JustPearlyThings - May 25, 2023


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Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
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Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

243.45

Word count

2,121

Sentence count

167

Harmful content

Misogyny

15

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Toxicity

64

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Hate speech

11

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss what it means to be a Black woman in the 21st century. We discuss the benefits and challenges of being a Black female in today's society, and what we would like to see change in the future.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Ownerships versus marriage.
00:00:02.180 I wouldn't mind, you know, at this point, like I said, I'm very tired of working. 0.99
00:00:07.680 So at this point, shit, if I could find a man that would just say, baby, you ain't got to work. 0.99
00:00:12.920 And he want to go out and fuck who he want to fuck on the side and do what he want to do. 1.00
00:00:16.740 Shit, I'd be willing to just sit back and say, all right, you know, as long as you giving me the black car and I can, you know, get my hair done, nails done, everything did and buy what I need to buy and better myself. 1.00
00:00:26.220 And, you know, just focus on, you know, the home life, then shit, I might go for that and sit back and shut the fuck up. 1.00
00:00:34.120 What's the point of having a husband and being in a committed relationship, though, if you're just going to let him go out and fuck whoever he wants? 1.00
00:00:40.240 You know, well, I'm taking it back to like the old days, my grandmother's days and things where they had no choice but to sit down and shut the fuck up and let your man do what he do because you cannot go out and work. 0.99
00:00:50.520 You have to just sit at home.
00:00:51.560 You know, we did all this fight for equal rights and now to the point where when I go on dates, guys don't want to date me if they feel like you don't have a good enough job. 0.98
00:01:00.240 And that's fucking disrespectful. 0.99
00:01:01.640 It's like, damn, you know what I mean? 1.00
00:01:02.900 Like maybe I'm still working on myself, getting my shit to that level. 0.99
00:01:06.020 But guys nowadays, especially where I'm from in L.A., they don't want to fuck with you if you ain't got your shit like together, like have a really good job. 0.99
00:01:13.540 And especially depending on your age, they're not dealing with you. 0.99
00:01:16.400 They don't want to be with you if you don't know OnlyFans. 0.86
00:01:18.440 They don't want to be with you if you work in retail.
00:01:20.520 They want a specific woman. 1.00
00:01:22.540 And so, you know, we kind of fucked ourselves a little bit with all this equal rights shit. 1.00
00:01:26.360 Yeah, I do like being able to make my own bread and do what I want to do and have a say-so. 1.00
00:01:30.660 But at the same time, it's like, damn, we kind of set ourselves back because now guys don't even want to open the door for your ass. 0.99
00:01:36.040 You know what I mean? 0.99
00:01:36.620 So it's a lot with that going back and forth.
00:01:39.180 It's like I'm on one side of it, but then the other side.
00:01:42.080 It's tough because it's like, in general, most women are not traditional women and we want traditional outcomes.
00:01:48.900 I feel like it's just a level of respect for the other person.
00:01:52.880 What do you mean?
00:01:53.840 Like, it doesn't matter what I do for work or it doesn't matter what the other person does for work.
00:01:57.480 Like, if you have a mutual respect for each other, like, I would want my man to open a car door for me.
00:02:02.060 But, like, vice versa, like, I would take my man out to a nice meal once in a while.
00:02:08.060 Like, I feel like it's just an equal amount of respect and, like, I would like my man to get me flowers once in a while. 0.97
00:02:14.260 Just like he would probably like, fuck, I don't know, like a massage once in a while. 0.95
00:02:18.440 Right, it should be equal like that, you know? 0.99
00:02:20.820 Or to get, like, cooked food when he gets home or whatever.
00:02:23.400 Yeah, just like, it's just respect.
00:02:25.300 It's just respect.
00:02:26.220 Yeah, but I was talking about, like, the traditional outcome, like, being a housewife.
00:02:29.780 So, only, like, roughly 20% of women get to do that. 1.00
00:02:32.240 Right, right.
00:02:33.400 So, it's competitive.
00:02:34.700 Like, it's, and the guys that want a housewife, like, I mean, you have to compete for them.
