JustPearlyThings - October 24, 2023


Pearl Exposes ENTITLED Modern


Episode Stats

Length

11 minutes

Words per Minute

198.86911

Word Count

2,204

Sentence Count

4

Misogynist Sentences

19

Hate Speech Sentences

7


Summary

In this episode, we have our first guest on the show, our special guest . We talk about what it means to be a woman in today's society, how to handle a man, and how to look after a man.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 okay come on there's nobody in the world that you'd want i'm attracted to like someone but he's but
00:00:05.360 he's like a celebrity figure you're like sex appeal but there's no one i actually want okay
00:00:09.680 do you think you're on like the level of a celebrity yeah you're not on the level of
00:00:14.880 celebrity celebrity's like top 10 20 of beauty like that yeah but remember i think i'm beautiful
00:00:29.200 i think i'm beautiful without the botox without without the money without all that money to do
00:00:33.840 myself up so i think i'm great this is like a cope i see women do like it's like you you think because
00:00:40.000 they have money they're beautiful when they got there money helped but if you look at margot
00:00:44.640 robbie before fame that girl was a 10. but then you're doing selectiveness because there's enough
00:00:49.360 girl that go there and the money blows them up only i disagree not the girls that get there for looks
00:00:54.720 alone top 20 of beauty you can look at exceptions like that like kylie jenner she's not she's not
00:01:02.640 beautiful she wasn't beautiful before no she was cute but yeah here i mean she wasn't that beautiful
00:01:08.320 but like i'm just saying in general guys like can we just talk in general instead of exceptions most
00:01:12.880 celebrities are top 20 of beauty in general and like we could talk about there's some exceptions
00:01:18.720 like kylie jenner did her lips whatever but most most people in hollywood were the top 20 of beauty
00:01:23.760 wherever they're from i still don't agree but yeah okay i feel you i feel you i don't know maybe you
00:01:30.560 should call him no definitely not he might oh i'm an apology i don't know no i have we had a closure but
00:01:38.160 he's not the one for me he's not my definition of the one i just feel like there's a different
00:01:43.440 there's a difference in behavior and the way you feel as well i can accept i'm not a possessive person
00:01:47.920 i can accept i really like my independence but i just know there's a certain way that you will handle
00:01:52.880 someone in those situations that just wasn't you know what it is though you know what it is sorry
00:01:58.560 i just know within myself sorry are you your only child no i've got brother and sister are you the
00:02:02.480 youngest i'm the i'm in the middle oh yeah you know so grow no go on it's fine so growing up did your
00:02:09.600 did your mom have a partner do you have a stepdad around no no yeah yeah like no but not permanently
00:02:14.960 so what in terms of looking up do you know how to look after a man that all being it's not because
00:02:20.560 you're saying certain things that in a relationship it's like if you saw a relationship with your
00:02:25.920 mom and dad growing up then there's certain things you wouldn't do in a relationship you
00:02:29.680 get what i'm saying to keep the man listen every man every every man that's been my boyfriend has
00:02:35.680 returned and they haven't found better no it's definitely not sorry have you ever been married
00:02:41.600 proposed to yeah you've been you've proposed to win a game not like on on one knee i haven't had
00:02:47.440 that experience yet but i've had similar he bought you right yes oh probably i've had similar but not
00:02:51.840 like that it was young so a promise ring basically kind of like that okay okay it is what it's the
00:02:58.320 same thing it's rare for a man to do that promise rings don't count no that's because it's rare because
00:03:02.880 it does not do you think that men get go out and buy promise rings it's just a man when i give you
00:03:07.200 i'll be honest girl i've had one it's not that big but he has to really like you to be because
00:03:13.760 he's not going to do that to everyone no no i'm not going to lie okay man will buy promise rings
00:03:17.200 still it's never going to happen it doesn't count you need a wedding date yeah hundreds a wedding
00:03:22.240 date not not a little ring but i was young anyway no okay so it wasn't a real it wasn't a real proposal
00:03:28.560 no no no okay so so the whole point is like you're counting things that don't count it doesn't count
00:03:34.080 if they don't want to marry you i feel you well they do the intention is to you no no no like men
00:03:38.240 say things when they mean it they do it like you can't you can't count it like i know what you mean
00:03:43.920 but you know happens you know i've had guys say i want to marry you it doesn't count unless he goes by
00:03:49.200 hundreds by the ring ask my dad like this is we can't like like i don't know why i was women we count
00:03:54.320 things that don't count you know it don't count so probably you've been proposed to you a couple
00:03:58.480 of times or no i don't count like yeah that's what i just said like yeah so no one's boot a ring and
00:04:06.880 said no no no it doesn't it don't count like it's like i had a promise ring but is a promise ring a
00:04:14.400 wedding ring no no i don't count that but at the time we feel like it but did he say it was a promise
00:04:19.680 ring or did he say it's an engagement ring no he said it was a promise ring and then he said
00:04:24.400 he was trying to he said it doesn't count that's what i'm saying he was trying to get the like the
00:04:30.320 property no i'm not gonna do it it doesn't count um okay how so everyone went right how does a guy
00:04:38.400 identify a good woman yeah mandem time okay all right men if you want to say how do i one are any of
00:04:45.920 you with a good woman like anyone married anyone married we're not married yet well no no no married
00:04:52.080 okay i just wanted to get okay how do you find a good woman how do i find one yeah identify one
