JustPearlyThings - Pearl SCHOOLS Delusional Modern Woman

00:00:00.000 what are your deal breakers men smell funny or if they're stupid or boring if 0.99

00:00:10.500 they're jealous and possessive obviously abusive that kind of thing why is why is 0.99

00:00:18.300 abusive the first it's not just you guys everybody abusive yeah it's like why is

00:00:23.280 that the first thing women say I guess it's like the worst thing you can 1.00

00:00:26.640 imagine yes yeah but it's like why are we why are we always thinking of the worst

00:00:30.420 thing that could happen because in debate I suppose you go to the extreme to make

00:00:33.960 a point you know all right just men that smell funny then and bawl me okay men

00:00:41.080 that are bored and see it's like no it's true though come on who you'd ask the 0.97

00:00:46.640 question is very obvious no one's gonna stay with an abusive crazy psycho that's 0.93

00:00:51.280 beating you left right and center my question is not telling you to stay with

00:00:55.680 an abusive guy it is why is that the first thing that we bring up if we can

00:01:00.120 agree it's how do we think if it's like it's like why why is that why do we always

00:01:04.920 go to the extreme like the worst thing that could happen maybe because it's just

00:01:09.000 out there you know you hear of it often that wouldn't be your deal breaker though

00:01:14.100 what's your deal breaker mine yeah yeah boy because if I was to get into it with my

00:01:22.620 my partner and we was to start getting mad like probably be mad back you know women 1.00

00:01:27.060 are more you know women are more violent than men yeah I've seen some stuff no so 1.00

00:01:33.060 it's it's funny because one-sided abuse women hit men one-sided more than men hit

00:01:39.060 women one-sided yet women are always the ones that bring up abuse when if we're 1.00

00:01:43.980 gonna be technical about it men should be the ones bringing up abuse and they

00:01:47.500 never do yeah but why but maybe we're not abusive maybe we can say it maybe men

00:01:53.620 that haven't been abusive can say it too like maybe when you're just not when you

00:01:58.420 are not abusive might probably will bring it up because it's something that you

00:02:01.020 just don't believe in you know no I my whole point is women have this like 1.00

00:02:06.100 negative picture of men that they're just abusive out to get us well all of them I

00:02:10.900 would say I would say in general I hear the word abuse come up way too often

00:02:17.020 considering like from women I never hear it from men even though one-sided abuse

00:02:22.180 is more common from women to men mmm but that's because the men are meant to be 1.00

00:02:26.200 alpha and the stronger one so they would never admit that anyway my my point is

00:02:31.180 like why do women always go to the extreme if we would agree with right we'd 1.00

00:02:36.300 agree it's the minority of guys that are abusing women well we would agree that's 0.64

00:02:40.420 not a majority right that's how you're right right like this shouldn't be you

00:02:45.640 think over 50% of men are abusing women I wouldn't say it's the majority but with

00:02:52.240 my friends and stuff and family and stuff I've seen it quite a lot and from what

00:02:58.260 I've heard it's something that I personally would never want to go through

00:03:02.200 and so I'm not saying it's the majority of men but I have heard it quite 1.00

00:03:07.700 frequently from lots of different backgrounds I meet randoms and tell me

00:03:13.100 it's lies yeah it's lies what's lies sorry what's lies the the abuse

00:03:18.440 allegations they're they're mostly lies wait I don't get it yeah women lie about 1.00

00:03:23.520 abuse yes no the other I would say the majority of women that say were there

00:03:31.760 they were abused are lying okay because what they did was they expanded the

00:03:37.320 definition of abuse so women will use these words that like mean nothing like 1.00

00:03:42.000 like they like for example what what is coercion and I'm the only reason I say

00:03:49.620 this is because I've done these shows so many times and women come on they tell me 1.00

00:03:53.400 their story and then I ask questions and it's not abuse I'll give you an

00:03:57.860 example um had a girl come on she said my ex-boyfriend like shoved me out of the 0.99

00:04:03.540 house or whatever like pushed me out and I was like okay like why did he shove you

