JustPearlyThings - Pearl Gets Interrupted Mid-show

00:00:00.000 a question now like yeah um you know obviously you think that way now when you was like in your

00:00:05.600 late um late 20s or like early 30s did you think the same way like would you still look for like a

00:00:11.440 younger guy in that same companionship role or you is this a recent thing where you decided no

00:00:17.440 no nothing nothing is recent my views have never changed um just a man has to be a good man someone

00:00:24.320 that wants to look after me but can i just ask would you seek out a younger man actively actively

00:00:32.640 no but if one crossed my path and they happen to be you know let's say i'm just going to get throw

00:00:37.760 a number out here if one crossed my path and all of a sudden i met them and and they i said how old

00:00:42.640 were you and they told me let's say for example between 25 and 30 i'm not all of a sudden going

00:00:48.320 to turn around say i'm sorry can't date you because your age they might be the right person for me

00:00:53.680 yeah what about like an 18 year old like if you were just out there and an 18 year old came up to

00:00:58.080 you and was like oh you're a beautiful woman so so there's a hard cap to it yeah there is there is no

00:01:02.880 i wouldn't no no but it's kind of interesting because you kind of contradict yourself yeah no i

00:01:09.040 understand i understand what you mean and talk about contradictions so we all have age limits and

00:01:14.720 we've all talked about it here tonight and whilst i'm talking about yes i will date a younger man

00:01:20.240 i still have my limits so i don't think that's me contradicting myself i'm saying yes i'll date a

00:01:24.720 younger man but i'm capping a limit just like everybody else so i don't think i'm i'm being

00:01:30.960 contradictory i just want to excuse me i just want to add um so um in terms of my experience with women 0.62

00:01:40.000 yeah um i've never actually been in a relationship with a woman that's younger than me

00:01:45.040 and um what i hear in these discussions for me that the two key words or the two takeaways are

00:01:53.120 youth and maturity i think it goes in both directions um so i think for me i i presented myself

00:02:01.440 as being a lot more older than i then i guess in terms like the barometer of men my age

00:02:06.240 and um that's sort of what a lot of women responded to and then once i'd filled my age in comparison to 1.00

00:02:15.760 the the age that they had the mental image that they had of me it sort of i don't know just sort

00:02:21.360 of made something inside them just go a bit i don't know um a bit addicted to me in a certain way

00:02:29.760 um so i just think i think it goes both ways because you were saying earlier about the 18 year

00:02:35.840 olds and the 32 maturity doesn't necessarily have a fixed age if someone carries themselves as like

00:02:43.680 a 25 year old or 42 year old and stuff more often than not we kind of like connect with that as opposed

00:02:49.200 to checking people's id cards so um that was just my my takeaway for that it's all what society and

00:02:56.640 people around us say is the right thing to do it's it's it's almost like saying i can't be your friend

00:03:04.080 unless you eat chalk mint chocolate you know everyone has to eat me mint chocolate if you

00:03:09.920 want to be connected to me because that's what society that's what the news tell us to do that's

00:03:14.720 what social media tells us to do that's what your friends are telling you to do how about what you want

00:03:19.760 to do and have sitting down with yourself and thinking actually is this right does it work is that

00:03:26.080 the right person for me or am i only doing what society expect me to do have you ever had someone

00:03:34.480 um do you typically not tell people your age when you meet them like guys you're talking to or interested

00:03:38.880 in um guys that i'm talking to um or dating whatever yeah well i mean i'm i've been single for a couple

00:03:47.520 of years by choice so i'm not i'm not going to just go out there and date anyone and just for the sake of

00:03:52.720 it um once i start talking to someone yeah we do we do discuss ages and backgrounds and okay so you

00:03:59.920 you tell them up front yeah okay i wasn't sure if has anyone ever um rejected you because of your age

00:04:07.520 is that do they know before the date oh always yeah i think the only time you get rejected

00:04:13.600 is sometimes based on color race religion culture those are the things when all of a sudden

00:04:22.640 things change but age no i've never had a problem with that i have actually been rejected because of

00:04:27.920 my age so i just think like age is also equal to like race color like sexuality and stuff i've met

00:04:34.480 older guys and then they find out that i am like at the time 18 19 20 whatever and they were like oh no

00:04:40.320 you know you're too young so i think it's very just very circumstantial but the probability when

00:04:44.720 you're younger that you're not going to match with someone a bit older than you is more likely like

00:04:48.960 i think with the mint chocolate idea like like concept you're you're more likely to like a mint

