JustPearlyThings - November 07, 2023


Pearl Says This About "Conservative" Women


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8 minutes

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1,570

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127

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Misogyny

27

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Toxicity

11

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Hate speech

17

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In this episode, I discuss why over a certain age, it's inappropriate to dress like a young woman anymore and why it's time to put the boobs away. I discuss the phenomenon of older women cosplaying as young women.

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00:00:00.000 I did a new series on Twitter called hashtag I Dean and I just wanted to point out a phenomenon
00:00:05.880 that I noticed. In the conservative movement I noticed a lot of quote-unquote conservative women 1.00
00:00:12.560 that were married that would dress super provocatively on the internet and it was just
00:00:19.660 a really interesting phenomenon because they would be screaming that they're conservative women and 1.00
00:00:24.600 I think ladies it's time to have a conversation. Over a certain age it is inappropriate to dress 1.00
00:00:30.680 like a young woman anymore and not only is it inappropriate it's actually sad. It looks 1.00
00:00:37.960 it looks very pathetic when you have an older woman trying to pretend that she is young. Over a certain 1.00
00:00:46.260 age you're supposed to move differently you're supposed to have a sense of maturity and grace
00:00:51.960 but now we have older women cosplaying and dressing like they are young women. You are not young 0.97
00:00:57.680 anymore. Over the age of roughly 25 it's time to cover up it's time to dress more modestly. Now
00:01:04.240 obviously modesty is good amongst all ages but under the age of 25 people just tend to give get a pass
00:01:12.020 you know even with the guys you know they'll they'll have their sneaker collection or whatever
00:01:16.620 they'll they'll dress a little more immature right but then when you get to a certain age you are
00:01:22.160 supposed to dress with a little bit more class and grace for men and for women. But overwhelmingly
00:01:28.360 I've seen conservative women dressing like hookers and it's even sadder when they're older or married 1.00
00:01:35.420 it's not even about how you look. So I wanted to show you guys a couple examples of this. I included 0.98
00:01:40.060 both good examples and bad examples on Twitter and I wanted to have a conversation and I want you guys
00:01:45.300 to let me know in the comments is this appropriate for a wife and a mother. This outfit I would say
00:01:50.880 no. I would say over a certain age it is a time to put the boobs away. You know she looks good. She's 1.00
00:01:58.700 absolutely a good looking woman but she's in her 30s. Again like where is the class and elegance that 1.00
00:02:05.280 we used to have over a certain age. So the next one she's in her 50s. Oh wow that's impressive. I didn't even
00:02:14.360 know that. And looks younger and hot at the same time. Time to put your jealousy away. So guys
00:02:19.440 nothing to do with jealousy. These women are good looking. The women I'm gonna bring up 1.00
00:02:24.000 I brought up attractive women and unattractive women and moderate women. The issue is not about 0.50
00:02:30.300 looks. It's about pretending to be something that you are not. At this rate why not dress up like a baby?
00:02:37.040 Because some of you want to dress like you are 22 forever. You are not 22 forever. At some point it is
00:02:43.380 time to mature and grow up. Go to the next one. In context of what she posted I think it's fine.
00:02:49.800 Regardless if she's a wife or a mom I think it's appropriate and she looks great. 0.72
00:02:54.480 No I think over a certain age it's time to put the boobs away. Now a lot of people will say oh but it's 1.00
00:02:59.120 not my fault. I have just these big boobs that just spill out. Come on guys. Really? Is it that hard 0.99
00:03:05.600 to find a shirt with this neckline? Isn't that all they have to offer though? I mean think about it.
00:03:10.700 These women have been around the block a few times. Go to the next one. 1.00
00:03:15.100 All right so then we have this one. Yeah guys I'm gonna deem this.
00:03:22.060 Not terrible but the shorts look pretty short. Well the picture's not too bad but I just think
00:03:27.740 at a certain point it's time to put the shirt up. This is barely inappropriate. I rate this
00:03:33.840 barely. Barely inappropriate. She's almost there. Go to the next one. 1.00
00:03:40.100 Oh no that's inappropriate. Okay that's sad but look at this okay. She's an in shape. She's not a 0.99
00:03:45.960 bad looking woman but this woman has got a belly button ring, booty shorts, a crop top, and flip 1.00
00:03:52.000 flops. You know and even the guy let's look at the guy's appearance. He looks like he's dressed like
