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Summary
In this episode, we discuss how old is too old to get married and have kids? Is there any point in getting married at a certain age if you don't have any kids? Is it ever too late to start a family with someone you're in a relationship with?
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Knowing that men today are more hesitant to get married, right, and half of, they're predicting
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half of women in our age group aren't even going to be married. They're, you know, 50% of us in
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the room never married, no kids. That's what they're predicting, okay? At what age is it,
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would you say, over? You know, probably no one's going to marry you. If no one's tried to marry
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you yet, you're probably never going to get it. What age? What do you think? As a woman.
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What age would you say when you're a spinster? Like, no offense. Like, late 40s?
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45? Over? Okay. Kind of, yeah. When do you think it's over?
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Oh, yeah, I'd say probably 45 and over. Yeah, same.
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I think because a lot of people, because people who are getting married tend to want
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families, isn't it? So they're going to look at them and go, I might love you, but I, yeah,
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but in traditional aspects, marriage is to support a family and they might look at it and go,
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we're most likely not going to have a child. So, I mean, if I'm not religious, is there any
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point? Get married at this point? That's what I said. I didn't say relationship. Marriage. Marriage, yeah.
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All right, Troy, what do you think? What age? 27.
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In all seriousness, if we're talking about having kids, though, as well, like not just,
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I'm not talking marriage. This is just personally, I feel like most guys over a certain age,
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they'll get in a long-term relationship with a girl, but why get married if there's no kids?
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So, at what age is it? Would you say as a guy, you're like, couldn't start a family with
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You can have everything, but if you don't have kids.
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So, if you had a girl you really liked, right, and you were thinking of someone you wanted
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to start a family with, but you said, you know what, too old.
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I mean, to be honest, I think it's going to be like mid-30s.
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Yeah, realistically, because of the things you're talking about as well, because you start
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to think, getting much older than that, you start to think, well, you know, would everything
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Because if you think about it, what are women's peak fertility years, really?
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Once you start reaching 30, that's when it starts getting quite dangerous.
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That's why marriage used to be so much younger.
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That's why people used to get married a lot younger.
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But now a lot of people don't want to have children, so they get married a lot later,
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If it's just marriage for companionship, then to be fair, people could get married older.
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You know, like you might meet somebody, you know, in the nursing home, and you're just
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They're like, I don't know how you need to spend this money.
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No, this is on the right hand, not on the left hand.
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Because I feel like I was given so much flack for this.
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Are you a good wife if you get married and then you gain 100 pounds?
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I mean, you're not a bad wife for gaining 100 pounds, whatever, for a reason.
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So, I lost my job and refused to work as a husband, but I did it for a reason.
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I kind of need specifics because like gaining weight and being depressed.
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You can gain weight as a girl because you're depressed.
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If you're not willing to look out for your own health, though.
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See, I don't think it's quite as straightforward, but in a normal way.
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If you have to pick one, you got to pick good or bad.
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I would say if I'm still looking after him and doing all the things that a wife should
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But yeah, I just gained a few pounds or whatever.
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If I'm still looking after him, he can't say nothing.
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And now, if you look at her, she's gained a lot of weight.
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And he told them, he was like, I didn't fall in love with her because of the way she
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I think that sounds like, I don't know why men cap.
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You know, I'm not saying that she can't provide other things, but that action.
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If you don't care, if you don't care and there's no backline issue to why you've done that.
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Because if you don't care and you've gone, you should love me the way I am.
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If that's how it was in the beginning, then that's why maybe I'm coming across a bit strong.
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If you refuse to have sex with your husband, good wife or bad wife?
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I think in a stereotypical sense is what she's saying.
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Because normally when a woman refuses is because there's an emotional disconnect or there's
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Or should you've gotten married and sex with one of them?
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Do good wives put their feelings above what's best for the family?
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So let me just not sleep with my husband because of the way I feel.
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I mean, as long as you express that to your partner and he's okay with that.
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Do you think most men would be okay with having a wife that does not have sex with them?
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Because you guys were like, well, maybe if I explain to him why I'm not.
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I think that would be rubbing salt into the wound, to be honest.
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I think that might make it worse if she's trying to justify it.
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Because the problem is what the guy's giving you is his commitment.
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And then if you're also not having sex with him, then obviously that's going to leave him in a deficit.
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But there's obviously a reason for it, isn't there?
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It really has to depend on what that reason is.
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Well, for example, if she's with like an abusive man.
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That's one of those extremities that we're talking about.
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Why do we keep going to the extreme when we're talking about the norm?
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Because women only refuse the intimacy if there is a problem.
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I say that because women use it sometimes as a weapon.
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But she's probably using it as a weapon because there is a valid reason.
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But could she be not wanting to be intimate with him because just because the butterflies are gone?
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Why don't we keep adding things to avoid the actual question?
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If you're a good wife, if you refuse to sleep with your husband.
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It's not if you're an abusive relate, if that, that, that, that.
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It's just are you a good wife if you won't have sex with your husband?
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Without the extremities I think is what she's trying to say.
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He says it's very common that women get the two kids they want and they just stop sleeping with the husband.
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And a lot of times it's not for a really good reason.
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As women, we have stupid, like, it depends where we are in our cycle.
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You've never gotten mad at your boyfriend for something stupid?
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You don't think good wives know that, you know, we can be crazy, we can be emotional,
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So, good wives have sex even when they don't want to, yes or no?
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I think that's a connection that we'll never, I don't know, we'll never, I don't know,
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But, but I, I, it depends on what kind of time of frame you're, like, time frame that
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If you just mean in general, yeah, there should, even if you're not feeling totally up to it,
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but you haven't had it in a while, it's a respect thing.