Pearl SCHOOLS Delusional Modern Woman
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss why abuse is so common in the modern world, why women always go to the extreme to protect themselves, and why women lie about abuse so often. We also discuss the difference between domestic violence and sexual abuse, and how to deal with one-sided abuse.
Transcript
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what are your deal breakers men smell funny or if they're stupid or boring if
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they're jealous and possessive obviously abusive that kind of thing why is why is
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abusive the first it's not just you guys everybody abusive yeah it's like why is
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that the first thing women say I guess it's like the worst thing you can
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imagine yes yeah but it's like why are we why are we always thinking of the worst
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thing that could happen because in debate I suppose you go to the extreme to make
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a point you know all right just men that smell funny then and bawl me okay men
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that are bored and see it's like no it's true though come on who you'd ask the
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question is very obvious no one's gonna stay with an abusive crazy psycho that's
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beating you left right and center my question is not telling you to stay with
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an abusive guy it is why is that the first thing that we bring up if we can
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agree it's how do we think if it's like it's like why why is that why do we always
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go to the extreme like the worst thing that could happen maybe because it's just
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out there you know you hear of it often that wouldn't be your deal breaker though
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what's your deal breaker mine yeah yeah boy because if I was to get into it with my
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my partner and we was to start getting mad like probably be mad back you know women
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are more you know women are more violent than men yeah I've seen some stuff no so
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it's it's funny because one-sided abuse women hit men one-sided more than men hit
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women one-sided yet women are always the ones that bring up abuse when if we're
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gonna be technical about it men should be the ones bringing up abuse and they
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never do yeah but why but maybe we're not abusive maybe we can say it maybe men
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that haven't been abusive can say it too like maybe when you're just not when you
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are not abusive might probably will bring it up because it's something that you
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just don't believe in you know no I my whole point is women have this like
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negative picture of men that they're just abusive out to get us well all of them I
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would say I would say in general I hear the word abuse come up way too often
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considering like from women I never hear it from men even though one-sided abuse
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is more common from women to men mmm but that's because the men are meant to be
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alpha and the stronger one so they would never admit that anyway my my point is
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like why do women always go to the extreme if we would agree with right we'd
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agree it's the minority of guys that are abusing women well we would agree that's
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not a majority right that's how you're right right like this shouldn't be you
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think over 50% of men are abusing women I wouldn't say it's the majority but with
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my friends and stuff and family and stuff I've seen it quite a lot and from what
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I've heard it's something that I personally would never want to go through
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and so I'm not saying it's the majority of men but I have heard it quite
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frequently from lots of different backgrounds I meet randoms and tell me
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it's lies yeah it's lies what's lies sorry what's lies the the abuse
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allegations they're they're mostly lies wait I don't get it yeah women lie about
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abuse yes no the other I would say the majority of women that say were there
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they were abused are lying okay because what they did was they expanded the
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definition of abuse so women will use these words that like mean nothing like
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like they like for example what what is coercion and I'm the only reason I say
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this is because I've done these shows so many times and women come on they tell me
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their story and then I ask questions and it's not abuse I'll give you an
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example um had a girl come on she said my ex-boyfriend like shoved me out of the
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house or whatever like pushed me out and I was like okay like why did he shove you
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like to the ground or whatever turns out she refused to leave his house she was
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trespassing but does give him the right to don't shove her I mean I think if I have
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someone that is breaking and entering into my house I certainly can shove you
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out of there but yes they're not meant to be together and what kind of shove
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because um if you love someone I wouldn't really be well I'll tell you I'll tell
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you I'll tell you I'll tell you the problem is I like I know guys that have
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slammed a door that the woman was holding on to the door boom abuse and he's
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actually was charged with that okay and I get that that's so massive and I'm saying
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and I'm telling you you wouldn't know not being in it how one-sided it is it's
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very very one-sided like it's very much like and and the reason we can look at
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this is because family court is based on a balance of probabilities where
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criminal court is based off of evidence so if you really want to see how how
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common is abuse the majority of abuse allegations that happen in family court
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only 10% take it to the police so that tells us that the majority aren't even
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taking it to the police yeah that's why I think they're lying the majority but
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would you not think that if it's if it's to do with family then the reason is it's
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not a higher rate is because they don't want to break up that family well if
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they're going to court they're already breaking up the family so they clearly
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don't give a shit ways around it what what ways are there around there's still
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ways around it where the father still see the son or the the daughter whatever it
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is like the child but without actually putting them in jail why would you want to
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leave an abusive man out to abuse another woman what what no I'm serious if
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he was hitting in a because I have two questions the average man can beat up a