00:02:38.700 And typically, they don't pick girls with OnlyFans, corn stars. 0.98
00:02:41.460 Like, that's just not what they pick.
00:02:42.540 But I don't want to be a typical housewife.
00:02:45.160 Well, I was only, I don't, I don't know what you want.
00:02:47.460 I was talking about what she said. 0.99
00:02:48.700 Right, because I said, and there's moments in my life where I'm just, I'm like, fuck it, I'll do that. 0.99
00:02:53.200 Because dealing with being a woman and dealing, a black woman at that and dealing with this workforce, like I said, I'm from L.A. 0.99
00:02:58.760 So, it's hell that I deal with on a day-to-day basis.
00:03:01.860 And I'm sick of it.
00:03:02.680 Yeah, but it's, like, at 33, like, you just can't be a traditional woman anymore.
00:03:06.420 And I don't think you would claim to be, right?
00:03:08.300 But, and it's, like, a lot of times, like, we want these traditional outcomes.
00:03:11.720 But it's, like, do we qualify, you know?
00:03:14.020 Right, right.
00:03:14.760 That's very true. 0.93
00:03:15.600 But it's, I mean, it's, like, damned if you do, damned if you don't at some point. 0.80
00:03:19.420 You know what I mean?
00:03:19.980 But with that attitude, I mean, like, at that point, I mean, listening to everything you're saying, have you been realistic with the men that you're going for?
00:03:25.540 Like, you're saying, like, the men that you're going on dates with, like, your job isn't good enough, this isn't good enough.
00:03:29.280 Have you ever, like, taken time to stop and be, like, damn, maybe it is me and not these men? 0.58
00:03:33.640 You know what I mean? 0.90
00:03:33.960 Like, it's.
00:03:34.280 And I have.
00:03:35.140 And I tell people that.
00:03:36.200 I definitely have because I'm a Virgo.
00:03:37.980 I'm an overthinker. 0.99
00:03:38.780 And so, I analyze every fucking thing. 0.99
00:03:40.920 You know what I mean? 0.97
00:03:41.520 And so, I do be, like, and that's why I just told her when she asked, are you, like, really looking?
00:03:45.700 And I'm, like, you know what, nobody. 0.99
00:03:46.940 You need to sit your ass down and get yourself together right now. 0.98
00:03:49.400 Well, maybe L.A. 0.99
00:03:49.680 Because being real about it, you know what I mean? 0.96
00:03:51.560 Maybe this is not the time, you know what I mean, for you to be trying to get it if you don't fully have your shit together, if that's what guys are going for now. 0.91
00:03:59.500 If you make it to 35 and you're not married, you only have, like, a 15, I think, percent chance, 20 percent chance of ever getting married. 0.76
00:04:06.060 Right, and that's what's scary.
00:04:07.500 It's actually, it's actually.
00:04:08.640 Sorry, go ahead.
00:04:09.040 Sorry, the dating pool in L.A. is not the best at all.
00:04:13.040 I was going to say.
00:04:13.720 The men in L.A. are some of the worst men I've ever experienced in my entire life.
00:04:19.400 Thank you.
00:04:19.420 Speak over.
00:04:20.100 They are, they are, they act like they want something serious and they want a real relationship and a real, true, loving partner.
00:04:27.920 And when they get that, they go and turn around and they're like, oh, I have this already.
00:04:30.900 And then they go and turn around and cheat.
00:04:32.580 Thank you.
00:04:32.920 I think it's because, no, it's because women go for a small percentage of men. 1.00
00:04:37.600 I don't think so.
00:04:38.600 But that's all I do, though, because at the end of the day, all I care about is making sure that I'm loved. 0.94
00:04:43.820 I'd rather have somebody who will commit to me and tell me that they love me and actually show me that they love me over someone who's Chris fucking Brown. 0.98
00:04:50.360 I'd rather be loved than have somebody with status any fucking day. 0.99
00:04:53.600 Yeah, I don't even give a fuck about status. 1.00
00:04:55.600 I'm dating ugly. 1.00
00:04:56.380 That's yours. 0.96
00:04:57.640 The thing is, like, that's great.
00:04:59.140 That's great for you, right?
00:05:00.680 And I'm not talking about you guys individually, but there's no shortage of women trying to sleep with Chris Brown, trying to sleep with Drake, trying to sleep with these entertainers, actors, high status celebrities.
00:05:12.040 Yeah, because they want the bed.
00:05:12.900 That women will know for a fact will not be faithful to them. 0.94
00:05:18.280 It's living in the city.
00:05:20.320 It honestly is.
00:05:21.280 The further away you get from a metropolitan area, the better your odds are going to be.
00:05:24.400 Because the people in cities, there's so many people here.
00:05:27.420 Your pool is so deep.
