JustPearlyThings - July 11, 2023


Pearl SCHOOLED This DEUSIONAL Modern Woman


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8 minutes

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190.53104

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1,544

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00:00:00.000 the family court system is definitely needed because let's say you're involved with a man
00:00:05.740 right and you think he put a condom on and he didn't now you end up pregnant now what all he
00:00:12.240 has to do is just pick up and leave when you have a family court system to enforce that he at least
00:00:16.740 pays for helps pay for his child like women we already have to take care okay women we already
00:00:22.080 I gotta stop you there you're telling me you didn't notice he didn't have a condom on there
00:00:26.300 what's more common a man pulling off the condom or a woman lying about being on birth control
00:00:37.100 no idea I would say a man pulling off a condom I would definitely say a man pulling off a condom
00:00:43.340 I would without a man even putting on a condom doesn't even put it on to begin with where is
00:00:50.540 your sample size is this just in your bed you said where's your sample size yeah you keep talking
00:00:56.280 about like where's the demographic we're talking about here is it like specifically in your bed
00:01:00.360 you're on birth control but I'm talking about in general about somebody who you know I travel to
00:01:06.280 where I talk to different people I you know do this I used to have a radio show like so I've
00:01:10.800 talked to millions of people before and when yeah research and when you actually sit and talk to
00:01:14.840 people and you find out their stories and stuff you you're gathering evidence well my question is
00:01:19.180 why doesn't she require the men she sleeps with wears condoms you could see if they put it like this
00:01:24.720 is so stupid no you can you can you can see if a guy puts a condom on but how many times you turn
00:01:29.320 on Murray and he's taking the condom off and now she's pregnant who's the daddy or trying to prove
00:01:33.940 that he is the daddy like it's more common it that happens more than we think you know what that is
00:01:38.340 interesting though because what is the response from the public and the audience in situations where
00:01:43.740 you get into these kind of real life stories about a man who slipped the condom off like people
00:01:49.000 that is not socially acceptable and people think that he is awful whereas there was um a clip that
00:01:56.740 went quite viral I think it was on Oprah or something like that and it was you know an audience full of
00:02:03.160 women and they're having like they're asking questions and getting responses from different
00:02:09.060 people and a woman stands up and she says look we have some number of kids two or three kids I want
00:02:17.180 another but my husband doesn't should I pretend that I'm taking my birth control but stop and the
00:02:25.400 entire audience like all of these women jumped up hollering saying like do it do it sister you got
00:02:31.900 to do it you want that kid like and that was I've heard stupid I've heard stupid I'm just questioning
00:02:41.220 like there's four guys here do you guys know any woman that has lied that you think lied about being
00:02:47.600 on birth control yeah that happened to me yeah that happened to you do you know anybody do you know
00:02:54.040 anybody wait I just want raise of hands just there's four guys in here do you know anybody
00:02:58.340 why are the girls excluded I know the woman who's done that I believe I'm not on birth control okay well I was
00:03:06.000 gonna ask the women the women have have you ever been like condom where the guy said he was wearing
00:03:11.640 a condom and then he took it off and you didn't know that's never happened to me yes yes it's
00:03:17.520 happened to me I choose my partners wisely so no no so okay so right now we got 25 percent and a hundred
00:03:24.720 percent this is random people that don't know each other so it seems like one's more common than the
00:03:31.260 other they're both situations I thought you talked to people so now I do a random sample size this is
00:03:39.060 a random sample size here in the UK first of all men don't even try to wear condoms here
00:03:43.800 so you should come on now let's be for real I'm so for real I don't know how you wouldn't notice I
00:03:53.920 think that women just do that to play victim I'm gonna be honest I think that's a lack of like
00:03:59.280 accountability I'm gonna tell you how you're not gonna notice right let's say a man is is hitting
00:04:03.240 it from the front right and he says flip over let me hit it from the back and he takes it off
00:04:07.980 because he's about to climax hello how am I gonna know all I know is I'm flipping over I'm not gonna
00:04:13.320 know I'm just gonna know the feeling like okay he likes this position I'm not gonna reach down there
00:04:19.320 oh let me make sure I'm in the moment it happens that's true happens where does it put me if I lied about
00:04:26.280 uh not taking birth control what I was taking oh you lot you lied about it yes I was taking the birth
00:04:35.580 control and I said I'm not oh you you were taking it that's really interesting that's a really
00:04:40.140 interesting question am I good or bad or ugly no honestly I have I have something to say are you
00:04:46.740 responsible give it to me baby I understand that a lot of men don't wear condom right yeah I understand
00:04:52.860 that but I'm kind of worried if you're saying that there are men that would wear the condom and take
00:05:00.180 it off when they are about to ejaculate that is wild as hell like that's crazy maybe no no it sounds
00:05:07.680 like a crazy concept but it is more common than what you think it is more common no you need to think
00:05:13.620 about the kind of men that would do that that's the point I'm trying to make which is those are not
00:05:18.060 stable individuals I live in New York everyone's crazy there every single person is crazy there
00:05:22.980 right so you would be surprised how many women I have come across that have said this exact same
00:05:28.680 thing like men if they're in it and it's feeling good you know what you know I'll tell you why
00:05:32.560 they're all sleeping with the same guys they're all sleeping with the same which goes back to my point
00:05:38.460 the same kind of men the only guy in New York but this is what I mean women select horribly but that's if
00:05:45.100 you're if you're sleeping with the guy like what does that say about your decision but you gotta
00:05:48.540 think about it all the good guys are probably taken so there's only the bozos like that that are
00:05:53.520 left for us to pick from that's not true this whole like if you're not getting good men it's something it
00:05:58.800 says something about you you are what you attract these these prison guys you're talking about but the
00:06:03.060 men I like are gay what can I do all the pretty men they are gay and they don't want me
00:06:08.180 what can I do she said it gay is like five percent of the population it's not that high
00:06:15.400 what of men yeah but I like them yeah what about frogs though I heard they're going that way but
00:06:20.480 you know what that also demographics I really think all that does depend on where you live as well
00:06:26.360 like if you live in a country somewhere it might be easier for you to find a good man you know I'm
00:06:30.800 saying because it's a country they preach families marriage kids all of that if you live in a thriving
00:06:36.240 overpopulated city you're worrying about how you're going to pay bills so everybody's not inclined to
00:06:42.140 really be on some okay let's get married let's have children are you saying all the men in here
00:06:46.860 are not good men because they live in a populated city I'm not saying that they're not they're gorgeous
00:06:52.600 we're gonna do after party but there are there are communities within our overcrowded cities where most
00:06:59.200 of us are a complete mess there are communities who do very well have very stable families none of our
00:07:05.660 messy issues yes but what I'm saying is that depending on where you live will be the family
00:07:11.700 values and morals that you go for somebody in South Carolina right out of high school is more likely to
00:07:17.980 get married to maybe a high school sweetheart or something like that because that is what's preached
00:07:22.460 if you come to New York that's not preached it's a whole different it is like listen if you meet a man
00:07:28.240 he got a good job he could move on move in with you my brother lives in New York he got married and
00:07:35.620 had a kid like is he still married yes does he have a phone number oh no he's still married
00:07:40.900 he's still married a man luckily
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