JustPearlyThings - May 01, 2023


Pearl EXPOSES This Simps Hypocrisy


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Length

9 minutes

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238.34647

Word count

2,289

Sentence count

223

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Misogyny

12

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Hate speech

9

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On this episode of , I sit down with my good friend and co-founder of Only Fans and discuss cheating, and why it's a huge no no no in our society. We talk about cheating in relationships, cheating in public, cheating on your partner, cheating at work, and cheating at home.

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00:00:00.000 If you're addicted to Pum Pum like that, why not just be out here prowling and sleeping with a new girl every other day?
00:00:05.960 I've done that before, but at least you're not hurting another individual.
00:00:08.720 There is nothing nice. I don't care whether we're talking about the 20th century or the 19th century.
00:00:13.700 There is nothing nice about harming another individual.
00:00:15.740 Can I ask you a question though? You're on the Instagram and all these girls are after you. 1.00
00:00:21.700 All of them.
00:00:22.480 And I'm not 6'4", I'm 5'8", I'll tell you.
00:00:31.900 So you mean to tell me that all of these girls who you are sleeping with, not one of them had ideas above what you had.
00:00:39.420 Because if I know women, and I'd like to think I do. 1.00
00:00:42.080 I'm like my man, I keep it straight. Darling, I'm a single-
00:00:45.180 But they think they can change you, mate. They're not going to listen. They're going to be like, I'm going to be the exception.
00:00:49.760 But yes, I agree with you, bro. But then the onus is on them.
00:00:52.840 I go to sleep with a clean conscious, knowing that I've not promised anyone this, this, this, and this.
00:00:57.740 I mean, the idea of a relationship is commitment, right?
00:00:59.980 Okay, I'm confused with you.
00:01:01.600 Go on, go on, tell me. Let's go.
00:01:04.020 You're cool with me talking about your job, right?
00:01:07.140 Yeah, 100%.
00:01:08.160 Okay, okay.
00:01:08.640 I'm freely available.
00:01:09.300 So how are you faithful if you're on OnlyFans?
00:01:13.280 Precisely why I said I haven't been in a relationship for as long as I've done OnlyFans.
00:01:16.400 Oh, I thought you said you've been in it for five years.
00:01:18.740 Oh, I misunderstood.
00:01:20.500 I thought you were saying you're still in the-
00:01:22.120 I guess what?
00:01:22.960 I have had many propositions from female content creators, beautiful, stunning, head to toe. 0.99
00:01:27.880 And I've said no, because I know I'm not capable of seeing my missus having sex, having whatever,
00:01:34.780 sexual intercourse with some other guys.
00:01:36.100 So I know.
00:01:36.780 So I'm not in the business of harming people.
00:01:38.840 And I know that some girls have said to me, it's fine.
00:01:41.900 I don't mind seeing you of other girls. 0.95
00:01:43.740 So you're 32 now, and you've been on OnlyFans for two years, and then you had the five-year
00:01:48.580 relationship before that?
00:01:50.120 Prior to it, prior to it.
00:01:51.200 Yeah, so the day I created OnlyFans, she left me.
00:01:53.040 No, but bro, how-
00:01:54.120 I'm just confused, because I thought you said you cheated before.
00:01:57.160 I have, when I was younger.
00:01:58.200 16, 17, 18, every single day.
00:01:59.860 And you stopped for her.
00:02:00.680 I stopped the day I realized that there's nothing-
00:02:03.760 But so it's just a little bit like, you're confusing me, because in the end, you did
00:02:08.260 cheat on her in a way, because you started the OnlyFans?
00:02:10.840 I'll break it down.
00:02:11.540 I'll break it down, right?
00:02:12.820 When I was young and naive, and I was ignorant, I cheated, because I thought it was cool.
