JustPearlyThings - Pearl On why She Doesn't Drink

00:00:00.000 Speaker 1 What do you think the main cause of breakups are now? Cheating? Is that the

00:00:06.560 main word? Or do people just fucking lie to themselves? 0.99

00:00:09.520 Speaker 1 I think women leave. Women leave 70 to 80% of the time, 90% of their college 0.99

00:00:13.840 educated. I think the women, I like genuinely think it's women's fault. 1.00

00:00:16.640 Speaker 1 Why though?

00:00:18.720 Speaker 1 Because like it all started to switch when we changed because birth control was developed

00:00:27.760 in the sixties. And if you look at birth, like the rate of women taking birth control

00:00:34.880 and the rate of the divorces, it's mad. It's like the same. It's literally like the divorce rate

00:00:41.280 went up right when women started taking birth control. So it started with the hose. 0.97

00:00:45.600 Speaker 1 Do you think if people had more respect for

00:00:48.320 themselves, relationships would flourish, families would flourish?

00:00:51.120 Speaker 1 Well, it depends what position you're in. Like, I think there's like two types of girls. 1.00

00:00:55.920 So like the one issue that I see in churches a lot where they're like promoting, not sleeping

00:01:01.120 around or whatever, is that like, they're telling girls that used to be hosed to like, wait till 1.00

00:01:05.360 they're married. Good luck. Are you going to wait till you're married with a girl that has slept with 20 0.88

00:01:13.200 people? No, who's going to do that? Would you wait till you're married for a virgin? Maybe if you know, 1.00

00:01:20.400 it was going to be forever lasting, but again, how can you judge that if you come into a relationship

00:01:26.480 with somebody and you, you were told at the start of schooling, listen, everybody stays a virgin

00:01:31.040 because if you find your partner, your life's going to be amazing. But how do you, how do we know that

00:01:38.000 we can sleep with that person? Because every time I, if I go back in the day, I lose respect for them

00:01:43.040 instantly. That was more insecurity. It wasn't insecurity. Do you not think so? No, no. And

00:01:49.840 looking for excuses and looking for flaws to then end that all the time. No, I mean, I think you're

00:01:54.640 biologically predisposition to not like easy girls. It just is what it is. Yeah. And so what I see is

00:02:03.120 like in the church, they'll try to like rebrand and I couldn't figure, I couldn't figure out why,

00:02:08.320 because I remember listening to chastity speakers when I was younger. I grew up in Catholic school

00:02:12.240 and I couldn't, I couldn't figure out why I thought they were full of shit, but I just did. 1.00

00:02:17.360 And like, what girls will do is like, they're running out of time. And so they'll try to like 1.00

00:02:20.720 rebrand themselves as a good woman. Like I just had a girl on my podcast yesterday. Tell me that

00:02:24.320 she cheated on her husband with a child, with a dude that are with her sugar daddy while her husband 1.00

00:02:32.240 was babysitting her kids. And now she's in the church and, but she's a good woman now. I'm like, yeah, okay.

00:02:37.200 Do you think a lot of people act different when they're still the same person without really doing

00:02:43.200 internal work to become better? I feel like you always, okay. I'll give you an example. So

00:02:50.080 when I was in college, I used to drink, like, um, I mean, I don't know. I don't know how colleges are

00:02:56.240 here, but in the U S like, it's very much like you play flip cup, beer pong, you know? And after college,

00:03:02.480 I was like, you know what, I'm going to stop drinking. I just, I just like stopped. Right.

00:03:07.040 And because my thought was I'm young now, it'll probably be easier to quit now. I don't want this

00:03:11.280 to become a problem. I'll just, I'll just stop. There's always going to be a part of me that wants

00:03:14.720 to drink, but that still is part of who I am. And once you do something like, like, I feel like you're

00:03:20.400 that part of your brain, it's always there and you can choose not to do it, but there's always like a

00:03:26.880 higher risk. You're going to do it again. It's the same thing with like girls being hoes. 1.00

00:03:30.720 They can stop doing it, but there's always a part of them. That's going to be how

00:03:34.640 it's crazy to think that same thing. Like you said, you used to do drugs or whatever.

00:03:38.480 Drugs, gambling, women. 1.00

00:03:39.680 There are days where you're like, you're like, it, I'm just going to leave this and go back to

00:03:43.840 doing it. Yeah. Yeah. And so if a girl dates you, like she knows that's a risk, that is who you are,

00:03:48.960 but you just make different decisions now.

00:03:50.720 Yeah. Everything's choices. I just know how good my life is not being that person.

00:03:55.760 Yeah. But every day still, you still, it's easy to self-medicate because the stresses of

00:04:02.000 pressure trying to be successful or trying to be a better person is a stress in itself.

