JustPearlyThings - November 12, 2023


Pearl Gets Brutal About Mariah Carey


Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

172.68817

Word count

1,606

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

10

sentences flagged

Hate speech

2

sentences flagged


Summary

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It's time to put the boobs away! Join us as we discuss why it's time for Mariah Carey to take the cleavage out of her image, and why you should put them away if you're a woman in your 30s.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 oh gosh oh pearl i came for mariah carey all right i came for mariah carey around the christmas season
00:00:08.480 i i said now i know i know christmas oh mariah don't you got twins but what's wrong with this
00:00:16.880 picture twins on there i think it's because of the it's showing the boobs what the cleavage are you 1.00
00:00:20.720 having a laugh i think pearls are rastafarian as well you know oh my gosh i'm a hundred
00:00:27.280 percent serious you think i'm kidding no okay i'm about i'm about to turn 27 i have my turtleneck
00:00:38.000 yeah i think it's time to put the boobs away who thinks this is inappropriate raise your hand 1.00
00:00:44.160 oh it's just me and king i think it's i think it's borderline tacky and not inappropriate i think it's
00:00:50.480 tacky she's just like hello i wouldn't say it's tacky i'd say it's her image thank you and she's
00:00:56.960 giving the people her image she still looks her image the glitz a little bit of cleavage that is 1.00
00:01:02.880 her image and she's giving the people her image do you know what i mean she's literally like like like
00:01:07.680 every so so would it still be her image so literally what you're saying is and that's exactly what's
00:01:13.280 happening to someone like madonna so by the time she's 70 she should still keep giving us this image
00:01:17.680 right but will she but will she still continue to be an artist she's 50 so madonna right now
00:01:26.320 literally just keeps walking about naked half naked doing audio but she's still an artist yes
00:01:34.800 so the point is like even at 70 why are you still making sexualized music at 70 and underneath the bed
00:01:41.120 with a thong on like she's like to create a human being supposed to grow so at 20 at 18 you are 1.00
00:01:48.400 making sexualized music at 30 you are making sexualized music at 50 you are still making
00:01:52.480 sexualized music at 70 you're still making sexualized music can you please pull up a picture of madonna
00:02:01.360 please that's two completely different extremes we were just looking at a gorgeous picture of mariah
00:02:07.680 kerrie and all she had was a little bit of cleavage and i was talking about phones under the bed and
00:02:11.760 we're talking about no we're talking about image she said something about image i said if she's 70 she
00:02:18.000 still keep putting out can i say something okay if these if these people were not artists and these
00:02:26.640 posts were not relevant to their artistry which it is it is relevant to their artistry well because
00:02:34.240 i've done posts relevant to my artistry which wouldn't be posts that i wouldn't usually but you
00:02:39.040 see this is the point i'm trying to make you you're not even realizing how bad what you're saying sounds
00:02:43.520 because the fact is that what you're saying is she's such a terrible artist that she needs to use her
00:02:48.480 body to sell her art no no yes everybody knows mariah is a diva what about adele she's never put her
00:02:57.920 body out there she definitely has her boots out she definitely has her boots out she definitely 1.00
00:03:03.440 wears tight dresses she definitely look good so she definitely does do that back in the day she did it 1.00
00:03:09.440 but the point the point is one okay you can find a bad picture of anybody but the point is some of
00:03:24.240 these artists that's what they lead with that is what all of their pictures with the fact that you
00:03:28.240 have to find the picture of adele shows that that is not what she leads with she leads with her talent
00:03:34.240 they're both because she is talented and that is the that is the best thing about her but he's right
00:03:40.240 what he's saying if you have to post sexuality in order to sell that you're just not that talented
00:03:50.960 adele didn't make sexy music she made sad songs about heartbreak mariah carey did sexy promiscuous 0.68
00:03:57.280 music that's why she was branded the way that she was but her top song is about christmas
00:04:04.240 like but she has put the boobs away like why do i have to fight so hard to say put the boobs away 0.99
00:04:12.960 and she's here's that she's 50 she's 54 it's time it is time you're almost i agree i think she looks
