Pearl School Alpha Female On Femininity
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Summary
In this episode we discuss the difference between an alpha female and an alpha male, and why women like to date alpha males and why they like to have sex with alpha males. We also talk about the differences between alpha females and alpha males, and what it takes to be a good alpha female.
Transcript
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He was he had a whole phase for like I think all men have had a whole phase
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I don't know about that one of three men are under 30 or they're virgins or haven't had sex in the past year
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What yeah, what really yeah, I need to talk to my friends
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Yeah, no, but I mean do you think the guy at Tesco is really getting laid
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Yeah, yeah, but then it's and no, let me not go through go for you know
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So I was gonna say you think you're saying that that the certain man at Tesco you think there's not certain girls
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Who would do anything to just to get that bit of attention? I think if the guys are good-looking
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Yeah, but I don't think like women women find 80% of men is unattractive
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So not not okay. Not average looking like ugly. Wow. Think about it
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Out of the women other women who here would describe themselves as picky
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Picky pick that far. You're not picky that far. Oh, I like what I like
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Yeah, that's what I was gonna say. Are you particular? No, you don't know
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I like certain things, but I wouldn't say like I have a very strict type on paper that if you don't meet this requirement
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Don't really know what's what's really to say on that because well, what do you what do you look for in a guy? Like what are your what are your requirements?
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I don't how can I say it's got to be kind of like quite an alpha-y kind of male
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It's more it's not so much just the looks obviously
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You can't be ugly because that's that's just that's just never gonna work really silly
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But you've got to be kind of an alpha really because I'm quite I'm quite an alpha female you're an alpha female. Yeah
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Why because that's what I don't know. That's what I've been told
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Well, do you believe what other people say about you then? Oh, no
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I'm just saying I'm just saying things that I've been told
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But then alpha females can be submissive to the right alpha male or to the right man
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Yeah, but you don't think there's a line of men waiting today are women waiting to date alpha men
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That's the difference between a man and a female because maybe then she'll submit because she's good
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She'll give him the same run for his money and keep his mind going
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But why would a guy go through that when he could just go to a girl that doesn't
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Some men like it. It's not like it. It's not like it. It's not like it. Exactly. Why the men cheat?
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Why does it like it? Someone like it. Someone like that
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And so yeah, some men like to be taken care of as well
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Yeah, I mean we could talk about exceptions. It's not the rule
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No, no, but that's what I'm saying because an alpha female would still she could she could still provide it
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She could still she could still she could still hold it down
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Guys don't care about your money. Not in general. I didn't say money. I didn't say money
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Holding it down emotionally for a man because it's a lot for a man to especially an alpha man to offload his emotions
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And I do believe that with an alpha female he will do that because he knows she can hold it down
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And she could take it on board and not use it against him. That's what I just said. That's why I believe
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I think I know what she means as well. Okay, explain. I feel like well in terms of alpha female
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Mm-hmm. Tell me from wrong. I feel like when you say alpha female, you know, there's someone out there
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How old are the guys you're talking about? I'm I'll be honest with you. I can only speak for the guys that are around me
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In that age gap, so in between the age 25 to 40
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Most men are like that. I'm not saying they want that but there's a there's a percentage of them men that like the alpha female
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They like a bit of fight back. Do you think it's the majority?
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Nah, it's not. It's a minority. It's a minority
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Yeah, but I found that's like more like men that are like more feminine
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I've I haven't traveled to many places, but what I can say is being in south africa being in florida and being here in the uk
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There will always be that kind of man that wants that kind of woman and
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Yes, they want the submissive woman, but it's like why do you have to be submissive in public when you are who you are?
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What do you mean? Why do you have to be submissive in public? Can you explain that more?
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It's like some guys are happier when their woman's just sitting next to them and just
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Smiling and not talking to any men and not looking at any men's direction
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Like not talking to females not talking because you're draw out
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You're gonna you know, like so do you think that's a problem?
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I think when a when a high value man brings along a goal in public
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I think that this a particular woman that he brings with has to be quite reserved
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Sorry, can I just say something in in terms of the minority? So
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That's that's like your does is that does your definition of submissive
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Just sitting there quietly and not saying a word
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Well, no, what i'm saying is I didn't mean like sitting quietly and not saying a word
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I just said reserved but being seen and not heard
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Yeah, but in a in a way where I don't have to talk because my man's doing all the talking
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But the problem is when you meet the phony ones who do too much talking and then you're just sitting there like
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So when you have a job, right, you don't if you're if your boss says do this
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Yeah, they don't you don't spend an hour arguing. Well, why are we doing this?
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Yeah, it's like why do I yeah, this did it like no, you just say okay, and you do it
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Yeah, so that's what I think of when I think of submissive
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That's what that's what I think that's what I think that's what I think for sure
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But then it can be also like the way they say you can say it
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Do that so so when I think what i'm saying is I don't think sorry. I don't think that those men are
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Feminine they're not feminine. You know what? I mean, which ones the ones who choose the alpha alpha women
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Able to hold conversations when they're not around babe. I'm going to the toilet cool
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I'm gonna have conversations while you go to the right but it's not about converse. It's not about conversations. It's about listening
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So I just think those men they usually have hard jobs. They work a lot
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They work long hours and they don't typically want a woman that's not going to listen and alpha
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I've just found that alpha women don't tend to listen like it's my way or the highway. I'm the alpha
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I'm the leader because what's an alpha? That's a leader and leader. You can't have two leaders in a relationship
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Why would a guy that's a leader want another leader?
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Because at the end of the day like someone has to make a decision. I don't think there's one destination though
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I think there's if you're talking about being in a relationship and having family
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There's two destined there's a few destinations that come together
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What what are the what when you say destinations what do you like as the woman in the family
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Like the mother she needs to take care of the children take care of the house
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Take care of the man and lead them and lead when he's not around but when he's around
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There's that sense of okay, I can chill for a second
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I feel like I feel like there might be some sort of like
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Even if she's got her opinion, she's not gonna say it
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Yep, because she just wants to just make her man happy and get on with it
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And have a happy marriage then you've got the other woman that can be a leader just like her husband
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However, they're both bosses and they come together as a team. Thank you
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She's not submissive, but she's just understanding. She's got her point as well
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They're gonna come together at the end and they're gonna meet at the final destination
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