JustPearlyThings - April 02, 2023


Pearl On Modern Relationships

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
She Claims that Men Don’t like submissive She Tried To DEFEND Sex Workers And THIS HAPPENED

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Length

10 minutes

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Word count

1,973

Sentence count

155

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Misogyny

27

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Toxicity

22

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19

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In this episode, we have our first guest on the show, my good friend and college friend, and we talk about a variety of different topics. We talk about how society has ruined marriage for women, how to be a good wife and mother, and how to have a healthy relationship with your kids.

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00:00:00.000 But what do you think that, do you think that society needs that, as people got older, like
00:00:04.680 you said, they decline, they stop looking after their self as much, they start putting
00:00:08.060 on weight, they stop exercising, they're eating good foods, that, what do you think that is?
00:00:14.760 Why do people just settle?
00:00:16.360 I think there's like a lot of motivation to like look good for the opposite sex when 1.00
00:00:22.900 you're dating and it's like early and I think a lot of people get comfortable.
00:00:26.840 Yeah.
00:00:27.840 Um, I don't know, that's my, I mean, I'm young, so maybe I'll, maybe I'll learn things
00:00:32.180 over time, but I just think like, and a lot of women, they get the kids and then they 1.00
00:00:37.300 get fat.
00:00:38.380 They get the kids and then they get fat.
00:00:40.380 That's what they do is they'll, they'll convey, I just think it's convenient.
00:00:44.180 I just think it's mad convenient when you got the ring or you got the kid or whatever you
00:00:48.520 wanted.
00:00:49.520 Now you get fat.
00:00:50.520 Now you put on a hundred pounds.
00:00:51.520 That's, that's mad convenient.
00:00:53.520 What do you think of marriage?
00:00:55.520 Oh, I think it's the best institution for families, but I think the government ruined
00:01:00.860 it.
00:01:01.860 If I was a dude, I would have a really hard time getting married. 1.00
00:01:04.200 Cause it sounds like it fucked. 1.00
00:01:06.200 Yeah. 1.00
00:01:07.200 I would, it's basically like a bailout for a woman's bad decisions now because it's like, 1.00
00:01:14.020 no matter what I do as a woman, like there's always a bailout.
00:01:18.080 If I sleep around, become a single mother, the government bails me out.
00:01:21.200 If I get married and decide, you know what, I'm not feeling it.
00:01:23.540 I'm going to leave my husband.
00:01:24.540 I can take half and the kids and put you on child support. 0.93
00:01:27.540 Like it's like, whatever women do, we're always bailed out. 1.00
00:01:31.660 Like there's, if I, if I become homeless, what happens?
00:01:34.040 There's a million women's shelters. 1.00
00:01:35.540 It's not a million men's shelters.
00:01:37.540 Yeah.
00:01:38.540 Do you think men have got it because everybody's wanting equal rights.
00:01:45.540 Everybody's wanting all the, for me, as I, I like the old school models. 1.00
00:01:49.540 I like me being out providing and the wife, I've not been, have I been married, but I've
00:01:54.700 in my mind, the wife at home with the kids cooking and coming home and it's family time
00:01:59.160 and the dinners there.
00:02:00.500 That's my method.
00:02:01.500 But if you say that to a woman now, they think, nah, you're a feminist or you're this, 1.00
00:02:06.040 that, and it's just what I believe that there's nothing wrong with a man providing for his
00:02:12.280 family.
00:02:13.280 I think it gives a man purpose.
00:02:15.280 Yeah.
00:02:16.280 So yeah, I mean, it's sad, but, and a lot of times, like girls don't want to come down
00:02:22.500 in lifestyle in order to like stay home with the kids.
00:02:26.320 So they won't, you know, go a month, like go a couple months without getting their nails
00:02:29.260 done.
00:02:30.260 Like, you know what I'm saying?
00:02:31.260 Like they want to work because they want a certain lifestyle.
00:02:33.720 And like my, my, um, dad's side, my dad was one of 13 and my, my grandpa was a firefighter
00:02:39.620 and my grandma stayed home. 0.65
00:02:41.480 And it was like, they just had a very like low standard of living and they never really
00:02:46.460 got to travel.