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woman pretty easy if you're fine if you don't have any visible no arms are broken no
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nothing my question is how is he abusing you what is abuse or there's all
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different type kinds of terms of abuse correct mental abuse okay okay right there
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right there right there mental abuse mental abuse who is more emotionally
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manipulative men or women women so why are the women always crying abuse like
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this is what I'm saying like and that's the problem you said emotional abuse that
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used to not even exist that term didn't even exist until like the 80s 70s or 80s
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they got into the feminists got into the legal system added all these words that
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don't mean anything to convince women that were victims like they expanded the
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definition of abuse and so that that's what I mean like I don't think it's that
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common for a man to beat a woman I would add to that and say I don't think most
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females are lying I would say they provoke the situation and they just don't want to
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admit that they either started it first or literally just provoked it I would agree
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with that yeah I just want to say for everyone who's watching this if you're going
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through abuse right now and you you know you find our stuff our conversation
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offensive please you know this is just our individual opinions and if you are
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going through it you know seek help and my love to you anyway sorry sorry I had to cut
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that yeah I still I totally agree I still think the majority are lying yeah I would
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say over I would say 80% lying and I think they over exaggerate it I think they
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don't talk about their part to play I think they emotionally abuse the men
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oftentimes they just snap because they emotionally abuse it I and I think it's
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funny because again women do it to men more than men do it to women yet women are
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always what whining I can agree with you I swear I don't know we're on the same team
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I swear to god I agree with you trust me but I'm telling you there's some people out
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there right now that are suffering and they're not they don't even know how to
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speak abuse abuse totally exists I'm mentally abused I'm not saying I'm not
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saying it doesn't exist but my whole point is like why wouldn't you go to the
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police and I and I think and no I think we got to end this narrative and they
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love them they love them it is what I think we gotta end the narrative I think as a
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woman you cannot accuse a man of being abusive without going to criminal court but
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then it's the same thing that you said it comes down to evidence correct and I
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if there's not evidence okay any any guy in here any guy in here if he abused me
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you don't think there would be evidence oh come on again I'm not think about it
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think about it I'm I'm I'm strong wait I deadlift I deadlift 300 pounds I can
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bench a plate I'm six foot I'm tall and strong for a chick any one of these guys
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could beat me up pretty easy to the point they're like there would be bruises
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there would be there would absolutely be evidence
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I agree with what's your name again sorry me yeah Shanaela I agree with Shanaela
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and again like I said you can't pigeonhole every situation yeah I'm not so I'm not
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saying what I said before I'm talking about in general yeah so I'm not saying
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you are pigeonholing because like what you're saying yeah you are right there
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are some very manipulative women out there and when they can't get that the
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one yeah the may tell lies but then on the other hand which they're always at
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other hand there's generally women that are being literally abused yeah abusive
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women exist yeah I'm not saying they don't I mean you know it's yin and yang I
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mean there is and I feel like if guys as well you know like I feel like guys don't
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speak as much because simply the fact that it takes away their male masculinity and
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stuff like that and it will make them feel like oh I'm not a man guys don't speak because
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nobody would care you know what I'm against that I'm totally against that I've seen videos on
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tiktok of a woman like freaking out at a man and what and what what does everyone say in
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the comments well what did he do right I mean we had we had on we had anyone country fan country
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fan Carrie Underwood I dug my key into the side I was pretty lit you know the song right she she keys
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his car for cheating and if a guy did that to a woman everyone be freaking out I would even argue that if
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were to use the same way that women define abuse to like look at all the cases that men go through I
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would argue that almost every woman has abused a man that they have been in a relationship with if
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were to if were to go by the same standards of the way women shout abuse I would say every single woman
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that has dated a man has abused that man yeah I agree you what sorry I feel like that just got a little
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late on me the drink kind of delayed a little bit oh he was saying that most women if we use the same
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definitions most women have abused men okay well I know someone really close to me that um is a man
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that has been abused by a woman yeah I know the word is just a bag but anyway either way is some
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sort of abuse no physical abuse my point clear I'm saying oh if we're to use the definitions of the
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way women claim abuse let's let's even take it out of in general I would say you sitting right there
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have abused almost every man you've been in a relationship with wait are you telling me that
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I have yeah oh really is that how I come across it's not about what you come across I'm just telling
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you how relationships go oh you so you're not telling me that I am abusive to a man no you're
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saying he's saying by the definition that feminists use okay and by the legal so coercive control
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emotionally manipulative narcissistic it's like women throw narcissists at men 24 7 when it's like
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who's more narcissistic we're the ones addicted to social media yeah we're all just basically corrupt
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aren't we yeah that's the whole point no one's special and no one's perfect