Pearl Reveals THIS truth About Women In 2023
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about the things that turn us off a potential partner early on in a relationship, and why they could be a turn off. We also talk about what a girl could do to turn you off early on a relationship and what a guy could do early on to make you feel unappreciated.
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When you're starting to see someone and something they could do to just ruin it up front.
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I would say being disrespectful, probably, in any kind of way.
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It's a big thing for me, for a guy to be a gentleman and to be respectful.
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So I would say that for me, that's a big turn off.
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And do you have like an example of a time that's happened where you were into a guy and then he said something?
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No, just, I suppose it may be like the way that a guy's spoken to me before.
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I don't have an exact example, but I think just any kind of disrespect I don't really like.
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So what's something a girl could do to turn you off early?
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So you're into a girl, you're feeling her, and then she does this, and you're done.
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I don't think I'm a fussy one, because I'm not.
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I could go out with her and she might eat loud.
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Or she could just do something what's irritating.
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There's a number of things what irritate people like me, isn't it?
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Because you're telling me to turn off the top of the dome.
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I'm just going to go with the eating loud thing.
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I've been on a date before in the past where I've sat down, got starters, everything.
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If it was going fine, talking, flowing well, conversations, moving, nice.
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Yeah, and all of a sudden, my meals come, plates there, boom, drink, whatever.
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I've just heard bear, and it was just constantly hearing that.
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I was always taught to eat with my mouth closed.
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I mean, that's like every time you guys would hang out.
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I would agree and say the respect thing, but I'd also say the pet pee thing as well.
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If someone's, like you said, eating loud, or every time you're talking, they're cutting
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you off, or they've got the white corners, it could be anything.
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Do you have an example of maybe, how long have you been with your boyfriend?
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So you don't really have much dating experience outside of that?
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That's longer than like most marriages nowadays.
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Okay, so eating loud and disrespect is a no-go for you.
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I'm curious, what made your boyfriend different than, I'm sure there was other guys approaching
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I met him when I was young, so it was in school, so that was like the main point of it all.
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He wasn't new to my school, so everyone in my secondary school were kind of like really
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similar, and because he come from a different area, he was quite different to everyone.
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He treated me different to how everyone else did, so yeah.
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A pet peeve, or something that a girl could do to turn you off.
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I'm really easy getting, but hygiene would be a big factor for me.
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Yeah, personal hygiene is going to be a big issue if that's not going to, if that's not
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Have you ever been like with a girl and then she just stank, so you got to?
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Yeah, I've slept with a girl before and the hygiene weren't up to speed.
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Yeah, I would say pettiness and I would say clinginess as well.
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Like, for instance, like, if you're on WhatsApp and then, like, you're online but you're not
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even responded, do you know what I'm saying, to you straight away.
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And it's just like, oh, you're blanking me, you're airing me.
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Is she just sitting there looking if you're online?
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No, just like, maybe she's online and I'm online at the same time.
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And it's like, they're both online and it's like, maybe she messaged me and then I haven't
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And then there's just assumptions that, oh, yeah, you know, why have you messaged me?
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Like, get mad at him for not messaging you fast enough?
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I feel like I'm really busy as well and I just wouldn't do that.
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I feel like it's kind of like a bit cringy to do that and it seems like desperate.
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And also, I feel like it also probably pushes the guy away because he needs to come to you
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What do you guys think the biggest challenges are in dating in 2023?
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I'm just thinking about it because I ain't going to split out anything.
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I think being faithful is the biggest challenge in relationships.
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Well, when you're already in the relationship, being faithful is going to be the biggest challenge.
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Yeah, both parties, women and men, that's pretty much the same.
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Coming from a woman, then, yeah, that's good to hear for us.
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I mean, before it used to definitely be, I would have thought the other way around men cheating
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I think most men would cheat, but not most men can cheat.
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It seems like it's a lot of effort to get to that point for a lot of guys, from what I'm
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You know, you can correct me if you think I'm wrong.
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Again, it depends what kind of guy you are and what status and position you're in, I would
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Not everyone's going to talk about their own personal experience.
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Is that like an every relationship kind of thing or just a here and there kind of thing?
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Are they always trying to like vie for the first spot?
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You know, in my younger days, cheating was more of a cheating thing.
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Nowadays, I don't see it as cheating if you're honest and open and, you know what I said to
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you at the beginning, I'm exploring, you know what I'm saying?
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So, if people know you're having fun from the beginning, then you're not necessarily going
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But I think that is a hard place to get to in today's, you know what I'm saying?
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So, now you tell the girls up front, it's not you.
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If there's going to be multiple and they're cool with it?
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Like, the cheating thing, it's an old school thing and everyone's cheated in their life.
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But as time's gone on, I think 2023, if you're not grown, I think the youngest, them, are more
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likely the ones to keep up this type of fuckery.
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They're out there whipping all that in anything.
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I think this girl fucked that girl, fuck your friend, this friend fucked that as well.
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I'm not going to take it as the older ones are doing that.
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But I think it's a small percentage of men that can do that.
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Because one out of three men under 30 are virgins or having sex in the past year.
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So it's really the women that are sleeping around when you think about it.
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Well, I wouldn't know because I've never cheated.
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No, but I'm saying from what you've heard, from your theory, what you're hearing, how
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Women like better than men, in my opinion.
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And I feel like, well, I can't give an example because then I'm going to be putting up.
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I mean, because you've got this opinion from somewhere.
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But I'm sure in six years, right, you know someone that's cheated, right?
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I feel like people in my generation think that they can go find better quick because
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I know men like good looking, young, healthy, whatever it is.
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Women are in their prime when they're young, right?
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You seemed like you said that women, you said women cheat more than men.
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So I'm asking like, do you know someone who cheated?
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No, I'm asking is it like, are they sleeping with random men every night?
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Say like she's going out with her friends or whatever.
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One, she's actually been in a relationship with on and off.
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On an off weekend, she could go out with her friend and go do something with the second
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But in the first person's head, they think that they're maybe like still together or
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So the first person, is she in a relationship with them or two?
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So, so really like they both think they're the only one, but there's two.