JustPearlyThings - November 17, 2023


Pearl Exposes Women's True Nature


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Length

9 minutes

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201.62752

Word count

1,817

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

33

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Hate speech

9

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In this episode, we discuss the difference between men and women when it comes to being a single mother and what it means to be in a single parent home. We also discuss how to deal with single motherhood and the challenges that single mothers face.

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00:00:00.000 women that i've met that left their the father of their children because they outgrew them 1.00
00:00:05.280 is just like ridiculous i've met so many women that have that have left the father of their 0.99
00:00:11.000 kids broken up their entire family because they outgrew their husbands yes but ultimately i feel
00:00:16.320 like the fact that they outgrew them they the man was probably more heartless than them in the
00:00:21.500 relationship where they thought that they had i think i think i think i think when women want 0.83
00:00:25.880 to do something they make up any excuse they can to do it yeah and i think and i think typically
00:00:31.460 the women are not innocent but having outgrown somebody i feel like things like i mean the
00:00:40.840 fact that there's the term outgrow is that they're still quite juvenile in some aspects but and in
00:00:45.820 that in in and in that i feel like men can just be really callous sometimes and just really not kind
00:00:51.620 of like elevated on their levels of like caring and just can i have an example um
00:00:57.340 so i feel like women are more obviously women are more emotional and women are more kind of like
00:01:05.360 um mature yeah mature no i disagree i disagree i'm gonna say emotionally mature i disagree i think
00:01:13.260 women are more emotionally immature you think that i think we have all this propaganda we are 1.00
00:01:17.900 is that more like sensitive i'm not gonna say women i think women stop aging like mentally when 0.95
00:01:23.800 they when they hit their like um attention peak so if women like become pretty at 16 i think they 1.00
00:01:29.820 they just stay 16 forever i think most women mentally are in high school i just got pretty i mean you 1.00
00:01:35.440 know potato patah but you know i feel like yeah in that aspect for the point i'm trying to make is
00:01:43.640 that if you're with a guy and he's emotionally immature so he might do things that are very
00:01:47.740 juvenile like you'd be like oh i'm looking after the kids i'm going out with the boys and you're 0.86
00:01:51.600 like but what about the kids you're like oh you know you saw it out and when i get back oh you know
00:01:55.300 them ones when you're like oh i'm going out on fridays like i'm going out on friday and then you're
00:01:59.160 like oh who's gonna look at the kids you get a babysitter okay wait wait wait so the the big issue
00:02:04.000 is that he wants to go out with the boys not that he wants you ask for one example you ask for an
00:02:08.080 example i'm giving an example because that's i find that with a lot of relationships women will say to me 1.00
00:02:11.820 like the man will expect me to get a babysitter it's like the kids are my job it's on me as
00:02:18.680 opposed to it's an equal thing like oh we both booked the same day how are we going to sort this
00:02:23.220 out okay because because you're the mom it should be you both had those kids together and actually
00:02:30.560 i did more i carried them for nine months i breastfed them they came out of my jj but the men typically pay
00:02:39.680 more so even in 50 50 relationships they still pay more typically i've been a breadwinner in many
00:02:45.100 relationships so that's alleged yeah but i'm not i'm not talking about you but i'm saying i disagree
00:02:50.060 but i can only speak of myself i can only speak of myself right but we're talking about like if you
00:02:55.120 are in a single mother home you're at every statistical disadvantage ever right no you are you're more 0.98
00:03:01.080 like i could be a millionaire but i just ain't i just have my kids by myself no no i mean well it doesn't
00:03:06.720 even matt like money doesn't replace a father i think we've seen that with kim kardashian when
00:03:11.200 you see the clips of the kids now and they're kind of going crazy but you're but you're attributing it
00:03:15.720 to the fact oh the guy must have done something wrong and it's blah blah blah but that's what
00:03:19.440 people that's what women will often say when these conversations come up but is it that or is it the 1.00
00:03:23.740 woman's just got a bit bored she's like oh we're a few years in yeah i'm just playing devil's advocate 1.00
00:03:28.320 i'm just saying the sex has got a bit boring you know the grass is maybe greener on the other side
00:03:32.780 the personal trainer for a bloody you know virgin active or whatever is pretty hard yeah
00:03:37.260 you know the grass is the grass is greener right and that seems to me to be what happens more often
00:03:42.540 than not i think social media kills relationships yeah yeah yeah years ago i think when there's no
00:03:50.840 social media there was no phones and people were still cheating in the slide are you just gonna find
00:03:57.420 until their funeral when their 10 kids came out the high profile doctors and everything that you
00:04:02.960 speak of you found out at their funeral keeping it on the load that's all yeah but yeah yeah yeah
