24.240 like the validation if you walk in a room i don't know if you walked in a room right now it was a party

00:01:30.080 and you walked into your girl and the whole room went quiet and you're saying yo to everybody

00:01:33.840 yeah i'm that guy no but he's a girl and everyone's looking at her the validation that guy is

00:01:37.440 gassed bro the validation and wanting are two separate things so i think i agree you would

00:01:42.560 feel a bit of validation for it yeah but you don't necessarily want it because you know it's impossible

00:01:46.880 it's like it's just just one of those i'm a man so i'm territorial so all i sense with that situation

00:01:53.120 is potential trouble yeah i don't want that yeah i know for a fact that someone's going to test my

00:01:57.040 character by trying to move to my girl that's going to get in front of you that's a violation but then

00:02:03.840 you should know your woman and know she's going to shut it down so are you telling me that you 0.93

00:02:06.880 would rather go for an average thing that you're not going to get too territorial over or you'd

00:02:10.560 rather go for so it's not about being territorial it's about what is what makes most sense in the

00:02:14.960 situation i probably wouldn't be in certain situations with my girl i would expect her to 0.99

00:02:18.240 know better 100 or just stay at home who wants to improve more men or women men i think men want

00:02:33.680 improve more because they have to because their value comes from what they can create for themselves

00:02:39.760 so they have to men definitely i was gonna say i feel like women want to improve on their looks men 0.99

00:02:46.400 just want more money and things to offer but we both want to improve on different things but if women 1.00

00:02:52.800 want to improve more on looks then why are women more overweight than men yeah are they yes yes i 1.00

00:03:01.600 don't know something like 70 of women in america are overweight maybe it's not that much better here 1.00

00:03:07.920 it's not i don't i don't have the stats off the top of my head but i've looked it up before

00:03:12.240 yeah yeah because because you guys are always everyone i'm from america and everyone talks to me

00:03:16.320 and like and i'm like and i looked up the stats here i'm like it's not much better it i think i

00:03:21.280 think uh as an overweight person i can probably speak on this um it helps a man to get more money

00:03:30.640 regardless of what he looks like but for a woman she can improve herself and it wouldn't really make a

00:03:37.680 difference to how she's treated in most situations because not all women are eights or tens 1.00

00:03:43.840 so i think yeah but my person i'm saying with it like a five with a banging body like she still 1.00

00:03:49.600 gets a ton of attention but what what you're calling a five a certain man might not call a

00:03:54.320 five he might call you eight or two so i think most people could call that but there's general

00:03:59.200 standards there is i do feel like there's more motivation needed to improve yourself as a woman

00:04:05.920 well for myself i've i've struggled with my weight so i know that the motivation i put into my business for

00:04:12.080 example i haven't put it into myself in the same way but i know that because my business is thriving

00:04:18.080 the same energy i put into that i can use it and apply it into my weight but i feel like there's some

00:04:23.200 there's a lot of women out there who maybe they don't have the mental capacity because they haven't 1.00

00:04:27.600 achieved anything or they haven't successfully done something for themselves so that there's that

00:04:33.120 lack of motivation to even look at themselves yeah i think it's down to the fact that men um women are

00:04:38.880 born of value whilst men have to create their value so even as a woman you can just walk out 0.99

00:04:44.000 there on the street someone's gonna cater to you in some way shape or form as a man before you even

00:04:48.480 get awarded a seat at the sexual marketplace table you need to become something you need to be worth

00:04:52.640 something if you're lucky enough to be born good looking young then that's your entrance but for 0.96

00:04:56.800 most men that's not the case for most women you can be but ugly as long as you got a tun tun someone's 1.00

00:05:02.400 gonna try and stick it somewhere so i think that's the fundamental difference you have to

00:05:05.680 acknowledge that you're born of value whilst we have to create do you think if you couldn't get

00:05:08.720 a relationship that you would lose weight quicker if you got no attention from men in the world

00:05:14.240 i probably wouldn't be overweight i think i've always said my problem is i still get attention yeah

00:05:21.280 and now the attention is even different because you know the body shape i have looks like the body

00:05:27.280 shape that women are paying for so for me it's annoying because even though it's i shouldn't really 0.97

00:05:32.160 compare myself to people i'm like i'm annoyed i'm like i just wish i hated myself enough to change

00:05:36.800 wouldn't you say in a way that work that's men bailing out women for bad decisions you know in a 0.82

00:05:41.040 way still yeah probably because yeah yeah yeah i was gonna say i've had this conversation with men

