Pearl Pulled Up The Delusion Calculator After She Said This...
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss how important it is to be financially stable in a relationship and what we would do if we were in a situation where we didn't have enough money to support ourselves. We also discuss what it means to be a woman and a man and how to balance the two.
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really tall for me. Do you want a man that you can dominate? No not a man I can
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dominate but I'd want a man that I feel like isn't gonna give me a reason to
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want to dominate. Okay yeah so if he's do you think that a guy gets a little bit
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more freedom when he's taller like you'd let him get away with more? Um he's
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better looking taller no you would treat them exactly the same? No I treat them
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exactly the same. But only the baby oil for the five sevens. I'm just putting out
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no disclaimers guys next minute now please give me no no no so I'm just gonna
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say no I'm just gonna have a little talk pack my stuff and I'm gone. Okay so it
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sounds like would money be more important than looks to you? Um I'd say
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money in a sense of ambition because after ambition the money will follow.
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Yeah well ambition is money though. Ambition is just money later. Yeah so when
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girls say that it's like. So I'm not gonna go over the currency of money I'm
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gonna go the currency of ambition is a lot more important to me than the
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currency of looks. Okay so if he's how old are you? 23. Okay so um let's say 45
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year old guy. Jesus. He looks good though he looks he looks younger right? Okay right.
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I don't know what you say about 40 year olds. But maybe maybe you're a little older at
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this point let's say let's say you're you're 30 right okay but he's got
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ambition but he's 45 and he's ambitious. I mean he's only he's had 25 years to be
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ambitious you know. Yeah I mean I don't know. No my only point is it is money it's
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just money later. Maybe yeah okay but it's not from the I'd say like from a bad
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perspective I'm looking at the money. It doesn't have to be. Yeah I mean I think
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most of you if you had daughters would not want them to date completely broke
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men. Right? It doesn't have to be a negative thing. Yeah so yeah I'd say then
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money more than looks. Money more than looks. Okay um what about you? Um money.
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Definitely. She's easy. She's like you don't have to go through this. I am quite independent so if you can't match me or higher
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no because I've been there done that you know supported my boyfriends when you know they had
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little struggles. No. So for me that's like a number one thing you have to have
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money. You have to be stable and that's that's just literally it. Would you date a guy you weren't
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that attracted to but he was more financially stable? Um I don't think so no. Because I don't
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want his money. I just want him to have his money. So for me. But if you have your own money what does
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it matter if he has money? Because I don't want to be dipping in mine to give him. Like that's where
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it comes. But he has to dip in his to give you when he takes you out on dates. That's his choice.
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You know like I'm not saying oh to be with me you have to have money and pay all the bills.
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I'm not saying that. I'm just saying that you need to have yours and I need to have mine and then
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we'll be good. So it's not anything where I'm supporting you as a man. You know I have to look
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at the examples that my father has and my father he's he's secure in his bag. You know like I'm
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curious um and you don't have to answer this if you don't want to um do you make more than 70,000?
