JustPearlyThings - August 28, 2023


Pearl SHUTSDOWN Pro-Abortion Activist

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Hannah Pearl Davis
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Jeremy
Why Modern Relationships are NOT Working This is Why Women Die Alone

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7 minutes

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206.19

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1,640

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201

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39

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Toxicity

17

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26

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In this episode, we talk about whether or not a woman should have sex with her husband at least once a week, and if so, how often should she have sex. We also talk about abortion and contraception, and what should a woman do if she accidentally gets pregnant.

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00:00:00.000 I think what's interesting is obviously whenever we use the term real man,
00:00:04.340 all the things that are listed is like a preference for the type of man
00:00:07.840 that a woman wants. 0.99
00:00:09.340 So if we're using it in the same metric, then yeah,
00:00:12.340 you're saying this is a real woman,
00:00:13.640 as in this is the preference of what maybe guys would want,
00:00:16.220 then it's kind of a valid point. 0.73
00:00:18.200 And the having sex with a husband once a week, 0.71
00:00:22.120 a lot of people are in sexless marriages.
00:00:24.240 So are the women in sexless marriages not real women? 0.91
00:00:28.060 Yes.
00:00:28.400 A lot of the time, that's a men's choice, is it not? 0.99
00:00:34.320 It's normally the woman's choice. 1.00
00:00:35.800 To not have sex. 0.68
00:00:36.980 Yeah, 100%.
00:00:38.240 In a sexless marriage.
00:00:39.520 Definitely the woman. 0.99
00:00:41.680 So you think guys are saying, no?
00:00:43.500 No, I think once a week is a bare minimum,
00:00:45.540 but I don't think if they're not having,
00:00:48.360 a lot of people are in open relationships for that reason,
00:00:51.220 because they don't want to, okay, yeah, have sex.
00:00:54.060 So if a guy's like, okay, I'm going to do that or whatever,
00:00:56.940 is she not a real woman? 0.99
00:00:58.860 No, but he's saying that the bare minimum is that she should have sex with him once a week. 1.00
00:01:03.100 Okay, maybe we could say offers husband sex once a week at least. 0.97
00:01:06.860 I actually don't think that's bad,
00:01:08.380 because I looked at that and I went, oh, fair.
00:01:10.720 Yeah.
00:01:11.120 I was like, fair.
00:01:11.780 For the pre-born and for people that have abortions that go through grape,
00:01:17.700 SA, and stuff like that, they're not virgins, plus have had an abortion, 0.70
00:01:23.100 but does that make them not a real woman because they've been abused? 0.63
00:01:26.780 Outside of criminology.
00:01:28.180 Yeah.
00:01:28.440 No, but it's very common, really.
00:01:30.480 It's not that common.
00:01:31.380 It's not that common.
00:01:33.280 No.
00:01:33.820 What?
00:01:34.880 No, I was just saying very common.
00:01:36.000 Yeah, I feel like the abortion one is a bit triggering.
00:01:43.980 And kill pre-born, that's like miscarriage as well. 0.79
00:01:46.500 Yeah, I just feel like that's very triggering. 0.98
00:01:48.060 So if you're accidentally miscarried, are you not a real woman?
00:01:49.480 Yeah, I would say the ideal is to not kill the kids.
00:01:52.820 Yeah, but miscarriages, you don't kill the child. 0.99
00:01:55.680 Well, that's why.
00:01:56.160 You don't beat your stomach up and go, oh.
00:01:57.600 Well, I know.
00:01:58.240 I think they're talking about abortion, though.
00:02:00.360 I don't think they're talking about.
00:02:01.440 It's not very clear, though.
00:02:02.600 I mean, I think it is when it says doesn't kill pre-born children.
00:02:07.200 But what if a man wants you to?
00:02:09.260 Like, because a lot of the time it's the man that's like, well, I'm not ready.
00:02:13.000 So.
00:02:13.760 Then, then, hear me out.
00:02:15.260 You're probably not a virgin.
