JustPearlyThings - May 21, 2023


Pearl GRILLS Entitled Woman With This Question...


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

218.44077

Word Count

2,178

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

12

Hate Speech Sentences

5


Summary

In this episode, we talk about what it means to be an above average guy, why women go for above average men, and why women only go for 20% of men. We also talk about the fact that women only swipe right 5% of the time on dating apps, and how women are judging men based on looks.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 question is do you think you're above average so you said yes i think i think i'm like in between
00:00:05.280 but i'm just gonna say yeah i'm just gonna rate myself okay okay that's fine there's nothing
00:00:09.280 wrong with saying that um do you think you're above average so and why do you think um like
00:00:13.560 what do you bring to the table to an above average guy what do i bring to an above average guy yeah
00:00:19.100 like i'm asking like what because um i'm a sweetheart like i just feel like i'm quite
00:00:25.840 nice i can drive i'm fun you know like that's why i said i don't really know in what sense you mean
00:00:30.640 above average because it could be like above average like financially or like ambitiously or
00:00:34.180 like physically and stuff like that that's the thing they care mostly i feel like men mostly care
00:00:39.720 about looks wise and looks wise i'm never going to sit here and say that i'm not above average because
00:00:43.360 i rate myself but in terms of what i can give there's other things that men look for that's the
00:00:48.680 thing but in terms of what i what makes me above average for an above average guy i couldn't really
00:00:54.320 answer that yet just because i haven't actually experienced an above average guy if that makes
00:00:59.320 sense i feel like how tall was your ex-boyfriend um six foot one i think okay so that's top 15
00:01:06.660 probably 10 percent of men yeah so that's above average how much did he make roughly i don't know
00:01:13.060 i never asked you don't have any guess i actually don't know were you the one that said banker he was
00:01:19.060 no that was what did you say he did football and um some oh the gym the gym yeah okay so that's
00:01:26.680 so i i genuinely couldn't tell you how much he was making plus i don't know but at least in looks he
00:01:31.080 was probably above average if he works at a gym and he's 6'1 yeah so okay if we're talking about
00:01:36.360 looks yeah yeah so i don't think you're going for average men but i thought you meant above average like
00:01:43.260 you know wears a suit drives a maserati to work like that's what i think when i think above my
00:01:48.800 average i feel like the guy that i was talking to is my norm i feel like he's very much on my level
00:01:54.060 because your height and stuff like that you just happen to be taller than me but like if you own
00:01:59.580 a business or if you have like all of these things for me personally that's like above my average
00:02:03.820 yeah i mean there's a couple things that girls look for so it's like you know there's looks which
00:02:08.360 height goes into and then there's money um status so um i would say most girls the guys they go for
00:02:14.580 are above average in some way but i feel like because you know only like 20 percent of men are
00:02:20.020 sexually active what yeah like 20 percent are you sure are you sure is that one out of well sort of
00:02:29.680 it's like you'd have to but but essentially like 20 percent of men are sleeping with like 80 percent of
00:02:35.260 women because the number one way the number one way people are meeting nowadays is dating apps and
00:02:39.940 that's five and women only swipe right five percent of the time that's crazy yeah and like women find
00:02:45.160 80 percent of men is unattractive like not not okay not they think they're ugly so i mean i guess it's
00:02:52.920 not to say that like the other ones don't ever get in the door but for the most part women go for
00:02:57.440 20 percent of men oh that's interesting i didn't know that yeah and they did the studies in person
00:03:03.080 because i know a lot of people will say oh well we don't find 80 percent of men is ugly but yeah
00:03:06.840 they did the studies like in person and on dating apps and like literally 80 percent of men ugly i
00:03:11.400 wonder what why that is though is it purely based on looks those dads because it's swiping so it's purely
00:03:17.120 based on looks right mm-hmm i feel like women looks when it comes to men women don't really care
00:03:23.400 that much about as long as you're well put together we're more concerned with height height is like i'm
00:03:28.820 not concerned about but usually men don't look taller than me usually men don't look has good in
00:03:33.060 pictures as well so if it's just dating apps then you can't really go just off of no but it's not
00:03:37.660 just going off of that it's in person too like they raided the men in person and they also thought
00:03:41.900 they were ugly that's so interesting maybe because women have way more beautiful features there's way
00:03:47.660 more like different attributes well women wear makeup so we got boobs and like we got we got
00:03:53.200 things that like sexually no but like for like towards a man like but he could do it he could
00:03:57.540 do a topless photo i think women just have higher standards like they actually say that women um
00:04:01.820 judge like men heart more harsh on appearance than men judge women
00:04:05.600 i think i wouldn't have thought that men swipe right around 50 percent of the time women swipe right
00:04:12.800 five so even if let's just say we tripled it like in person she finds three times as many people
00:04:16.900 attractive it's still only 15 percent i think that's contributing to why women are just single
00:04:21.180 and uh yeah you know rates are going up for why women are not really married and single by 25 and 30
00:04:26.460 because yeah the standards are definitely going high um so uh the same question though like what
00:04:34.120 would you say you bring outside of looks um outside of looks um okay obviously like personality
