JustPearlyThings - April 08, 2023


Pearl School Alpha Female On Femininity


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

189.5677

Word Count

1,719

Sentence Count

48

Misogynist Sentences

15

Hate Speech Sentences

15


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 He was he had a whole phase for like I think all men have had a whole phase
00:00:03.440 I don't know about that one of three men are under 30 or they're virgins or haven't had sex in the past year
00:00:10.140 What yeah, what really yeah, I need to talk to my friends
00:00:19.040 Yeah, no, but I mean do you think the guy at Tesco is really getting laid
00:00:30.000 Yeah, yeah, but then it's and no, let me not go through go for you know
00:00:47.000 So I was gonna say you think you're saying that that the certain man at Tesco you think there's not certain girls
00:00:51.820 Who would do anything to just to get that bit of attention? I think if the guys are good-looking
00:00:56.640 Yeah, but I don't think like women women find 80% of men is unattractive
00:01:01.920 So not not okay. Not average looking like ugly. Wow. Think about it
00:01:08.320 That is a good point
00:01:15.200 Out of the women other women who here would describe themselves as picky
00:01:18.320 Picky pick that far. You're not picky that far. Oh, I like what I like
00:01:24.720 Yeah, that's what I was gonna say. Are you particular? No, you don't know
00:01:30.240 I like certain things, but I wouldn't say like I have a very strict type on paper that if you don't meet this requirement
00:01:36.240 I won't look at you. Yeah
00:01:38.240 I
00:01:40.240 Don't really know what's what's really to say on that because well, what do you what do you look for in a guy? Like what are your what are your requirements?
00:01:46.720 Are pretty eyes no
00:01:50.560 No, honestly, it's
00:01:53.360 I don't how can I say it's got to be kind of like quite an alpha-y kind of male
00:01:57.280 It's more it's not so much just the looks obviously
00:01:59.600 You can't be ugly because that's that's just that's just never gonna work really silly
00:02:03.600 I've got to be attracted to you
00:02:04.560 But you've got to be kind of an alpha really because I'm quite I'm quite an alpha female you're an alpha female. Yeah
00:02:10.720 Why because that's what I don't know. That's what I've been told
00:02:13.840 Well, do you believe what other people say about you then? Oh, no
00:02:20.400 I'm just saying I'm just saying things that I've been told
00:02:23.520 Do you think alpha men like one alpha females?
00:02:26.320 Don't alpha men like want submissive females
00:02:29.040 But then alpha females can be submissive to the right alpha male or to the right man
00:02:34.400 Yeah, but you don't think there's a line of men waiting today are women waiting to date alpha men
00:02:38.480 Like why would they deal with an alpha female?
00:02:41.520 Men don't want to date themselves
00:02:44.800 That's the difference between a man and a female because maybe then she'll submit because she's good
00:02:48.720 She'll give him the same run for his money and keep his mind going
00:02:55.120 But why would a guy go through that when he could just go to a girl that doesn't
00:02:57.920 Some men like it. It's not like it. It's not like it. It's not like it. Exactly. Why the men cheat?
00:03:01.280 Why does it like it? Someone like it. Someone like that
00:03:03.280 And so yeah, some men like to be taken care of as well
00:03:07.760 Yeah, I mean we could talk about exceptions. It's not the rule
00:03:09.920 No, no, but that's what I'm saying because an alpha female would still she could she could still provide it
00:03:13.680 She could still she could still she could still hold it down
00:03:16.240 So maybe she can hold it down for him
00:03:18.560 Instead of him always having told it down
00:03:19.600 Guys don't care about your money. Not in general. I didn't say money. I didn't say money
00:03:24.320 Holding it down emotionally for a man because it's a lot for a man to especially an alpha man to offload his emotions
00:03:30.800 Onto somebody to show his vulnerability
00:03:33.440 And I do believe that with an alpha female he will do that because he knows she can hold it down
00:03:38.080 And she could take it on board and not use it against him. That's what I just said. That's why I believe
00:03:42.480 I think I know what she means as well. Okay, explain. I feel like well in terms of alpha female
00:03:47.280 Mm-hmm. Tell me from wrong. I feel like when you say alpha female, you know, there's someone out there
00:03:53.600 They'd like a girl. I'll give them a bit
00:04:01.760 How old are the guys you're talking about? I'm I'll be honest with you. I can only speak for the guys that are around me
00:04:09.280 25 to like 40 yeah
00:04:11.280 In that age gap, so in between the age 25 to 40
00:04:16.080 Most men are like that. I'm not saying they want that but there's a there's a percentage of them men that like the alpha female
00:04:23.120 They like a bit of fight back. Do you think it's the majority?
00:04:25.920 Nah, it's not. It's a minority. It's a minority