00:02:47.460 They never really got to do a lot of stuff.
00:02:48.960 Would you, how do you think, do you think men have got it hard in this generation?
00:02:52.960 Yeah.
00:02:53.960 I mean, yeah, the, the laws are completely against men and like, you can't say anything
00:03:01.140 as a guy nowadays and yeah, no, I think, I think men have it much harder than women.
00:03:06.700 I think women live life on easy mode till they're like 45. 1.00
00:03:09.860 How do you, how does that, see when you're speaking about stuff like this, how does a
00:03:13.360 woman react to what you say? 1.00
00:03:14.860 Well, they, they just take it in and really respect me and just, they're super excited
00:03:19.540 that I'm pointing this out.
00:03:23.000 Because it's just life. 0.95
00:03:24.620 Like I always say this, but there's no blueprint or manual how the fuck we should be living 0.95
00:03:29.460 at that. 0.95
00:03:30.460 Right. 0.99
00:03:31.460 Who says, even the shit that we're talking about, who says it's right or wrong. 0.99
00:03:35.640 We see the world differently than it's just everybody's conditioned to be leaving something 0.99
00:03:39.540 different.
00:03:40.540 And I'm not even against, like my mom worked growing up.
00:03:43.160 It wasn't like she was just at home with us.
00:03:45.660 Um, like I don't, I don't think there's one blueprint for relationships, but it's about
00:03:50.100 choices and trade-offs.
00:03:51.640 And the thing is we tell women they can have everything like, Oh, you want a guy that will 1.00
00:03:55.780 never cheat on you ever.
00:03:57.140 Oh, but he can also be super hot and rich.
00:03:59.300 Okay.
00:04:00.300 Good luck.
00:04:01.300 Good luck.
00:04:02.300 Like that you might find one.
00:04:05.140 And like my dad was always faithful to my mom, but like as far, you know, as far as I
00:04:09.660 know, they always say in the comments, no, he wasn't.
00:04:13.380 But it's like, you know, life's about choices and trade and they want to get him when they're
00:04:17.880 like 32.
00:04:19.040 It's like, okay, good luck.
00:04:20.340 What age would you think would be the best thing to get married as a high percentage of
00:04:24.740 people who get married young or is it higher when they get older?
00:04:27.280 Yeah.
00:04:28.280 You know, the numbers say it's like between like 25 and like 28 apparently or is like the
00:04:36.380 highest.
00:04:37.660 But then it's also like women under the age of 25 that have never lived with a guy before.
00:04:41.460 They have really high rates.
00:04:43.000 So I don't know, probably, probably before, probably before 28, 29.
00:04:48.500 And now it's more women are cheating who are in a relationship. 1.00
00:04:53.940 There's more studies now that say that like women cheat more. 1.00
00:04:57.760 I mean, I just think like people are people and men cheat, women cheat. 0.97
00:05:00.900 Like that's not really like we like, I don't think one's better than the other.
00:05:04.960 I think more men probably would cheat if they could. 1.00
00:05:07.260 But if one in three men, like men have to work to get sex. 0.63
00:05:10.600 Women can just walk outside and say, is anyone down? 1.00
00:05:15.740 And so I think if something's easier to do, more people will do it. 0.95
00:05:19.300 And I think women are better at lying. 1.00
00:05:21.020 That's true. 0.79
00:05:22.020 My mom's very good at it. 0.99
00:05:25.060 Why do you think people cheat?
00:05:28.040 Because they're horny. 1.00
00:05:29.040 Selfish needs? 0.98
00:05:30.040 No, I just think they're horny. 1.00
00:05:31.700 I think, I think women like it's typically because they don't see their husband as the best 1.00
00:05:35.820 they could have did.
00:05:37.640 And so it's like, I feel like women, it's like their husband doesn't or boyfriend, whatever 0.97
00:05:44.740 it is, doesn't have something that they like want and they don't really respect him.
00:05:49.760 Because a girl, if she really respects a guy, she's never cheating.
00:05:53.240 She's never like, she won't even go there because she's too afraid to lose him.
00:05:56.500 But like at the end of the day, she's not afraid to lose him.
00:05:58.880 I think men, I think if you put most guys in a bad situation with a girl that's just willing
00:06:06.300 and there, I think even great men would say, yeah, because guys are just like that.
00:06:14.800 The temptation is always for both sides.
00:06:17.480 But again, if you truly love that person and for me, it doesn't matter who puts it on you, 1.00
00:06:22.320 you tell them to fuck off because I have no respect for that. 0.99
