JustPearlyThings - Pearl Is Standing Up For The Average Man

00:00:00.000 experience of a man in marriage that starts off average and becomes rich is different than the

00:00:05.680 average man in america okay and this is who i'm talking about i'm talking about the factory workers

00:00:11.120 i'm talking about the truckers i'm talking about the average man that run this country

00:00:15.200 no not everybody can be rich none of us could do what we do without those men

00:00:19.920 influencers live in a different world so the average man in this country do you think the

00:00:24.480 average man has authority in his own home i would argue um you know and we i'm i could pull the men

00:00:30.560 on this do you think the average man has authority in his own home generally yes or generally no do

00:00:36.000 you think the average man's wife stays in shape for a lifetime generally yes or generally no do you 0.97

00:00:41.680 think the average man is wearing a woman that is pure generally yes or generally no now what they

00:00:47.360 could say is and this is typically what they'll do just find a good woman but i could also give you 1.00

00:00:53.120 examples of women that had zero red flags that did everything right and did the same thing and the 1.00

00:00:59.920 point of the matter is yes there are ways to mitigate risk when you have a system that is paying women to 1.00

00:01:05.680 leave when you have social media that is also telling women to leave when you have consumer buying 0.90

00:01:12.480 decisions when you have corporations that are also telling women to leave a higher percentage of women 0.90

00:01:19.200 are going to leave than ever before the women in the church don't even believe in submission these 1.00

00:01:24.320 days i've interviewed church girl after church girl after church girl and i can say firsthand the

00:01:29.520 quality of the women in church has gone down there are not enough traditional women to go around 1.00

00:01:36.640 and it's very easy for the top one five percent of men to tell them to just find a good woman but even good

00:01:44.640 women do the wrong thing when they are paid to so you know matt walsh again they default to this 1.00

00:01:51.280 personal attack and this i am the authority on marriage because you know i've been married for

00:01:57.600 over a decade 12 years ooh sorry i'm not trying to be rude but ooh all right you know i know many men

00:02:04.720 that were married 12 years and then got in their 40s you know it's all sunshine and rainbows in your 30s

00:02:11.280 but 40s 50s 60s you know that makes you the same as the men that got over in their 40s 50s and 60s

00:02:18.880 if it works out i'm happy for you i'm not attacking the men that make it work but what i am saying is

00:02:25.440 it is it is very risky for men to do today and marrying young with the women on the market today 1.00

00:02:32.880 is terrible advice for men in 2023 it's terrible advice i think that every man is going to look at the

00:02:40.160 pros and the cons of each decision and decide for himself so you know back to the personal attack

00:02:45.440 i am married therefore appeal to authority i've been married 12 years my wife hasn't divorced me

00:02:52.640 i know better than you well if you did know better than me uh you don't seem to know much about the

00:02:58.400 family court system that i'm just being honest because i think if you did i i don't think your

00:03:02.880 rhetoric would be the same so again the issue you're going to get with trad cons is they're typically

00:03:07.280 above average in some way they are living in a different reality tall wealthy men successful

00:03:12.320 men are better able to recover after divorce it's the average man the truck drivers construction 0.99

00:03:17.760 workers the plumbers that are financially ruined and contemplate suicide i interview the men on the

00:03:23.440 other side of this and they want to make fun of me they'll say oh pearl just does some interviews 0.95

00:03:28.000 guys seeing the look in these guys eyes when they are financially ruined their reputation is ruined and

00:03:34.480 they cannot see their children do you know what's a death sentence to a man knowing that another man

00:03:39.680 is going to influence their children more than them and they have no say or authority that is a

00:03:46.160 death sentence to a man the the kid that they're paying for now a stepdad is going to spend more time 0.97

00:03:52.720 with the child and influence the child more than your own blood that's a death sentence so it's the

00:03:57.840 average man the truck drivers construction workers the plumbers that are financially ruined and

00:04:02.480 contemplate suicide men are eight times more likely to commit suicide after divorce so you get these

00:04:07.920 rich men encouraging men to sign up for marriage without warning them to any of the risks they have

00:04:13.040 spent little to no time listening to what these men have gone through and their solution is to just

00:04:18.000 pick a good woman and i'm not saying there aren't good women out there there absolutely are but even a 1.00

00:04:24.320 good woman on her worst day acts with spite women tend to be spiteful and when you have an entire system 1.00

00:04:30.480 that makes money off of women's spite even good women and you saw that with the crowder case no 1.00

00:04:36.320 criminal charges at this point yet everybody labeled him as an abuser that was a good christian woman

00:04:42.560 this happens to the christian chicks this happens to this happens to muslim chicks in the western world 0.96

00:04:49.920 marriage is extremely risky for men and the comment section uh you get a lot of men agreeing with me 1.00

00:04:56.160 they have no idea how much a woman changes during a divorce and there's typically nothing the man could

00:05:01.840 have done so do you know now i don't even i didn't even know matt's wife was on twitter i'm learning

00:05:09.120 something new every day so and this is where i want you to see how even the right when they don't like

00:05:15.440 questions that i'm asking and and my genuine question you might not like the question but are the majority of

00:05:22.400 people that are staying married happy you might say oh it's not about happiness okay are most men

00:05:28.720 getting what they signed up for when they thought when they got married do most men have an obedient

00:05:34.240 wife do most men have a woman that's in shape do most men have a woman that gave them multiple 0.98

00:05:41.120 children it happens but is that the majority so you know alyssa which i i genuinely guys i don't know

