Pearl reacts to Drew Afualo
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Summary
In this episode of the Vice Feminist Panel, we discuss the "girl power" movement and its impact on the culture, as well as what it means to be a woman in the 21st century. We also discuss the current state of feminism in America and how it affects the way we talk about women and girlhood.
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let's go to uh drew a follow and dylan mulvaney you see that it's number three
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dylan mulvaney oh you're gonna see dylan you know dylan i might i'm not good with names
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biological male that is on hormones and all sorts of stuff and did like a girl power segment
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a weirdo let's just call them what they are weirdos oh man let's play it you ready said
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multiple times on multiple occasions that i'm never gonna drag women the same way i drag men
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um and i've said that because uh men do that enough for all of us oh they got that covered
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yeah but i will say there are women out there that are trying to take us down there are yeah i have
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many of them it feels like now that i am you know i'm still new to like girlhood to womanhood yeah
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there does feel like this scarcity complex of like there's not enough to go around and then
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turfs don't get me started okay so you know drew's podcast it's been it's like great for content for
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me because it's just a hot mess so i just like pull but you know this is the conversation of a
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whale is talking it's never the she by the way has talked about obesity a number of times she'll say
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like i have body neutrality you know she doesn't have body positivity she wants to shut up and get
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on the treadmill she wants to do it as a vessel i'll show you i'll give you my meal plan she's trying
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to help you girlfriend i have a meal plan just saying but yeah there's like a there's a like you
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know i'm not happy with what i look like so i'm just gonna pretend like it doesn't matter
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kind of attitude and that's the thing like i honestly think and you know what i i'm a really
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long-term thinker and so a big reason that i wanted to get my eating habits under control because
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that's just something that has never in my life come natural i've always always been easy for me
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to work out go to the gym that's easy what's always been hard for me is sugar i freaking love
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sugar i love i do i love i love dessert i love pizza like i just love that stuff and i've gotten
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slowly like better over time right and it's kind of funny i look at myself like 10 years ago
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i was so i was thinner because but i was like i was so much worse um and she freaking i forgot where
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i was going with that i lost my train of thought you lost it okay yeah we'll get you'll get it back
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and then just interrupt me but what do you make of first of all you've got you know it goes without
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saying odd to have a biological man on talking about womanhood and girlhood i mean what does one even
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say but this is an interesting this is the thing that she talks about all the time where you can't
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drag women and if you're a woman who like criticizes women you're a problem and she's talking i mean
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she's talking about you she's talking about me she's talking about people like us who see bad
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behavior among women and criticize the same way we criticize men i hate stupid people so i will
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criticize stupid people i don't give a shit if they're man women or trans stupid people just irritate
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me why are you so special that you can't be called out for being stupid so it's for you it's just as
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simple as that yeah stupid annoying weirdos yeah you got to check out some of you should go do you
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i'm not on tiktok for political reasons but you should look up dylan mulvaney's content because
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dylan did we did it on this show there's a whole thing about how he was taking the hormones and it's
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like transformation into a woman real weird i want to say something i don't want trans people in sports
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or in our locker rooms or in our bathrooms that's it she said her piece people people will be like
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oh the bathrooms is okay no it's not no it's not thank you yeah women have a problem with that it's
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a legitimate concern it's and for some you know and then then those women are afraid to speak out but
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in many respects it becomes a safety concern for them so it's kind of crazy that women feel bullied
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that they can't express that i want to get to michael sartain and rollo um let's go to number four
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and then we're going to get to the vice feminist panel but number four is i have a caveat to what
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they're saying i'm actually going to ask rollo about it next time i see him which is in a couple
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weeks let's play it and make rules for betas and break rules for alphas now i'm gonna tell you this
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if you find that to be offensive i won't even debate this with you this is absolutely unassailably
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irrevocably true i have cannot tell you how many times i meet a woman who says i am going to make
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men wait five dates to have sex with me and go and have sex with their ex or go have sex with some
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male stripper or VIP host that they met or some bartender the first night it is absolutely
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irrevocably true can you talk about this yes yes absolutely i can um so this there's like kind of
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three parts to this the first one is my iron rule tomasi number three which is any woman that makes
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you wait for sex the sex is never worth the wait now that is not about you know push for a same night
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lay that has nothing to do with it it has everything to do with what i call the desire
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dynamic genuine desire okay so i want to get your take on that first before i even say anything
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what do you think do you think that's there's truth in that that women will make some guys wait
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for sex but if they're genuinely super attracted to a guy that guy's not gonna have to wait yeah i
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think that's true i think i mean when you think about it the men that like you've had sex with it's not
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like you they all waited the exact same amount of time right so some guys had to wait longer some
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guys got it quicker so yeah i think if you're have genuine desire for a guy you sleep with him
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quicker typically yeah here's the glitch in that for me and i'm gonna ask rollo about this maybe i
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asked him already i can't remember he's been on here so many times but the glitch in it for me is that
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if the if the if the goal is a woman who let's say either is a virgin or who's really picky about who
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she sleeps with or values her body all that stuff that woman may really be sexually attracted to you
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but she may be like nervous to have sex the first time or like that girl may delay everybody and you
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may just be like one of the people getting delayed so they have to have their feelers out for those
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women because if that's the girl you want she may not be playing a game with you she may just be like
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scared like the first time i had sex i was very i made him wait a while i was totally into him
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we were dating but i was i was like scared i was like this is gonna hurt i'm worried you know i was
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going through all the girl emotions so like i feel like that girl and maybe there's maybe it's because
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they're like not a lot of them in this day and age but i don't want them to forget about them
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i think their point is there usually is a guy somewhere that even the virgin will break the rule
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for even even the virgin like because i'm sure there's maybe men that did more than that guy did for
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you right that maybe waited longer and did more and did all this stuff and you still didn't sleep
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with them right like it's not like the guy that just put in the most investment got laid right so
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i think that's like his whole point is usually if a girl's making you wait and doing all these rules
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like she's just not that into you because that's fair it's like if even if she's a virgin like i think
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guys can kind of feel even if maybe she's saying no and like i don't like they can feel if a girl like
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really really wants to you know yeah so that's the vibe too yeah and that's what they're talking
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about it's like genuine desire um where it's it's almost it's so hard for them not to say no like
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most of the time they won't yeah if you're that guy to her it's true i mean attraction for a man is
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a powerful thing if you're physically attracted to a guy it like that's the guy that you're sitting
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waiting for that text to come in that's the guy you're breaking plans with you know oh grandma i can't
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make your 80th birthday party i have to go for a walk with this guy you know yeah it's true you
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just like it's like you can't help yourself you like need to be around them you want to be around
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them i'm just trying to like speak to because sometimes i'll get messages from girls that are
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like well i wait but i really like want to wait till marriage like i could be totally into a guy but i'm
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just like nervous or and so they still exist and i just want them to have a voice yeah and i think i
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think men are just like you know they deal with probabilities and not possibilities and most and most of the
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girls that they they meet aren't virgins and to men it's like well if you're not a virgin like what
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are we what are we waiting for yeah like it's one thing if she's a virgin or whatever but it's
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religious some other yeah but most girls as we said they're they're not below five so they're like what
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what are you making me wait for and like and the question like to men they're like has someone else
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gotten here quicker than i have right and like a lot of the times the answer is yeah yes yeah as many of
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you know i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform
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