Pearl On why She Doesn't Drink
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Summary
In this episode, I sit down with my good friend and fellow podcaster, to talk about relationships, sex, and sex education. We talk about sex education, sex education in the church, and how sex education should be taught in public schools.
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Speaker 1 What do you think the main cause of breakups are now? Cheating? Is that the
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main word? Or do people just fucking lie to themselves?
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Speaker 1 I think women leave. Women leave 70 to 80% of the time, 90% of their college
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educated. I think the women, I like genuinely think it's women's fault.
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Speaker 1 Because like it all started to switch when we changed because birth control was developed
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in the sixties. And if you look at birth, like the rate of women taking birth control
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and the rate of the divorces, it's mad. It's like the same. It's literally like the divorce rate
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went up right when women started taking birth control. So it started with the hose.
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Speaker 1 Do you think if people had more respect for
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themselves, relationships would flourish, families would flourish?
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Speaker 1 Well, it depends what position you're in. Like, I think there's like two types of girls.
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So like the one issue that I see in churches a lot where they're like promoting, not sleeping
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around or whatever, is that like, they're telling girls that used to be hosed to like, wait till
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they're married. Good luck. Are you going to wait till you're married with a girl that has slept with 20
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people? No, who's going to do that? Would you wait till you're married for a virgin? Maybe if you know,
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it was going to be forever lasting, but again, how can you judge that if you come into a relationship
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with somebody and you, you were told at the start of schooling, listen, everybody stays a virgin
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because if you find your partner, your life's going to be amazing. But how do you, how do we know that
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we can sleep with that person? Because every time I, if I go back in the day, I lose respect for them
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instantly. That was more insecurity. It wasn't insecurity. Do you not think so? No, no. And
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looking for excuses and looking for flaws to then end that all the time. No, I mean, I think you're
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biologically predisposition to not like easy girls. It just is what it is. Yeah. And so what I see is
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like in the church, they'll try to like rebrand and I couldn't figure, I couldn't figure out why,
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because I remember listening to chastity speakers when I was younger. I grew up in Catholic school
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and I couldn't, I couldn't figure out why I thought they were full of shit, but I just did.
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And like, what girls will do is like, they're running out of time. And so they'll try to like
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rebrand themselves as a good woman. Like I just had a girl on my podcast yesterday. Tell me that
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she cheated on her husband with a child, with a dude that are with her sugar daddy while her husband
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was babysitting her kids. And now she's in the church and, but she's a good woman now. I'm like, yeah, okay.
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Do you think a lot of people act different when they're still the same person without really doing
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internal work to become better? I feel like you always, okay. I'll give you an example. So
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when I was in college, I used to drink, like, um, I mean, I don't know. I don't know how colleges are
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here, but in the U S like, it's very much like you play flip cup, beer pong, you know? And after college,
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I was like, you know what, I'm going to stop drinking. I just, I just like stopped. Right.
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And because my thought was I'm young now, it'll probably be easier to quit now. I don't want this
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to become a problem. I'll just, I'll just stop. There's always going to be a part of me that wants
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to drink, but that still is part of who I am. And once you do something like, like, I feel like you're
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that part of your brain, it's always there and you can choose not to do it, but there's always like a
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higher risk. You're going to do it again. It's the same thing with like girls being hoes.
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They can stop doing it, but there's always a part of them. That's going to be how
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it's crazy to think that same thing. Like you said, you used to do drugs or whatever.
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There are days where you're like, you're like, it, I'm just going to leave this and go back to
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doing it. Yeah. Yeah. And so if a girl dates you, like she knows that's a risk, that is who you are,
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Yeah. Everything's choices. I just know how good my life is not being that person.
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Yeah. But every day still, you still, it's easy to self-medicate because the stresses of
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pressure trying to be successful or trying to be a better person is a stress in itself.
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It's easy not to give a fuck. It's easy to take.
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Lines of coke and fucking alcohol and shag. I just know how much it was destroying me.
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Yeah. Because I knew it wasn't working. I thought it was cool. It was cool for a while
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until then one sleepless night comes into three, four and then depression and then overthinking.
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And the thing about life is nobody saves you. You need to fucking dig deep yourself.
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They'll say, they'll save you if you're a woman. Shout out to the simps.
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How is it flat for you? When you're talking that started getting bigger,
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how did, what was the first guy do with it blue for you?
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Oh gosh. You know, it's funny. I, I was on tick tock for something completely different. Like
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I did house videos, family videos. I did breakup quizzes. Like I had a whole content before this.
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Um, I would say the first tick tock video that went viral was a clip of me telling this feminist
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or like red pill video that went viral was a clip of me telling this feminist that like, we need men
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or she was like, no, we don't need men. And I, and I was like, who do you call to get your car fixed?
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Who do you call when you're like your toilet breaks down? Like, and that's the thing. Women are so
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entitled nowadays that we aren't even thankful for the world that men built for us. Like all throughout
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history, you think you could just walk home alone at night and be safe. Like it's a privilege to be
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able to be a single woman. Like that is a privilege because all throughout history, like you couldn't
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do that. Why do you think there's so much divide now and people like for me, there's two genders.
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For me, there's male and female. There's two genders. And if you want to be whoever you want to be and
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so be it. But for me, there's male, female, but that's certainly science. It's genes. It's DNA.