00:04:20.480 tacky i think i think she looks tacky great thing to remember here and one of the blessings of our
00:04:25.920 biology is that as you age and i think this is one of the big problems in our society is the things
00:04:30.480 that will give you happiness and fulfillment will change and one of the biggest problems i think we
00:04:34.960 have is people in their 30s will try to get happiness from the stuff that would have given
00:04:38.960 them happiness in their 20s and fulfillment in their 20s and they don't find it and so then they
00:04:43.280 just go further and further and further and they feel hollower and hollower and hollower and um i don't
00:04:48.800 know if it's the same way with women you know i haven't experienced being a woman so i don't know if
00:04:51.760 in my 30s as a woman like trying to find happiness in my sexuality and validation for men
00:04:56.160 uh lessons but i suspect it does and what i can't say is kids the the happiness i get from them in
00:05:01.760 my 30s is incomparable to the happiness i can get from things like video games which i used to love
00:05:07.200 when i was young i mean i still like them but it's like not the same so someone super chatted a question
00:05:13.680 um for the ladies and i'm gonna ask the men the same question but i want the women to go first 0.98
00:05:18.960 what do you owe wait who who wants to be married okay okay all right all right what do you owe the
00:05:28.240 man that marries you um uh uh being the first person i swear to god um okay hopefully well a family
00:05:42.400 um obviously when the time's right um uh i don't know hopefully it's between what's between us both
00:05:53.840 like a great future but that's what's decided between us too okay and what would you decide to
00:06:01.120 um where both our lives are heading whether if it's like career wise it's like it's choices
00:06:07.600 where if you want to bring a family in like if we both want a family okay but that would be the main
00:06:13.920 main thing for me if i'd want kids or not yeah what do you owe the man that marries you
00:06:20.160 um unconditional love kids or a family at some point if that's what we want um honesty trust loyalty
00:06:30.640 forgiveness this goes on um um i say all the mad modesty honesty integrity basically how i move
00:06:41.200 reflects on him how he moves reflects on me i owe him to be the backbone that's what was created to be
00:06:47.600 the rib to be the one who holds it down to be understanding to actually have like emotional
00:06:53.360 intelligence whereby i can think logically and think emotionally and also have i think is important
00:06:59.200 you need to be able to fight sorry you need to be able to take care of your kids if you if the guy
00:07:03.280 goes off at work and leaves your home with your children and there's no popo coming around you
00:07:07.440 need to know how to have survival skills so i think it's important to show your partner that you're able
00:07:11.680 to take care of your family if he's not there he needs to be able to trust you with a lot respect
00:07:18.720 support loyalty honesty and communication i want to hear your answer because i think everyone wants
00:07:27.680 their husband to talk about them like that uh everything not just everything i have now but
00:07:34.160 everything i have the potential to get if i'm extremely ambitious all of the things i could possibly
00:07:39.360 get he oh i owe all of it to him i think most wives do to their husbands when they're truly aligned
00:07:45.760 can you explain that a little more well when when we got married it's not about suddenly becoming
00:07:51.440 devoted to a person it's about becoming a new person that is a combined entity when we fight
00:07:57.760 there's not really a fight what there is is we have an ideological disagreement about what is best
00:08:02.880 for the combined entity for the family so it's never i want this and he wants that it's we know
00:08:08.400 we want this but we have a disagreement about the best way to get there so that is absolutely
00:08:13.760 everything and it's everything from him too what about everything i like that answer no um
00:08:24.960 well i don't know if this will probably be not a super popular answer amongst your audience pro but
00:08:30.080 like i think that a woman owes a man exactly that which he has given himself like for example if i was
00:08:37.200 totally um if if i was not giving her an opportunity to live the life that that is good for her if i was 0.98
00:08:47.200 not building myself as a man if i was not growing as a man i think it'd be arrogant to expect my wife
00:08:52.480 to be any of these things to be submissive to be anything really right so i i think my what my if i
00:09:01.680 say what my wife let's say owes me it's to treat me to treat me at the level to which i have kept my
00:09:08.000 promises to myself