JustPearlyThings - November 14, 2023


Pearl Is Getting Tired Of This


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11 minutes

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1,888

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175

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Misogyny

55

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39

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In this episode, I talk about how the modern housewife is actually lazy and why it's time for women to work outside of the home. I also talk about why I don't think women should wait until they're 30 to get married.

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00:00:00.000 And a lot of times people take two screenshots of mine
00:00:03.740 and really misconstrue what I'm saying.
00:00:06.260 I have been misconstrued so many times.
00:00:08.480 An example of this was the idea that I pushed vasectomies.
00:00:12.100 Okay, this was months ago.
00:00:13.640 I was tweeting about the risks versus rewards of vasectomies.
00:00:18.600 Now I would never push someone to do it.
00:00:20.580 But my point was that marrying a woman in 2023
00:00:24.400 is equally as risky as a vasectomy.
00:00:27.020 And the problem is the trad cons get really mad
00:00:30.440 because honestly, what I'm saying is absolutely true.
00:00:35.940 True, true, true, true, true.
00:00:37.660 But whenever men are in the position of power,
00:00:40.160 when it comes to reproduction, people get mad.
00:00:42.780 People get enraged.
00:00:43.980 And whenever I say something that is uncomfortable,
00:00:47.140 but true, they get mad.
00:00:50.020 They get mad at me.
00:00:50.920 I'm not saying to go do it, but shit,
00:00:52.820 it's equally as risky to marry a woman.
00:00:55.080 Can you blame them?
00:00:55.920 Can you, anyways.
00:00:57.020 So I decided to make the case that the modern housewife 1.00
00:01:00.680 is actually very lazy in 2023.
00:01:03.520 The modern housewife literally sucks. 1.00
00:01:05.500 They're not like the women of the past 1.00
00:01:07.040 that had their own cookbook that really served the men.
00:01:10.700 The modern housewife thinks that men should serve her. 1.00
00:01:13.780 And what you'll typically see from the modern housewife 0.99
00:01:16.740 is she believes that she is the prize
00:01:18.960 and that she is so special and amazing and awesome.
00:01:22.320 And the modern housewife believes that her husband should make all of the money 0.98
00:01:27.620 and that she should get to stay home, look pretty,
00:01:30.980 and really just have everything taken care of for her.
00:01:35.220 Now, Rachel Wilson says, let me get this straight.
00:01:37.820 The entitled women on this app want their husband to go to work and provide for them 1.00
00:01:42.580 so they can be homemakers, but they also expect their husband to help them with the homemaking 0.93
00:01:47.360 after they get home from the job that allows them to be a homemaker.
00:01:51.020 G-T-F-O. 1.00
00:01:53.840 Helen says, marriage and family should be a partnership and not indentured servitude.
00:01:58.440 Rachel Wilson says, so if my husband works so I can stay home,
00:02:01.720 but I have to do the housework, that's servitude.
00:02:03.920 Have you ever questioned the propaganda?
00:02:05.880 And this is my point, guys.
00:02:07.240 If you look up a day in my life as a housewife,
00:02:09.940 what you'll typically see is women doing activities that benefit her. 1.00
00:02:14.260 Real and true femininity, we've talked about this,
00:02:17.080 has nothing to do with the way you look.
00:02:19.160 It has nothing to do with fashion.
00:02:21.060 What it has to do with serving your family, your community, and God.
00:02:24.720 And when you see the typical housewife, what happens is she does yoga. 0.99
00:02:29.600 She does Pilates.
00:02:31.160 Typically, they have caked on makeup.
00:02:33.820 Typically, it comes from a lot of women that have this, 1.00
00:02:37.680 I am a princess mentality.
00:02:39.520 And what I'm tired of seeing is modern women that are absolutely lazy. 1.00
00:02:44.640 Yes, just because you are a woman, 0.93
00:02:46.680 it does not entitle you to a free ride in life.
00:02:50.240 You should be providing value to your husband and your family.
00:02:54.880 And the fact that we have so many TradCon women arguing that their husband should do chores 0.53
00:02:59.560 actually shows how not TradCon they are,
00:03:03.240 how bad of housewives they are, 1.00
00:03:06.020 because they're arguing over chores.
00:03:10.080 This is the same argument I had with the left, with Destiny.
00:03:12.960 So, Rachel Wilson says,
00:03:14.920 this is the attitude we're dealing with.