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It's that there's, you can't go against that. Like it's facts. But why do you think so many
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people are now becoming confused? So many different people are now arguing that I want to be
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fucking known as a tree or whatever, like transgender, if you like,
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Yeah. Be who you want to be, but don't force agendas onto other people. Like why is people so
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money? Like when you go down a certain route and if you don't believe what they believe,
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then you're fucking hated upon, but. I don't know. I think it's just money.
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Do you think so? Yeah. I think there's money in being a victim. There's money they can make
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off of trans people. I just think, yeah, money. What do you think of that? Cause now it's schools.
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You've got, um, not transgender. You've got. Jail, jail time. Anyone that teaches a kid about
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that transgender shit, jail time. I swear to God, you gotta get these weirdos out of the schools.
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Because it's not transgenders. The, the dress up is women. Um, oh, the is that?
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Story time they call it, but they're dressed men dressed as women. And they'll get into schools
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and they'll read to the kids and. Nah. Oh, the drag queen. Drag queens. Yeah. Jail time. Jail time.
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Why would you like, why would you confuse a child? Like, that's what I don't get because I just think
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kids should be protected. And I think the schools are like brainwashing the kids and they, they want
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them. Like, I remember I found out my little sister, my little sister is like sixth grade and this is at
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a Catholic school. So that's a little bit more conservative than a regular school. But even there,
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they're showing my sister CNN. Why are you showing my sister CNN in sixth grade?
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What? A sixth grader? What does she need to know about? It's like CNN kids. I'm like, the kids need
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to watch the news now. What the, why on earth do they need to know what's going on in the world at 10,
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12 or whenever you're in sixth grade? I don't know, but.
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The schools will condition you from a young age to whatever they want to condition you to believe
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and see world war ones, twos, the news drag Queens tearing story times, like whatever agenda is
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getting pushed at that time. Then they'll flood the kids' minds because the first six years or seven
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years is the most active in the brain for kids. This is when it will adapt to their brain where they'll
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start seeing the world, whatever they've been taught. Even Disney films, you go back to Disney films,
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everybody's watched Disney films. We've got, that's, that's how delusional women started.
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Disney Prince Charming and fucking men. You're going to be a, you're going to be a broke girl
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in the, in the where with a horrible mother. It like, and then a prince is just going to find you.
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Okay. But people believe that an average check people believe that because every Disney films
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either been raised with a step mom, stepdad broken home. They get raised from Cinderella one to 10,
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like a six, a six. You tell me a six got Prince charming. Fine. Stop it.
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But why do we believe all that shit? Do you know what I mean?
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That's a good story. That's the, that's the thing about movies, all the best, like films,
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once you see this, you can't unsee it. All the biggest films, like for women, it's like average,
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slightly above average chick getting a guy that's eight, nine or 10, like, like 50 shades of gray.
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What's that girl? One to 10, six, Christian gray, multimillionaire nine, 10.
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Why do you think women are so unfas, fascinated with 50 shades of green stuff?
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Um, it's like the, I think Rolo had a, a stream on this. I can't remember, but,
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um, I just think it's like the, like girls want a guy that's like,
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has like the dark side. That's like, you know, the, the, that stuff, but then also is like the guy you
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can take home to mom and dad. It's not real. It's like, wait, you're going to have a guy that's
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really great in bed doing all this, you know, stuff. And also you can bring them home to mom
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and dad. And he's like the cookie cutter boyfriend. Okay.
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It's like one or the other. What do you want? Like, it's not real.
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Oh, I love him. I just saw him speak a couple of days ago.
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Yeah. Um, he, he was at some theater in OVO theater. Is that what it's called?
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Yeah, I think I, I don't know, but he, he convinced me to stop drinking. That was like,
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part of the reason I stopped was because he had this video about thinking like long-term about it.
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And I was like, I've only had this habit, like three years, four years, maybe I was like, I could
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probably quit now. It'll probably get worse if I keep doing it. So I'll just stop.
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It's the most glorified drug on the planet. No weird. Yeah. We accept that.
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It's kind of weird. That alcohol is the one that we could, we accept out of all of them.
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You've got to think of the mistakes it's made from it. It's a poison, but it comes from the
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Arabic word alcohol, which means ghoul, which means body and spirit. So they say when you,
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that's why they call it spirits vodka, because when you're drinking it. Yeah. So apparently your soul
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leaves a body and the entities from the spirit then take over. People black out. We'll sleep with
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people who wouldn't normally do it. Everybody makes mistakes. The majority of men are in prison,
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either intoxicated by drink or drugs, but it's just the mistakes that's made from,
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because you're not in a conscience frame, your judgments, not your judgments. There's nowhere
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to be seen. Like, I don't remember how many times I woke up next to girls and I thought,
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fucking hell. Wait, was it a whale? Was it a whale?
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Fucking good few times. You know what I mean? You were like, ah,
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now you know what that whale thinks? That whale thinks she's on your level and you're like, oh no,
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oh no, sis. No disrespect to anybody, but standards drop. Yeah. You don't give a
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fuck what you're doing with life. And like, it's not just relationships with girls. It's also when the
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drugs kick in. How low did you go? Three, two. As low as I could to get anybody involved. You know what I
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mean? And the bullshit that comes from your mouth, you actually believe the shit that you talk.
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