00:04:28.640 But that minority
00:04:31.200 Yeah, but I found that's like more like men that are like more feminine
00:04:35.120 I agree. I feel like no, I disagree. I think
00:04:49.920 I've I haven't traveled to many places, but what I can say is being in south africa being in florida and being here in the uk
00:04:57.680 There will always be that kind of man that wants that kind of woman and
00:05:04.880 Yes, they want the submissive woman, but it's like why do you have to be submissive in public when you are who you are?
00:05:11.440 You are who you are. I'm who I am
00:05:13.280 What do you mean? Why do you have to be submissive in public? Can you explain that more?
00:05:16.320 It's like some guys are happier when their woman's just sitting next to them and just
00:05:21.360 Smiling and not talking to any men and not looking at any men's direction
00:05:26.000 Like not talking to females not talking because you're draw out
00:05:30.160 You're gonna you know, like so do you think that's a problem?
00:05:33.600 I think when a when a high value man brings along a goal in public
00:05:38.000 I think that this a particular woman that he brings with has to be quite reserved
00:05:43.600 Sorry, can I just say something in in terms of the minority? So
00:05:47.840 That's that's like your does is that does your definition of submissive
00:05:52.000 Just sitting there quietly and not saying a word
00:05:54.720 Well, no, what i'm saying is I didn't mean like sitting quietly and not saying a word
00:05:58.080 I just said reserved but being seen and not heard
00:06:00.960 Yeah, but in a in a way where I don't have to talk because my man's doing all the talking
00:06:05.440 But the problem is when you meet the phony ones who do too much talking and then you're just sitting there like
00:06:11.600 I think of submitting
00:06:13.040 I think of submitting to authority
00:06:15.200 Like so so when you have a job
00:06:16.880 So when you have a job, right, you don't if you're if your boss says do this
00:06:20.080 Yeah, they don't you don't spend an hour arguing. Well, why are we doing this?
00:06:23.280 Yeah, it's like why do I yeah, this did it like no, you just say okay, and you do it
00:06:27.040 Yeah, so that's what I think of when I think of submissive
00:06:29.440 That's what that's what I think that's what I think that's what I think for sure
00:06:32.080 But then it can be also like the way they say you can say it
00:06:36.800 Do that so so when I think what i'm saying is I don't think sorry. I don't think that those men are
00:06:42.880 like
00:06:44.480 Feminine they're not feminine. You know what? I mean, which ones the ones who choose the alpha alpha women
00:06:50.720 Able to hold conversations when they're not around babe. I'm going to the toilet cool
00:06:55.760 I'm gonna have conversations while you go to the right but it's not about converse. It's not about conversations. It's about listening
00:07:02.640 So I just think those men they usually have hard jobs. They work a lot
00:07:05.600 They work long hours and they don't typically want a woman that's not going to listen and alpha
00:07:09.360 I've just found that alpha women don't tend to listen like it's my way or the highway. I'm the alpha
00:07:14.080 I'm the leader because what's an alpha? That's a leader and leader. You can't have two leaders in a relationship
00:07:18.080 Why would a guy that's a leader want another leader?
00:07:20.240 You can do because
00:07:23.040 Because at the end of the day like someone has to make a decision. I don't think there's one destination though
00:07:27.680 I think there's if you're talking about being in a relationship and having family
00:07:32.160 There's two destined there's a few destinations that come together
00:07:35.680 What what are the what when you say destinations what do you like as the woman in the family
00:07:40.640 Like the mother she needs to take care of the children take care of the house
00:07:43.920 Take care of the man and lead them and lead when he's not around but when he's around
00:07:50.080 There's that sense of okay, I can chill for a second
00:07:52.640 Yeah, but not a lot of men can back that up
00:07:56.400 I feel like I feel like there might be some sort of like
00:08:00.800 Miss confusion everyone's missing each other's
00:08:02.800 I think this is what's going on
00:08:11.360 When you're saying different paths
00:08:13.440 Yeah, there's one woman that's gonna listen
00:08:16.560 Sit back. All right, babes
00:08:18.400 Even if she's got her opinion, she's not gonna say it
00:08:21.120 Yep, because she just wants to just make her man happy and get on with it
00:08:24.960 And have a happy marriage then you've got the other woman that can be a leader just like her husband
00:08:31.200 However, they're both bosses and they come together as a team. Thank you
00:08:36.240 You know, I'm trying to say I know many
00:08:38.080 She's not submissive, but she's just understanding. She's got her point as well
00:08:42.880 They're gonna come together at the end and they're gonna meet at the final destination
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