00:03:16.500 These women are programmed NPCs. 1.00
00:03:19.760 Intrigue verse.
00:03:20.800 The key is choice.
00:03:21.900 A woman should have the choice to work or stay home and not have it dictated by someone else. 1.00
00:03:26.780 Wrong.
00:03:27.460 See, that mentality right there is wrong.
00:03:30.100 It should absolutely be dictated by her husband.
00:03:33.800 Why would you not defer authority to your husband?
00:03:37.040 And my question is,
00:03:39.000 women wait till 30 to get married. 1.00
00:03:41.260 Fine.
00:03:41.980 They have one kid.
00:03:43.440 Fine.
00:03:44.780 What are you doing all day with your time if your one kid is in public school?
00:03:52.060 I mean, I'm not trying to be rude.
00:03:53.760 I'm just asking the question.
00:03:55.240 So, Paul Elam says,
00:03:56.380 nope, women should work. 1.00
00:03:57.740 They should not have the choice to be a parasite.
00:04:00.300 Now, this really,
00:04:01.480 I retweeted this because I thought it was an interesting topic.
00:04:04.440 Now, this really enraged the trad cons.
00:04:08.140 They start saying,
00:04:08.740 Pearl, but don't you think the mother should be home with the kids? 1.00
00:04:12.380 Well, yeah.
00:04:13.780 But the modern housewife isn't even home with their kids. 1.00
00:04:18.400 She sends them to public school seven hours a day.
00:04:22.080 Typically, they're in some after school activity.
00:04:25.640 So, sports, music, whatever it is.
00:04:28.420 And typically, it's one kid.
00:04:30.320 I mean, at that point, you might as well get a job, bitch. 1.00
00:04:37.140 And that's my point.
00:04:38.540 Women want conservative and traditional outcomes, 1.00
00:04:41.520 but they don't want to do what comes with it.
00:04:43.440 They don't want to homeschool the kids.
00:04:45.200 They don't want to have a bunch of kids. 0.93
00:04:48.380 Fine.
00:04:48.960 I'm not even saying you can't do that.
00:04:51.040 But my point is,
00:04:52.200 if you're not a traditional conservative wife,
00:04:55.100 and you're not willing to do what traditional conservative wives do, 1.00
00:04:58.540 why do you deserve traditional conservative wife treatment? 1.00
00:05:03.260 You have one kid that attends public school for seven hours a day.
00:05:07.340 Get a job, bitch. 1.00
00:05:08.880 Sorry.
00:05:09.860 And if you look at the culture
00:05:12.240 and what we think of when we think of soccer moms, 0.91
00:05:14.900 we think of things like Pilates.
00:05:16.680 When we think of housewives,
00:05:18.000 I think of a bunch of women that just drink wine after work. 1.00
00:05:20.860 Now, I know there's exceptions.
00:05:22.240 There are women that absolutely serve their husbands, 1.00
00:05:24.600 but it's the exception.
00:05:25.820 It's not the norm.
00:05:26.460 And when you talk to truly traditional women, 0.98
00:05:29.260 they know it's the exception and not the norm.
00:05:31.380 So I've been arguing with this chick's shoe-on head. 0.99
00:05:35.000 I don't really.
00:05:35.860 And she's peddling propaganda. 1.00
00:05:37.700 And here's the problem.
00:05:39.380 Just because you get to peddle propaganda,
00:05:42.160 it doesn't mean you're correct.
00:05:43.480 Homemaking and caring for children is work.
00:05:45.860 It's a lot of work,
00:05:46.700 and it's very important work.
00:05:48.700 It really is a lot of work
00:05:50.180 and many times a thankless job.
00:05:52.980 So I disagree.
00:05:53.840 And I said this in 2023, it's really not.
00:05:57.620 Do you have any idea what an easy time it is to be alive?
00:06:00.620 No.
00:06:01.200 Sorry, guys.
00:06:01.920 In 2023, the average woman has 1.5 children.
00:06:05.980 She has one kid.
00:06:07.360 The kid typically goes to public school.
00:06:10.000 And, you know, now they're saying that it's more common
00:06:13.000 for women to drink alcohol than men.
00:06:15.100 And I've heard from AA members,
00:06:18.080 the most common alcoholic is actually the wine mothers,
00:06:21.540 the mothers that drink wine every single night.
00:06:24.960 This is not uncommon.
00:06:26.360 What is more common is to see these Botox foreheads
00:06:29.340 and these homemakers that are desperately clinging to their youth.
00:06:33.100 I totally believe that homemaking is amazing,
00:06:36.120 but not the way we do it in 2023.
00:06:38.020 You want to have one kid that goes to public school? 0.63
00:06:40.380 Well, it's time to go do something.
00:06:43.980 Because what I keep seeing is women that are demanding princess treatment 1.00
00:06:47.960 without being the type of women that deserve princess treatment. 1.00
00:06:51.980 And who really deserves princess treatment? 1.00
00:06:54.960 You know what I mean?
00:06:55.980 Like, I just grew up in a family that valued hard work.