00:04:08.220 like to the ground or whatever turns out she refused to leave his house she was 1.00

00:04:12.580 trespassing but does give him the right to don't shove her I mean I think if I have

00:04:17.580 someone that is breaking and entering into my house I certainly can shove you

00:04:22.020 out of there but yes they're not meant to be together and what kind of shove

00:04:25.500 because um if you love someone I wouldn't really be well I'll tell you I'll tell

00:04:30.180 you I'll tell you I'll tell you the problem is I like I know guys that have

00:04:35.120 slammed a door that the woman was holding on to the door boom abuse and he's

00:04:39.760 actually was charged with that okay and I get that that's so massive and I'm saying

00:04:44.400 and I'm telling you you wouldn't know not being in it how one-sided it is it's

00:04:48.360 very very one-sided like it's very much like and and the reason we can look at

00:04:53.880 this is because family court is based on a balance of probabilities where

00:04:57.800 criminal court is based off of evidence so if you really want to see how how

00:05:01.620 common is abuse the majority of abuse allegations that happen in family court

00:05:05.760 only 10% take it to the police so that tells us that the majority aren't even

00:05:13.060 taking it to the police yeah that's why I think they're lying the majority but

00:05:18.300 would you not think that if it's if it's to do with family then the reason is it's

00:05:22.480 not a higher rate is because they don't want to break up that family well if

00:05:25.600 they're going to court they're already breaking up the family so they clearly

00:05:28.480 don't give a shit ways around it what what ways are there around there's still 0.96

00:05:33.400 ways around it where the father still see the son or the the daughter whatever it 0.98

00:05:36.880 is like the child but without actually putting them in jail why would you want to

00:05:41.260 leave an abusive man out to abuse another woman what what no I'm serious if

00:05:46.960 he was hitting in a because I have two questions the average man can beat up a

00:05:51.100 woman pretty easy if you're fine if you don't have any visible no arms are broken no 1.00

00:05:57.280 nothing my question is how is he abusing you what is abuse or there's all

00:06:01.460 different type kinds of terms of abuse correct mental abuse okay okay right there

00:06:06.820 right there right there mental abuse mental abuse who is more emotionally

00:06:11.260 manipulative men or women women so why are the women always crying abuse like 0.99

00:06:16.180 this is what I'm saying like and that's the problem you said emotional abuse that

00:06:20.320 used to not even exist that term didn't even exist until like the 80s 70s or 80s

00:06:24.580 they got into the feminists got into the legal system added all these words that 1.00

00:06:29.800 don't mean anything to convince women that were victims like they expanded the

00:06:33.520 definition of abuse and so that that's what I mean like I don't think it's that

00:06:40.320 common for a man to beat a woman I would add to that and say I don't think most

00:06:46.980 females are lying I would say they provoke the situation and they just don't want to 1.00

00:06:52.280 admit that they either started it first or literally just provoked it I would agree 0.68

00:06:56.060 with that yeah I just want to say for everyone who's watching this if you're going

00:06:59.560 through abuse right now and you you know you find our stuff our conversation

00:07:02.900 offensive please you know this is just our individual opinions and if you are

00:07:08.860 going through it you know seek help and my love to you anyway sorry sorry I had to cut

00:07:15.260 that yeah I still I totally agree I still think the majority are lying yeah I would

00:07:20.560 say over I would say 80% lying and I think they over exaggerate it I think they

00:07:26.920 don't talk about their part to play I think they emotionally abuse the men

00:07:30.400 oftentimes they just snap because they emotionally abuse it I and I think it's

00:07:34.780 funny because again women do it to men more than men do it to women yet women are 1.00

00:07:38.800 always what whining I can agree with you I swear I don't know we're on the same team

00:07:45.340 I swear to god I agree with you trust me but I'm telling you there's some people out

00:07:51.460 there right now that are suffering and they're not they don't even know how to

00:07:54.680 speak abuse abuse totally exists I'm mentally abused I'm not saying I'm not 1.00

00:07:59.840 saying it doesn't exist but my whole point is like why wouldn't you go to the

