Pearl Made This Modern Woman RETHINK Her Stance
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss what we like in a woman and what we don't like. We talk about our ideal partner, what we look for in a partner and who we would choose to be in a relationship. We also talk about the bare minimum that women should offer to a man when it comes to dates.
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Does she have to make a certain amount of money?
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Obviously this is a level, but we like what we like.
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We always talk about how women should be treated like queens.
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Why don't we ever talk about how men should be treated like kings?
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But at the end of the day, it's just the standards are too high.
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But listen, as long as she's an island girl, she's on her grind, we can move.
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Just someone that treats you right and that doesn't look elsewhere as well.
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If you want them to be your partner, they're going to have your kids.
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They just can't be, like, they've got to be taller than me.
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Is there a certain amount of money he has to make?
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But at the end, like, I think, it doesn't matter how much money they make at the time,
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but they've got to have drive, because in life...
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If you don't have any money between you, well, it's both ways, then you're going to struggle
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But they don't have to have money to start, but they've got to have ambition to change it.
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So if you dated a guy with no money, he has to be working on it.
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For me, I wouldn't go with a guy who had my money.
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I mean, if he's got absolutely nothing to be able to do with them.
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I mean, they've got to have some money to be able to do, but...
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Have you heard of women say they've accepted the bare minimum?
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The bare minimum is I got taken on a date and I get treated nicely.
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If you're really trying to be special, you take me on a date, you'll plan it, you'll
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What do you feel like is the bare minimum you should offer to a man?
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Do you think it's fair for him to expect you to, like, cook for him and clean if he's
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So do you feel like it should be 50-50 when it comes to paying for dates?
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For dates, realistically, a man should be doing all of that because you're courting
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I want you, but you want me more than I want you.
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I know, but for a man that actually wants you, I'm there.
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What is the bare minimum for men and for women?
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What's the bare minimum you would accept from a woman?
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Question, what is the bare minimum men should expect from women?
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I said, what is the bare minimum we should bring to a guy?
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I don't need to bring cash because unfortunately the patriarchy set it up so that I don't actually
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Maybe a little bit of salt, a little bit of pepper.
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So I always hear women say, I accepted the bare minimum.
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If they're doing good for us, I feel like we should do good for them.
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If they're not matching energy, then they gotta go.
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If a man pays your bills and is paying for dates and everything...
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Well, you wouldn't say it's both ways if he's paying for shit?
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If they treat me right and do everything for me, I'm going to return that energy so we're
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I'm not doing more than you and you're not doing more than me.
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So then, in the name of equality, wouldn't you do that back for him?
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So that's not matching energy, though, because he's still doing more than you're doing for
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I'll match 50-50, but in the beginning, I feel like he has to pay for the first date, definitely.
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We are a generation where people give attention to things that get upset.
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Like, most of the times, we don't really care about the positive things that happen in front
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So that's what he's doing, just to be viral and get money, whatever.
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But I think he's saying bullshit at the same time, saying things that make sense.
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I think anyone who supports him, outside of his misogynistic view, so...
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People can say he speaks good about financial situations, but anyone who thinks that is
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He's so detrimental to women, so don't give him the time of day.
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And I think guys that listen to him are red flags as well.
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I've never watched that man's video in my life.
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I have never watched a video, but I see him everywhere.
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I'm guessing he's not the best in terms of the opinion of women.
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From what I gather, I didn't say it, but they said it, and I don't disagree with that person.
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He has his own opinion, but I agree 80% things, what he say, especially about the government.
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And some things about men, men have to provide for the women.
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Okay, but Andrew Tate, you know, he's a millionaire.
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So, do you agree that he should have been banned on all social media platforms?
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It's good that it's been taken away from social media, but a lot of other people should
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be taken away from social media at the same time.
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I don't think banning him made much of a difference, because it wasn't his own platforms
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I don't think banning him made that much of a difference.
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Why did they ban him, but the women that say men ain't shit and men are trash get to
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Because it's a personal view on men as a whole.
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People can be feminists, people can have their views on men, women.
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Just because they've said one line, men are trash, that doesn't mean they need to be
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Andrew Tate has slandered women, he has assaulted women, and he is just a general misogynist
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and extremist, so he shouldn't be allowed on these platforms.
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I think we live in a world where it ain't fair.
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There's double standards for women, double standards for men.
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Unfortunately, that's just how the cookie crumbles.
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I don't think that's a good enough answer, but honestly...
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Women have time to drag men on social media, but men don't have time like that to sit down
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Women aren't working, so, like, we're staying at home.
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Do you want to say, because we're talking about, like, assault, that, like, Cardi B shouldn't
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be given a platform because she's admitted to assaulting a man?
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I mean, like I said, what matters is what do we give attention to?
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These people are famous just because we give attention of the fact that they're extremists
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The only reason I'm asking is I just want to see if people actually want equality.
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So, like, I mean, I think if we're going to take him down for that, we should take the