Pearl Says This About Lizzo
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about body positivity, fat shaming, the food industry, Lizzo, and why we value bigger women. We also talk about the benefits of being overweight, the dangers of obesity, and what we should do about it.
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what do you think of lizzo so i actually recently did a video on this um i set up a podcast but
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basically lizzo is portraying something that is terrible for young women and then you have
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thousands of young women saying oh my gosh lizzo's so beautiful everyone should be like
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lizzo and then you have all the fat people looking at lizzo feeding off of her positivity
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her body positivity and why does she lead with it too like it's her brand to make people sick
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yeah nobody would talk when adele was overweight nobody really spoke about her weight because she
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didn't lead with it no you know they did speak about it when she lost the weight they were like
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oh we can't believe you lost the weight we hate you now like we don't like you like you did this
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for for social media and it's like what yeah what about doing this to save her life why aren't more
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people supporting women losing weight that's what real body positivity because we know the whole world
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is lazy the majority of people so that it fits well also the food industry benefits the food industry
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in the medical industry to have more overweight people because then you have more surgeries then
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you have more medications being handed out then you have more depression anxiety suicide
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i mean the divorce rates you know it's right it's insane right no i mean honestly like one time i was
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at work and these guys were like like clowning on women over 200 pounds or like i would never date
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but they didn't know i was because i like i don't look like i didn't look like i was over 200
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and literally i ended up like losing a bunch of weight because i was so embarrassed that i and then it was
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the best thing that ever happened to me i ran a marathon because i was like i'm done i'm done
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with this it's like the quickest way to lose weight run a marathon yeah or and i got addicted
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to exercise too like i remember being in that place i went to the doctor's office actually and that's
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when i started i they were like your triglycerides are up your your risk heart disease type 2 diabetes
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and you know if you don't start now you are gonna die very like slowly but soon
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and i was terrified i was like what just from being fat i was how long did they say you had
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no they weren't like you're gonna die tomorrow but they were like curious like how long do 300
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pound people live i don't know do you know i don't know the stats on that actually no but they
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they definitely have a higher risk of cardiovascular disease which is a number one killer they have a
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higher risk of cancer they definitely will develop diabetes type 2 and other diseases that are 100%
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there was that influencer that just like dropped dead the other day because she was obese and like
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she would literally always be eating and doing mukbangs then she died i'm not surprised why do you think
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she died everyone you know and then they say like when obese people go to the doctor and they say to
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lose weight that they're like not listening to them but i'm like well i mean i'm not a doctor but
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you might want to like watch for your but even doctors are lying to people now saying oh it's
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okay to eat like cheeseburger they can't weigh you they can't weigh you either even that and it's like
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you guys why are you lying to these people who actually some people who actually want to be
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helped are being lied to yeah oh just do the keto diet oh just do the paleo diet it'll be fine
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that's not a long-term solution that's not a lifestyle right doctors aren't really even trained in
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nutrition they don't know how to help and the business model isn't set up for them to support
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their their their patients so it's the whole model is flawed and we really need to get smart
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and get responsible and be clear about what we're putting in our thoughts in our minds and in our
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in our mouths literally uh they said as an african woman zimbabwean uh we are curvy there's a big
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difference between being curvy and overweight you can be thin um and curvy um and just big big uh and then
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there's another one that was from interracial marriages or relationships uh for black men
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community we value bigger women because they make for better sex partners uh the marriage is
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different requirements for than sex my thin women or my thin woman felt like she was too pretty to
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fulfill my sexual requirements um okay so how did you say how does a man identify a good woman
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i would say that a man identifies a good woman if she's one healthy and fit that's important okay
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especially for childbearing and i'd say number two if she has traditional values if she believes in
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being submissive if she believes in being feminine she she she she loves i'm gonna answer that question
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we're gonna get to the men okay don't worry it was just whoever's sitting you know um and then i think
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if she wants to cook if she's okay cleaning she wants she's a homemaker she would love to you know
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have children and take care of them and be a housewife um i think that's beautiful um and so
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that's what i think identifies a good woman okay um what about you well identifying as a good woman
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nowadays is a bit difficult however i would emphasize on the values and uh the morals of the
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woman um primarily her ability to be a good wife her ability to raise good children and even her
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thoughts and the things she has in mind because she's going to be molding the next generation
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and uh so how does he know well it can because you know women lie like we can just say things like
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i'm but you know if you have a deep conversation with a person she can still lie but no but to an
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extent but believe me throughout time you can identify okay so how much how much time
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if it's um i would say i would give it like three months but it can't okay so three months of
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constant um constant uh meeting okay so you think in three months he can see if she has
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traditional values yes okay she would i mean just so healthy so he can look she healthy and fit cool
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yeah um is she how can he test if she's submissive he can ask something and see the reaction so ask
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her to do something and see what she does for example you can tell i mean as i'm if a man tells
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to a woman can you uh please make me a coffee or a meal and she say hell no i'm not doing this to you
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i mean that's all right see her for three months ask her to make him a coffee okay
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okay uh what what else can he do how does he uh does he like what else what else does he do
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i mean well uh because i was here just find a good woman so i'm just trying to get from the women
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how did the man just find a good woman yeah it's his ability to identify what he values in
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in a woman okay i mean that's gonna be subjective to an extent yeah so i'm asking like what what makes
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someone a good woman and how does he identify that i think what you were saying as well men do test
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women i've been tested by men like with certain things how does he test it so like oh can you cook
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for me can you make me food or like on the spot though ask to do you know how to cook can you cook
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properly do you know what i mean even your presentation that's how you deliver the food
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i want to get it step by step for the we're going to let the men talk i'm just curious how it's going
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to align with what you guys say from the women than the men um okay so first he's going to see
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her for three months ask her to make him a coffee and ask to cook oh i disagree with all of that i
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think that honestly if it's a high value man most of the time he's gonna know without all of that
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honestly most of the men nowadays how does he know um there is this i don't know if it's the right word
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but there is this aura there is this sense when you sit with a woman who you know is going to
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be respectful to you or not i honestly feel that you think that average men just know this
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because you're talking about high value that's like yeah that's like five percent of i know but
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but average men nowadays look at high value men's content more and more and more okay and try to see
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so you think and i think you think i'm just curious you think men just know
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they don't just know but they should get to a point to just know so they they have to
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so how does he get to that point that he just knows well slowly slowly slowly we're getting to
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a point where i think they need to go to certain parts of the world to know and certain parts of
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the world they will just know that 90 of the women will not be like that and okay so he has to
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he needs to travel slowly we're getting he needs to travel somewhere else and then experience those
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women and then compare exactly exactly okay but for for a guy that doesn't travel like he stays in
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the west because most remember most guys don't make a ton of money like i think half of uh u.s
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men don't have passports yeah so so most men aren't traveling like that so for a guy that's not
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traveling how does he know good woman versus bad woman i would say if you if the first conversation with
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her is like oh so where are we going to dinner are we having drinks this is not a right way to to meet
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i think when you meet a girl you should take her for coffee and that's it even if you like her so much
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that you take on a coffee date and see what she's like and see if she's i don't know if she wants to
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continue the date and get you to buy her dinner and can a man know a good woman from a bad woman
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without experiencing a lot of women no not really okay so so so in order to identify he he asked uh
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what uh he i would suggest that in in his 20s he dates as many women as he can that's what that's what