00:02:18.740 Oh, yeah.
00:02:19.380 Then you fall down the other. 1.00
00:02:20.740 A married wife and mother, you know, because I'd imagine if he's saying kill your kid, 1.00
00:02:25.300 you're probably just the whore. 1.00
00:02:27.440 Oh, God. 1.00
00:02:28.220 A lot of married couples have abortions. 0.99
00:02:30.640 What?
00:02:30.880 A lot of married couples still go through abortions, though. 0.98
00:02:33.660 Well, typically, I found that that's because the woman wants it and not the man. 0.94
00:02:38.180 But the man agrees to it.
00:02:39.640 Right.
00:02:40.140 But that's why.
00:02:40.840 He hasn't got a choice.
00:02:41.640 Yeah.
00:02:42.240 That's why I don't think.
00:02:43.220 He did have a choice because he didn't have to get her pregnant. 0.98
00:02:46.480 What does he do once she's already pregnant? 0.66
00:02:49.320 If he doesn't want.
00:02:49.880 Deal with the situation as a man.
00:02:51.160 No, no.
00:02:51.800 Once she's already pregnant, what does he do? 0.93
00:02:54.940 So if he doesn't want her to get an abortion, can he do anything?
00:02:58.600 But then there's steps you can take before getting pregnant.
00:03:01.240 No, no.
00:03:01.260 After the pregnancy.
00:03:02.080 Yeah, but that's not the answer.
00:03:03.380 That's like, oh, they've jumped off a clip.
00:03:04.900 What do we do now?
00:03:05.720 Well, let's talk about the women's choice. 1.00
00:03:07.520 The woman has 20 choices. 1.00
00:03:08.940 The man has one.
00:03:09.320 Yeah, but does every contraception work?
00:03:11.020 Because I know many people who have got pregnant that are taking.
00:03:14.300 My sister's got four, three children. 0.96
00:03:16.920 All have been, all have happened on contraception. 0.96
00:03:19.520 She's probably a liar. 1.00
00:03:20.680 But how can you be a liar with a coil fitted? 0.98
00:03:23.040 Yeah, because I think that when women have plan B. 1.00
00:03:28.100 No, if you have a coil fitted inside you, you can't lie.
00:03:31.220 I need you to wait for me to finish and then you can go.
00:03:33.360 So when women have plan B, right, we have IUD that we can get. 1.00
00:03:39.060 We have abortion, right? 1.00
00:03:41.880 We have condoms. 0.73
00:03:42.980 But then she wouldn't be a real woman. 0.91
00:03:44.300 Wait, wait, wait, wait till I finish, all right?
00:03:46.800 Can you wait?
00:03:47.740 So we have condoms we can use.
00:03:49.940 We have IUD.
00:03:51.080 We have birth control.
00:03:52.380 We have plan B.
00:03:53.680 Then we have abortion. 1.00
00:03:54.880 Then we have adoption.
00:03:56.760 Like my mom had an unplanned pregnancy.
00:03:58.500 She gave it up for adoption because my mother's a real woman.
00:04:05.720 Anyways, and so we have all these choices.
00:04:08.880 We're the men.
00:04:09.660 They only have condom or no condom.
00:04:11.420 And he can't consent to if she's on birth control or not.
00:04:14.520 He doesn't even have to finish.
00:04:15.220 Because wait, wait, wait.
00:04:16.680 So because he can't consent to if she's on birth control or not because a lot of women lie about it. 1.00
00:04:21.520 So the only woman person that has all the information. 1.00
00:04:23.840 What's the percentage of women that lie about being on contraception? 1.00
00:04:26.300 And, oh, it's really common.
00:04:27.720 Oh, it's really common.
00:04:29.180 Oh, very common.
00:04:29.960 So their husband?
00:04:31.560 Oh, yeah.
00:04:32.380 I mean, okay.
00:04:33.160 Does anyone know a guy that had a kid he didn't want to have because she lied? 0.71
00:04:37.100 What, a happy couple?
00:04:38.300 I have had a couple.
00:04:39.640 People have put holes in that condom.
00:04:41.040 Yeah, exactly.
00:04:41.620 Yeah, women try. 1.00
00:04:42.300 It's a really common thing.
00:04:43.720 What about life?
00:04:44.300 They just take it off.
00:04:44.900 The crazy thing is that even all those things, all those contraceptives are, in my opinion, they are like last resort.
00:04:55.240 The first thing a woman should learn from a very young age is how to track her cycle. 0.98
00:04:59.600 You can only get pregnant five days in a month. 0.62
00:05:02.240 How do you get pregnant? 1.00
00:05:02.880 Yeah, but you've got to have sex at least once a week. 0.98
