JustPearlyThings - Pearl Reveals THIS truth About Women In 2023

00:00:00.000 When you're starting to see someone and something they could do to just ruin it up front.

00:00:04.780 Shall I go?

00:00:05.500 Yeah, you're starting to go around.

00:00:07.040 I would say being disrespectful, probably, in any kind of way.

00:00:11.180 I mean, I just don't like disrespect, I think.

00:00:14.800 It's a big thing for me, for a guy to be a gentleman and to be respectful.

00:00:19.420 So I would say that for me, that's a big turn off.

00:00:22.120 Okay.

00:00:22.740 And do you have like an example of a time that's happened where you were into a guy and then he said something?

00:00:28.700 No, just, I suppose it may be like the way that a guy's spoken to me before.

00:00:34.880 It's more like the tone or, yeah, I guess.

00:00:40.700 I don't have an exact example, but I think just any kind of disrespect I don't really like.

00:00:46.580 Okay.

00:00:47.240 Okay.

00:00:48.140 Go ahead.

00:00:49.500 Say the question again, please.

00:00:51.100 So what's something a girl could do to turn you off early? 1.00

00:00:54.200 So you're into a girl, you're feeling her, and then she does this, and you're done.

00:01:00.520 It depends, though.

00:01:01.360 I'm not fussy.

00:01:02.380 Okay.

00:01:02.820 I don't think I'm a fussy one, because I'm not.

00:01:04.860 But it depends, car.

00:01:06.780 I could go out with her and she might eat loud. 0.90

00:01:09.220 And so I can't stand her.

00:01:11.240 That's annoying.

00:01:12.580 You get me?

00:01:12.980 Or she could just do something what's irritating. 1.00

00:01:16.800 But I don't know.

00:01:17.680 There's a number of things what irritate people like me, isn't it?

00:01:21.160 Okay.

00:01:21.620 Yeah, but I'm trying to figure it out.

00:01:23.080 So what are they?

00:01:24.200 That's what I'm saying.

00:01:25.080 I would have to just throw it.

00:01:26.220 Because you're telling me to turn off the top of the dome.

00:01:28.720 I'm just going to go with the eating loud thing.

00:01:31.420 I've been on a date before in the past where I've sat down, got starters, everything.

00:01:37.260 If it was going fine, talking, flowing well, conversations, moving, nice.

00:01:41.100 Yeah, and all of a sudden, my meals come, plates there, boom, drink, whatever.

00:01:46.360 I've just heard bear, and it was just constantly hearing that.

00:01:49.920 And that's a flag for me still.

00:01:52.840 Okay.

00:01:53.420 I think that's a fair flag.

00:01:55.380 Yeah?

00:01:55.600 That's a fair flag.

00:01:56.100 Eating loud, isn't it?

00:01:56.860 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:01:57.160 I was always taught to eat with my mouth closed.

00:01:59.100 I mean, you'd have to deal with that forever.

00:02:00.900 Yeah, that's mad.

00:02:01.700 I mean, that's like every time you guys would hang out.

00:02:03.920 Yeah, I've got a head.

00:02:05.120 Yeah, that's not the one still.

00:02:06.980 You get me?

00:02:08.000 Okay, go ahead.

00:02:08.760 I would agree and say the respect thing, but I'd also say the pet pee thing as well.

00:02:15.160 It's a mixture of both.

00:02:16.860 If someone's, like you said, eating loud, or every time you're talking, they're cutting

00:02:21.420 you off, or they've got the white corners, it could be anything.

00:02:25.580 It could really be anything.

00:02:27.160 It just adds up.

00:02:28.680 Yeah.

00:02:29.140 Do you have an example of maybe, how long have you been with your boyfriend?

00:02:32.300 Six years.

00:02:32.840 Oh, gosh.

00:02:33.520 Yeah.

00:02:33.720 So you don't really have much dating experience outside of that?

00:02:38.880 That's great.

00:02:39.460 That's longer than like most marriages nowadays.

00:02:42.040 Thank you.

00:02:43.740 Okay, so eating loud and disrespect is a no-go for you.

00:02:47.580 I'm curious, what made your boyfriend different than, I'm sure there was other guys approaching

00:02:51.420 you at the time.

00:02:52.180 I met him when I was young, so it was in school, so that was like the main point of it all.