00:04:08.680 yeah but i think i think it's allowed women to just be like openly look for new men when you when 0.96
00:04:15.940 you look at instagram profiles today that's what it is that's why that's why i was sort of saying
00:04:21.280 when i was saying before about being married and like not being on social media i mean i'm not some
00:04:25.520 like red pill like you know thumping the table women shouldn't be on instagram i'm not really like 0.98
00:04:29.420 that but i do see the point because it's like basically you're putting out sexy pictures of
00:04:33.200 yourself on instagram even if you're not but even if you're not intentionally doing that what's that
00:04:37.920 going to do it's going to attract the attention of other dudes they could be sliding into the dms 1.00
00:04:41.620 you know things in your main relationship things your marriage getting a little bit dry a little
00:04:45.120 bit stale and then and then the temptation's there it's a bit like well you know you kind of see
00:04:49.360 where you fare in the sexual market i would never date a man of instagram but the thing is if you're
00:04:54.320 loyal then it doesn't matter how many dms that you'll get yeah but yeah it kind of tells you
00:04:59.180 like oh wow like michael b jordan is into me you get like an idea of like oh i'm still i still got
00:05:04.400 it exactly exactly if you're loyal then you're loyal and secure it doesn't matter if anyone's
00:05:17.700 slipping into your dms if you love your man you love your man you will not cheat but if you're if
00:05:23.260 you're loyal if you're loyal but how does that before the guy goes into the marriage or even before
00:05:27.500 the woman goes into the match how do you know that they're going to be loyal and how do you know
00:05:30.000 they're going to be loyal over the long term you just have women you gotta have faith 0.99
00:05:33.860 but women but women by and large are not loyal women i mean even when women win the lottery they 1.00
00:05:43.540 leave their husbands they tend to when men win the lottery they tend to stay i don't know who these
00:05:48.000 people are you're talking about it's not just the lottery it's also when women get promoted at work 1.00
00:05:56.780 they're more likely to divorce where men are more likely to stay 1.00
00:05:59.820 when women get leverage um in the relationship they tend to leave men when they get leveraged 1.00
00:06:07.080 they tend to stay okay because probably the woman leveraged that man up to that position 1.00
00:06:11.140 and the woman happens to be with that guy at that position and then she leveraged up herself 1.00
00:06:17.460 but didn't but what didn't he leverage her probably not so statistically i would imagine i want to show
00:06:24.420 like this is gynocentric thinking so there's gynocentric propaganda like gynocentrism basically
00:06:29.280 is women are amazing and special and more awesome than we are whenever a man accomplishes something we 0.90
00:06:33.960 always attribute it to women but whenever a woman accomplishes something we never attribute it to
00:06:38.020 the man she's with but did you not say that women are less likely to succeed in their own companies 1.00
00:06:45.300 so obviously so then they're not being supported by men no no i would i would say women only succeed
00:06:51.300 when they are supported by men typically so like kim kardashian didn't become a billionaire until she was 0.91
00:06:56.160 with kanye it's like a trend that i see where it's like when women come successful typically they have 1.00
00:07:01.780 a strong man behind them so this is why they're leaving them because women typically are supporting men and 0.98
00:07:07.340 men are typically not supporting women so that's why no no i believe in them no no yeah i would i 1.00
00:07:13.820 would say the men are supporting the women and a lot of times the men support the women and get them
00:07:18.460 to a certain point and then the women leave because women are hypergamous you know yeah we always want 1.00
00:07:22.620 the guy to be above them so you hit that you hit that level what's that word you took me nowhere
00:07:28.700 today thank you there you go so it's hypergamous can you spell that hypergamous so hypergamous yeah
00:07:34.460 thank you i'll give you another example of a trend that i see because the biggest thing is i kind of
00:07:38.780 just look for patterns in like society and relationships and just like trends that i see
00:07:43.580 one of them is women politicians they always seem to get um like they get elected into an office and then 1.00
00:07:50.380 they they screw someone at work there's there's a girl in the us that this just happened with lauren 1.00
00:07:58.300 bobert or something bobert she had four kids she literally gets elected one baby daddy no yeah one 0.92
00:08:05.020 one one was your husband baby daddy but then she divorces her husband and then like six months later 1.00
00:08:12.060 she's in the movie theater with some guy and like what's super viral did you see that you don't
00:08:16.540 i'm talking about yeah yeah well liz trust got voted into office in the uk and she screwed the 1.00
00:08:20.380 whole country well political yeah do you like it because she she taught the economy and then she 0.91
00:08:29.340 got chucked out well and that's why that's another trend i see like where i say women are bad at business 1.00
00:08:36.060 and typically leadership roles all of the shortest um terms of like prime ministers and presidents are all
00:08:42.380 like typically women she was she said like two days like really that's what they say women have 0.74
00:08:54.700 more opportunity than men in 2023 and we just still kind of suck with it