00:05:47.120 where they're like i don't care like they've been on dates they don't actually ask the girl what she

00:05:50.640 does because they don't care they don't care yeah so i was gonna say so is it it's like a shoe

00:05:55.440 collection so so could you say that like they not that they don't want us to improve but let's say

00:06:00.480 she works in mcdonald's you lot don't actually require sometimes you don't require much edification 0.99

00:06:07.040 well yeah but they want us to look hot yeah so they might and they might want us to be less

00:06:11.120 argumentative just improve in certain aspects but maybe not in fit feminine friendly submissive 0.76

00:06:16.240 and it depends on the quality of guy you're going for the problem is that the market's so

00:06:19.840 skewed because there's such a small fraction of men who are actually worth something in society

00:06:23.920 so the men who aren't worth something are the ones that are gonna be like you know what if she gives it up

00:06:28.000 the hyenas is ready to pounce so i think that's part of the problem i agree it's funny i remember

00:06:35.920 having that same thought because i i lost a bunch of weight like a couple years ago and i remember

00:06:39.840 having the same thought like when i got past a certain weight that you still get like attention

00:06:43.600 but for me it just wasn't like the attention i wanted yeah i mean i've i've i've been all sorts of

00:06:49.120 sizes um and i do notice the attention is different when i'm smaller um i was also younger as well but

00:06:56.720 um people do treat you differently men treat you i mean at this way i attract a certain man i know the

00:07:02.720 man if i know where to go if i i know the kind of man i'll get but i think when i was smaller there was a

00:07:09.920 there was a variety of men it was all races all cultures all colors why are you able to have this

00:07:15.680 conversation and because a lot of overweight women like get very mad when they hear my show because 1.00

00:07:20.160 i think it's something i'm working on so that i'm trying to lose weight i'm actually doing stuff

00:07:24.800 you know yeah okay no that's cool um who wants do you think

00:07:33.280 would you rate yourselves one to ten the chat wants everyone guys and girls we don't discriminate

00:07:39.360 are we including seven or seven not allowed yeah you can't use seven wait it's just looks or like

00:07:44.160 just like one to ten looks i'll just look for them i'll give myself a six six i would say i've

00:07:53.840 watched kevin samuels i would say an adjustable six okay i was gonna say yeah you don't want to get

00:08:02.480 six i think i'm a four and a half okay i think when i say when i say i have this conversation

00:08:12.880 with my wife quite often but when i say a number i feel like now nowadays i feel like

00:08:16.560 i'm disrespected when i say this number but i generally think i'm like a six but she digs

00:08:21.200 but you're married i'll give you a higher number for the fact yeah

00:08:27.680 i'm gonna be honest my number changed based on what they said as well it did affect what because

00:08:32.560 i'm not going to rate myself higher than women who are younger than me i'm just not going to do it

00:08:37.280 because i know i know how it is okay what about you me

00:08:44.320 i honestly think i'm a six i think my personality does it for me me too i'm not gonna lie

00:08:48.720 and that's fine right but as a man that's what it is i grew up ugly

00:08:55.040 do you feel like a woman's personality could make you like her like could she might she might be a 0.95

00:09:00.560 fool but her personality could make you wife you have to be a certain level of attractive for your 1.00

00:09:04.320 personality to take it over i reckon i i honestly believe i'd rather wife a girl who was less 0.98

00:09:09.040 attractive but had a greater personality yeah 110 percent i don't want because i think the more 0.99

00:09:13.680 attractive a girl is the more crazy she is because there's no one and no one's ever held her 1.00

00:09:17.120 accountable so you want to the the prop the best girl to get is a girl that was ugly in school 1.00

00:09:21.760 who blossomed into her beauty because she had to learn to navigate the the and learn about men 0.93

00:09:27.680 by being around men because you never got men and then now you get men if your mind is in in

00:09:32.880 the right place then that's that's the sweet you know what's so crazy i agree with him so much because

00:09:36.640 i was a tomboy and i think i was quite well i'm dark-skinned so in school back in the day it was like

00:09:42.400 oh you're dark your blick so i remember at the day i consciously said i'm going to become a tomboy

00:09:47.360 i said so no man can tell me if i'm pretty if i'm not pretty and and then i just became mandem i just

00:09:52.240 became one of the boys and you see that key of navigating around the boys it is so i think it's

00:09:57.920 very true as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis

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JustPearlyThings - April 02, 2023

Pearl Exposed This Fact About Modern Women

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