00:04:42.320 um and just morals as well and like ambition worth ethic i feel like i'm not really the type to just
00:04:49.860 kind of sit down and just be bummy like i'm always trying to like better myself and work harder and
00:04:54.420 stuff like that which i personally feel like is a good thing because i want that in a guy too i feel
00:04:58.900 like that's a very attractive thing to like be ambitious and then other than that um i can keep i can
00:05:04.840 cook a few bits and bobs nothing too crazy um like i said like i can actually drive so i'm not gonna be
00:05:10.980 like oh my guy needs to have a car and i can't drive like she can actually have a car um and then i'm
00:05:16.500 very like family oriented i have good morals like like i said i feel like personality no i feel like
00:05:21.860 looks is it can only get you so far i feel like like your soul like internally you have like you
00:05:27.180 have to check those boxes too so i feel like i check those boxes as well okay uh what about you um do
00:05:33.280 you think you're above average and what do you bring to an above average man
00:05:37.400 yes i do think i'm above average uh what do i bring to the table um i just feel like yeah looks
00:05:47.880 is like one thing it's the surface right but i take pride in my appearance so it's not just like
00:05:53.200 makeup and all of like oh getting botox or lip fillers and stuff it's not that i'm talking about
00:05:57.760 facials manicures pedicures like health and well-being going to the gym like going to the doctors
00:06:04.020 like these type of things like beyond the surface like i actually really take care of myself like
00:06:09.180 moisturizing like i know it sounds like oh i just cream my skin but like i take really good pride in
00:06:14.840 that like my skin is really soft so i'm happy about that um that's just on the surface but then like in
00:06:20.260 terms of other things like as a woman i just feel like i'm very nurturing maybe it's my stuff to do
00:06:25.660 my style sign if you guys believe in that stuff or it's just me my just biological makeup but
00:06:29.700 i'm very nurturing um in terms of like my duties in the household like cleaning and cooking i will
00:06:35.300 always do for for whatever man that i'm with because it just comes naturally to me um in terms
00:06:42.080 of like you do like 100 of the household chores yeah yeah yeah yeah well as in usually like well
00:06:47.980 the person with now he does parts as well because he likes to be clean as well so that's a good thing
00:06:52.420 but i'm happy to do like 90 of it i've got this theory like i want tradition to play like 85 90
00:06:58.800 percent in the relationship but that that 15 10 is just modern day society we're not in the 1950s
00:07:05.520 anymore things have changed so that 15 10 means that the man can do the dishwasher sometimes or
00:07:09.940 the woman can like go and work sometimes as well like it's okay but i feel like our roles should
00:07:15.760 um overpower the other percentage of you get what i'm trying to say um but yeah like i i definitely feel
00:07:22.740 like i bring a lot to the table not that my man or anyone i date should ask me what i bring to the
00:07:27.280 table because i think he should just i don't like that question from a man but i know what
00:07:33.400 i ask yeah yeah you're a woman yeah of course i'm gonna tell you how but like as a man i wouldn't that
00:07:38.020 would be a completely red flag if he's like demanding what seeking really yeah like because
00:07:42.960 i just don't yeah no i think men should ask women what they bring i think women should ask men too
00:07:48.920 you might want not to phrase it you might not phrase it like i've never asked a man what you
00:07:52.900 bring to the what he brings you might not phrase it like that but you want to know what his job is
00:07:56.720 you want to know what his relationship with his family like they ask it to you they just don't do
00:08:00.380 it that directly typically like guys will ask you questions on dates to like figure out stuff about
00:08:05.300 you but do you think that's because men we can ask men because what we're asking for is more to
00:08:10.060 see like if they provide and stuff and that's more like factual like what i do for a job what i earn
00:08:14.020 whereas a woman it's more you need to experience her to see if she you can't you can say i'm
00:08:18.980 nurturing but you might not but you need to kind of be around her see how she is how see how she
00:08:23.200 talks but yeah adding to like you could ask like uh when's the last time you like babysat or watch
00:08:28.500 children like how often do you interact with kids that's the way you could tell
00:08:32.260 yeah is that a good indication yeah i think so if you want a mother like you don't think like doing
00:08:39.860 the thing that you would have to do if you're a mom because nurturing goes beyond kids but
00:08:43.780 yeah okay it's i'm just saying that's one way one way it was the only way yeah yeah but there's like
00:08:48.700 ways you can ask the question yeah yeah fair enough that's fair that's fair but i think men should ask
00:08:53.760 more questions to be honest because i i think that like a lot of guys don't ask the right questions and
00:09:00.360 they get bamboozled later i know but i like the level of like mystery that a woman carries and i think
00:09:06.520 that's her femininity like you shouldn't i don't think you should tell a man a lot especially well
00:09:11.200 if he's your partner of course but when you're first dating him i don't think you should tell
00:09:15.020 him a lot because you can tell him the facts of course but don't air out your dirty laundry and
00:09:20.060 stuff because you're a woman you're feminine you that mystery that mystique is really important i think
00:09:25.860 yeah but you don't okay there's a difference between airing it like talking about your ex-boyfriend
00:09:30.320 and answering questions he asks you're like yeah as long as the question's appropriate no i think like
00:09:35.540 when guys ask you questions and you don't answer it's like not feminine yeah because i think it's
00:09:40.360 like disagree on the question i guess i think it's like disagreeable you know i was just banned on tiktok
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