JustPearlyThings - August 26, 2023


Pearl Points Out This Flaw In Modern Relationships


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Length

6 minutes

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184.28505

Word count

1,193

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

9

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Hate speech

4

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In this episode, we discuss what it means to be a leader in a relationship and why a woman leaves a relationship if her partner lacks motivation. We also discuss why women leave a relationship when they run out of motivation and how to motivate a man to keep them in a healthy relationship.

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00:00:00.000 but um but yeah so that's what I think I think usually when relationships end it's the woman's 1.00
00:00:08.540 fault yeah do you know what no no I don't agree so what if it's a situation as you said the man
00:00:17.040 the man not being the leader anymore what if he just lacks motivation what if he lacks teaching
00:00:22.080 you better or bettering okay so how okay tell me like what motivation is give me an example
00:00:26.880 um for example okay cool um I'm like oh babe I want to set up a cake shop um just you know to
00:00:35.020 better us you can manage it but um I want you to like help set up a cake shop he's probably not
00:00:41.120 going to motivate you or push you in the direction of you can simply get in the stuff of you know the
00:00:46.400 cake cutters or tools that you would need I'll give you I'll give you an example of this cake shop you
00:00:50.720 know men are more logical so most men would probably say that's a stupid idea they will yeah and that's
00:00:56.480 the thing is women we're led with our emotions what's like fun in the moment right you know 0.98
00:01:00.760 but men are just a little more logical so I think a lot of times we have stupid ideas and we bring 0.60
00:01:05.960 them to men and they kind of like nicely tell us no but we don't take a hint but you guys can tell
00:01:11.980 me if I'm wrong no but the other side of this is like it's his investment like he's investing into
00:01:17.600 this into into your idea for a cake shop okay but maybe did okay did he say yes to the cake shop
00:01:24.720 I asked him I wanted him to motivate me okay why is it his job to motivate you because he's the man
00:01:31.320 he's the leader not the motivator like
00:01:33.800 well it's like he could motivate your children and your woman
00:01:41.060 oh yeah not not even if it's okay so why can't you motivate yourself I don't like no
00:01:47.660 because now now you're a strong independent woman and you're finding yourself but why
00:01:51.460 could you motivate yourself independent woman you want you want to but now you want to find just 0.99
00:01:54.860 behind you but now you know you can do it no let's fix it you're behind him he's in front
00:02:01.740 yeah he's the leader he's the leader but if he's not leading for you or the children if he's out okay
00:02:08.040 if he's out spending five days a week in the club okay and he's drinking and he's whatever and he's
00:02:12.740 partying and you don't see him at night you don't okay he doesn't see the children what do you do
00:02:17.540 then is he leading okay okay so then I would ask why are you with the guy that spends five days a
00:02:24.660 week in the club that's why a woman leaves no no no no this is what no no no this is what chicks do 1.00
00:02:30.780 this is what chicks do you pick a guy that showed you who he was and then we whine about it later so 1.00
00:02:37.160 I say okay you you picked a clubber so stay with him that was what you picked well why is this deception
00:02:42.480 when you grow up yeah who's more deceptive men or women men that's not the point okay then
00:02:49.080 it could be both ways why do we have makeup fake hair you know fake bbls men can fake their
00:02:56.940 hairlines nowadays okay okay who fakes their hair more men or women women but okay who who has who
00:03:03.100 has both men tell more lies what yeah men tell more lies generally just lie about everything yeah but
00:03:09.300 women are more deceptive with their lies who who lies more men or women men i'm sorry oh no oh yes 0.99
00:03:17.680 women are so deceptive you think yeah if you're not gonna lie you're not gonna lie hard 1.00
00:03:23.960 who cheats better men or women women okay there we go that's true that's the truth yeah yeah but so
00:03:35.540 yeah this is the dating market though yeah and these are usually so the the problem we get into is
00:03:40.700 throughout our 20s we'll just either sleep with sometimes marry one of these two guys but then we
00:03:46.380 get to our 30s and 40s and say i want something more long term and then we're like i'm gonna pick
00:03:51.360 these guys but then they're like oh no now i have a ran through wife i'm sad
00:03:55.860 and that's that's that's how i have this channel thank you can i get some round of applause
00:04:04.280 oh that was amazing i love this demonstration i just like to be appreciated um okay so
00:04:11.760 simp have you ever simped um you've been married have you been married for a minute
00:04:17.540 yeah 15 years i've been married 10 years oh wow so it's a little different now in the dating game
00:04:22.760 right yeah yeah yeah was dating apps around then nope instagram was it big facebook no nothing
00:04:30.280 it's like that's like a whole different world right yeah yeah no you know that's the number
00:04:36.940 one way people are meeting under 30 i'm gonna give you guys some stats the number one way people are
00:04:41.660 meeting under 30 is online and it's crazy and women only swipe right on dating apps five percent of the 1.00
00:04:49.040 time really so yeah so we're really only screwing that top guy he's like he's really just he's doing
00:04:55.020 well he's doing very well i think i'm like the second guy because i ain't got a lot of height
00:04:59.900 i'm an average height so okay so you're the second guy almost there yeah
00:05:06.180 yeah so so how how did you meet your wife then
00:05:11.400 um i used to dance in a club where she worked so i used to be a break dancer um she worked behind the 1.00
00:05:18.800 ball and one thing led to another okay so yeah and what made your wife like wife material 1.00
00:05:24.820 she was just she was just different she was amazing she was cool she was just like a female
00:05:32.080 me oh really you guys are really similar yeah can she do magic tricks too no that's what we did
00:05:37.600 you got a t-shirt yeah i'm gonna keep some secrets and what do you what do you see that's like
00:05:43.720 different um do you have any friends that are dating now are they all married no we still have
00:05:50.520 friends who are dating okay and what do you like what do you see that's different now from before
00:05:56.560 it says a lot of technology it's very and
00:06:00.760 i think
00:06:03.640 people are quick to end things and not give things a go like us we used to but then you sort of like
00:06:11.700 have a date that doesn't work go next one because it's more readily available it's easier yeah
00:06:19.060 actually i have a question have you guys ever been in a virtual relationship
00:06:24.020 sorry what's that like a distance like a dis sorry i don't even know sorry long long distance