JustPearlyThings - August 28, 2023


Pearl Spills The Beans On Real Women

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Adam
Why Modern Relationships are NOT Working This is Why Women Die Alone

Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

185.88

Word count

1,827

Sentence count

225

Harmful content

Misogyny

22

sentences flagged

Toxicity

12

sentences flagged

Hate speech

18

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Summary

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What is a real woman? Is she a virgin, a married woman, a mother, a widow, a nun, or a woman who is either a man, a child or a whore? What does a woman have to do to be a "real woman"?

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 I was thinking about modern society and just how in modern society we really, we have this
00:00:07.440 term a real man. And so I was thinking, what is a real woman? All right. And I saw this thing on
00:00:14.500 Twitter and I want to see if you guys agree or you disagree. All right. So it says, what is a
00:00:20.660 real woman? Bring it up. A virgin, a married wife and mother, a widow, a nun, everything else is 0.94
00:00:28.640 either a man, a child or a whore. Wow. Yeah. So no, I'm not, I'm not trying to shoot. I just, 1.00
00:00:38.700 I saw it. All right. And so, so then this guy, he came up with some more stuff and I just thought,
00:00:44.180 I thought it was hilarious. So he added, so if you're married, you have to have sex with your 0.99
00:00:50.120 husband at least once a week, right? No killing pre-born kids. Yeah. No abortions. Shave your 0.98
00:00:57.720 armpits. Cause you know, we got the trend of the women that are like no shaving. We're like, 1.00
00:01:02.500 we're not, that's not a real woman. Right. Um, an adult female, um, you, you can actually stand 1.00
00:01:08.880 living with, so doesn't make everyone's life hell around her. Whereas heels won't try to use the 1.00
00:01:15.180 court system to extract your balls through your wallet. 1.00
00:01:18.640 This is very specific. No, no, no. Adam's apple, um, two X chromosomes. Nice legs is a plus. All 0.99
00:01:29.060 right. Automatic disqualification. If she believes in the wage gap, um, she has to have boobs, um, 1.00
00:01:40.340 won't steal your children from you for unjust reasons. All right, wait, go back up. I want to 0.63
00:01:45.500 read the top. Um, it helps if she doesn't try to steal your house. Wow. Um, so I just want to see
00:01:53.820 as a group, do we, what do we agree with? What do we disagree with? Anyone can talk anyone, you know,
00:01:59.700 I mean, go ahead after two X chromosomes. I think that's the one I'm like, yeah, nothing else you
00:02:07.820 agree with is a real, cause we have a real man, right? Like a real man takes care of his woman,
00:02:13.500 a real man, you know, um, protects his woman, you know, like if, uh, if, you know, Kit was with,
00:02:20.200 with his girlfriend, right. And then some other guy tries to like beat her up and he does nothing.
00:02:25.540 That would not be a real man. Right. But those are personality traits. Like right now, I'm just
00:02:30.360 probably listening more physical, mostly physical. Well, I mean, it's what men look for and what women 1.00
00:02:36.480 look for. Right. That's true. A little bit. I just don't really understand the widow. What's that all
00:02:41.720 about? Is it like, Oh, you can't remarry. Is that what he's trying to say? No, no. He's saying
00:02:47.320 that like, um, if you're not a virgin, a married wife and mother, a widow or a nun, then you're a 1.00
00:02:54.080 man, a child or a whore. But he's saying like, if a widow is like, like, it wouldn't really be nice 0.99
00:02:59.380 to put the, the widow in the whore category. So that like, that wouldn't really, that's 1.00
00:03:04.600 not her fault. That's not her fault. So essentially it's like a woman could be those four things
00:03:08.900 and outside of that. Yeah. And how about single women? No, no. If you're not a virgin, you
00:03:13.080 could be a virgin single woman. The house swings wild. Well, yeah, I mean, a lot of women do 1.00
00:03:22.220 that. I know that, but I'm saying how he said it, like, isn't that just like an automatic
00:03:25.640 red flag? If she does try and steal your house. Well, yeah, but you don't know that going in. 1.00
00:03:29.460 At that point, you're already screwed. Yeah. I just want to know if we, would you say we mostly 0.97
00:03:35.500 agree with this or you mostly disagree? Absolutely not. Okay. What do you, what do you disagree
00:03:40.460 with? I'm going to, I'll let her go and then you can go. I just feel like it's just crazy. I just
00:03:45.440 find it crazy. I'm just reading these things. I'm just like, um, you're clearly triggered. Like
00:03:51.180 someone's definitely hurt you. Well, what's he triggered about? Like boobs, for example,
00:03:57.120 like not every man, for example, wants a woman that has boobs. Well, he didn't say big boobs. 0.99
00:04:04.720 True. He just wants big. I mean, they're cutting them off nowadays. So he's trying to clarify, 0.97
00:04:12.560 right? Because we have like, what is a woman? What is a man? So he's just getting real specific.
00:04:17.260 Hmm. So that's, that's okay. Right? Boobs. Yeah. Okay. Okay. Okay. As long as he didn't qualify
00:04:23.200 the size, right? Yeah. I mean, I guess, but what else do you disagree with? I don't like the kill
00:04:28.940 pre-born children. Okay. She can't. A real woman gets abortion. Hmm. I don't, I feel like it's a 1.00
00:04:35.440 choice. I feel like it shouldn't define if a woman is real or not. Okay. So if a woman has 10 abortions,
00:04:42.040 does that make her higher quality or lower quality? Okay. See, there's one or two. And then 0.81
00:04:47.160 there's 10, I need to know context. Like why? Okay. Well, I mean, two, I mean, you didn't learn