00:02:57.920 He wasn't new to my school, so everyone in my secondary school were kind of like really

00:03:03.400 similar, and because he come from a different area, he was quite different to everyone.

00:03:06.940 He treated me different to how everyone else did, so yeah.

00:03:10.180 Okay.

00:03:12.080 A pet peeve, or something that a girl could do to turn you off. 1.00

00:03:17.180 I'm really easy getting, but hygiene would be a big factor for me.

00:03:20.800 Yeah, personal hygiene is going to be a big issue if that's not going to, if that's not

00:03:26.820 straight.

00:03:27.960 Okay.

00:03:28.500 Have you ever been like with a girl and then she just stank, so you got to?

00:03:33.780 Yeah, I've slept with a girl before and the hygiene weren't up to speed. 0.95

00:03:38.940 Okay.

00:03:39.720 Is that common?

00:03:41.640 No, I don't know.

00:03:42.940 I'm not too sure.

00:03:43.600 It was a one-off scenario.

00:03:44.920 Oh, it was just a one-off.

00:03:46.160 Yeah.

00:03:46.260 But yeah, it was, yeah.

00:03:48.500 It wasn't a, yeah, it wasn't good.

00:03:51.200 Okay.

00:03:52.980 Okay, go ahead.

00:03:54.400 Yeah, I would say pettiness and I would say clinginess as well.

00:03:57.820 Both, I think clingy as well.

00:03:59.960 Extremely clingy.

00:04:01.220 Like, way too soon.

00:04:03.120 Can I have an example?

00:04:04.200 Like, for instance, like, if you're on WhatsApp and then, like, you're online but you're not

00:04:07.960 even responded, do you know what I'm saying, to you straight away.

00:04:10.720 And it's just like, oh, you're blanking me, you're airing me.

00:04:13.340 Do you know what I'm saying?

00:04:13.740 Do you know what I'm saying?

00:04:14.240 Oh, so you get mad?

00:04:15.800 Yeah, create a whole situation from that.

00:04:18.440 Oh, what?

00:04:18.820 That's kind of petty, stuff like that.

00:04:20.800 That's kind of crazy.

00:04:21.820 Yeah.

00:04:21.960 Is she just sitting there looking if you're online?

00:04:24.280 No, just like, maybe she's online and I'm online at the same time.

00:04:27.120 And it's like, they're both online and it's like, maybe she messaged me and then I haven't

00:04:31.320 messaged her straight away, but I'm online.

00:04:33.140 And then there's just assumptions that, oh, yeah, you know, why have you messaged me?

00:04:37.460 What are you doing?

00:04:38.080 Do you know what I mean?

00:04:38.960 I'm curious from the girls. 0.81

00:04:40.220 Have you ever done that to a guy?

00:04:41.540 Like, get mad at him for not messaging you fast enough?

00:04:44.320 No.

00:04:44.900 No.

00:04:45.120 It's not really my style at all.

00:04:49.440 Yeah.

00:04:49.900 I feel like I'm really busy as well and I just wouldn't do that.

00:04:53.680 I feel like it's kind of like a bit cringy to do that and it seems like desperate.

00:04:58.280 It's just, it's not.

00:04:59.860 And also, I feel like it also probably pushes the guy away because he needs to come to you

00:05:06.180 naturally.

00:05:06.600 What do you guys think the biggest challenges are in dating in 2023?

00:05:16.640 Being faithful.

00:05:19.020 That's a challenge?

00:05:20.580 Yeah.

00:05:21.060 Why?

00:05:26.960 I didn't even know he was going to do that.

00:05:28.460 Sorry.

00:05:29.080 If I put man under the bus.

00:05:30.160 No, no, no.

00:05:30.620 I'm just thinking about it because I ain't going to split out anything.

00:05:33.380 Well, yeah.

00:05:34.200 I think being faithful is the biggest challenge in relationships.

00:05:36.600 In this day and age.

00:05:38.300 Do you mean to find someone that's faithful?

00:05:40.300 Do you mean?

00:05:40.920 Well, when you're already in the relationship, being faithful is going to be the biggest challenge.

00:05:45.080 Vote the viewer.

00:05:46.300 Say again?

00:05:46.780 Vote the viewer.

00:05:48.380 Yeah, I think.