00:05:05.000 So that's tricky.
00:05:06.480 An ovulation cycle can be five to seven days.
00:05:08.920 And also it's just estimates.
00:05:10.920 That's all it is.
00:05:11.800 Even you can do the whole counting backwards and it's all estimates.
00:05:16.100 I've done that.
00:05:16.540 I've tried for children and it's not worth it.
00:05:19.480 My point is most women don't even know how to track their cycle. 1.00
00:05:22.100 Yeah, no, that's true.
00:05:22.900 Actually, we should raise more awareness on that.
00:05:24.840 Okay, I just think that if you don't track your cycle, use a condom, get on birth control, get on plan B, then don't do abortion or adoption.
00:05:35.640 I just got no sympathy.
00:05:36.540 It's a choice.
00:05:37.280 That's the woman's choice. 1.00
00:05:38.220 It's not the man's choice.
00:05:39.200 The man has sex or no sex, pull out or don't pull out. 0.69
00:05:44.080 It's a condom or no condom. 0.88
00:05:45.680 What if his excuse is that?
00:05:46.800 I just wasn't thinking, but you guys didn't have that conversation.
00:05:50.100 Or like Jeremy.
00:05:52.660 You have to set that boundary as a woman. 0.99
00:05:54.840 Yeah, but who controls sex? 0.98
00:05:56.540 We pick who we have sex with. 0.97
00:05:58.100 So it's up to you to decide if that's a guy you'd want to have a kid with.
00:06:01.760 And even after all of that, the conversation, all of that stuff, you could still pick someone that if it was to go wrong or if it was to fail, there's still a decent candidate.
00:06:10.900 Yeah, that's very true.
00:06:11.700 So after all of that, you still kind of have a choice.
00:06:14.160 You don't have to set someone that you know is definitely going to leave you.
00:06:17.140 I can't even say that's not true.
00:06:19.280 Because it's true.
00:06:20.620 But I still don't agree with the whole real woman. 1.00
00:06:22.580 Yeah, of course you're going to be upset.
00:06:23.800 No, I mean, of course, no.
00:06:25.420 But I feel like it's not the real woman kind of thing. 0.91
00:06:27.940 Like, I get it.
00:06:28.620 And it's like a mistake for sure for a lot of women. 1.00
00:06:31.160 But I feel like to define that, because if you see that person, someone else like yourself could have a whole different list.
00:06:37.960 And what does that kind of mean?
00:06:39.880 I think they're pretty similar.
00:06:41.580 Really?
00:06:42.140 Not like personally, but generally, I'd say what men find attractive in women is quite similar.
00:06:47.020 Do you think men prefer women that have abortions?
00:06:50.480 Or would prefer a woman that didn't have an abortion? 0.51
00:06:52.700 From my experience, I feel like people have told me that the girl is usually the one that's causing issues trying to keep the baby. 0.98
00:07:01.200 And they want someone that's just...
00:07:02.420 So I'm saying a guy that wants a wife, right? 1.00
00:07:05.040 And he's going to look.
00:07:06.400 And there's chick A who's had two abortions in the past. 1.00
00:07:11.060 And chick B who's had zero abortions in the past. 1.00
00:07:13.700 Who will he pick?
00:07:15.540 The zero, obviously.
00:07:16.740 I don't know, because what if he's not even thinking about like that?
00:07:20.940 No, no, no, no.
00:07:21.800 He doesn't want children.
00:07:22.520 No, I just said he's looking for a wife.
00:07:24.380 Oh, he's looking for a wife.
00:07:25.160 He's looking for a wife. 0.65
00:07:26.400 You know, the guys that never get married, it doesn't...
00:07:29.720 That's not what we're talking about.
00:07:31.240 What if that's not his specification?
00:07:33.080 Like, what if he's not looking...
00:07:34.300 What if that's not really a thing?
00:07:35.280 Well, a lot of men won't get married, I would predict, so...
00:07:38.700 What about now?
00:07:39.140 I'm talking about the abortion thing.
00:07:41.040 What if they're not thinking about that?
00:07:42.660 No, I'm saying if he's...
00:07:45.560 This is a normal guy that wants to get married and have kids,
00:07:48.500 and he has two choices.
00:07:50.100 One had abortions, one didn't. 0.98
00:07:52.580 Who would he pick?
00:07:54.780 Probably the one with no abortion. 1.00
00:07:56.720 So...
00:07:57.160 So...