00:04:51.960 from the first one. I mean, that's not me. Do you know what I mean? I'm just. Well, I'm just
00:04:57.080 thinking. So like when we hear real man, that's like the highest quality of man. That's what I think
00:05:01.800 of like the real man or like the men that we want. So what is the real women, like the women that men 0.97
00:05:07.200 desire not get abortions in general? I mean, why is she getting an abortion? Well, cause she doesn't want 1.00
00:05:12.980 to have the kid. I'd assume. But what if the man like, you know, um, would want her to get an
00:05:21.460 abortion if she's not his main chick. I'm not talking about the men though. We're talking about
00:05:26.640 the way. And this is a funny phenomenon. I see whenever I ask about what's a real woman, 0.51
00:05:30.680 we got to bring it on the men. Cause when I think of like the highest quality of woman, 1.00
00:05:36.840 you know, like women that I really look up to, it doesn't like, she just would never get an 0.96
00:05:40.940 abortion. Like that's just never like when I, when I personally, maybe you have a different
00:05:45.480 real woman, right? It's crazy. Cause at first I seen it and I was kind of like, that's a bit 1.00
00:05:52.000 harsh, but then I thought, is it though? Because when people are judging men, they are very specific
00:05:57.220 in what they want. So it's like, it's a similar thing, really certain height, certain amount
00:06:02.080 of money, et cetera, et cetera. But when it's done everywhere around, for some reason, it's
00:06:06.240 like a negative, negative. And when you think about it, every woman is born a thin virgin. 1.00
00:06:16.860 Not every guy is born tall, successful, strong, like no, but every woman starts off on the list.
00:06:28.300 Maybe she's a bit tall. Maybe, you know, chubby babies. Well, you know, I get, sorry,
00:06:35.140 every woman has the option to eat less. True. I mean, but not every guy has the option to be
00:06:41.360 six foot five. Unless he gets some sort of surgery. Well, yeah, I mean, we could get BBLs
00:06:49.080 and like come to the same thing. Oh, but men are getting height surgery. It's a thing now.
00:06:53.480 But do we, when we look at that, are we like, that's a real man? No. Sorry, I said that 0.92
00:07:00.240 really badly. But it's okay. What else do you disagree with? You? Oh, it's me. See, before
00:07:08.200 I say what I disagree with, I just want to say, I kind of understand what this man is trying
00:07:13.460 to get at. He's being, he's being very stereotypical, basically. He's, because not every girl likes
00:07:21.100 to wear heels. Like I'm very tall. I cannot stand wearing heels. So if a man was to tell
00:07:25.880 me, look, I want you to wear heels, I'd be like, bye. But I'm still very feminine. So
00:07:30.800 just because I don't wear heels, you know, it doesn't mean I'm not feminine.
00:07:33.600 You still dress nice. Yeah. You know, you've been on like, yeah. So that's what I mean.
00:07:37.880 He's being very like, you know, stereotypical there. But the shave's armpits, I just feel
00:07:43.740 like, could that be the bare minimum? Could we offer that? Yeah. But I also feel like what's
00:07:51.200 wrong if she, if she just decided that like, maybe she didn't want to shave that day or that
00:07:56.080 week or, you know, I mean, I think it's like, you know, I think maybe he'll give her a pass
00:08:01.820 if it's a day, but if it's a regular thing, like if it's a regular problem. Would you wear
00:08:06.380 heels if you were shorter? That's a really good question. Because you're not wearing heels because
00:08:11.620 of a reason. Yeah. Would you wear them if you're shorter? Probably. I think so. Yeah.
00:08:16.180 Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I think I would. But again, I like to be comfortable and I can't really
00:08:22.200 walk in heels that much. So yeah, like I actually, and when I do walk in them, I don't look that
00:08:28.660 attractive. I was literally going to say that. It's not a good look. I don't think he would
00:08:32.760 fancy me if he saw me walking in heels. So yeah, but I kind of understand what he's saying,
00:08:37.080 but I don't agree with, with just like, for example, the armpit, shave the armpit.
00:08:41.260 It's this idea that women have to be hairless, completely hairless, but it's like, 1.00
00:08:46.640 so what if men dress homeless? You know, what if they, they just wear, does a real man never 0.99
00:08:53.960 like shave his, you know, face, never trim his beard? That's a good point. Never.
00:08:59.420 Y'all don't have to shave your face. Yeah.
00:09:01.400 You don't have to worry about that. Yeah, but like, it's not like the same maintenance as a guy.
00:09:06.000 Right. Like if a guy's doing it two, three times a week.
00:09:08.040 Maybe they have PCOS and they, there's women with like beards and stuff. 1.00
00:09:11.880 Right. But that's a rare exception.
00:09:13.260 Well, they can have beards then, but everybody else.
00:09:17.440 No, I still think she should shave it. Yeah. 0.97
00:09:19.760 Yeah, because can't she just regularly be shaving? 1.00
00:09:21.380 I mean, like you can keep, I just.
00:09:23.520 What if you get laser? Then it's done.
00:09:25.020 Yeah. Yeah.
00:09:25.660 Yeah.
00:09:26.400 But what if it's not black, like black hair, like dark hair?
00:09:29.180 Because laser doesn't really work on really light hair.
00:09:31.580 Well, let's, let's try to avoid the exception.
00:09:34.300 Let's talk about the rule.
00:09:35.860 Like as a rule, can we say we should shave our armpits as real women? 1.00
00:09:40.960 I think let's get rid of high heels. All right.
00:09:43.340 All right.
00:09:43.820 Let's get rid of that one.
00:09:44.600 Yeah, we should be able to wear flip flops.
00:09:48.220 Real women wear flip flops. 1.00