00:05:50.320 I mean, maybe not so much.

00:05:52.620 Yeah, both parties, women and men, that's pretty much the same.

00:05:57.260 You think it's equal?

00:05:58.160 I think women cheat more. 1.00

00:05:59.680 I think so as well.

00:06:00.540 Yeah.

00:06:00.980 Yeah, I agree. 0.95

00:06:02.020 I think women are big cheaters in 2023. 1.00

00:06:04.040 I actually agree with that. 0.92

00:06:04.460 Well, there you go.

00:06:05.280 That's it.

00:06:05.560 Coming from a woman, then, yeah, that's good to hear for us.

00:06:09.160 I would have said 50-50.

00:06:10.900 Why don't you tell it how it is?

00:06:13.100 You know?

00:06:13.520 You got to be honest.

00:06:14.160 We're honest here.

00:06:14.720 No, that's good.

00:06:15.320 I'm loving it.

00:06:16.200 I'm loving the fact that you're honest.

00:06:17.460 Yeah.

00:06:17.860 I mean, before it used to definitely be, I would have thought the other way around men cheating

00:06:21.220 more.

00:06:21.940 Now, I thought it was kind of evened up.

00:06:23.300 I think most men would cheat, but not most men can cheat.

00:06:29.840 You know what I mean?

00:06:30.360 It seems like it's a lot of effort to get to that point for a lot of guys, from what I'm

00:06:35.220 hearing.

00:06:35.740 You know, you can correct me if you think I'm wrong.

00:06:37.560 No.

00:06:37.780 Again, it depends what kind of guy you are and what status and position you're in, I would

00:06:41.860 say.

00:06:42.520 Okay.

00:06:42.660 Not everyone's going to talk about their own personal experience.

00:06:46.380 So, have you cheated before?

00:06:48.500 I have definitely, yeah.

00:06:49.780 Is that like an every relationship kind of thing or just a here and there kind of thing?

00:06:54.940 What are side chicks like? 1.00

00:07:01.240 Are they happy to be there?

00:07:02.700 Are they always trying to like vie for the first spot? 0.90

00:07:04.900 I just got questions.

00:07:07.960 Good question.

00:07:08.900 I mean, I think they're happy to be there.

00:07:10.320 You know, in my younger days, cheating was more of a cheating thing.

00:07:16.120 Nowadays, I don't see it as cheating if you're honest and open and, you know what I said to

00:07:20.680 you at the beginning, I'm exploring, you know what I'm saying?

00:07:23.360 Having fun.

00:07:24.440 So, if people know you're having fun from the beginning, then you're not necessarily going

00:07:27.880 to be deemed as cheating.

00:07:30.080 But I think that is a hard place to get to in today's, you know what I'm saying?

00:07:35.400 Yeah.

00:07:36.360 Nowadays.

00:07:36.760 So, now you tell the girls up front, it's not you.

00:07:40.000 If there's going to be multiple and they're cool with it?

00:07:42.980 Yeah, something like that.

00:07:44.340 I mean, again, yeah.

00:07:45.920 It all depends.

00:07:46.540 It's verbals.

00:07:47.380 It's verbals.

00:07:48.720 But, yeah.

00:07:49.060 He's laughing.

00:07:49.900 What's the joke?

00:07:51.280 I'm not in on it.

00:07:52.580 Why are you putting the camera on me for?

00:07:55.240 You're not meant to do that.

00:07:57.080 You're not meant to do that.

00:07:58.400 No.

00:07:58.860 I hear what my man's saying, isn't it?

00:08:00.460 Big up Bushkin, isn't it? 1.00

00:08:01.420 I hear what he's saying.

00:08:02.200 But you see what it is, blood?

00:08:03.840 In my eyes, yeah.

00:08:05.680 Like, the cheating thing, it's an old school thing and everyone's cheated in their life.

00:08:10.160 Come on.

00:08:10.380 We've all been there.

00:08:11.380 Do you understand?

00:08:11.980 But as time's gone on, I think 2023, if you're not grown, I think the youngest, them, are more 0.99

00:08:17.800 likely the ones to keep up this type of fuckery. 1.00

00:08:20.420 You understand? 1.00

00:08:20.800 What, cheating?

00:08:21.460 The cheating thing.

00:08:22.220 Yeah.