00:04:54.800 chocolate that's your own age do you know i mean because you're in the same stage of life more likely

00:04:59.920 but obviously there's going to be those people those outliers that that are that do match you

00:05:04.960 have um have any raise your hand out of the guys has a girl ever told you that you're too young for

00:05:11.600 her ever interesting okay i was just curious i'm not three out of four you know i i you're you hit a

00:05:21.440 guy so four out of five okay when you're asking that question you're talking about now or when we

00:05:24.800 were younger because just ever i mean yeah yeah yeah i don't know i just feel like yes there's exceptions

00:05:32.720 to the rule like the minimals the one percent all of these things that is fantastic ideally would

00:05:38.320 work fantastically but i the way i look at a relationship is that you're both running the same

00:05:45.440 race separately and then that means that you're more likely to be successful you're both running

00:05:52.720 the same race separately yeah the same way that you say people are the same but they're different the 0.59

00:05:57.360 same difference all that kind of thing because this is it we're both it's like a parallel thing and

00:06:01.680 you're striving towards the same goal which would be to raise a family to obviously have a good

00:06:06.320 relationship together for the rest of your life success blah blah blah blah and i think it's much

00:06:10.640 easier and i think it's more you're more likely to succeed if you are at similar stages and levels

00:06:15.680 because there's so much more understanding in terms of even culture in terms of social context and

00:06:21.120 everything so i just think you're more likely to be more successful in that with somebody that is

00:06:26.320 closer to you in so many more areas what do you think the number one swiped right age is on dating

00:06:32.240 apps for men and for women if you've heard this on the show before please don't ruin it what's the

00:06:36.720 what what do you okay what do you think the number one swipe right so like yes 22 ages for men and for

00:06:43.120 women both women is probably going to be like 32 no i would say 22 for women no women's gonna be really 0.99

00:06:50.160 young okay we're gonna um so women start here and then go around um for men i'd probably think 24 25

00:06:58.880 for women um 40. i think guys would pick like 23 girls 32 um men men 20 women 30 35 so i think men are

00:07:17.520 probably gonna pick like 22 23 i think guys are probably gonna go for like oh wait wait am i saying

00:07:25.120 like guys are going for them yeah so i think guys are probably going for like 25 year olds i think

00:07:30.800 women are going for like older like 28 29 because they want the money yeah okay i think most guys have 1.00

00:07:36.320 money by 28 29 i think men are going for like probably like 21 maybe even like 20 19 and then girls are 0.98

00:07:51.680 going for like 20 seconds okay uh girls are going i would say 22 20 no sorry guys are going for women

00:07:58.960 who are around 22 23 and i think women are going for guys that are like 29 30. i think men are picking women 0.54

00:08:09.040 that are probably 22 23 and women are going for guys 1.00

00:08:14.080 22 22 to 55. me i think uh the men will go after the girls who are 20 21 and then the girls are probably 0.99

00:08:27.840 going like 32 to be fair yeah i'd say most swiped women 22 most swiped guys 30. no one got it

00:08:36.080 what is it what is it what is it i was actually really i didn't believe this when i first saw it i

00:08:42.640 i was shocked and i'm i'm me you know um the most swiped right age for a guy

00:08:50.640 um did anyone say 40s anyone it's actually older it's actually older than that it's 50. wow

00:08:56.320 wow how many is that tinder on tinder this was like uh plenty this is it was couldn't be i don't know

00:09:04.400 if it was plenty i could look it up i don't i don't know the exact app someone someone put in the

00:09:08.640 comments all right most swept right for girls 18. oh god so all these guys want 18 year olds

00:09:18.560 um i mean i would say i would say the most desired um

00:09:26.560 women are gold diggers sorry 1.00

00:09:30.640 you got you know i've got a big bum right no you just sat you just sat right on me 0.91

00:09:38.160 should i address the elephant in the room

00:09:42.720 take your hood off stop hiding no i'm not hiding yeah you are

00:09:45.360 should i address the elephant in the room pal what is it where is it well should i address the

00:09:49.680 elephant no address i know no no i'm gonna address the elephant in the room

00:09:55.600 show your face i'm gonna just the elephant in the room

00:10:02.560 let it out quickly on you do you see the elephant in the room

00:10:06.880 you're welcome hey 10 000 likes 10 10 000 lets we address that see you not later i love the show

00:10:16.240 though it's amazing oh wow okay adios i wonder what the elephant in the room is i think well

00:10:25.600 curious i hope it's nothing to do with me no

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JustPearlyThings - March 26, 2023

Pearl Gets Interrupted Mid-show

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