00:08:02.580 police and I and I think and no I think we got to end this narrative and they

00:08:07.220 love them they love them it is what I think we gotta end the narrative I think as a

00:08:11.480 woman you cannot accuse a man of being abusive without going to criminal court but

00:08:15.800 then it's the same thing that you said it comes down to evidence correct and I

00:08:19.700 if there's not evidence okay any any guy in here any guy in here if he abused me 0.67

00:08:25.160 you don't think there would be evidence oh come on again I'm not think about it

00:08:31.200 think about it I'm I'm I'm strong wait I deadlift I deadlift 300 pounds I can

00:08:36.760 bench a plate I'm six foot I'm tall and strong for a chick any one of these guys 1.00

00:08:41.540 could beat me up pretty easy to the point they're like there would be bruises

00:08:45.920 there would be there would absolutely be evidence

00:08:50.000 I agree with what's your name again sorry me yeah Shanaela I agree with Shanaela

00:08:56.600 and again like I said you can't pigeonhole every situation yeah I'm not so I'm not

00:09:03.500 saying what I said before I'm talking about in general yeah so I'm not saying

00:09:10.160 you are pigeonholing because like what you're saying yeah you are right there

00:09:15.860 are some very manipulative women out there and when they can't get that the 1.00

00:09:20.540 one yeah the may tell lies but then on the other hand which they're always at

00:09:24.500 other hand there's generally women that are being literally abused yeah abusive 1.00

00:09:32.300 women exist yeah I'm not saying they don't I mean you know it's yin and yang I 1.00

00:09:36.860 mean there is and I feel like if guys as well you know like I feel like guys don't

00:09:42.240 speak as much because simply the fact that it takes away their male masculinity and

00:09:48.620 stuff like that and it will make them feel like oh I'm not a man guys don't speak because

00:09:53.000 nobody would care you know what I'm against that I'm totally against that I've seen videos on

00:09:59.480 tiktok of a woman like freaking out at a man and what and what what does everyone say in 0.65

00:10:04.040 the comments well what did he do right I mean we had we had on we had anyone country fan country

00:10:10.640 fan Carrie Underwood I dug my key into the side I was pretty lit you know the song right she she keys

00:10:16.940 his car for cheating and if a guy did that to a woman everyone be freaking out I would even argue that if

00:10:24.980 were to use the same way that women define abuse to like look at all the cases that men go through I

00:10:33.140 would argue that almost every woman has abused a man that they have been in a relationship with if

00:10:38.660 were to if were to go by the same standards of the way women shout abuse I would say every single woman 0.99

00:10:44.180 that has dated a man has abused that man yeah I agree you what sorry I feel like that just got a little

00:10:55.180 late on me the drink kind of delayed a little bit oh he was saying that most women if we use the same 0.98

00:11:02.300 definitions most women have abused men okay well I know someone really close to me that um is a man

00:11:09.080 that has been abused by a woman yeah I know the word is just a bag but anyway either way is some

00:11:15.020 sort of abuse no physical abuse my point clear I'm saying oh if we're to use the definitions of the

00:11:20.780 way women claim abuse let's let's even take it out of in general I would say you sitting right there 1.00

00:11:26.720 have abused almost every man you've been in a relationship with wait are you telling me that

00:11:31.820 I have yeah oh really is that how I come across it's not about what you come across I'm just telling

00:11:37.100 you how relationships go oh you so you're not telling me that I am abusive to a man no you're

00:11:42.660 saying he's saying by the definition that feminists use okay and by the legal so coercive control

00:11:48.440 emotionally manipulative narcissistic it's like women throw narcissists at men 24 7 when it's like 1.00

00:11:54.220 who's more narcissistic we're the ones addicted to social media yeah we're all just basically corrupt

00:12:00.120 aren't we yeah that's the whole point no one's special and no one's perfect

00:12:04.140 she gets it wow

00:12:07.120 um

JustPearlyThings - July 29, 2023

Pearl SCHOOLS Delusional Modern Woman

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