Pearl Is Standing Up For The Average Man
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Summary
Marriage is extremely risky for men in the 21st century. In this episode, I discuss why and why not marrying young is a terrible idea for men today and why it is better to wait to get married until you are in your 30s, 40s, 50s, or 60s.
Transcript
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experience of a man in marriage that starts off average and becomes rich is different than the
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average man in america okay and this is who i'm talking about i'm talking about the factory workers
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i'm talking about the truckers i'm talking about the average man that run this country
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no not everybody can be rich none of us could do what we do without those men
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influencers live in a different world so the average man in this country do you think the
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average man has authority in his own home i would argue um you know and we i'm i could pull the men
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on this do you think the average man has authority in his own home generally yes or generally no do
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you think the average man's wife stays in shape for a lifetime generally yes or generally no do you
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think the average man is wearing a woman that is pure generally yes or generally no now what they
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could say is and this is typically what they'll do just find a good woman but i could also give you
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examples of women that had zero red flags that did everything right and did the same thing and the
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point of the matter is yes there are ways to mitigate risk when you have a system that is paying women to
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leave when you have social media that is also telling women to leave when you have consumer buying
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decisions when you have corporations that are also telling women to leave a higher percentage of women
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are going to leave than ever before the women in the church don't even believe in submission these
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days i've interviewed church girl after church girl after church girl and i can say firsthand the
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quality of the women in church has gone down there are not enough traditional women to go around
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and it's very easy for the top one five percent of men to tell them to just find a good woman but even good
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women do the wrong thing when they are paid to so you know matt walsh again they default to this
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personal attack and this i am the authority on marriage because you know i've been married for
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over a decade 12 years ooh sorry i'm not trying to be rude but ooh all right you know i know many men
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that were married 12 years and then got in their 40s you know it's all sunshine and rainbows in your 30s
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but 40s 50s 60s you know that makes you the same as the men that got over in their 40s 50s and 60s
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if it works out i'm happy for you i'm not attacking the men that make it work but what i am saying is
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it is it is very risky for men to do today and marrying young with the women on the market today
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is terrible advice for men in 2023 it's terrible advice i think that every man is going to look at the
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pros and the cons of each decision and decide for himself so you know back to the personal attack
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i am married therefore appeal to authority i've been married 12 years my wife hasn't divorced me
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i know better than you well if you did know better than me uh you don't seem to know much about the
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family court system that i'm just being honest because i think if you did i i don't think your
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rhetoric would be the same so again the issue you're going to get with trad cons is they're typically
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above average in some way they are living in a different reality tall wealthy men successful
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men are better able to recover after divorce it's the average man the truck drivers construction
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workers the plumbers that are financially ruined and contemplate suicide i interview the men on the
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other side of this and they want to make fun of me they'll say oh pearl just does some interviews
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guys seeing the look in these guys eyes when they are financially ruined their reputation is ruined and
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they cannot see their children do you know what's a death sentence to a man knowing that another man
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is going to influence their children more than them and they have no say or authority that is a
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death sentence to a man the the kid that they're paying for now a stepdad is going to spend more time
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with the child and influence the child more than your own blood that's a death sentence so it's the
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average man the truck drivers construction workers the plumbers that are financially ruined and
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contemplate suicide men are eight times more likely to commit suicide after divorce so you get these
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rich men encouraging men to sign up for marriage without warning them to any of the risks they have
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spent little to no time listening to what these men have gone through and their solution is to just
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pick a good woman and i'm not saying there aren't good women out there there absolutely are but even a
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good woman on her worst day acts with spite women tend to be spiteful and when you have an entire system
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that makes money off of women's spite even good women and you saw that with the crowder case no
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criminal charges at this point yet everybody labeled him as an abuser that was a good christian woman
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this happens to the christian chicks this happens to this happens to muslim chicks in the western world
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marriage is extremely risky for men and the comment section uh you get a lot of men agreeing with me
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they have no idea how much a woman changes during a divorce and there's typically nothing the man could
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have done so do you know now i don't even i didn't even know matt's wife was on twitter i'm learning
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something new every day so and this is where i want you to see how even the right when they don't like
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questions that i'm asking and and my genuine question you might not like the question but are the majority of
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people that are staying married happy you might say oh it's not about happiness okay are most men
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getting what they signed up for when they thought when they got married do most men have an obedient