00:02:17.140 I thought it was a good thing to do, right?
00:02:18.700 Right.
00:02:19.860 Then I lost my job.
00:02:21.580 OnlyFans presented itself.
00:02:22.700 I had a conversation with my fiance at the time, and I said, this is what I'm going to
00:02:25.540 do.
00:02:25.920 Whether you support me, you either support me and we stay, and I'll do solo stuff,
00:02:29.740 or you walk away, and that's fine, I respect it, and I will do collaborations.
00:02:33.440 She decided to walk away. 0.99
00:02:34.740 I did it.
00:02:35.200 It changed my life.
00:02:35.880 I retired my mom.
00:02:36.560 I have zero regrets.
00:02:37.580 But I will never, no matter how many people and how normal it is, glamorize cheating.
00:02:41.780 It's disgusting.
00:02:42.620 I've seen it firsthand, what it does to my family.
00:02:44.520 This girl agreed to marry you, though, bro.
00:02:46.280 That's a big deal.
00:02:47.100 A girl agreeing to marry you, and you turn around and go, hey, by the way, I'm going to 0.86
00:02:49.960 fuck girls on OnlyFans. 1.00
00:02:51.020 No, no, you're wrong.
00:02:51.800 That's not what you said.
00:02:52.420 You're wrong.
00:02:52.880 You see?
00:02:53.060 No, no, guys, guys, please.
00:02:54.420 Let's be very clear about my English.
00:02:56.400 No, but-
00:02:56.900 I said I was going to do OnlyFans.
00:02:58.720 OnlyFans does not constitute having sex with other people.
00:03:01.980 It could be solo stuff, like I put on my Instagram.
00:03:05.260 It could be feet stuff, so let's not go down there.
00:03:07.420 Right, but it's still something she didn't agree to in the beginning.
00:03:11.160 Great.
00:03:11.460 Which I'm not-
00:03:12.340 Has she left?
00:03:13.280 No, I know, but my point is it's a little bit hypocritical of you to go around and say,
00:03:17.300 oh, I don't cheat.
00:03:18.020 That's a horrible thing to do when it's like you kind of did the same thing there.
00:03:21.760 No.
00:03:22.740 Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:03:23.820 You've misconstrued what he's saying.
00:03:27.780 I know what you're saying.
00:03:28.600 Can I say it again?
00:03:29.380 I know what you're saying.
00:03:30.420 Let's reverse this.
00:03:31.140 Let's reverse this.
00:03:31.740 No, no, no.
00:03:32.300 Let's reverse this.
00:03:32.980 Let's go on Instagram.
00:03:34.380 Yeah.
00:03:34.660 Right?
00:03:35.340 Are you a cheater if you've got an Instagram profile?
00:03:38.140 I think girls are in a relationship, yeah. 1.00
00:03:40.520 People aren't paying for Instagram.
00:03:41.840 They'll have a wank over you. 1.00
00:03:42.780 No.
00:03:43.100 No, I really, I don't think-
00:03:44.760 Depends what-
00:03:45.260 I know, they get it for free.
00:03:46.320 They get it for free.
00:03:46.840 No, but I mean, if I'm in a relationship with a girl and she's like, I'm going on OnlyFans,
00:03:51.840 I know what people are going to pay for, so I'm going to, and if I've proposed to her
00:03:55.560 and we're going to get married, I don't care if you're working with other people, people
00:03:58.900 are going to be wanking off to you. 0.98
00:04:00.060 That's going to bother me.
00:04:00.960 Oh, for an Instagram.
00:04:02.020 Yeah, but we had a conversation.
00:04:03.260 If I did it behind her back on a low key, and I was like, right, I'm going to change my
00:04:07.180 alias, I'm going to use a different social media account so she doesn't find out, then
00:04:09.920 I'm a cheater.
00:04:10.420 I'm a real man, because I sat her down, I said, babe, this is what I want to do, and this
00:04:14.460 is how I want to incorporate you into my future, my five-year plan.
00:04:16.840 And had she stayed, she would have benefited from the millions that I've made.
00:04:19.880 100%.
00:04:20.240 Fast.
00:04:20.580 At least she was honest with her.
00:04:22.000 Honesty.
00:04:22.560 There is nothing glamorous about cheating.
00:04:24.660 I do respect that.
00:04:25.420 I'm telling you.
00:04:26.720 I respect that.
00:04:27.500 And this is from an ex-serial cheater.