00:05:28.520 You can just look at somebody, swipe left, swipe right, you can toss them aside, you can cheat on.
00:05:32.720 It's also really easy to disguise what you're doing if there's so many people around, to be perfectly honest with you.
00:05:37.260 Yeah, because I feel like I used to feel the same way.
00:05:38.920 I used to be like, oh, my God, I hate dating in LA because I'm from Alabama. 1.00
00:05:41.220 Like, mom, fuck, nowhere. 1.00
00:05:43.480 And I hated dating. 1.00
00:05:44.500 But then I came to LA and I was like, I hate dating in LA.
00:05:46.820 And I was like, well, where? 0.97
00:05:47.820 I had to sit down and shut the fuck up and be like, well, where am I actually looking at dating? 0.94
00:05:51.400 And my guy now, who's like a blue-collar job, he's not. 0.98
00:05:53.880 So you want a lineman or a rig worker or somebody?
00:05:55.740 Yeah, they're great.
00:05:56.920 But a lot of people don't want to admit that those guys sometimes are the best people and the best prospects to date.
00:06:04.180 We want the flashy stuff. 0.98
00:06:05.580 As much as we say we don't guess the hell we do, we go to social media and say, if you don't have this, if you don't have this kind of money, if you don't fucking drive a Bugatti, you're not worth my time.
00:06:13.140 So a lot of these guys, a lot of these normal guys that we complain aren't around, they're around. 0.99
00:06:17.300 We just don't give a shit about them. 0.96
00:06:18.700 We don't give them a chance at metropolitan areas. 0.98
00:06:21.460 If you move outside of a major metropolitan area and you live outside of, like, a medium-sized city, like 45 minutes outside of it, and you participate in life in that town,
00:06:29.600 and you work somewhere where you do not work around the majority of the same gender, that's the biggest problem. 1.00
00:06:34.400 I get a lot of people that are, like, nurses, teachers, social workers, they always talk about how they can't find anybody.
00:06:38.840 They can't find anybody because they work with all women. 1.00
00:06:40.580 All women. 1.00
00:06:40.940 All bitches. 1.00
00:06:41.720 Also, I love those types of jobs. 1.00
00:06:44.900 That's the thing.
00:06:45.380 Yeah, well, women choose those jobs. 1.00
00:06:48.800 Women go into those jobs, and then we can't wait to get out of them because you get into them and they suck. 1.00
00:06:52.600 And the other issue is women find 80% of men as unattractive. 0.99
00:06:56.280 Not okay, not eh, nah. 0.99
00:06:58.020 You find 80% of men you meet ugly. 0.97
00:07:00.180 But I've dated ugly ones. 0.90
00:07:01.700 I've tried to go against the gray and date ugly in this guy played, girl. 0.77
00:07:05.960 Typically, no, typically when women. 1.00
00:07:09.440 That's why you need to work.
00:07:10.340 That's why you need to work around men. 1.00
00:07:13.480 If you're looking for a partner, if you're looking for a spouse, you need to work around men because you have to know the men in order to actually know if they're attractive to you.
00:07:20.200 Yes, I agree with what you're saying, but the thing is women will care less about how attractive a man is if they are in close proximity to that man and they like him. 0.81
00:07:30.120 Yes, that is how people get married. 1.00
00:07:31.400 Right, right.
00:07:31.620 Most people meet at work.
00:07:32.320 I know, but I'm not talking about what's ideal.
00:07:34.240 I'm talking about what is.
00:07:35.300 No, but I'm talking about what is most people meet at work.
00:07:37.500 No, now the number one way is dating apps.
00:07:40.420 It's not work anymore. 0.61
00:07:41.880 I think dating apps, personally, are the dumbest thing created because, personally, for me, I go on personality.
00:07:48.420 At the end of the day, yes, the first thing you see when you meet somebody is their looks, but I've dated men that I haven't found conventionally attractive, and they have been the sweetest human beings to me ever. 0.80
00:08:01.960 Was it because you knew them from something other than meeting them in a bar and being attracted to them?
00:08:08.300 Well, actually, so before, I also bartended on the side when I was doing.
00:08:13.660 I was bartending.
00:08:14.300 Yeah, when I was doing OnlyFans, it was in Austin.
00:08:16.600 He was a DJ.
00:08:18.440 Oh, you worked together.
00:08:19.580 Yes.
00:08:20.040 So he was, he was more, well, we didn't work at the same bars, but it was like the industry.
00:08:24.100 Austin's a very, very small nightlife industry.
00:08:26.580 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok, and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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