00:04:06.080 Making changes is a stress. Yeah.

00:04:07.760 It's easy not to give a fuck. It's easy to take. 1.00

00:04:09.760 Yeah. 1.00

00:04:10.320 Lines of coke and fucking alcohol and shag. I just know how much it was destroying me. 1.00

00:04:15.840 Yeah. Because I knew it wasn't working. I thought it was cool. It was cool for a while

00:04:20.480 until then one sleepless night comes into three, four and then depression and then overthinking.

00:04:25.920 And the thing about life is nobody saves you. You need to fucking dig deep yourself. 0.98

00:04:29.840 If you're a man. 0.99

00:04:30.480 Yeah.

00:04:30.880 They'll say, they'll save you if you're a woman. Shout out to the simps. 1.00

00:04:35.920 How is it flat for you? When you're talking that started getting bigger,

00:04:39.440 how did, what was the first guy do with it blue for you?

00:04:41.680 Oh gosh. You know, it's funny. I, I was on tick tock for something completely different. Like

00:04:48.160 I did house videos, family videos. I did breakup quizzes. Like I had a whole content before this.

00:04:55.520 Um, I would say the first tick tock video that went viral was a clip of me telling this feminist 0.95

00:05:02.320 or like red pill video that went viral was a clip of me telling this feminist that like, we need men 0.99

00:05:07.920 or she was like, no, we don't need men. And I, and I was like, who do you call to get your car fixed?

00:05:12.880 Who do you call when you're like your toilet breaks down? Like, and that's the thing. Women are so 1.00

00:05:17.520 entitled nowadays that we aren't even thankful for the world that men built for us. Like all throughout

00:05:21.920 history, you think you could just walk home alone at night and be safe. Like it's a privilege to be

00:05:27.280 able to be a single woman. Like that is a privilege because all throughout history, like you couldn't 0.97

00:05:32.000 do that. Why do you think there's so much divide now and people like for me, there's two genders. 1.00

00:05:38.400 For me, there's male and female. There's two genders. And if you want to be whoever you want to be and

00:05:44.000 so be it. But for me, there's male, female, but that's certainly science. It's genes. It's DNA. 0.98

00:05:49.040 It's that there's, you can't go against that. Like it's facts. But why do you think so many

00:05:54.800 people are now becoming confused? So many different people are now arguing that I want to be

00:05:59.760 fucking known as a tree or whatever, like transgender, if you like, 1.00

00:06:03.680 Oh, like the, the, the trans thing. 1.00

00:06:05.840 Yeah. Be who you want to be, but don't force agendas onto other people. Like why is people so

00:06:11.760 money? Like when you go down a certain route and if you don't believe what they believe,

00:06:15.520 then you're fucking hated upon, but. I don't know. I think it's just money. 0.95

00:06:19.920 Do you think so? Yeah. I think there's money in being a victim. There's money they can make

00:06:26.000 off of trans people. I just think, yeah, money. What do you think of that? Cause now it's schools. 0.85

00:06:32.160 You've got, um, not transgender. You've got. Jail, jail time. Anyone that teaches a kid about 1.00

00:06:38.960 that transgender shit, jail time. I swear to God, you gotta get these weirdos out of the schools. 1.00

00:06:44.800 Because it's not transgenders. The, the dress up is women. Um, oh, the is that? 1.00

00:06:54.560 Story time they call it, but they're dressed men dressed as women. And they'll get into schools 0.85

00:06:58.080 and they'll read to the kids and. Nah. Oh, the drag queen. Drag queens. Yeah. Jail time. Jail time. 1.00

00:07:04.240 Why would you like, why would you confuse a child? Like, that's what I don't get because I just think

00:07:10.160 kids should be protected. And I think the schools are like brainwashing the kids and they, they want

00:07:16.560 them. Like, I remember I found out my little sister, my little sister is like sixth grade and this is at

00:07:22.480 a Catholic school. So that's a little bit more conservative than a regular school. But even there,

00:07:28.800 they're showing my sister CNN. Why are you showing my sister CNN in sixth grade?

00:07:35.040 What? A sixth grader? What does she need to know about? It's like CNN kids. I'm like, the kids need

00:07:41.040 to watch the news now. What the, why on earth do they need to know what's going on in the world at 10,

00:07:46.960 12 or whenever you're in sixth grade? I don't know, but.

