Pearl On Modern Relationships
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Summary
In this episode, we have our first guest on the show, my good friend and college friend, and we talk about a variety of different topics. We talk about how society has ruined marriage for women, how to be a good wife and mother, and how to have a healthy relationship with your kids.
Transcript
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But what do you think that, do you think that society needs that, as people got older, like
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you said, they decline, they stop looking after their self as much, they start putting
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on weight, they stop exercising, they're eating good foods, that, what do you think that is?
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I think there's like a lot of motivation to like look good for the opposite sex when
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you're dating and it's like early and I think a lot of people get comfortable.
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Um, I don't know, that's my, I mean, I'm young, so maybe I'll, maybe I'll learn things
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over time, but I just think like, and a lot of women, they get the kids and then they
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That's what they do is they'll, they'll convey, I just think it's convenient.
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I just think it's mad convenient when you got the ring or you got the kid or whatever you
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Oh, I think it's the best institution for families, but I think the government ruined
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If I was a dude, I would have a really hard time getting married.
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I would, it's basically like a bailout for a woman's bad decisions now because it's like,
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no matter what I do as a woman, like there's always a bailout.
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If I sleep around, become a single mother, the government bails me out.
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If I get married and decide, you know what, I'm not feeling it.
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I can take half and the kids and put you on child support.
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Like it's like, whatever women do, we're always bailed out.
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Like there's, if I, if I become homeless, what happens?
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Do you think men have got it because everybody's wanting equal rights.
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Everybody's wanting all the, for me, as I, I like the old school models.
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I like me being out providing and the wife, I've not been, have I been married, but I've
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in my mind, the wife at home with the kids cooking and coming home and it's family time
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But if you say that to a woman now, they think, nah, you're a feminist or you're this,
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that, and it's just what I believe that there's nothing wrong with a man providing for his
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So yeah, I mean, it's sad, but, and a lot of times, like girls don't want to come down
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in lifestyle in order to like stay home with the kids.
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So they won't, you know, go a month, like go a couple months without getting their nails
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Like they want to work because they want a certain lifestyle.
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And like my, my, um, dad's side, my dad was one of 13 and my, my grandpa was a firefighter
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And it was like, they just had a very like low standard of living and they never really
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Would you, how do you think, do you think men have got it hard in this generation?
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I mean, yeah, the, the laws are completely against men and like, you can't say anything
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as a guy nowadays and yeah, no, I think, I think men have it much harder than women.
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I think women live life on easy mode till they're like 45.
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How do you, how does that, see when you're speaking about stuff like this, how does a
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Well, they, they just take it in and really respect me and just, they're super excited
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Like I always say this, but there's no blueprint or manual how the fuck we should be living
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Who says, even the shit that we're talking about, who says it's right or wrong.
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We see the world differently than it's just everybody's conditioned to be leaving something
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And I'm not even against, like my mom worked growing up.
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Um, like I don't, I don't think there's one blueprint for relationships, but it's about
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And the thing is we tell women they can have everything like, Oh, you want a guy that will
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And like my dad was always faithful to my mom, but like as far, you know, as far as I
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know, they always say in the comments, no, he wasn't.
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But it's like, you know, life's about choices and trade and they want to get him when they're
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What age would you think would be the best thing to get married as a high percentage of
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people who get married young or is it higher when they get older?
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You know, the numbers say it's like between like 25 and like 28 apparently or is like the
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But then it's also like women under the age of 25 that have never lived with a guy before.
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So I don't know, probably, probably before, probably before 28, 29.
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And now it's more women are cheating who are in a relationship.
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There's more studies now that say that like women cheat more.
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I mean, I just think like people are people and men cheat, women cheat.
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Like that's not really like we like, I don't think one's better than the other.
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I think more men probably would cheat if they could.
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But if one in three men, like men have to work to get sex.
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Women can just walk outside and say, is anyone down?
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And so I think if something's easier to do, more people will do it.
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I think, I think women like it's typically because they don't see their husband as the best
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And so it's like, I feel like women, it's like their husband doesn't or boyfriend, whatever
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it is, doesn't have something that they like want and they don't really respect him.
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Because a girl, if she really respects a guy, she's never cheating.
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She's never like, she won't even go there because she's too afraid to lose him.
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But like at the end of the day, she's not afraid to lose him.
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I think men, I think if you put most guys in a bad situation with a girl that's just willing
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and there, I think even great men would say, yeah, because guys are just like that.
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But again, if you truly love that person and for me, it doesn't matter who puts it on you,
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you tell them to fuck off because I have no respect for that.
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If they know you've got a partner and someone tries to put it on you, from one opinion now
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as I've got older, if you don't tell that person to fuck off, then for me, then you've no morals
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for yourself because you become an easy target.
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Like I don't disagree with you, but again, I just think life's about choices and trade-offs
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and like men, I just think are biologically predispositioned to sleep with a lot of women
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Like I think that's the best, you know, for families, but I just can't undo what is.
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And all throughout all of history, it's been a lot of women.
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It's like 40% of men have reproduced historically where 80% of women have.
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I grew up in a monogamous household, but it's like modern women are side chicks because
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if you look at dating app data, they only swipe right between like five and 20% of the
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And so it's a very small percentage of men that are sleeping with all the women.
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Do you think that's because men don't have enough respect for themselves or do you think
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it's just in their DNA to be like you see horny to then?
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I mean, women control access to sex, men control access to relationships.
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I think it's like a lot of women batting out of their league.
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So they're like four is five, six is sleeping with the eights, nines and tens.
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And then they think they're on that level, but they're not.
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Because I've seen one of your videos and it was talking about a man and a woman are together.
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They're in a relationship, but that man finds out she's been with three of his friends that
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I'll be like, okay, you get, I'll ask you as a guy.
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One girl has slept with, let's, let's give her, let's give her four.
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The other three, three guys, you know, personally, okay, you, you know, them they're in the town.
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You kind of see them walking around or, or 15, but you will never meet them, never run
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You, you don't know who they are, who you pick it, 15, no day long.
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Yeah, that's, that's the, the, the, always the answer I get from guys.
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But you've got to be honest as well, but psychologically, why is men wired up that way?
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Like every boy, every friend I know that there's insecurities everywhere in their mind.
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So if you, if you had a kid, are you the father or not?
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And now they're saying, um, at DNA testing places, they took polls from all of them.
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And one out of three of the samples that were sent, it said they were not the father.
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If you, if you know, he might not be the father, like, come on, you have a type, you,
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If you know, he may not be the father and he, he spends 10 years raising a kid.
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I think that that is like the worst thing you can do to a guy that if you thought it was
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