00:04:29.400 My exes will tell you in the comments section.
00:04:31.320 It's not nice.
00:04:32.540 It's not nice.
00:04:34.040 They all come with you.
00:04:34.960 I rate the fact that you're honest, though.
00:04:36.500 I rate that.
00:04:36.980 You have to be.
00:04:37.500 Yeah.
00:04:37.900 I've seen, do you know what?
00:04:39.120 Final thing, sorry, I'm taking the mic here.
00:04:41.260 If I hadn't seen my sister break down, I thought I was going to lose her.
00:04:45.080 Like, she was suicidal.
00:04:46.660 If God works in mysterious ways, that's why I said karma is a bitch.
00:04:49.940 When I saw that in my own two eyes, I said, I'll never do this to another girl.
00:04:53.160 Right.
00:04:53.540 Never.
00:04:54.100 So, if I want to keep sleeping with Tom, no, Tom, Jesus.
00:04:56.760 Harry.
00:04:58.240 It's all coming out.
00:04:59.000 Tom, watch out.
00:04:59.940 It's a saying, guys.
00:05:01.540 Tom, Dick and Harry.
00:05:02.460 They call that Freudian slip.
00:05:04.500 It's all coming out.
00:05:05.400 Then I would do that.
00:05:06.400 But the day I commit to a girl, that's it.
00:05:08.460 I'm staying.
00:05:09.060 And the day I don't want to, I have an open conversation, babe.
00:05:11.540 You're not for me anymore.
00:05:12.400 Do you ever think a girl's going to take you serious with you doing the content that you do? 0.99
00:05:17.300 Guess what?
00:05:17.860 I don't care.
00:05:19.140 I don't care.
00:05:19.680 My mum is retired and I've got a lot of money on my bank account.
00:05:23.220 Women are relevant to me. 1.00
00:05:23.820 But it's all about that.
00:05:24.380 Obviously, it's a situation where, obviously, we come to a stage in life where we all want to settle down and just have that perfect female.
00:05:29.640 Well, a lot of people.
00:05:30.960 Do you want to be 60 and be alone?
00:05:33.200 Would I be alone?
00:05:33.920 I have two wonderful nieces that I provide for and I pay for private school for.
00:05:36.960 I have my sister who loves me unconditionally.
00:05:40.120 I understand that family is different, but obviously, some people want like a...
00:05:43.000 Not me.
00:05:43.460 Have you come to terms with the fact that your career may land you alone later on in life?
00:05:49.980 It can tarnish...
00:05:50.480 I don't think he would be never alone.
00:05:51.980 It's just a general question, brother.
00:05:53.200 I say I'm a fuckboy.
00:05:53.920 I enjoy cuddles.
00:05:54.940 Okay, I'll tell you, right?
00:05:57.000 The two years that I deprived myself from any social interaction were the two years I was able to retire my mum and make more money in 24 months than I made in 30 years socializing with women. 0.55
00:06:07.160 My priorities as a human being here, it's to provide for my family.
00:06:10.960 That's it.
00:06:11.560 You're not answering the question.
00:06:12.720 If God should afford me the luxury of having a woman in future, then great. 1.00
00:06:15.760 Politician.
00:06:16.160 But if I don't have it, who cares?
00:06:17.860 No, but I say, are you...
00:06:19.540 But later on in life...
00:06:21.120 Do I look like I'm going to struggle for a woman?
00:06:22.420 Be honest.
00:06:22.720 No, no, no, no.
00:06:23.540 If they're going to take it seriously, I used to be that guy.
00:06:27.740 Obviously, not bringing no depression to the show, but my mum recently passed.
00:06:31.160 But what I've done is make sure I sorted a house for her, make sure I've done all this stuff for her.
00:06:36.360 But obviously, the affection that she can give me is not always the affection that a female, a genuine female can give you.
00:06:42.040 But the right woman will come along, she'll forgive me.
00:06:44.700 At the right time.
00:06:44.880 Exactly.
00:06:45.280 So you can have your nieces and all this stuff and be like, but with an actual genuine female, you want to actually feel that affection.
00:06:52.520 No, it's not that you're going to struggle, but obviously, you're a decent looking guy, bro.
00:06:56.560 Do you know what I mean?