00:06:59.260 It didn't matter if you're a woman. 1.00
00:07:00.600 It didn't matter if you were a man.
00:07:02.280 You worked hard and you were a contributing member of the family.
00:07:05.760 And now women think it's the men's job to serve them. 1.00
00:07:10.540 I deserve to be home all day and just do nothing.
00:07:13.700 No, no, no, not for all.
00:07:15.680 This is why everyone thinks you're a lib femme plant, by the way. 1.00
00:07:19.060 Yes, I am just a lib femme.
00:07:22.540 A lib femme plant.
00:07:25.060 Ah, these crazy people.
00:07:28.060 I said the average woman has 1.5 kids 1.00
00:07:31.060 and sends them to school seven hours a day at five years old.
00:07:34.100 A part-time job is really going to kill her. 1.00
00:07:37.180 Most modern mothers are not the selfless women we portray.
00:07:41.260 They are generally just lazy.
00:07:44.820 Am I wrong?
00:07:46.400 Am I wrong?
00:07:47.340 In 2023, most women are just as useless at home as they are at work. 1.00
00:07:53.120 And so then she puts, they always do this.
00:07:55.900 I'll tweet like 10 tweets with a lot of context.
00:07:59.140 And they never put in the context.
00:08:01.280 They just put two screenshots next to each other.
00:08:03.400 No, ladies, none of your jobs are that important. 1.00
00:08:06.460 Society would probably be more efficient if we all left the workforce tomorrow.
00:08:10.920 Two things can be true at once.
00:08:12.920 Women are typically pretty useless at work. 1.00
00:08:15.740 They're also pretty useless at home.
00:08:17.900 I've heard of multi-millionaires that do not get sex from their wives.
00:08:22.480 Imagine being a homemaker. 1.00
00:08:24.500 I mean, you have one primary job.
00:08:27.340 One job.
00:08:28.120 We can't even do that.
00:08:29.080 And generally, most women have gotten princess treatment from the time they were a child and really have never had to work hard for anything and have no grasp on reality. 0.95
00:08:40.160 So they go to the workforce or they go bother their husbands and do the exact same thing.
00:08:45.880 Useless.
00:08:47.000 Absolutely useless.
00:08:48.580 I would actually be for women going home. 1.00
00:08:51.740 If they were homeschooling their kids.
00:08:54.100 If they were having five children.
00:08:56.880 If they were actually being contributing members to the family.
00:08:59.940 But now you see women spending their family's income on Botox. 1.00
00:09:03.760 Spending their family's income on the latest fashion trends.
00:09:07.320 And really just doing a lot of behaviors that focus on themselves.
00:09:10.440 They go to the gym.
00:09:11.720 It's me, me, me, me, me.
00:09:13.320 They're much more concerned with themselves, their career, their social life than their actual children.
00:09:18.740 So does the modern mother deserve to be a homemaker? 1.00
00:09:22.240 Hell no.
00:09:24.080 Hell no.
00:09:24.680 And at some point, women have to realize that we have made our bed. 1.00
00:09:28.660 And you can either lie in it and accept the responsibility that comes with it.
00:09:32.700 Or demand prices that most women will not get. 1.00
00:09:35.500 Most women will not be homemakers. 1.00
00:09:37.640 It is absolutely better for the kids if the mom stays home. 0.94
00:09:41.380 But what you have is homemakers that don't even spend a lot of time with their children. 0.99
00:09:46.160 So what's the point?
00:09:47.020 At that point, go get a job.
00:09:48.160 You have one kid.
00:09:49.360 So I say most women's jobs in the workforce are useless. 1.00
00:09:52.540 No, ladies, none of your jobs are that important. 1.00
00:09:55.580 Society would be more efficient if we all left the workforce tomorrow.
00:09:58.820 Yes.
00:09:59.860 But that's not reality.
00:10:01.200 Women are not leaving the workforce.
00:10:03.040 I have a tweet that further explains this.
00:10:04.980 You are proving my point.
00:10:06.340 Most women in 2023 are just as useless in the workforce as they are at home. 1.00
00:10:10.560 Modern mothers want traditional outcomes but refuse to get married before 30, have a bunch of kids, and learn traditional skills that would be useful to a man. 0.98
00:10:17.660 The idea that the women that deserve to be housewives are common is absolutely propaganda pushed by women in stamps to prove they're more special and more important than they are. 0.84
00:10:27.160 If women have five kids, a cookbook, and can homeschool, then fine, stay at home. 1.00
00:10:32.060 But by and large, women are having one kid, sending them to public school, and then demanding to be a housewife. 1.00
00:10:37.860 Bitch, get to work. 1.00
00:10:39.140 Bitch, get to go. 1.00
00:10:43.520 They'll stay.
00:11:01.920 Thanks, folks.