Pearl Gives Delusional Post Wall Woman A Reality Check
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Summary
In this episode, I'm joined by my good friend, who has been single for 4 years and has been in a long term relationship for the past 4 years. We talk about what it's like being single in the modern dating world, what it means to be single and how to deal with it.
Transcript
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spend 200 pound every night on dinner on yourself me i spend a lot of money not every night no no
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i can't why because it's irresponsible i invest my money money is nothing i invest my money
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i invest money so what about the man that invests money that's his business i didn't ask him to take
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me out and take me to a place that cost 200 pounds i didn't ask for that so it's not my problem you
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don't care about the man's money the thing is well i don't ask for money i don't ask a man for money
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i've never asked him i've never had a man well i've had a long-term relationship where we live
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together but i've never relied on a man for anything in my whole entire life so so wait can i ask you a
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question okay so all right you you've you've never been proposed to not really not like that no okay
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okay so if you were if you had this amazing mindset you're 32 do you have kids no okay so do you know
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what your your chance is below 50 percent of having a child possibly but if you're if you're single at
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30 your your chance is like 40 percent of having a kid so you're more likely to never have children
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that's statistic and at 30 and at 32 that means you're three years away from geriatric pregnancy
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whoa like so that means if you're single today you got to find a guy in three years to agree to marry you
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and agree to get in a long-term relationship marry you and then have a kid or just get pregnant
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so so the odds statistically statistically statistically okay okay okay based on so so and based off of
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like the so the last you've been dating since what you're 18 no well yeah okay so so 10 12 14 years
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you've been unsuccessful wow right yeah so you're single right and i'm not claiming to be the all
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like i know everything but i'm saying how how can you say you're in the top like you have this amazing
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mindset if no men have picked your mindset and you're and it's not looks you're pretty my mindset
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changed at 20 at age 28 so before that i was a different person so now so you've had four years
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ago okay so you've had four years to try out this mindset i haven't been dating and and okay i've been
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going through stuff okay so and you've been accumulating you've been going through saying
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things so you've been accumulating i've been in one relationship kind of okay okay where you were
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problematic i don't think that because he's still on my phone to this day so i must not have been that
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oh okay for sex and like i don't think he realized but i'm not but i'm not hold on i'm not easy to
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have sex i'm i'm really really okay okay did he have sex with you not not straight away no did he
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did he ever have sex with you yeah he's back for sex okay it's like this is how men this is how men
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no makes things worse no okay no no i'm telling you girl this is how guys see it like i've talked to so
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many dudes if they've had sex with you once but he can figure out other girls he's got money maybe
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he liked having sex with you okay yeah because my pussy's tight okay okay okay is this
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you're in the danger zone can i just say it wouldn't take three months to come to a decision on this one
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and you're so lovely honestly you have so much going for you i really like you but thank you
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don't say things like that what what is that keep it for yourself you know i'm playing around that i'm
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just like i'm just really outspoken i don't think you understand okay okay how is a husband going to
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hear that yeah you just don't put your chances even more yeah okay i'm genuinely trying to help you i'm
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trying to help you so uh seriously so like those are fake eyelashes yeah do you know what those stand
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for do you know what the history of those are no it's literally what hookers used to use to keep
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calm out of their eyes i could i could probably believe that yeah yeah okay okay okay so and and
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when men see that they they like hoop earrings that signals yeah yeah that's it and the ears aren't too
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bad like but but but i'm saying when you're saying like my tight like is that what you want your wife
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and the mother of your kids to to see but the thing is i'm just a funny person like i'm really like
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outspoken i just do you know what i mean and i know i'm i'm a i like to think i'm funny you know
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but like there's some things that you really shouldn't say publicly if you want to be taken seriously
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from a guy i think that um you know if it's meant to be it's meant to be he's out there somewhere
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and he'll appreciate who i am do you think a broke do you think a broke fat guy should say oh if it's
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meant to be women will like me or do you think he should improve i personally would definitely
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improve but okay yeah okay so if you're if your mindset is off do you think we say it's meant if it's
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meant to be it's meant to be or do we try to improve always try to improve okay so so how do we
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improve as women if we can't even admit there's a problem right and so right now it's like it's
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like you're kind of living in in delusion everyone's like you know maybe it's not a good look and you're
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like well it's just how i am but but i feel like me saying my pussy's tight it doesn't determine it
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doesn't determine how many men i've slept with if i'm a hoe do i go out and suck dick every week
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no but it doesn't okay okay let me let me let me ask let me a virgin could be like my pussy's high