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No. Okay so the acting's not working just yet but soon give me give me the rest of 2023. Okay um
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but I'm the sort of person I'm financially stable like I have savings you know I have like money
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put to buy a house so for me I can go months without working and I'll be fine. So if I'm that
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sort of woman then my partner needs to have some sort of stability or else I'm all the things that
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I've worked hard for I'm now pouring into him and when you're in a relationship you pour into your
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partner but it has to be to a certain extent you know I you need to match me or else then there's
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issues financially if the woman's you know for me supporting the man constantly and I'm not getting
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any kind of like what what do I respect out of you as a man if if you're not even financially stable
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and that sort of you know. What is financially stable to you roughly how much? Um I wouldn't say
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you need to at least from I don't look at it as yearly figures or at least probably income of two
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and a half three grand a month at least at least because rent is probably a grand you know your
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um utility bills your you know all that stuff probably takes up another 300 pounds so so the
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remainder three grand at least two okay give me give me give me what you want give me the you're
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saying in my mind in the real world yeah or in London living lifestyle no I'm asking what do you want
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I want four grand four grand okay so what is that times 12 oh that's 48,000 because it's easy for me to
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make four grand a month you get it so it needs to oh my gosh can we pull up can we pull up the
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delusion calculator can we do you know what that is you google delusion calculator it just says what
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percent of men make this okay it's okay is that my minimum was that my maximum that's also take home
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so you've got to take at the tax oh yeah I was gonna say is that after or before that's after
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we can put it in we can put it in but how much is that no that's before tax no you might not be
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delusional I don't actually know I'm just saying I wanted to know I wanted to know what percent of
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men make that amount of money minimum 2.5 a month I think that's like okay let's go female delusion
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calculator go on okay there's this thing called female yeah so I mean there's a male one too but
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the men it's like not so bad usually that's I saw it it must have been a man who created this
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female dilution I mean men create most things in general uh go back uh no go back I think it's an ad
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yeah that's an ad yeah um yeah there you go okay so put your put in your age are you able to put it
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so they can see your reactions like wall okay like make it small I think blessing oh oh there we go can
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you put in the middle a little bigger all right thank you
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okay so what age my age or partners like yeah what age could he be he needs well I don't date too
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high up so I'm 30 so he needs to be 30 to 30 till 33 uh 30 to 33 mm-hmm okay do you care about race
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okay put him I won't go 35 but put him 30 to 35 okay but 29 to 34 okay can you make the box slightly
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bigger I just I'm having a hard time reading it or can you zoom in on the page yeah there we go yeah
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yes yes thank you you can still see that okay make it a little bigger no it's fine I have good
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eyesight I just need to book an appointment I expect just age race and height yeah so uh race do you
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care about race um sorry yeah I do care about race yeah black okay now how no prejudice to the
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other races but I'm I'm comfortable with black first all right everyone has a type no I'm not
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shading anyone um minimum height oh I didn't used to care about height but my boyfriend he's
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actually 6'4 and I think that's like really cute um as long as they're not shorter than me
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no 5'7 to 6 5'7 to 6 6'4 6' and then minimum income
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do I want to want can he be can he be overweight um what's overweight obese like how much it's like
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30 something percent body fat do you mean like he can't fit through the door obese or like um it's
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fine I don't health is something that can change okay so that's okay minimum income minimum three
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grand so let me put that I'm gonna do the conversion for you because I don't actually and that's take home
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right you know enough yeah you want tax on top of that he's gonna be earning like 70 grand a year
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at least okay so after tax I don't mind okay so how how much um so three grand that's your final
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answer yeah okay three thousand pounds because this isn't uh three thousand seven hundred u.s. dollars
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okay wait now so what percent of men do you think fit that criteria before we do it um at least
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the age the age of the race is gonna bring that up what do you mean the age of the race
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three percent did we do a merch or did we do it it's similar it's similar wow so three percent
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three percent yeah yeah go go ahead your turn go ahead your turn wow put it put in your criteria
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oh yeah your turn oh no okay it's okay you know age i'd say 25 to 30
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oh guys if you didn't hear um king forgot to exclude married people so it's probably
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1.5 um okay race did you say i'm gonna go for any race any race okay minimum height um five seven
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ex obese no exclude obese minimum income no discrimination by me by the way it's just my
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preference people um i think it's okay to discriminate who you should be discrimin you should discriminate
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and who you date oh i don't know because i don't want people to discriminate on me but anyway
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so minimum income you should be picky with who you sleep with like come on that's true you're