00:04:57.840 um i think a good woman i can't i can't tell a good woman straight away it has to be along the course of
00:05:04.800 time she needs to be how i want when i want when i need her to be and i won't get that from the first
00:05:12.560 look basis you know i mean so i think a first um a good woman to me is a woman that has good family
00:05:21.440 values that know how to be around her family that has a good relationship with her dad um submissive
00:05:30.080 um caring nurturing
00:05:35.680 healthy
00:05:36.160 that's about it all right caring yeah that's about it for me uh and how do you know a good
00:05:46.000 one so right now this is what you have to do you have to see her for three months yeah ask her to
00:05:50.720 make you a coffee no i'm yeah yeah go for it yeah yeah yeah that's three month thing yeah yeah three
00:05:55.920 months okay yeah um this is for the woman you picked to marry so like okay and you can make edits so
00:06:02.720 it's okay um take on a coffee date for first date okay um date as many women as possible to tell the
00:06:10.880 difference make sure she's not on birth control and figure out what her relationship's like with her
00:06:17.600 family and her dad what do you agree with disagree with and what would you like to add um
00:06:27.280 there's loads i need to add to that man
00:06:32.720 so you gotta see her for three months so you guys for three months yeah yeah cool i think three
00:06:43.120 months that's enough you can marry a girl three months no no no you can't oh in three months we
00:06:48.000 got we but you know why you kind of women are chameleons no a hundred percent yeah trust me they can
00:06:53.760 a hundred percent shape-shift how have you ever dated a girl for three months and she changes completely yes
00:06:59.120 yes she changed like you know when the biggest change of a woman happens when she has a baby
00:07:04.640 for me that's when i like to see the biggest change in a woman so you won't even really know
00:07:08.880 your woman until she has a child probably that's what i believe so in order to find a good woman you
00:07:13.360 have to get her no you don't have to but i'm saying no you don't have to but i'm saying
00:07:18.480 no you don't have to because there's certain things you'll see but i'm saying from my experience
00:07:22.400 i have three kids in it so i saw the biggest change when the woman had a child okay
00:07:27.600 okay so how how long should you see her before you marry her knock her up whatever i don't know
00:07:32.880 about mario knock her up three months is a good time to determine whether she's being genuine if
00:07:37.120 she's wearing a mask yeah so you got to see her for three months in order to date her like what's
00:07:41.600 the i mean i don't think you as he said you can't really determine anyone as the true person as they're
00:07:47.040 being genuine as they say they are for like the first three months january if you've lived with
00:07:51.440 someone that's different if you move in with someone you can see the truth like a lot quicker actually can i can i
00:07:56.960 i'm sorry i'm a little add sometimes when when do you guys expect to sleep with her
00:08:02.720 you know you know what that's that's subjective you see that question there yeah it is very
00:08:07.440 subjective yeah expect general are you saying expect yeah expectation is a big word i don't have
00:08:12.480 expectations i don't have expectations they expect straight away you know what i'll be honest yeah
00:08:18.560 i don't think there's too much it's not a problem if you sleep with a woman the first night or you sleep
00:08:22.880 with a woman two months down the line because man can move different man can wait a woman with her
00:08:28.080 as soon as you can yeah because you can you can sleep with a woman straight away and have a great
00:08:34.320 connection and a great relationship with her or you can a woman can hold out for six months and whatever
00:08:39.360 and there's man out here that will sit there for six months period and bust out all right how long
00:08:44.560 is too long i'm just gonna i need hands okay how long is too long no matter how good the girl is you
00:08:50.880 ain't waiting like this is ridiculous three months is the max okay okay all right i just want i want
00:08:55.600 hands for the max are you waiting one all right wait wait wait wait i need hands are we waiting a week
00:09:03.680 is that okay all right i need you to go put your hand up when it's too long all right two weeks three
00:09:13.520 weeks he said you're putting in three weeks it depends on the context i mean has she made other
00:09:19.760 the people wait i mean she's some kind of born again virgin i i i i'm not i'm not you're getting
00:09:38.400 a girl from from first date like so you don't know you've just met her off the street whatever dating
00:09:44.480 app whatever so you have to determine all right so three weeks you can wait you're not you're
00:09:49.280 he's okay four weeks four weeks too long for anyone no five weeks okay two months too long
00:09:57.280 to sleep with her the two months is the max after that yeah yeah i get bored easily so after two
00:10:05.920 months i might two two months yeah i'll go i'll go with two to three months two to three months all
00:10:10.160 right so three all right so you guys too you said i don't know but the thing is i done three months
00:10:14.640 when i was young maybe when i'm older now i don't i don't know that's why i'm
00:10:18.560 in but when i had the three months no but i'm asking now that relationship lasted now you meet a
00:10:23.520 nice woman do you think you're you're looking for if she's the one then you i could wait like a year
00:10:29.280 but i have to be convinced yeah yeah no i don't care if she's the one one you have to know you have to
00:10:35.680 know raw you have to be in her life for that whole time i understand her how old are you again i'm 29
00:10:41.280 i'm 29. okay you're 29. so how old women do you usually date around my age so if she's not a virgin
00:10:47.440 will you wait for a year for her she's not a virgin would i wait for a year if i was yeah i could do
00:10:54.000 i could do it it's not likely i could do are you sleeping with other people at the time you're
00:10:58.000 waiting yeah