JustPearlyThings - November 11, 2023


Pearl's Conclusion On Modern Women


Episode Stats


Length

7 minutes

Words per minute

175.0

Word count

1,372

Sentence count

129

Harmful content

Misogyny

19

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Toxicity

11

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Hate speech

23

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Summary

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Why do women leave their husbands for other men? Why do they do it? What are the real reasons for divorce? Is it because they outgrew their husbands or because they grew up with them? Why is it so hard for women to grow up with their husbands?

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 The worst part with these housewives is, guys, do you know how many housewives and how many just,
00:00:07.100 okay, over the last couple of years, I have interviewed thousands of people. These are
00:00:11.320 the conclusions that I come to from interviewing thousands of people. Women leave their husbands 0.86
00:00:15.700 for the stupidest and dumbest reasons I have ever heard in my life. Very few times have I heard 1.00
00:00:21.180 actually legit reasons for divorce. And I thought about the most common reason that I get for
00:00:26.940 leaving the father of your children or their husband. And it is that these women outgrew him. 0.96
00:00:33.420 The amount of women that I have met that casually destroyed their entire families because they 1.00
00:00:38.080 outgrew their husbands is genuinely depressing. And what you typically get from the modern mothers 1.00
00:00:45.460 that are coping and can't accept the fact that they actually made the wrong, most selfish decision
00:00:51.080 that they have ever made in their life. Oh, let me just put my kid at every statistical
00:00:56.760 disadvantage. Oh, let me only see both of my parents half the time in the month. Oh,
00:01:02.980 let me make my kid more likely to run away from home, more likely to drop out of school,
00:01:08.520 and more likely to be abused because of my feelings of outgrowing him. Miss Dosso says, 0.89
00:01:15.180 divorce does not break a family. It only transforms it. And we see the women coping.
00:01:19.660 No, the data does not support your thesis. It does not. It significantly impacts the children.
00:01:27.580 And the children of divorce will back this up. Men, women, can't you just learn to get along? 0.99
00:01:33.340 Why do we have to break up the family and hurt the innocent people, the kids, the kids? And it's so,
00:01:40.260 it's so funny. Women are so self-centered that they use every single cope to make their selfish 1.00
00:01:47.640 decision not sound like a selfish decision. Kaladin says, men can change like women can too.
00:01:54.600 The issue is that housemaking means stability and growth isn't good or bad, but it certainly isn't
00:01:59.700 stable. It is volatile by default. It would make a lot of sense that the hormonal gender 0.99
00:02:04.540 is more volatile and gross. The default is for men to stabilize the family. So yeah, you get what you 0.99
00:02:10.540 asked for and it isn't enough. By the way, change isn't growth and many think it is another topic
00:02:15.800 though. Yeah. I mean, men can change too, but they're not destroying their families by and large.
00:02:21.600 You know, it's funny when women win the lottery, they tend to divorce their husbands. When men win 0.99
00:02:25.620 the lottery, they tend to stay. Emily Webb says, outgrew means they realized they needed better or
00:02:30.800 different. There's nothing wrong with that. You see how diluted this is. There's nothing wrong.
00:02:35.840 Okay. What is need? Really guys, I honestly think I could get along with anybody. You give me enough
00:02:41.660 time. I really do. So what is, what is, you needed different. Really, it was a want. Getting the
00:02:47.760 husband or the wife that you want is a luxury. Okay. And sometimes you, you make your bed and you,
00:02:53.620 you maybe didn't pick the husband that you wanted or whatever. And women of the past used to just lie 1.00
00:02:59.120 in it and just deal with it. And life wasn't all about relations. Like the women of the past just 1.00
00:03:04.960 dealt with their choices and made the best of it because they cared more about their family,
00:03:11.140 their community, and their children. But the women of today do not care about their children. 1.00
00:03:16.500 They care more about their feelings and what they want and what they need. Really before the 1900s,