00:07:49.440 The schools will condition you from a young age to whatever they want to condition you to believe

00:07:54.400 and see world war ones, twos, the news drag Queens tearing story times, like whatever agenda is 0.99

00:08:01.200 getting pushed at that time. Then they'll flood the kids' minds because the first six years or seven

00:08:05.280 years is the most active in the brain for kids. This is when it will adapt to their brain where they'll

00:08:10.400 start seeing the world, whatever they've been taught. Even Disney films, you go back to Disney films,

00:08:14.400 everybody's watched Disney films. We've got, that's, that's how delusional women started. 1.00

00:08:18.640 Disney Prince Charming and fucking men. You're going to be a, you're going to be a broke girl 1.00

00:08:25.600 in the, in the where with a horrible mother. It like, and then a prince is just going to find you.

00:08:31.440 Okay. But people believe that an average check people believe that because every Disney films

00:08:36.640 either been raised with a step mom, stepdad broken home. They get raised from Cinderella one to 10,

00:08:42.320 like a six, a six. You tell me a six got Prince charming. Fine. Stop it. 0.69

00:08:48.480 it. Stop it. Give me a nine.

00:08:49.920 But why do we believe all that shit? Do you know what I mean? 1.00

00:08:53.280 That's a good story. That's the, that's the thing about movies, all the best, like films,

00:08:57.920 once you see this, you can't unsee it. All the biggest films, like for women, it's like average,

00:09:02.880 slightly above average chick getting a guy that's eight, nine or 10, like, like 50 shades of gray.

00:09:07.920 What's that girl? One to 10, six, Christian gray, multimillionaire nine, 10.

00:09:14.800 Why do you think women are so unfas, fascinated with 50 shades of green stuff? 1.00

00:09:21.040 Um, it's like the, I think Rolo had a, a stream on this. I can't remember, but,

00:09:28.240 um, I just think it's like the, like girls want a guy that's like,

00:09:34.720 has like the dark side. That's like, you know, the, the, that stuff, but then also is like the guy you

00:09:41.360 can take home to mom and dad. It's not real. It's like, wait, you're going to have a guy that's

00:09:46.400 really great in bed doing all this, you know, stuff. And also you can bring them home to mom

00:09:52.080 and dad. And he's like the cookie cutter boyfriend. Okay.

00:09:54.320 Okay.

00:09:55.360 Fantasies.

00:09:56.080 It's like one or the other. What do you want? Like, it's not real.

00:09:59.600 What do you think of Jordan Peterson?

00:10:01.600 Oh, I love him. I just saw him speak a couple of days ago.

00:10:04.400 Where was he?

00:10:05.280 Yeah. Um, he, he was at some theater in OVO theater. Is that what it's called?

00:10:11.360 Yeah, I think I, I don't know, but he, he convinced me to stop drinking. That was like,

00:10:16.560 part of the reason I stopped was because he had this video about thinking like long-term about it.

00:10:21.360 And I was like, I've only had this habit, like three years, four years, maybe I was like, I could

00:10:27.200 probably quit now. It'll probably get worse if I keep doing it. So I'll just stop.

00:10:31.920 It's the most glorified drug on the planet. No weird. Yeah. We accept that.

00:10:37.040 It's kind of weird. That alcohol is the one that we could, we accept out of all of them.

00:10:42.000 You've got to think of the mistakes it's made from it. It's a poison, but it comes from the

00:10:46.000 Arabic word alcohol, which means ghoul, which means body and spirit. So they say when you,

00:10:51.840 that's why they call it spirits vodka, because when you're drinking it. Yeah. So apparently your soul

00:10:57.360 leaves a body and the entities from the spirit then take over. People black out. We'll sleep with

00:11:01.600 people who wouldn't normally do it. Everybody makes mistakes. The majority of men are in prison,

00:11:06.560 either intoxicated by drink or drugs, but it's just the mistakes that's made from,

00:11:11.040 because you're not in a conscience frame, your judgments, not your judgments. There's nowhere

00:11:15.440 to be seen. Like, I don't remember how many times I woke up next to girls and I thought,

00:11:18.560 fucking hell. Wait, was it a whale? Was it a whale? 0.99

00:11:21.840 Fucking good few times. You know what I mean? You were like, ah, 0.98

00:11:26.800 now you know what that whale thinks? That whale thinks she's on your level and you're like, oh no, 0.80

00:11:30.720 oh no, sis. No disrespect to anybody, but standards drop. Yeah. You don't give a 0.56

00:11:36.000 fuck what you're doing with life. And like, it's not just relationships with girls. It's also when the 0.99

00:11:40.320 drugs kick in. How low did you go? Three, two. As low as I could to get anybody involved. You know what I

00:11:46.160 mean? And the bullshit that comes from your mouth, you actually believe the shit that you talk. 1.00

00:11:51.360 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this 1.00

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JustPearlyThings - April 02, 2023

Pearl On why She Doesn't Drink

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