JustPearlyThings - April 08, 2023


Pearl School Alpha Female On Femininity

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Picky Sorry Onto
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Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

189.57

Word count

1,719

Sentence count

69

Harmful content

Misogyny

15

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Toxicity

4

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Hate speech

15

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Summary

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In this episode we discuss the difference between an alpha female and an alpha male, and why women like to date alpha males and why they like to have sex with alpha males. We also talk about the differences between alpha females and alpha males, and what it takes to be a good alpha female.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 He was he had a whole phase for like I think all men have had a whole phase 0.94
00:00:03.440 I don't know about that one of three men are under 30 or they're virgins or haven't had sex in the past year
00:00:10.140 What yeah, what really yeah, I need to talk to my friends
00:00:19.040 Yeah, no, but I mean do you think the guy at Tesco is really getting laid
00:00:30.000 Yeah, yeah, but then it's and no, let me not go through go for you know
00:00:47.000 So I was gonna say you think you're saying that that the certain man at Tesco you think there's not certain girls
00:00:51.820 Who would do anything to just to get that bit of attention? I think if the guys are good-looking
00:00:56.640 Yeah, but I don't think like women women find 80% of men is unattractive
00:01:01.920 So not not okay. Not average looking like ugly. Wow. Think about it 0.97
00:01:08.320 That is a good point
00:01:15.200 Out of the women other women who here would describe themselves as picky 1.00
00:01:18.320 Picky pick that far. You're not picky that far. Oh, I like what I like
00:01:24.720 Yeah, that's what I was gonna say. Are you particular? No, you don't know
00:01:30.240 I like certain things, but I wouldn't say like I have a very strict type on paper that if you don't meet this requirement
00:01:36.240 I won't look at you. Yeah
00:01:38.240 I
00:01:40.240 Don't really know what's what's really to say on that because well, what do you what do you look for in a guy? Like what are your what are your requirements?
00:01:46.720 Are pretty eyes no
00:01:50.560 No, honestly, it's
00:01:53.360 I don't how can I say it's got to be kind of like quite an alpha-y kind of male
00:01:57.280 It's more it's not so much just the looks obviously 0.96
00:01:59.600 You can't be ugly because that's that's just that's just never gonna work really silly 0.94
00:02:03.600 I've got to be attracted to you 0.96
00:02:04.560 But you've got to be kind of an alpha really because I'm quite I'm quite an alpha female you're an alpha female. Yeah
00:02:10.720 Why because that's what I don't know. That's what I've been told
00:02:13.840 Well, do you believe what other people say about you then? Oh, no
00:02:20.400 I'm just saying I'm just saying things that I've been told
00:02:23.520 Do you think alpha men like one alpha females?
00:02:26.320 Don't alpha men like want submissive females 1.00
00:02:29.040 But then alpha females can be submissive to the right alpha male or to the right man 1.00
00:02:34.400 Yeah, but you don't think there's a line of men waiting today are women waiting to date alpha men
00:02:38.480 Like why would they deal with an alpha female? 0.89
00:02:41.520 Men don't want to date themselves 1.00
00:02:44.800 That's the difference between a man and a female because maybe then she'll submit because she's good 1.00
00:02:48.720 She'll give him the same run for his money and keep his mind going 0.72
00:02:55.120 But why would a guy go through that when he could just go to a girl that doesn't
00:02:57.920 Some men like it. It's not like it. It's not like it. It's not like it. Exactly. Why the men cheat?
00:03:01.280 Why does it like it? Someone like it. Someone like that
00:03:03.280 And so yeah, some men like to be taken care of as well
00:03:07.760 Yeah, I mean we could talk about exceptions. It's not the rule
00:03:09.920 No, no, but that's what I'm saying because an alpha female would still she could she could still provide it 0.99
00:03:13.680 She could still she could still she could still hold it down
00:03:16.240 So maybe she can hold it down for him
00:03:18.560 Instead of him always having told it down
00:03:19.600 Guys don't care about your money. Not in general. I didn't say money. I didn't say money
00:03:24.320 Holding it down emotionally for a man because it's a lot for a man to especially an alpha man to offload his emotions
00:03:30.800 Onto somebody to show his vulnerability
00:03:33.440 And I do believe that with an alpha female he will do that because he knows she can hold it down
00:03:38.080 And she could take it on board and not use it against him. That's what I just said. That's why I believe
00:03:42.480 I think I know what she means as well. Okay, explain. I feel like well in terms of alpha female 0.95
00:03:47.280 Mm-hmm. Tell me from wrong. I feel like when you say alpha female, you know, there's someone out there
00:03:53.600 They'd like a girl. I'll give them a bit 1.00
00:04:01.760 How old are the guys you're talking about? I'm I'll be honest with you. I can only speak for the guys that are around me
00:04:09.280 25 to like 40 yeah