00:08:22.360 It's the new generation, blood. 1.00

00:08:23.580 That's having too much fun.

00:08:25.100 They're out there whipping all that in anything. 0.62

00:08:26.940 Gala digging up anything. 1.00

00:08:27.900 I think this girl fucked that girl, fuck your friend, this friend fucked that as well. 1.00

00:08:32.500 I'm sorry. 1.00

00:08:33.320 It's the younger generation.

00:08:34.560 That's your opinion.

00:08:35.080 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:08:35.180 I'm not going to take it as the older ones are doing that.

00:08:37.860 But I think it's a small percentage of men that can do that.

00:08:42.040 Nah.

00:08:42.260 Because one out of three men under 30 are virgins or having sex in the past year.

00:08:46.360 So it's really the women that are sleeping around when you think about it. 1.00

00:08:49.880 Well, that's bad on the women, you know? 1.00

00:08:51.340 I feel like women do it more. 1.00

00:08:52.580 They just hide it better than men. 0.80

00:08:54.600 How?

00:08:55.380 Would you mean how?

00:08:56.140 What do you mean by hide it better?

00:08:57.120 Well, I wouldn't know because I've never cheated.

00:08:58.660 No, but I'm saying from what you've heard, from your theory, what you're hearing, how

00:09:02.160 does that happen?

00:09:04.000 Women like better than men, in my opinion. 0.99

00:09:06.220 Women like better than men. 1.00

00:09:07.420 And I feel like, well, I can't give an example because then I'm going to be putting up.

00:09:11.520 No, I just wanted to know.

00:09:12.860 I'd love to know.

00:09:13.720 As a man, I want to know.

00:09:14.600 Could you tell me?

00:09:15.440 I mean, because you've got this opinion from somewhere.

00:09:17.920 I know it's not you.

00:09:18.840 You're the faithful girlfriend.

00:09:20.440 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:09:20.860 But I'm sure in six years, right, you know someone that's cheated, right?

00:09:26.580 Yeah.

00:09:27.120 Okay.

00:09:27.600 So what's the question?

00:09:28.540 So like what happened?

00:09:29.720 Why did she cheat? 1.00

00:09:30.580 How did she cheat? 1.00

00:09:31.620 I feel like people in my generation think that they can go find better quick because

00:09:37.940 they're still young.

00:09:38.740 So like you have your variables.

00:09:41.660 It might be they're good looking.

00:09:43.280 I know men like good looking, young, healthy, whatever it is.

00:09:47.480 Women are in their prime when they're young, right? 1.00

00:09:49.300 So does that make sense?

00:09:50.860 No, but I was asking about it.

00:09:52.240 You seemed like you said that women, you said women cheat more than men.

00:09:54.740 So I'm asking like, do you know someone who cheated?

00:09:56.660 How do they cheat?

00:09:57.760 They just go out and do what they want to do.

00:10:00.220 Like, yeah, it's not like.

00:10:02.320 No, I'm asking is it like, are they sleeping with random men every night? 0.59

00:10:06.160 Is it the same guy?

00:10:07.220 No.

00:10:07.420 So say like a girl could go out. 0.63

00:10:08.800 Say like she's going out with her friends or whatever.

00:10:10.920 And let's say she's talking to two people.

00:10:13.060 One, she's actually been in a relationship with on and off.

00:10:16.080 On an off weekend, she could go out with her friend and go do something with the second

00:10:19.760 person.

00:10:20.260 Wow.

00:10:20.460 But in the first person's head, they think that they're maybe like still together or

00:10:25.440 whatever.

00:10:26.540 Okay.

00:10:27.040 So the first person, is she in a relationship with them or two?

00:10:29.520 So she's on and off.

00:10:30.740 She's on and off with the first person.

00:10:32.320 Okay.

00:10:32.740 But in that person's head, she's, they're on.

00:10:35.800 Does that make sense?

00:10:36.740 Mm-hmm.

00:10:37.220 Yeah.

00:10:37.820 Oh, okay.

00:10:38.460 So, so really like they both think they're the only one, but there's two.

00:10:43.080 Yeah.

00:10:43.600 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:10:44.480 Kind of, kind of, yeah.

JustPearlyThings - August 15, 2023

Pearl Reveals THIS truth About Women In 2023

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