00:05:48.800 who these people are i know matt walsh but alyssa okay you'll see she appeals to an attack first 0.97

00:05:56.160 attacking me and whatever you can get your likes and there's always going to be simps to like back

00:06:01.680 you up whatever i shouldn't even respond to you because you're just a grifter pearl this is the 0.88

00:06:07.760 funniest thing i get thrown at me okay i'm a grifter all right all right yeah i i'm just so desperate

00:06:12.720 for money uh my life is just i mean guys i you know what's so funny it's so funny about this you

00:06:18.880 guys picked me i was happy playing pro volleyball it's almost as as if alissa something i said was

00:06:24.880 true it's almost as if something i said resonated with men you know there's a ton of people that post

00:06:31.280 tweets and tiktoks and videos about their life there aren't many that get 2 million followers in a year

00:06:36.960 i just got 350k followers on twitter after five months six months it's almost as if something i'm

00:06:45.840 saying was true and i know what they'll say they'll say pearl that means nothing there's people with

00:06:51.280 stupid audiences all the time uh not not huge male audiences women are easy to fool not men not men 0.59

00:07:00.720 um if you're not selling sex there's a million women doing exactly the same thing i'm doing 1.00

00:07:06.960 why did i blow up it's almost as if something i said was true or you know they also say i'm like

00:07:12.880 some conspiracy theorist i don't know or i'm a i'm a plant right okay but i will one more time so again

00:07:20.480 you are full of it my question is what i said true or false uh it does matt have the average life of an

00:07:27.920 average man in america you are doing a disservice to conservatives and will likely find yourself a

00:07:33.440 spinster with a negative outlook on marriage that you are spewing um now she's attacking me you're a 1.00

00:07:38.800 grifter you're going to be a spinster and this is this goes back to women's default it's always shame 1.00

00:07:43.840 guilt insult and need to be right so what's she doing oh shame on you shame on you for the words

00:07:50.160 that you're saying you have no idea who we are i i agree i don't know who you are you make assumptions

00:07:55.520 because you see successful men expressing the positives and getting marriage married and having a family

00:08:01.760 no i'm just begging the question do rich men have the same experience in divorce and family court

00:08:07.600 as an average salary guy is a woman more likely to stay with a mcdonald's worker or a famous youtuber 0.58

00:08:14.560 worth 10 million dollars like it you don't have to be insulted by questions i think part of your issue

00:08:23.120 is that they are men not promoting marriage that doesn't sit well with you for a plethora of reasons

00:08:28.240 about your own upbringing and outlook that i could sit around and psychoanalyze all day so this is the

00:08:33.200 next thing that women do they psychoanalyze you like they just start they're like oh you have your 1.00

00:08:38.800 trauma and my parents are still married i have nine siblings yeah oh oh but you didn't see that coming

00:08:46.400 and no i i the reason i talk about this is because i have seen and spoken to the men on the other side

00:08:54.080 i have spoken to men and the guys this is not they're gonna they're gonna try to manipulate

00:08:59.760 the stats to make it seem like this is uncommon let's say it only happens to 10 percent of men

00:09:04.880 would you ever take a pill that is a 10 percent

00:09:10.720 death rate which the situation you're putting these men in is death to a lot of men

00:09:16.240 talk to any men's rights activist anybody that helps their anybody that helps men get custody of

00:09:24.320 their kids it is so common for these men to kill themselves it is so it is devastating do you think

00:09:31.920 matt and i got married when we had money i don't really care if you did or you didn't rich men have

00:09:37.840 a different experience in marriage and relationships do you think that matt do you think matt was wealthy

00:09:43.760 at 25 and thinking wow i have so much money i don't care if i get married young and divorce at some

00:09:48.880 point because i can bankroll a divorce no i i think if if men knew that divorce was a guarantee after

00:09:56.560 building up their wealth i i would all agree that they would not sign up but no i i don't think much

00:10:02.560 about like this is the other thing women make everything personal and about themselves you know this 1.00

00:10:07.600 this isn't about them i don't really care um their marriage i hope it works out i would never wish

00:10:13.120 divorce on anybody my point is men under the age of 45 and rich men have a different view on marriage

00:10:20.880 because they don't know what it's like for the average man i would have no idea what it's like

00:10:25.520 if i didn't conduct these interviews and research for my divorce documentary when you actually look

00:10:30.960 into it it opens your eyes and changes your opinion do you think only now 12 years at the juncture

00:10:37.600 of his career he decided he would be pro-marriage you'd be wrong on all counts i see but she's just 0.88

00:10:43.760 okay this this girl's just this stuff is just moving the goal post he and other conservative 0.97

00:10:49.680 men aren't selling people on lies regarding marriage they're a beacon of encouragement and

00:10:53.360 the dumpster dumpster fire of culture that promotes self god forbid he shows the joys of marriage even

00:10:58.960 then matt isn't forcing anyone to get married yes but my my issue is you are telling men to get married

00:11:06.000 young when in 2023 that's in terrible advice and this is the thing guys it virtue signaling is so easy

00:11:13.600 like if i said marriage and family is the answer guys i would look so much better i would have 10

00:11:19.280 times less people attacking me this is why at the end of the day love them or hate them fresh and fit

00:11:25.360 rollo tomasi all of those guys are honest they're honest about the state of affairs you might not like

00:11:30.480 them but they're honest but you know saying what sounds good and saying what is true it is much harder

00:11:36.960 in order to say what is true when the truth isn't nice

JustPearlyThings - October 30, 2023

Pearl Is Standing Up For The Average Man

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