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i want to hear from the men what do you hey blessing
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blessing as a guy you're out to your more traditional guy you want to be married right
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bring me this one all right all right what do you what do you what do you think when a woman says that
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cancelled okay what do you what do you think when a woman says that pretty much the same and they'll
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probably just want to sample it just to see if it's tight but imagine you could never though that's
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the thing and that's just the difference between you know if you don't if you don't you don't in it
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but like i'm saying if you're saying that out there man i'm gonna be like all right let me test them
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and they could never that's the thing that's why i'm so confident because i'm not like that but the
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thing is if guys if guys see signals that you're a hoe they're not going to investigate to find out
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they're just gonna think ho ho like they're not gonna go and do these deep dot like no they're
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just gonna they're just gonna write you off i agree with that but i think it takes an individual to
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take time to actually get to know the person see they're really like that okay i mean and they can
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find out but the men you want don't have time because they're working and what happened to waiting
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for marriage like where did that go in all of this conversation wait wait for what where did that where
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where did waiting for marriage come in this conversation like where did that go like why did that leave the
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world uh women yeah why because i think women because well because i think women we're in control
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of the like sex so we're in control of the chastity of the sexual marketplace i think virgins have a hard
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time nowadays because like one why would a man wait for a woman that's not a virgin they wouldn't they
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wouldn't so and the problem i think that virgins are gonna have is how does he know she's a virgin
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with how much women lie nowadays yeah and how does he know like even if he he gets a virgin
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and this i've spoken to guys with this like about virgin and i'm not saying guys don't want it but
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i think it's more difficult because of the marketplace because even if you get a virgin like
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she could still go on social media and leave but i still think it's a valuable value to have
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i think i agree with you to marry them then you should like just wait simply that's that's why do you
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think that so what about the women that okay so again the average woman here one out of three women has
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an std one out of three women's having an abortion do you think they should say we're gonna wait till marriage
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i mean i think they should stop doing what they're doing because they're there if they keep doing
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that they are going to further their likeliness of not getting a man not being married not having
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kids and being miserable no and it's hard because it's like part of me agrees with you i think it's
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idealistic but i think like telling a single mother wait till you're married good luck or a girl that's
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slept with like 20 dudes good luck stop at least stop because if you're going to keep sleeping with
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dudes you're going to when you're 30 you're going to be like 100 guys you know so at least stop now
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and i think it comes from family values like how you're raised you didn't raise me that way i know
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that's what's so shocking before when i told my grandmother i was marrying your dad she was like
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well i hope you've slept with him and i was shocked because she was a hardcore christian and her
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upbringing was in the church 100 but she's like if you don't know then you know you could be getting
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yourself into trouble yeah and i'm not saying that was right but i was shocked when she said that
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i just think like from a guy's point of view like if a girl's not a virgin like a guy shouldn't wait
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like i think like why would a guy so i think that's the tough thing like for those women it's like what
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are they like what you're gonna because i i think a guy that does that is a simp to be honest if she's
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not a virgin you're gonna you're gonna buy a used car for new prices yeah no and i'm and i'm in a
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a relationship that's dating to marry and we're waiting for marriage and i think oh that's so
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cute i think that's a beautiful thing and i just want more women to fall into that role fall into
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that that place because it's such a beautiful thing to have with somebody and to sleep with 20
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guys and 50 guys and say like my is tight like that's not cute like what do you what do you think
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what do you think of the women that say you're missing out like you just need to see what's out
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there missing out on what getting drunk and like having with a bunch of guys and like like my body's a
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temple like my body is precious anything that goes on it or in it is very like it has to be pure
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i believe in purity and if it's not pure it's not right so your mind's a virgin right now
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i'm not gonna say like but that's like very personal but obviously i was talking to pearl about
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this conversation so obviously that's my answer i get that but the pure thing yes you can't be
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pure and my partner are pure but both virgins then because you can't be pure what is the
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definition of pure clarity just give clarity are you if you're if you're pure that means nothing
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has touched your body your body that temple that you have is pure that means nobody can touch you
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none of you i'm not going to expose his life no obviously i'm not saying it's okay she doesn't
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