00:03:56.680 they both look like they're older people dressed like they're 16. And it's just this phenomenon we
00:04:02.560 have going in society where we have older people that are trying to pretend they're 16 and at some
00:04:08.340 point it's time to grow up and have a more mature look and lifestyle. Like this literally looks like
00:04:14.840 an outfit that you would see a 16, 15 year old woman wear. I deemed these outfits inappropriate. 0.99
00:04:21.300 The first one wasn't terrible but I think women go around not even knowing how ridiculous you guys 1.00
00:04:27.540 look. You guys look ridiculous. It's sad and I'm not saying you know I grew up as an athlete right 1.00
00:04:33.760 so I grew up in spandex. Everything was really short. That's kind of what we were used to so I never
00:04:39.460 thought much about it but as a society we can't even have the conversation of what is appropriate and
00:04:45.540 what is inappropriate and at some point guys it's time to cover up especially when you have kids.
00:04:51.600 Because why would you want to teach your daughters to be immodest? And that is why I push this so hard
00:04:57.780 the wife and the mother. That's why I keep saying I deem this inappropriate as a wife and a mother 0.99
00:05:02.720 because once you get married you have a certain level of responsibility to not model immodesty
00:05:08.920 because if you have a son that's the type of wife they're going to look for what you model 1.00
00:05:13.120 or if you have a daughter she is going to look up to you and it is your job as a mother to not
00:05:19.540 be immodest. Pearl this is what the mom wants to wear when she feels good about herself. Why deny 0.93
00:05:26.140 her her feelings? Because again it's not about you anymore and this isn't to say that they're
00:05:31.960 terrible mothers. You know everybody has a moment but it's not only that they wear these outfits but 0.98
00:05:37.900 they post them for everybody to see. Why are we so addicted to attention that there can't be
00:05:43.540 private family moments that are just for the family? Why does everything need to be public?
00:05:50.580 Trad wife today says posing and posting for sexual attention while holding a baby is next level 1.00
00:05:55.140 inappropriate. Yes. Yes. Can you imagine? Oh it makes it worse. These women will have their kids 1.00
00:06:02.700 in their slutty outfits and they want me to somehow think it's better. That's worse Diane. Worse. 0.99
00:06:11.640 Okay really? Pearly thinks how so? My husband is in the picture with me on the right. We were in
00:06:16.580 Vegas and it was 115 degrees outside. People were walking around in bathing suits. That's how hot it
00:06:22.280 was. Okay well then maybe don't post it. And you know what's crazy? Women used to wear long ass dresses 1.00
00:06:28.380 in 100 degree weather. It's not that hard to put on some light fabric guys or at least a light cover
00:06:35.120 up. A sundress? I mean let's why are we acting like naked is the only option? It's the only option?
00:06:42.680 Really? So this woman bamboozled me. I was bamboozled by this woman. At first I gave her a green light. 0.99
00:06:50.980 I said yes. What a great outfit. But I didn't notice she wasn't wearing a bra. I'm a girl so my
00:06:56.340 I go up. She got me. She pulled one over on me. So at first I deemed this appropriate.
00:07:02.220 Then the comment section let me know very quick that it was inappropriate. Visible nipple is highly 1.00
00:07:06.840 inappropriate. I didn't even notice. Sorry guys I didn't even notice. You're losing it Pearl. Women 1.00
00:07:13.720 should wear a bra and cover their nipples. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. Definitely some diamond cutters 1.00
00:07:21.840 coming through the shirt. Okay guys. Yes. I get it. I get it. I missed that one. Sometimes I get it wrong.
00:07:28.500 Okay. So this is our good friend Rachel Wilson. She's been on the show. Appropriate outfit. Now
00:07:34.080 and this is another thing. Rachel Wilson was a stay-at-home wife of four children. She homeschooled 0.91
00:07:40.940 her children and taught them all the basic things. Right? Cooking, cleaning. She still homeschools her kids. 0.94
00:07:46.660 Do you see Rachel with a bunch of Botox? The latest fashion trends? No. And it's a telltale 1.00
00:07:53.460 sign when women are obsessed with this stuff. Because guys, it's a lot of work. It takes time 1.00
00:07:58.680 to keep up on what's trendy. It takes time to go to the doctor's office, get your nails done,
00:08:04.280 put a bunch of shit in your face, put on a ton of makeup for an hour every day. All of that stuff 1.00
00:08:09.360 takes time. Wives and mothers are not focused on the latest fashion trends. They have a couple
00:08:14.860 timeless pieces that they wear and their focus is their family, not themselves. So I said,
00:08:20.780 I deem this outfit appropriate for a wife and a mother. And I want you guys also to continue this
00:08:26.120 trend on Twitter. Use the hashtag I deem and let me know your local, your favorite celebrities and
00:08:32.560 trad influencers if their outfits are appropriate.
00:08:35.100 And I want you guys to see it.