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straight um minimum after tax i'd say take home at least 2.5 okay that is
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3,130 i can't do math so i need to calculate it times 12 okay that's 37,000 okay
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that's after tax i'm gonna go for in the this is the yeah but okay 40 is fine
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okay what do you think what do you think i'm gonna go for 15 15 okay go down
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i was too close yes leanie um okay you wanna go i know what i so wanna go yeah go ahead go ahead
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because my age range is like higher so um i want to go like 38 no actually i want to go 40
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if it's only can you do five years or can you do more than five years
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what about married men you're gonna go for a married man no no okay take them off take off
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oh i feel you minimum income it's got to be over 100k a year
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by the time you're that way it's 100k in a panam pounds yeah okay so that's 100 and
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they roughly put 120 us dollars that's roughly what percent of men i'm hoping when they get to
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the age we're looking like early 20s 21 22 22 percent of men yeah girl there ain't no chance
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no chance no chance no chance wow oh 0.49 wow my pool is small like one percent of
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one percent of people in the uk are only on over 100k wow and that's all races girls you better
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choose now um go ahead oh okay um let's do like 18 to like 23
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uh that's two five american so that's times 12 that's 30 000
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what's the last one all right oh i think that's it um what percent of men do you guys think that is
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like five i'm gonna guess five oh my god it's just like one no wow how much money do you think young men are made
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more than they are what do you think like 2k is a lot for someone yes in that age that's when you're going to like uni and stuff like that but you're figuring things out you think but like with like someone who's like just going straight into work and is like working full time
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that's not that they still won't get that yeah they won't get that this is why men are struggling
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i used to do recruitment and i i haven't gone to uni and i used to recruit people that had just come out of uni
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and they were you're going on like 23 some companies might give you 26 like max if you're just coming out but you can obviously make commission on that but again that's a good six nine months if you're putting in that hard work like hours
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yeah did we do the whole couch everyone's gone on the couch yeah money
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okay do your do your oh ben i didn't i don't i think money is vulgar so i don't ask about it i don't talk about money
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but like i just will assume based on like what we're doing and like where you're taking me
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yeah you have money yeah i like i have no idea how much my boyfriend earns he just owns a business and he handles his own finances
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oh that's a really hard question to be honest because i have dated old
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i have gone old before but like now i'm not judging you but now i'm trying to have babies so i've gone like younger
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what isn't that counterintuitive i would think that's counterintuitive now
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so before i was dating a guy like who was like middle-aged and he'd like already had his kids and stuff
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oh here so now i'm dating a guy like in his mid-30s because he's you know
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i'm sold out um so like i don't know it depends if i'm dating like marriage so
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how old are you again i'm 25 okay so 20 would you go no i wouldn't go younger than myself
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height i'm not i don't really have any height restrictions i think yeah
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so five foot i don't yeah i don't i think if i fell in love with them it wouldn't bother me
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so five foot you're good yeah okay put her five foot i don't think that many percentage of people are five
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have you ever have you ever dated a guy shorter than you yeah i've dated someone five six before
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wait no i'm five foot five i've dated somebody like my height okay but not shorter but i don't
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meet many men shorter than me because yeah i'm just an average type woman so like a pool of men is
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smaller minimum income i don't know i don't know um but i just i i just you know i've never really
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talked about money i don't look at the bill when it comes like my boyfriend pays for things but like
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i just don't look but then also when i was younger like i when i was 19 like my boyfriend paid for
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everything and he was 18 and like he didn't have any money yeah he still paid for everything he just
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took me to things within his means do you know what i mean yeah so if money's i'm just asking a rough
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estimate so you're looking to marry a guy like 30k if i want to have his babies like i want him to
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be able to support my children i guess i could compact my salary so that's like roughly 40 us roughly
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what percent i'm gonna guess like 20 i'm gonna guess 20. it also depends on your circle though
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because i don't know any men that earn less than that go down down oh 12 i was wrong
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does this surprise you guys does this surprise you no not at all women always come up with these
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crazy numbers for men oh they're going 100 grand no they don't to be able to earn a living you don't
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need to be added as much as you as you think um even to be able to support support a family i know
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times are getting harder because of the cost of living but um yeah i think it's just world and this
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is why they're just struggling societal pressure lack of communication is the main main reason why
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men are deleting themselves and it's such a huge problem it's a bit of an unspoken concern because
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of this and that's what so tell me why did you say 120k i just think that's like um
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what like the from being married and stuff like that that's where our financial position was so
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