JustPearlyThings - July 27, 2023


Pearl Had This To Say about L3SBIANS


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Length

7 minutes

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Word count

1,271

Sentence count

168

Harmful content

Misogyny

14

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Toxicity

7

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Hate speech

8

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In this episode, we talk about how important it is to have a man in your life who makes six figures. We also talk about why men who make six figures or more are the most attractive to women and why women want them.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Okay, and how long have you owned your own business?
00:00:02.560 Nine years.
00:00:04.260 And how long have you been making six figures or more?
00:00:08.560 The last three.
00:00:10.660 Okay, why do you need a man making six figures?
00:00:15.000 Because I'm finding out that the guys that I date,
00:00:17.740 that's not, it's not working out.
00:00:20.240 What does that have to do with money?
00:00:21.740 Oh my gosh, I put the wrong link.
00:00:23.380 I put the wrong link, guys.
00:00:25.000 That is not the right link.
00:00:26.100 I just realized.
00:00:27.100 Okay, hold up.
00:00:28.480 I don't want to show you guys the stream key or nothing.
00:00:33.060 Got to delete this one.
00:00:35.940 I'm sorry, guys.
00:00:37.220 I'm sorry.
00:00:38.120 Okay, here's the actual link.
00:00:40.200 I fixed it, okay?
00:00:43.720 Place pinned messages.
00:00:45.260 Okay, my bad, guys.
00:00:46.880 My bad.
00:00:47.540 All right, now back to the video.
00:00:49.180 I'm sorry.
00:00:49.780 Sorry, guys.
00:00:51.320 Okay.
00:00:51.760 Because I feel like I need a guy that I can respect and admire and I'm ambition and I want
00:01:05.300 a guy that has that drive too.
00:01:08.560 And when he doesn't, I find myself, you know, encouraging like, hey, babe, you can do this
00:01:13.640 and you can do that and then...
00:01:15.440 All right, so in North Carolina, what percentage of the population, what percentage of men in
00:01:21.280 this country make six figures or more?
00:01:23.320 What do you think that is?
00:01:26.240 Six figures in the U.S. is like 80,000 pounds here.
00:01:29.200 Okay.
00:01:29.320 And it's roughly, the percentages are similar.
00:01:32.020 Okay.
00:01:33.280 I have zero clue.
00:01:34.660 I'm not going to lie.
00:01:36.320 I would say...
00:01:37.320 What percent?
00:01:39.860 Yeah, of men make that much money.
00:01:41.500 40%.
00:01:43.500 40%.
00:01:44.500 Is that a lot?
00:01:45.900 Is that too much?
00:01:46.660 It's way too much.
00:01:48.200 That's what you're really old.
00:01:49.740 It's okay.
00:01:50.960 It's like not even close.
00:01:53.360 See, so this is what social media does.
00:01:55.680 We think all these people, the average salary is like 40,000.
00:01:59.860 Really?
00:02:00.320 I think in the U.S.
00:02:02.100 I think here it's like 40,000 pounds or something like that.
00:02:05.560 I think it's like 5%.
00:02:07.700 I'm not...
00:02:08.860 Closer to 10.
00:02:10.700 So...
00:02:11.180 Okay.
00:02:11.720 Oh, 10%.
00:02:12.580 All right.
00:02:13.080 So the question is, what do those men who make that kind of money, who all women tend to want,
00:02:20.980 what do they want?
00:02:23.660 I feel like they want arm canning, somebody who can have more to bring to the table than
00:02:30.620 just looks, but also bring balance to their life.
00:02:36.520 I feel like I can help them out on...
00:02:39.900 Okay, slow down.
00:02:41.200 I'm not understanding.
00:02:42.220 You said they want arm candy, then you contradicted yourself.
00:02:46.620 They want somebody that more than just looks.
00:02:50.520 Yeah.
00:02:51.020 Arm candy, but something behind, you know, a brain with it and, you know, more in depth.
00:02:56.120 Do you know any men who make six figures or more?
00:03:00.200 My dad and my uncle.
00:03:02.540 Do you...
00:03:03.000 Excuse me.
00:03:04.420 Do you know any men that you are related to that make six figures or more?
00:03:09.820 Unrelated to?
00:03:11.280 Yeah, not on...
00:03:11.860 Men that you are not related to?
00:03:14.580 Not on a personal level.
00:03:15.820 So, you don't know them.
00:03:21.620 You don't know what they want, but you want them.
00:03:25.040 Man, I'm going to suggest that you really don't know what you want.
00:03:31.880 And saying six figures is just something that you've got taken from out there, but I'm not
00:03:42.840 hearing this rooted to anything.
00:03:45.580 What do you want ultimately?
00:03:46.860 Do you want to be married?
00:03:47.900 Children?
00:03:48.420 What?
00:03:49.320 Yes, I want to be married.
00:03:51.400 Do you want any children?
00:03:53.180 Yes.
00:03:54.600 How many?
00:03:57.360 I have a son now, so...
00:04:00.340 Okay.
00:04:00.760 How old is your son?
00:04:02.060 He's 13.
00:04:03.340 Where's the father?
00:04:05.020 He's not enough in his life.
00:04:07.080 I didn't ask that.
00:04:08.700 I said, where's the father?
00:04:11.140 Well, he's not, like, in it like I would like him to be.