00:06:24.700 If they know you've got a partner and someone tries to put it on you, from one opinion now 1.00
00:06:28.640 as I've got older, if you don't tell that person to fuck off, then for me, then you've no morals 1.00
00:06:34.280 for yourself because you become an easy target. 0.99
00:06:37.200 Like I don't disagree with you, but again, I just think life's about choices and trade-offs
00:06:44.320 and like men, I just think are biologically predispositioned to sleep with a lot of women
00:06:50.600 and it might happen.
00:06:51.600 What about monogamy? 0.94
00:06:54.600 Do you believe it exists?
00:06:55.600 Yeah.
00:06:56.600 I mean, I prefer it.
00:06:57.600 Like I think that's the best, you know, for families, but I just can't undo what is.
00:07:03.960 And all throughout all of history, it's been a lot of women. 1.00
00:07:06.300 It's like 40% of men have reproduced historically where 80% of women have. 0.95
00:07:10.460 So it's always been two women to one guy.
00:07:12.600 Yeah.
00:07:15.980 So it's like, I prefer it.
00:07:17.780 I think it's better for families.
00:07:19.280 I grew up in a monogamous household, but it's like modern women are side chicks because 1.00
00:07:24.820 if you look at dating app data, they only swipe right between like five and 20% of the
00:07:28.400 time where men swipe right 60% of the time. 0.98
00:07:32.120 And so it's a very small percentage of men that are sleeping with all the women.
00:07:35.280 Do you think that's because men don't have enough respect for themselves or do you think
00:07:38.800 it's just in their DNA to be like you see horny to then?
00:07:43.280 I think it starts with the women. 1.00
00:07:46.400 I mean, women control access to sex, men control access to relationships. 1.00
00:07:50.740 I think it's like a lot of women batting out of their league. 1.00
00:07:52.940 So they're like four is five, six is sleeping with the eights, nines and tens. 0.93
00:07:57.700 And then they think they're on that level, but they're not.
00:08:00.480 Yeah.
00:08:01.480 Because I've seen one of your videos and it was talking about a man and a woman are together.
00:08:05.240 They're in a relationship, but that man finds out she's been with three of his friends that
00:08:10.240 men struggle with that.
00:08:11.240 Yeah.
00:08:12.240 Yeah.
00:08:13.240 I mean, you know, it's funny.
00:08:14.240 I ask guys this all the time.
00:08:15.240 I'll be like, okay, you get, I'll ask you as a guy.
00:08:18.240 Okay.
00:08:19.240 You get two choices of girls. 1.00
00:08:20.240 Okay.
00:08:21.240 One girl has slept with, let's, let's give her, let's give her four. 1.00
00:08:26.580 You're one of them.
00:08:27.740 The other three, three guys, you know, personally, okay, you, you know, them they're in the town.
00:08:33.000 You kind of see them walking around or, or 15, but you will never meet them, never run
00:08:39.300 into them in your life.
00:08:40.300 You, you don't know who they are, who you pick it, 15, no day long.
00:08:43.580 Yeah, that's, that's the, the, the, always the answer I get from guys.
00:08:50.580 Yeah.
00:08:51.580 But you've got to be honest as well, but psychologically, why is men wired up that way?
00:08:55.580 Like every boy, every friend I know that there's insecurities everywhere in their mind.
00:09:01.580 It's not insecurities.
00:09:02.580 I mean, you can't undo biology.
00:09:05.060 You guys had to ensure paternity historically.
00:09:07.860 So if you, if you had a kid, are you the father or not?
00:09:11.560 And now they're saying, um, at DNA testing places, they took polls from all of them.
00:09:16.920 And one out of three of the samples that were sent, it said they were not the father.
00:09:22.480 Yeah.
00:09:24.600 And that's, that's the thing.
00:09:25.660 And you know, it's crazy.
00:09:26.660 That's not illegal.
00:09:27.660 I think a girl should be sent to jail. 1.00
00:09:29.660 If you, if you know, he might not be the father, like, come on, you have a type, you, 0.99
00:09:34.120 you know, damn what, like, come on, come on. 0.97
00:09:36.740 If you know, he may not be the father and he, he spends 10 years raising a kid. 0.99
00:09:42.380 That's not, not his.
00:09:43.380 You should go to jail.
00:09:44.380 I stand by that.
00:09:45.380 That, that is, that is worse.
00:09:47.300 I think that that is like the worst thing you can do to a guy that if you thought it was
00:09:51.900 yours.
00:09:52.900 And it's legal.
00:09:53.900 I was just banned on Tik TOK and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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