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wife do most men have a woman that's in shape do most men have a woman that gave them multiple
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children it happens but is that the majority so you know alyssa which i i genuinely guys i don't know
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who these people are i know matt walsh but alyssa okay you'll see she appeals to an attack first
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attacking me and whatever you can get your likes and there's always going to be simps to like back
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you up whatever i shouldn't even respond to you because you're just a grifter pearl this is the
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funniest thing i get thrown at me okay i'm a grifter all right all right yeah i i'm just so desperate
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for money uh my life is just i mean guys i you know what's so funny it's so funny about this you
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guys picked me i was happy playing pro volleyball it's almost as as if alissa something i said was
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true it's almost as if something i said resonated with men you know there's a ton of people that post
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tweets and tiktoks and videos about their life there aren't many that get 2 million followers in a year
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i just got 350k followers on twitter after five months six months it's almost as if something i'm
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saying was true and i know what they'll say they'll say pearl that means nothing there's people with
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stupid audiences all the time uh not not huge male audiences women are easy to fool not men not men
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um if you're not selling sex there's a million women doing exactly the same thing i'm doing
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why did i blow up it's almost as if something i said was true or you know they also say i'm like
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some conspiracy theorist i don't know or i'm a i'm a plant right okay but i will one more time so again
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you are full of it my question is what i said true or false uh it does matt have the average life of an
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average man in america you are doing a disservice to conservatives and will likely find yourself a
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spinster with a negative outlook on marriage that you are spewing um now she's attacking me you're a
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grifter you're going to be a spinster and this is this goes back to women's default it's always shame
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guilt insult and need to be right so what's she doing oh shame on you shame on you for the words
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that you're saying you have no idea who we are i i agree i don't know who you are you make assumptions
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because you see successful men expressing the positives and getting marriage married and having a family
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no i'm just begging the question do rich men have the same experience in divorce and family court
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as an average salary guy is a woman more likely to stay with a mcdonald's worker or a famous youtuber
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worth 10 million dollars like it you don't have to be insulted by questions i think part of your issue
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is that they are men not promoting marriage that doesn't sit well with you for a plethora of reasons
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about your own upbringing and outlook that i could sit around and psychoanalyze all day so this is the
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next thing that women do they psychoanalyze you like they just start they're like oh you have your
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trauma and my parents are still married i have nine siblings yeah oh oh but you didn't see that coming
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and no i i the reason i talk about this is because i have seen and spoken to the men on the other side
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i have spoken to men and the guys this is not they're gonna they're gonna try to manipulate
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the stats to make it seem like this is uncommon let's say it only happens to 10 percent of men
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would you ever take a pill that is a 10 percent
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death rate which the situation you're putting these men in is death to a lot of men
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talk to any men's rights activist anybody that helps their anybody that helps men get custody of
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their kids it is so common for these men to kill themselves it is so it is devastating do you think
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matt and i got married when we had money i don't really care if you did or you didn't rich men have
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a different experience in marriage and relationships do you think that matt do you think matt was wealthy
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at 25 and thinking wow i have so much money i don't care if i get married young and divorce at some
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point because i can bankroll a divorce no i i think if if men knew that divorce was a guarantee after
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building up their wealth i i would all agree that they would not sign up but no i i don't think much
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about like this is the other thing women make everything personal and about themselves you know this
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this isn't about them i don't really care um their marriage i hope it works out i would never wish
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divorce on anybody my point is men under the age of 45 and rich men have a different view on marriage
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because they don't know what it's like for the average man i would have no idea what it's like
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if i didn't conduct these interviews and research for my divorce documentary when you actually look
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into it it opens your eyes and changes your opinion do you think only now 12 years at the juncture
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of his career he decided he would be pro-marriage you'd be wrong on all counts i see but she's just
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okay this this girl's just this stuff is just moving the goal post he and other conservative
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men aren't selling people on lies regarding marriage they're a beacon of encouragement and
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the dumpster dumpster fire of culture that promotes self god forbid he shows the joys of marriage even
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then matt isn't forcing anyone to get married yes but my my issue is you are telling men to get married
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young when in 2023 that's in terrible advice and this is the thing guys it virtue signaling is so easy
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like if i said marriage and family is the answer guys i would look so much better i would have 10
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times less people attacking me this is why at the end of the day love them or hate them fresh and fit
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rollo tomasi all of those guys are honest they're honest about the state of affairs you might not like
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them but they're honest but you know saying what sounds good and saying what is true it is much harder
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in order to say what is true when the truth isn't nice