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In this episode, we are joined by social media influencer and author, to discuss the dangers of not wearing a condom in the bedroom and why women should be required to wear one in bed with their partners.
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the family court system is definitely needed because let's say you're involved with a man
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right and you think he put a condom on and he didn't now you end up pregnant now what all he
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has to do is just pick up and leave when you have a family court system to enforce that he at least
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pays for helps pay for his child like women we already have to take care okay women we already
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I gotta stop you there you're telling me you didn't notice he didn't have a condom on there
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what's more common a man pulling off the condom or a woman lying about being on birth control
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no idea I would say a man pulling off a condom I would definitely say a man pulling off a condom
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I would without a man even putting on a condom doesn't even put it on to begin with where is
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your sample size is this just in your bed you said where's your sample size yeah you keep talking
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about like where's the demographic we're talking about here is it like specifically in your bed
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you're on birth control but I'm talking about in general about somebody who you know I travel to
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where I talk to different people I you know do this I used to have a radio show like so I've
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talked to millions of people before and when yeah research and when you actually sit and talk to
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people and you find out their stories and stuff you you're gathering evidence well my question is
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why doesn't she require the men she sleeps with wears condoms you could see if they put it like this
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is so stupid no you can you can you can see if a guy puts a condom on but how many times you turn
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on Murray and he's taking the condom off and now she's pregnant who's the daddy or trying to prove
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that he is the daddy like it's more common it that happens more than we think you know what that is
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interesting though because what is the response from the public and the audience in situations where
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you get into these kind of real life stories about a man who slipped the condom off like people
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that is not socially acceptable and people think that he is awful whereas there was um a clip that
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went quite viral I think it was on Oprah or something like that and it was you know an audience full of
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women and they're having like they're asking questions and getting responses from different
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people and a woman stands up and she says look we have some number of kids two or three kids I want
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another but my husband doesn't should I pretend that I'm taking my birth control but stop and the
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entire audience like all of these women jumped up hollering saying like do it do it sister you got
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to do it you want that kid like and that was I've heard stupid I've heard stupid I'm just questioning
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like there's four guys here do you guys know any woman that has lied that you think lied about being
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on birth control yeah that happened to me yeah that happened to you do you know anybody do you know
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anybody wait I just want raise of hands just there's four guys in here do you know anybody
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why are the girls excluded I know the woman who's done that I believe I'm not on birth control okay well I was
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gonna ask the women the women have have you ever been like condom where the guy said he was wearing
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a condom and then he took it off and you didn't know that's never happened to me yes yes it's
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happened to me I choose my partners wisely so no no so okay so right now we got 25 percent and a hundred
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percent this is random people that don't know each other so it seems like one's more common than the
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other they're both situations I thought you talked to people so now I do a random sample size this is
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a random sample size here in the UK first of all men don't even try to wear condoms here
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so you should come on now let's be for real I'm so for real I don't know how you wouldn't notice I
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think that women just do that to play victim I'm gonna be honest I think that's a lack of like
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accountability I'm gonna tell you how you're not gonna notice right let's say a man is is hitting
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it from the front right and he says flip over let me hit it from the back and he takes it off
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because he's about to climax hello how am I gonna know all I know is I'm flipping over I'm not gonna
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know I'm just gonna know the feeling like okay he likes this position I'm not gonna reach down there
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oh let me make sure I'm in the moment it happens that's true happens where does it put me if I lied about
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uh not taking birth control what I was taking oh you lot you lied about it yes I was taking the birth
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control and I said I'm not oh you you were taking it that's really interesting that's a really
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interesting question am I good or bad or ugly no honestly I have I have something to say are you
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responsible give it to me baby I understand that a lot of men don't wear condom right yeah I understand
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that but I'm kind of worried if you're saying that there are men that would wear the condom and take
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it off when they are about to ejaculate that is wild as hell like that's crazy maybe no no it sounds
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like a crazy concept but it is more common than what you think it is more common no you need to think
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about the kind of men that would do that that's the point I'm trying to make which is those are not
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stable individuals I live in New York everyone's crazy there every single person is crazy there
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right so you would be surprised how many women I have come across that have said this exact same
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thing like men if they're in it and it's feeling good you know what you know I'll tell you why
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they're all sleeping with the same guys they're all sleeping with the same which goes back to my point
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the same kind of men the only guy in New York but this is what I mean women select horribly but that's if
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you're if you're sleeping with the guy like what does that say about your decision but you gotta
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think about it all the good guys are probably taken so there's only the bozos like that that are
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left for us to pick from that's not true this whole like if you're not getting good men it's something it
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says something about you you are what you attract these these prison guys you're talking about but the
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men I like are gay what can I do all the pretty men they are gay and they don't want me
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what can I do she said it gay is like five percent of the population it's not that high
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what of men yeah but I like them yeah what about frogs though I heard they're going that way but
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you know what that also demographics I really think all that does depend on where you live as well
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like if you live in a country somewhere it might be easier for you to find a good man you know I'm
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saying because it's a country they preach families marriage kids all of that if you live in a thriving
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overpopulated city you're worrying about how you're going to pay bills so everybody's not inclined to
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really be on some okay let's get married let's have children are you saying all the men in here
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are not good men because they live in a populated city I'm not saying that they're not they're gorgeous
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we're gonna do after party but there are there are communities within our overcrowded cities where most
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of us are a complete mess there are communities who do very well have very stable families none of our
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messy issues yes but what I'm saying is that depending on where you live will be the family
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values and morals that you go for somebody in South Carolina right out of high school is more likely to
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get married to maybe a high school sweetheart or something like that because that is what's preached
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if you come to New York that's not preached it's a whole different it is like listen if you meet a man
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he got a good job he could move on move in with you my brother lives in New York he got married and
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had a kid like is he still married yes does he have a phone number oh no he's still married