00:06:57.200 And so it's a thing where girls are going to attract to you, but when they see things online and something, they're not going to get to you. 1.00
00:07:04.560 If they're ignorant enough to base me on my past and how I made my money, then that's a reflection of your ignorance and you don't deserve to be in my presence.
00:07:13.740 Are you saying you would stop it for the right girl? 0.94
00:07:15.360 A hundred billion percent.
00:07:16.880 Well, then I think that's a young person.
00:07:19.560 You don't think, okay, that doesn't really, so you think it's a reflection of them if they judge you for being on OnlyFans?
00:07:25.240 Yes.
00:07:25.860 No.
00:07:26.540 Wait, wait, no, no, no.
00:07:27.680 I want to see the reflection.
00:07:29.080 I'm saying like.
00:07:29.580 That's literally what he said.
00:07:30.460 Because to me, it's like your morals and your values and like what you put out into the world.
00:07:34.540 You know what I mean?
00:07:35.120 Like it's not, to me, it's not a positive thing.
00:07:37.160 Okay, cool.
00:07:37.640 That's to you, right?
00:07:38.400 Mm-hmm.
00:07:38.680 Okay.
00:07:40.520 Can we all agree on the fact that if you were born in a single parent family and your mom was raised in a council estate and you used to work in Tesco and you retired her, is that an admirable thing?
00:07:48.020 Forget how you got the money.
00:07:48.980 Is that an admirable thing?
00:07:49.920 Yes or no?
00:07:50.220 Two stories.
00:07:51.420 Listen, I graduated from King's College University with a 2-1, right?
00:07:56.260 It's a Russell Group University.
00:07:57.900 To get there, you need straight A's, right?
00:07:59.620 I'm academically savvy.
00:08:01.480 I'm a good brother.
00:08:02.960 I'm an awesome son.
00:08:04.460 I'm a great uncle.
00:08:06.240 I'm a wonderful multifaceted human being.
00:08:08.680 If someone is ignorant enough to judge me in all my existence based on something as insignificant as how I make my money, then that's a reflection of you living in the dinosaur era and not me.
00:08:19.200 No, because it shows that you can be bought.
00:08:21.560 And that's the thing.
00:08:22.200 It's like when you have morals, principles, and values, like there's some things you can't be paid to do.
00:08:25.820 And it's no offense.
00:08:26.740 Yeah, no, no, no.
00:08:27.120 I'm not trying to be rude.
00:08:27.980 No, 100%.
00:08:28.600 But I don't think you can say, like, I can, wait, wait, wait.
00:08:31.700 So I'm saying, like, I don't think you can say, oh, I can make any decision I want and anyone that judges me, it's on them.
00:08:38.240 Like, that doesn't make sense to me.
00:08:39.860 No, trust me.
00:08:40.320 See, like, it doesn't matter how good you are as a person, bruv.
00:08:43.000 If your missus knows you're out there clapping cheeks.
00:08:45.300 For free, I'm 49, bro.
00:08:46.580 Come on, bro.
00:08:47.400 I mean, he's...
00:08:47.760 It's true.
00:08:48.360 Like, you're my point, bro.
00:08:49.240 Come on.
00:08:49.500 No, I made millions.
00:08:50.060 No, no, that's...
00:08:51.100 But I'm just saying, bro.
00:08:52.120 Most women can't handle that. 1.00
00:08:53.720 There's multiple women that can't handle that. 1.00
00:08:55.500 That's not a reflection of another female of... 1.00
00:08:58.200 But do you see what you're doing?
00:08:59.460 Like, you know, I know many people that were in your same situation and they went on, but they just didn't take...
00:09:04.200 Like, to me, that's kind of a cheat code.
00:09:05.460 It's like a shortcut.
00:09:06.740 Like, you know, my dad, he was on the south side of Chicago.
00:09:09.560 He was one of 13 kids on a fireman's salary.
00:09:11.580 It wasn't like he grew up rich.
00:09:13.460 And he ended up employing 200 people in, like, a company, you know?
00:09:17.280 And so it's like some people are in your exact situation.
00:09:19.680 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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