00:04:17.440 All right.
00:04:18.120 So, let me go ahead and take this down.
00:04:20.220 Like, ma'am, men who make the kind of money you're talking about have options.
00:04:25.220 And typically, they don't want to deal with women who have 13-year-old sons, who are used 1.00
00:04:30.800 to dating men.
00:04:32.680 This doesn't sound appealing.
00:04:37.220 Is he right or wrong?
00:04:39.120 He's right.
00:04:40.580 Yeah?
00:04:40.840 Yeah, because, as he said, there's options.
00:04:43.760 Like, if that six-figure man wanted to go and get someone that is his preference without
00:04:48.020 that child and without those issues that she's talking about, he would freely, happily go
00:04:52.980 and get that easily.
00:04:54.560 Yeah.
00:04:54.740 Did your mom find...
00:04:55.840 Did she date after your dad?
00:04:58.300 Yes.
00:04:58.960 Was it hard for her having kids? 0.95
00:05:00.700 Yeah.
00:05:01.040 Especially four girls. 0.96
00:05:02.320 Yeah.
00:05:03.080 Oh, that's a hard sell.
00:05:04.740 Oh, boy.
00:05:05.180 Just four girls is great. 1.00
00:05:06.560 I'm trying to, like...
00:05:07.660 Because I think about this stuff, like, if I had a girl, like, how I would package her
00:05:11.040 to the men.
00:05:12.320 And so when you come in with the hair, I'm like, why do you do this?
00:05:15.300 But I don't know.
00:05:15.760 You're into girls, apparently. 1.00
00:05:16.960 How did you know that?
00:05:18.640 You said you hooked up with the sister on the show.
00:05:21.300 Oh! 0.60
00:05:22.680 So...
00:05:23.320 But I feel like women... 0.98
00:05:25.840 Oh, yeah.
00:05:26.120 I feel like we're all...
00:05:27.220 I feel like women... 0.88
00:05:28.540 I feel like...
00:05:30.000 Are you full-blown lesbian or just, like, a half? 0.97
00:05:32.320 A half, yeah.
00:05:33.060 I feel like sometimes women become lesbians because they're traumatized. 1.00
00:05:37.820 You think so?
00:05:38.600 Yeah, I think they're not really lesbians sometimes. 1.00
00:05:41.060 You don't give me real lesbian energy. 1.00
00:05:42.680 Really? 0.98
00:05:43.360 Yeah, you're too feminine. 1.00
00:05:44.620 That's because it takes me time to open up.
00:05:46.200 I...
00:05:46.920 This is me, like, when I want to be presented in front of, obviously, something public.
00:05:51.200 Mm-hmm.
00:05:51.700 Behind closed doors.
00:05:52.980 I'm wearing a T-shirt.
00:05:54.100 I'm wearing my jogger.
00:05:55.840 It's not about your clothes.
00:05:57.480 It's about your attitude.
00:05:58.380 Oh, yeah.
00:05:58.880 Of course.
00:05:58.920 It's like when I talk to you.
00:06:00.140 Of course.
00:06:00.640 You don't have that, like...
00:06:01.880 Masculine...
00:06:02.880 I'm not saying...
00:06:03.800 I just have this theory.
00:06:04.800 You can tell me if I'm wrong.
00:06:05.800 I could be wrong.
00:06:06.800 I have a lot of theories, right?
00:06:07.800 I have a theory that women will become lesbians or bi after a traumatic breakup or... 1.00
00:06:12.800 Because they're just so sick of men. 0.72
00:06:14.800 Or, when they get to a certain age where they can't get the men they want anymore.
00:06:18.800 So, it's like...
00:06:19.800 They go for the 20% of men, right? 0.98
00:06:21.800 Tall, good looking.
00:06:22.800 And once they can't get attention from them anymore, then they'll start dating women. 0.99
00:06:27.300 It's like around 30, usually, roughly.
00:06:28.800 Yeah. 1.00
00:06:29.800 They're like, ah, shit. 1.00
00:06:30.800 I know what you're saying. 1.00
00:06:31.800 Because they would rather be with a girl than a guy they don't like.
00:06:34.800 And they feel like girls are more understanding.
00:06:37.800 Yeah?
00:06:38.800 Yeah.
00:06:39.800 What's your experience dating men versus women?
00:06:40.800 Ooh.
00:06:41.800 Well, I've never really...
00:06:42.800 You've never dated a girl?
00:06:43.800 I've never dated a girl.
00:06:44.800 Oh, okay.
00:06:45.800 But I have spoken to girls, and I have found myself more attracted to girls, weirdly enough.
00:06:51.800 More.
00:06:52.800 I feel like you'll go back.
00:06:53.800 You think so?
00:06:54.800 Yeah, we need to fix her.
00:06:56.800 We need to do some conversion there.
00:06:58.800 But that came from when I was really young.
00:07:00.800 I've always found girls, like, appealing.
00:07:03.800 Most girls do. 1.00
00:07:05.800 Most girls, if you survey them or whatever, like they did some test, most girls are attracted to girls. 1.00
00:07:12.800 Really?
00:07:13.800 To some level.
00:07:14.800 I mean, it doesn't mean they'll, like, have sex with them.
00:07:15.800 Yeah, yeah.
00:07:16.800 But, like, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:07:17.800 But, you know, hook up with a sister, you know?
00:07:20.800 I mean, yeah, I don't know.
00:07:23.800 It's all right.
00:07:24.800 It's all right.
00:07:25.800 We all got troubles.
00:07:26.800 We all got troubles in life.
00:07:28.800 But I feel like that sometimes girls, it's like a phase, and then they'll go back to the guys. 0.99
00:07:35.800 Yeah.
00:07:36.800 So, I feel like that you're not too far gone.
00:07:38.800 We're gonna bring her back.
00:07:39.800 Okay.
00:07:40.800 Okay.