Pearl SCHOOLS The EVERYBODY Child Custody
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the issue of fathers wanting access to their kids and why women will fight to keep their kids from seeing their kids. We also discuss why it s more common than people think and why men should fight for custody.
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Um, but I do think that the second thing going on is we only hear the woman's side.
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And I think we have an innate like proclivity to just believe women when they tell us things.
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And I think a lot of times if you heard the man's point of view, like I know someone that
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like is literally destroying like a man's reputation on social media and the husband
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The husband reaches out and says that she left with the kid and she hasn't had access
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We, we don't actually know, but, but I will tell you, it is a lot more common than people
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think that men want to see their children and the women will not give them access out of
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I don't personally, and I'm not disagreeing with you.
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I don't personally know any women like that, not disputing they exist.
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I think the ratio is much larger that women are trying to get help from their baby fathers.
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They're trying to get emotional help, physical help, looking after the kids.
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So that she can have a little life of her own social life, you know, before she's an old
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Well, I think, I think if that were true, then more women would let men have 50-50 custody.
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It's, again, men only get access 10% of the time.
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Like, we can agree, they're shitty moms, they're shitty dads, but 10%?
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And a lot of times, a lot of times what the, what the left will do is they'll say, why don't
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One phone call, this woman calls the police, the whole community thinks he's an abuser.
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A lot of these men go so crazy, they lose their jobs.
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Now, by the time they get to court, the court says, why haven't you been in the kid's life
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And the woman, there's no consequence for keeping the man from his kids.
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There will be a consequence, it's when the kids grow older, it's when the, you're right.
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It's when the kids grow older, but they also don't talk about parental alienation.
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And when we, we have examples of celebrities that this happened in front of our eyes, like
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think of Kanye, Kanye loved his mom, comes to find out that his mom that he loved, right?
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He was on her side, had never had took him out of, I think it was Atlanta or like some,
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some, somewhere down South and took him to Chicago without the father's consent.
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And I've interviewed guy after guy, after guy, where a lot of times the woman will leave
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the state or leave the country and he gets a no say.
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And so a lot of guys don't fight because they see all their friends getting screwed in divorce
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court because, and I've even talked to divorce lawyers about this.
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It's like when a man, when a woman has a kid that is not your kid, it's hers.
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Because if you go to court and you want to spend, so now he's been paying child support
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for a year, sometimes a year and a half, he goes to court.
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And now he has to pay lawyer fees to maybe get the kid for a 10% chance.
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And the rest of my life, I access to my child is dependent on how she feels because the other
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He could win, maybe get 50, 50 custody, which he probably won't.
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She'll still probably get primary custody because she's been the primary caregiver for the last
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They don't ask why and the crazy thing is she can do it again.
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So like I'll talk to guys, they got close to 50, 50 custody.
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Like maybe they'll get three days a week or two days a week and they're happy with that.
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I even, I have seen text messages of the woman trying to get the husband to hit her saying,
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I do not get any more DMs than about this documentary.
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So the way that men can be proactive in this case is to seek legal representation first,
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But I'll tell you, I'll tell you the problem is a lot of guys don't see this coming because
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the women, they can go to their doctor and start this process and they can go to women's
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There's like nine women's shelters for every one men's shelter.
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And what they do there is they give them a whole story to tell them about the father
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And this could, you know, this could just be hearsay.
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But I've heard this from so many different guys where they go to the women's shelter and
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I just think women have so much power in this regard.
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And I think like, okay, we take female evil, right?
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Like women can be very manipulative and very spiteful.
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And so it's like, okay, if we legally gave men guns when they were at their angriest,
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When we legally give women the tools to destroy a man's life, they're going to do it more because
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And the women's shelters make this all possible.
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And when you follow the money, they all like the lawyers, the number one, the lawyers have
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no incentive to even help the men because who's the lawyer's number one client?
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So if you win too many cases, you're not going to be recommended.
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Like all of the money, it follows, like it's a whole system.