00:03:21.740 the collective was the most important. The family was the most important. But now we are peddled and told
00:03:27.040 these lies that it's all about me and my feelings and what I want. And that's not what life should be
00:03:31.940 about. Sandy says, I think it's important to understand the destruction occurs a lot sooner
00:03:36.960 than the divorce papers. And it is not always in the couple's control. This seems to be a crucial
00:03:42.340 point that escapes many. Okay. Let me get this straight. Filing for divorce is not in the couple's
00:03:51.200 control. Learning to get along with somebody is not in your control. Really.
00:04:01.940 All right. So now we have another simp. Simp, simp, simp, simp, simp, simp. Simpity simp. Simp, simp, simp, simp, simp.
00:04:11.240 Here's, I could be like Oprah. There's a simp. There's a simp. There's another simp. Simp, simp, simp, simp.
00:04:19.500 Because these men do not help us. They are just liars because they want to look good to everybody 0.91
00:04:26.540 and they want to pander to women and get laid. What about the masses? What about the masses of men 0.99
00:04:31.980 who cheated on their wives because their wives' boobs started sagging and the younger women at 1.00
00:04:38.220 their jobs flirted with them? I have never heard that story in my life. I have never heard a story
00:04:44.280 of a guy that said, oh, my wife's boobs started sagging. So let me just, but do you know what story 0.88
00:04:52.100 you have heard a million times? Men that have been in sexless marriages for years and then
00:04:58.540 cheat. And we never talk about it. It's always, oh, he cheated. He's evil. But we never talk about
00:05:04.560 why he cheated. The nagging woman or the nagging wife that demasculates her husband for years. 1.00
00:05:12.180 For years. You know, women of the past used to work through cheating and you could see it in the 1.00
00:05:16.340 culture. I mean, look at the song Jolene by Dolly Parton. She was begging the side chick not to take 1.00
00:05:22.220 her husband. She's saying, please, please, I love this man. I love it. But now, oh, it's the victim.
00:05:30.200 He's evil. I'm amazing and awesome and special. I'm done. I'm done with this bullshit. You, I can't
00:05:36.600 pander. I can't lie. All of these simps are just liars and I can't stand it. And I'm not going to read
00:05:43.600 this stuff anymore and not call it out. You're a simp, sir. S-I-M-P simp. That should be the new 0.96
00:05:50.420 song. You know how they got like the promiscuous or like the, what was that Fergie song? It's like
00:05:56.340 where they spell it out. Someone should make a song where it's like, you're a simp. You're a, 0.92
00:06:00.620 you're S-I-M-P simp. Thank you. Honestly, Pearl, Jessica Jones. Honestly, Pearl, God didn't bother 0.99
00:06:11.540 creating women to just cook and clean for men. And if women are so useless compared to men, 1.00
00:06:16.860 why not just give men the ability to procreate without us in general? Because the majority of 1.00
00:06:22.200 life on earth requires a male and a female to create life. Well, shit, Jessica, they're starting 1.00
00:06:27.200 to. You know, if I say that children are less competent than adults, is that an insult? Women 1.00
00:06:34.060 are less competent by and large than men. Occasionally, you have a prodigy kid that just is very good.
00:06:40.080 And you're like, wow, what a, what a child. What? It's still a child. The other things she says,
00:06:47.100 why not just give men the ability to procreate without it? They're working on it. I mean, guys,
00:06:53.580 all we had to do, all we had to do was provide some value in the world. And the best way that women, 1.00
00:06:59.820 when we got freedom, found to provide value was only fans and sex work. It's like,
00:07:04.060 I honestly think if men had kids by themselves, the kids would turn out better than what we have 1.00
00:07:15.100 now. I know. I know. We have all these mental health issues. We have all of these kids that
00:07:20.940 are grown up to be criminals, rude, disrespectful. It's because all these moms just outgrow their 1.00
00:07:26.920 husbands and think, huh, let me just, let me just be by myself. Oh, it's going to be amazing. And let me
00:07:32.800 rob, let me rob the guy through child support and alimony for a lifetime. Amazing. Let me just have
00:07:38.440 my free ride. We have 50 years of women that just love having a free ride. I'm tired of it. I'm tired 1.00
00:07:45.420 of the laziness. You don't have to be a lazy bimbo, ladies. You really don't. 1.00