00:04:11.280 In that age gap, so in between the age 25 to 40
00:04:16.080 Most men are like that. I'm not saying they want that but there's a there's a percentage of them men that like the alpha female
00:04:23.120 They like a bit of fight back. Do you think it's the majority?
00:04:25.920 Nah, it's not. It's a minority. It's a minority 0.97
00:04:28.640 But that minority 0.96
00:04:31.200 Yeah, but I found that's like more like men that are like more feminine 0.99
00:04:35.120 I agree. I feel like no, I disagree. I think
00:04:49.920 I've I haven't traveled to many places, but what I can say is being in south africa being in florida and being here in the uk
00:04:57.680 There will always be that kind of man that wants that kind of woman and 0.85
00:05:04.880 Yes, they want the submissive woman, but it's like why do you have to be submissive in public when you are who you are?
00:05:11.440 You are who you are. I'm who I am
00:05:13.280 What do you mean? Why do you have to be submissive in public? Can you explain that more?
00:05:16.320 It's like some guys are happier when their woman's just sitting next to them and just
00:05:21.360 Smiling and not talking to any men and not looking at any men's direction
00:05:26.000 Like not talking to females not talking because you're draw out 1.00
00:05:30.160 You're gonna you know, like so do you think that's a problem?
00:05:33.600 I think when a when a high value man brings along a goal in public
00:05:38.000 I think that this a particular woman that he brings with has to be quite reserved 1.00
00:05:43.600 Sorry, can I just say something in in terms of the minority? So
00:05:47.840 That's that's like your does is that does your definition of submissive
00:05:52.000 Just sitting there quietly and not saying a word
00:05:54.720 Well, no, what i'm saying is I didn't mean like sitting quietly and not saying a word
00:05:58.080 I just said reserved but being seen and not heard
00:06:00.960 Yeah, but in a in a way where I don't have to talk because my man's doing all the talking
00:06:05.440 But the problem is when you meet the phony ones who do too much talking and then you're just sitting there like
00:06:11.600 I think of submitting
00:06:13.040 I think of submitting to authority
00:06:15.200 Like so so when you have a job
00:06:16.880 So when you have a job, right, you don't if you're if your boss says do this
00:06:20.080 Yeah, they don't you don't spend an hour arguing. Well, why are we doing this?
00:06:23.280 Yeah, it's like why do I yeah, this did it like no, you just say okay, and you do it
00:06:27.040 Yeah, so that's what I think of when I think of submissive
00:06:29.440 That's what that's what I think that's what I think that's what I think for sure
00:06:32.080 But then it can be also like the way they say you can say it
00:06:36.800 Do that so so when I think what i'm saying is I don't think sorry. I don't think that those men are
00:06:42.880 like
00:06:44.480 Feminine they're not feminine. You know what? I mean, which ones the ones who choose the alpha alpha women 1.00
00:06:50.720 Able to hold conversations when they're not around babe. I'm going to the toilet cool
00:06:55.760 I'm gonna have conversations while you go to the right but it's not about converse. It's not about conversations. It's about listening
00:07:02.640 So I just think those men they usually have hard jobs. They work a lot
00:07:05.600 They work long hours and they don't typically want a woman that's not going to listen and alpha 0.98
00:07:09.360 I've just found that alpha women don't tend to listen like it's my way or the highway. I'm the alpha 0.94
00:07:14.080 I'm the leader because what's an alpha? That's a leader and leader. You can't have two leaders in a relationship
00:07:18.080 Why would a guy that's a leader want another leader?
00:07:20.240 You can do because
00:07:23.040 Because at the end of the day like someone has to make a decision. I don't think there's one destination though
00:07:27.680 I think there's if you're talking about being in a relationship and having family
00:07:32.160 There's two destined there's a few destinations that come together
00:07:35.680 What what are the what when you say destinations what do you like as the woman in the family
00:07:40.640 Like the mother she needs to take care of the children take care of the house 1.00
00:07:43.920 Take care of the man and lead them and lead when he's not around but when he's around
00:07:50.080 There's that sense of okay, I can chill for a second
00:07:52.640 Yeah, but not a lot of men can back that up
00:07:56.400 I feel like I feel like there might be some sort of like
00:08:00.800 Miss confusion everyone's missing each other's
00:08:02.800 I think this is what's going on
00:08:11.360 When you're saying different paths
00:08:13.440 Yeah, there's one woman that's gonna listen 1.00
00:08:16.560 Sit back. All right, babes
00:08:18.400 Even if she's got her opinion, she's not gonna say it
00:08:21.120 Yep, because she just wants to just make her man happy and get on with it 1.00
00:08:24.960 And have a happy marriage then you've got the other woman that can be a leader just like her husband 1.00
00:08:31.200 However, they're both bosses and they come together as a team. Thank you
00:08:36.240 You know, I'm trying to say I know many
00:08:38.080 She's not submissive, but she's just understanding. She's got her point as well
00:08:42.880 They're gonna come together at the end and they're gonna meet at the final destination
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